1 hour ago, Why Me said:

Have you tried Pornhub? If you see someone you like leave your name and contact in the comments.

 

Seriously, I've done this. Yes, at first it's large men with beards responding but if you wait there'll be a gal or two at the end of it.

How many years do you have to wait exactly?

I am now on my 2nd year trying to do my best

but still only the large men with beards

2 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

You attract prostitutes.

I guess you are doing something wrong then.

1 minute ago, shdmn said:

I guess you are doing something wrong then.

Not really, I am happily married for a long time with a woman who makes her own money and doesn't need mine.

What about you?

2 hours ago, Jjjjjjj said:

And how does this thaiwife thing even work? I just go to bangkok or pattaya and start

asking hookers to marry me?

You need to book it first .. if you don't they go and marry someone else .. booking usually involves lots of cash emptying from your account into hers/his .. and that's another thing make sure you get the genuine article even if it's a bit worn .. Don't get suckered in by some of the genetically modified one's .. and be careful as lot of of them are not fully loaded upstairs .. 

I'm moving this topic to the Farang Pub as it is more about general relationship advice rather than a specific question about marriage.

 

Loads of experts there who will undoubtedly extend the benefit of their wisdom to you.

1 hour ago, Jjjjjjj said:

Yea ok.

There is no way around this in this world and life.

No wife, thats it.

 

Ok.... I will pretend that the op isn't a troll...... 

Don't give up just yet mate. Go on "date in Asia" get yourself a dolly...  When the covid is over get your <deleted> over in Thailand a bit sharpish get married, have children... Bob's your uncle, fanny's your aunt 

Lovely jubbly  

 

It's not that easy. You have to do your Thai women diploma first. Start to visit (after C19) extensive Nana Plaza, Soi Cowboy, Patpong, Sukhumvit Soi 22, Poseidon, Insanity, Thermae, then Pattaya Walking Street, Phuket Bangla, Koh Samui Soi Green mango and Lamai, Hua Hin Bintabaht and Soi 80.

Internet studies like Thaifriendly, Tinder, Badoo and Smooci should not be neglected either.

Allow at least 360 active days for this. After, only then are you able to recognize the dream woman you described. The mistake rate is still 44.67% but is no longer 99% if you are completely unprepared.

1 hour ago, RichardColeman said:

 

You are basically asking that a 40 year old man marry a 20 year old cute young thai girl and move her to Europe, full of fit and young and healthy non smoking 20 year olds. 

 

What could possibly go wrong.

 

 

 

It could be better if the girl is smoker ????

Anyway, Why would i want a thaiwife, if there is not something better, that i could get in my home country? This is the thing why i even considered whole thing at all.

But the reality is what it is. Both in europe, and in thailand.

Life is a bitch and then you die. Cant help it.

1 hour ago, kingofthemountain said:

3 hours ago, mr mr said:

i wonder how much that camera cost back then ? she got her 15 dollars that's for sure. is it just me or does she have unshaven armpits ?

 

i would ask for a discount unless she shaved. 

Vietnam war late 1960'

being shaved wasn't really the norm for the women at this time

she did say anyting i want. 

2 hours ago, RichardColeman said:

I started talking to a lady on Thaifriendly. She seemed nice enough, told me she was a teacher from up north in Nan. Chatted for a couple months and then decided to fly out and meet her.

 

I married her 3 weeks meeting her, She has been my wife for 5 years now, we have 1 daughter. She is the most suitable woman for me I have ever met, she is kind, a good mother and teacher, she is also richer than me, owns more land than me, more well educated than my leaving school at 16.

 

So personally TF worked very well for me.

 

Are there money grabbers on TF - you bet, but don;t tarnish everybody, not everybody on there is a bargirl

 

 

I agree with you, well I never been on TF but I met my wife on Facebook I talked to her

for about 1 year before I decided to meet her and her family I traveled many times to

see her again I did check up on her all the time till I decided to marry her. We are married

15 years but moved back to OZ she is Australian citizen now. So yes there a honest girls

as well. 

In what sense don’t you like getting screwed?

 

I would advise steering clear of Pattaya full stop if that’s the case . 

11 minutes ago, Meat Pie 47 said:

I agree with you, well I never been on TF but I met my wife on Facebook I talked to her

for about 1 year before I decided to meet her and her family I traveled many times to

see her again I did check up on her all the time till I decided to marry her. We are married

15 years but moved back to OZ she is Australian citizen now. So yes there a honest girls

as well. 

So you have been married 15 years and you met your wife on Facebook prior to that traveling many times to see her. You and your wife were in Zuckerberg's development team?

U have cash u can have it all...come to Thailand and take your chances.  Can't win if u don't play.????

What can i say.

European young girls dont want me anymore ????

Last time i had girlfriend was when i was 20-21. It was kinda easy back then. Not all easy, but not hard. Just go to work, and go to bar with a friend, and suddenly there is girl next to you talking to you.

Next weeks: Little get to know each other, and then sex more than sleeping every night. Good sex with 18 old female. next months and a year, at least once a night sex, usually many times a night. And morning sex.

sex sex sex. all kind of sex.

Then we broke up, i didnt want to commit back then.

And that was the last time i ever got to a relationship. Didnt know back then, but it was my "best before" day somehow. Its been 16 years single. 99,99% sure aint gonna experience that in life again.

I dont know what point was in this post. Just wanted to share.

 

Hello, hello, you treat the whole thing like buying a car. You have specifications etc.,

In real life, things are not like that you know.  A woman is not a car or a movable property.

  You need luck to meet good ladies and how your relationship with them is not always predictable. The higher your expectation the bigger your disappointment when it doesn't work out.

  You need to have a good heart, a sincere heart and an understanding of human psychology.

   Good luck to you , hope your journey of marital bliss is a smooth one.

2 minutes ago, poloshirt said:

Hello, hello, you treat the whole thing like buying a car. You have specifications etc.,

In real life, things are not like that you know.  A woman is not a car or a movable property.

  You need luck to meet good ladies and how your relationship with them is not always predictable. The higher your expectation the bigger your disappointment when it doesn't work out.

  You need to have a good heart, a sincere heart and an understanding of human psychology.

   Good luck to you , hope your journey of marital bliss is a smooth one.

Where do you get this understanding of human psychology?

yes...expectations. But its maybe okay to have some kind of criteria.

Thanks anyway

1 hour ago, Sundown said:

So you have been married 15 years and you met your wife on Facebook prior to that traveling many times to see her. You and your wife were in Zuckerberg's development team?

What that has to do with Zuckerberg ? Did I complain about Thai Friendly who ever the owner is?

I just answered to the poster who met his wife on TF and is married for 5 years.

Stop trolling and get real.

27 minutes ago, Meat Pie 47 said:

2 hours ago, Sundown said:

So you have been married 15 years and you met your wife on Facebook prior to that traveling many times to see her. You and your wife were in Zuckerberg's development team?

What that has to do with Zuckerberg ? Did I complain about Thai Friendly who ever the owner is?

I just answered to the poster who met his wife on TF and is married for 5 years.

Stop trolling and get real.

 

Chillax....  His point was that you seem to have met your Wife on Facebook before Facebook was a thing. Your story is otherwise a nice tale. 

25 minutes ago, Meat Pie 47 said:

What that has to do with Zuckerberg ? Did I complain about Thai Friendly who ever the owner is?

You and your wife had to know Zuckerberg if you met on Facebook 16 years ago. Public access to Facebook was not until 2006.

2 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

Chillax....  His point was that you seem to have met your Wife on Facebook before Facebook was a thing. Your story is otherwise a nice tale. 

On 7/7/2020 at 8:49 PM, torturedsole said:

Facebook. Jeez.  They're doomed and we all know it.  Can't carry on forever and a new kid on the block will arrive soonish.  Social media evolution isn't my cup of tea but can see where this is heading and Facebook will not hold a monopoly in the not too distant future.  

 

People don't want their apps to be predisposed to political leanings.  Simple.  

On 7/7/2020 at 8:54 PM, Meat Pie 47 said:

If social media is not your cup of tea why post on TVF? Nothing wrong with Facebook

I met my wife on Facebook 15 years ago and yes I don't post pics of food.

Not sure why Meat Pie keeps banging on about Facebook.  I'm mystified.

52 minutes ago, Jjjjjjj said:

What can i say.

European young girls dont want me anymore ????

Last time i had girlfriend was when i was 20-21. It was kinda easy back then. Not all easy, but not hard. Just go to work, and go to bar with a friend, and suddenly there is girl next to you talking to you.

Next weeks: Little get to know each other, and then sex more than sleeping every night. Good sex with 18 old female. next months and a year, at least once a night sex, usually many times a night. And morning sex.

sex sex sex. all kind of sex.

Then we broke up, i didnt want to commit back then.

And that was the last time i ever got to a relationship. Didnt know back then, but it was my "best before" day somehow. Its been 16 years single. 99,99% sure aint gonna experience that in life again.

I dont know what point was in this post. Just wanted to share.

 

Bang some brasses in your own country and maybe in 6 months you can come to Thailand and bang some more, after banging at least 50 maybe look for a girlfriend.

3 minutes ago, farang51 said:

You and your wife had to know Zuckerberg if you met on Facebook 16 years ago. Public access to Facebook was not until 2006.

 A lot of the stories on here miss crucial facts or are just stories. Either that or met their wife whilst she swinging around a pole in Rawhide with cowboy boots on lol. Damn that was a good go go bar, sadly closed now.

7 hours ago, Jjjjjjj said:

Okay,

so its 50/50 chance, when reading what people tell.

 

Its funny, because thai women have reputation in internet and in ppl minds, that you can just pick a wife easily

like that, but i was thinking its not gonna be so easy.

 

Is it possible in some other country? just to get a wife back home, no hassle, nothing more ????

One of the many advantages of Thai ladies, is in your case, their size.

 

 

Pop one in a suitcase, jump on a plane, & bobs yer uncle - instant wife, with none of that immigration nonsense.

Posts with videos containing profane language have been removed. 

3 hours ago, Jjjjjjj said:

What can i say.

European young girls dont want me anymore ????

Last time i had girlfriend was when i was 20-21. It was kinda easy back then. Not all easy, but not hard. Just go to work, and go to bar with a friend, and suddenly there is girl next to you talking to you.

Next weeks: Little get to know each other, and then sex more than sleeping every night. Good sex with 18 old female. next months and a year, at least once a night sex, usually many times a night. And morning sex.

sex sex sex. all kind of sex.

Then we broke up, i didnt want to commit back then.

And that was the last time i ever got to a relationship. Didnt know back then, but it was my "best before" day somehow. Its been 16 years single. 99,99% sure aint gonna experience that in life again.

I dont know what point was in this post. Just wanted to share.

 

You can go on ThaiFriendly or ThaiCupid. However, there is an awful lot of chaff with the occasional nugget of wheat.

Bear in mind this is an Asian culture. Two rules: 1. The male is expected to provide financial support. Very few exceptions. 2. You will always be told what she thinks you want to hear.

If you are not prepared to learn Thai so you can communicate effectively, you lessen your chances of a good relationship, unless she speaks very good English.

Having said that, there are farangs in Thailand who have been in long-term relationships with Thai women who would never look at a Western woman again. I'm one of them.

1 minute ago, Lacessit said:

You can go on ThaiFriendly or ThaiCupid. However, there is an awful lot of chaff with the occasional nugget of wheat.

Bear in mind this is an Asian culture. Two rules: 1. The male is expected to provide financial support. Very few exceptions. 2. You will always be told what she thinks you want to hear.

If you are not prepared to learn Thai so you can communicate effectively, you lessen your chances of a good relationship, unless she speaks very good English.

Having said that, there are farangs in Thailand who have been in long-term relationships with Thai women who would never look at a Western woman again. I'm one of them.

Pointless chatting to girl on Thai Friendly when you have no idea when your allowed into the country, poor guy will get even more frustrated after months of chatting to them. One month before borders open again, then start chatting, get some LINE IDs, book your flight, get your visa. When you arrive hit a bar and forget about the girls you were chatting to online, start chatting to new ones as the ones you were chatting to in your own country are the ones you don't want.

7 minutes ago, tribalfusion001 said:

Pointless chatting to girl on Thai Friendly when you have no idea when your allowed into the country, poor guy will get even more frustrated after months of chatting to them. One month before borders open again, then start chatting, get some LINE IDs, book your flight, get your visa. When you arrive hit a bar and forget about the girls you were chatting to online, start chatting to new ones as the ones you were chatting to in your own country are the ones you don't want.

While I don't disagree the OP might be better served by just going to a bar, there are a couple of farangs I know who have found their true loves on ThaiFriendly.

Why are you looking for a Thai wife?

Did you Try in Botswanafriendly ?

6 hours ago, Jjjjjjj said:

 

It could be better if the girl is smoker ????

Anyway, Why would i want a thaiwife, if there is not something better, that i could get in my home country? This is the thing why i even considered whole thing at all.

But the reality is what it is. Both in europe, and in thailand.

Life is a bitch and then you die. Cant help it.

and your home country is ? 

10 hours ago, Jjjjjjj said:

so:

a: is this thing even for me

b: do i have a chance with there young ladies

You've not mentioned how much money you have?

 

Mine cost 100,000Bht (about E2,500), best money I ever spent.