Girl I married wants car and house money

[Nees Shah]

1 hour ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Maybe give 1 million THB to a young and beautiful lady. Basically you saved 2 million and you will have a young and beautiful girlfriend. Why would you give 3 million to an old women who gives you headache everyday?

She is lovely but I am 55 years of age. Why would she ever want to be with a loser like me ? 

[expatjustice]

19 hours ago, Nees Shah said:

I love her and still do.. she says she loves me a lot too but why does money have to be Centre of this ? 

Because you married a prostitute. That she does massage is just the excuse, anyone offering the right amount of money to her gets to f… the s…. out of her… 

Now I am not here to laugh at you, but to make you realize that you are loving someone who couldn’t care less about you, they only care about your money. The moment the money stops, they would put a bullet in your head if they knew they could get away with it. 
 

DO NOT send her a single more Baht, recover your condo, and lastly forget her! (and make sure to wish her good with a nice <deleted>… You….!) Then you can enjoy your life and find a girl who actually values what you give her and IS NOT a prostitute. 
 

You tell the girl that if she burns your stuff, you will pay some random Somchai to give a nice beating up to her dad and send him 1 month to the hospital. Stand your ground, and threaten back whenever you get silly threats to scare you. 

[BangkokReady]

13 hours ago, RichardColeman said:

Being stuck away I can really only send her about 23,000 baht to support her and our daughter

She doesn't even earn enough to support herself?  You might want to reconsider whether she's good with money.

[ehs818]

Just cut your losses. She's only into you for your money. That must be painfully clear to you by now!

[irwinfc]

19 hours ago, Nees Shah said:

I love her and still do.. she says she loves me a lot too but why does money have to be Centre of this ? 

isn't it. lear enough fhat she needs your money more than she needs you. 3M or she walks. duh!

 

just run the other way, and fast! 

[BusyB]

21 hours ago, Pilotman said:

Another made up post.  A waste of TVF memory.  

 

Belongs in the Farang Pub ... joined less than a day ago and 26 posts including this atrocious  ludicrosity.

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, Nees Shah said:

She is lovely but I am 55 years of age. Why would she ever want to be with a loser like me ? 

It seems you think about spending 3 million on a woman who constantly give you headache. 

I am sure you will find lots of young and beautiful girls who would be delighted to make you happy for a lot less than that. And if you are smart then you don't give them all the money up front. Just employ them monthly. Good service, good salary. Bad service, find another one. In Thailand it's as simple as that. And for the amounts of money which you mention you should get Grade A. It's up to you if you settle for less.

[farang63]

kick her ass and send her back to do massages and sleep in the dilapidated room where she was, and that is her environment, you take a Thai woman out of where she lives, but you will never be able to take her away from her environment where she wants to live

[farang63]

I kicked two asses off, after buying a house and supporting the parasite and her family for years, now they're back in the barn where they lived, and I'm out of that <deleted>

[ThailandRyan]

Many expect and want the good life, without ever having truly worked for it.  Expecting someone to pick them up and change their life and that of their family without truly understanding what a job and saving truly is.  The Sugar Daddy system is what I call it, and once they get a taste of the good life and a better lifestyle they want more and cast one aside to get to the higher ground.  However, after they have attained what they thought they wanted they are still unhappy, because they were happy with nothing but never realized it was and always will be their life.  You can not get yourself wrapped around the axels and become the knight in shining armor to rescue someone who is only in it for themselves and could care less about using someone to get what they think they want.

[Brick Top]

I have been there and cut loose when the demands carried on for a car after I spent 500,000 on making her a house it will never end and it was a lesson for me . Believe me if they sincerely do love you , they wont ask for anything , after I met another one who wanted nothing. 

 

[tonray]

1 hour ago, Nees Shah said:

She is lovely but I am 55 years of age. Why would she ever want to be with a loser like me ? 

She's got a lot of reasons to want you.. 3 million to be exact

[Aomelia]

Dump her immediately too soon to be begging 

[Aomelia]

48 minutes ago, farang63 said:

I kicked two asses off, after buying a house and supporting the parasite and her family for years, now they're back in the barn where they lived, and I'm out of that <deleted>

Smart Man 

[Pilotman]

59 minutes ago, BusyB said:

 

Belongs in the Farang Pub ... joined less than a day ago and 26 posts including this atrocious  ludicrosity.

but isn't it rather amazing that some on here are treating him, and it, as a genuine story? Odd that. 

[mr mr]

22 hours ago, Nees Shah said:

What do I do ? I feel like a mug but it is what it is.

 

give me half the money. let me kick you in the groin and we call it even. 

[dlclark97]

22 hours ago, Nees Shah said:

I have made mistakes folks. I was having to skip my daily meals to support her 40000 a month so as to save money and give her a good life. ????.. how can someone do this to another human being !

Now that your eyes are open to the reality, RUR FOREST RUN!

[Aomelia]

2 hours ago, expatjustice said:

Because you married a prostitute. That she does massage is just the excuse, anyone offering the right amount of money to her gets to f… the s…. out of her… 

Now I am not here to laugh at you, but to make you realize that you are loving someone who couldn’t care less about you, they only care about your money. The moment the money stops, they would put a bullet in your head if they knew they could get away with it. 
 

DO NOT send her a single more Baht, recover your condo, and lastly forget her! (and make sure to wish her good with a nice <deleted>… You….!) Then you can enjoy your life and find a girl who actually values what you give her and IS NOT a prostitute. 
 

You tell the girl that if she burns your stuff, you will pay some random Somchai to give a nice beating up to her dad and send him 1 month to the hospital. Stand your ground, and threaten back whenever you get silly threats to scare you. 

My ex would come up with all that love you so much <deleted> it was a script repeated daily 

[Nees Shah]

58 minutes ago, BusyB said:

 

Belongs in the Farang Pub ... joined less than a day ago and 26 posts including this atrocious  ludicrosity.

Doesn’t someone need to join at some point and start with their first post ? Or is it you that decides now who can post their personal issues or not. I am going through a serious issue right now which I am seeking help for. What’s wrong with that.  I have come across some wonderful people here in the last 2 days that have been a great help to me for my issue. 

[dlclark97]

21 hours ago, kingofthemountain said:

In a couple love needs to be a shared feeling

or it doesn't work on the long run. 

I am sorry for you but it's obvious she has 0 love for you

she is just trying to take advantage of you and milking you of all your money

Money is number 1 in Thailand

all the society is organised around this

the girls like your ''wife'' usualy come from a poor family and they have

no education or relation, their only chance to climb the social ladder and

to build up some assets is to catch someone like you.

You need to urgently open your eyes or you will be soon left with nothing at all

The above sums it up nicely.  Love from the female you have fallen for is only as deep as your pockets.  I repeat, RUN FOREST RUN! 

[ThailandRyan]

2 minutes ago, Aomelia said:

My ex would come up with all that love you so much <deleted> it was a script repeated daily 

Yes, when you tell yourself repeatedly or do something over and over again it becomes routine and they start to believe what they are saying or doing, and make you believe its so. They are experts sort of like a person practicing drawing a gun from a holster and shooting a target, after the repetitive motion is done over and over you can become quick.  However, there is always something or someone better down the road, and with a flick they are off and onto the next millionaire, but truly never satisfied.  Lets keep feeding the story which may or may not be true....how many pages can it span.

[malibukid]

the penis triumphs once again over the brain

[Aomelia]

3 minutes ago, ThailandRyan said:

Yes, when you tell yourself repeatedly or do something over and over again it becomes routine and they start to believe what they are saying or doing, and make you believe its so. They are experts sort of like a person practicing drawing a gun from a holster and shooting a target, after the repetitive motion is done over and over you can become quick.  However, there is always something or someone better down the road, and with a flick they are off and onto the next millionaire, but truly never satisfied.  Lets keep feeding the story which may or may not be true....how many pages can it span.

The hand holding , cuddling and then when I go home back to Thai bf Oscar winner Best Actress

[Pilotman]

175 posts replying to a made up story, unbelievable.  Some people really do need to get out more.  

[smiggley]

Send me her address and I will go and have a talk to her. On your behalf of course.

[ThailandRyan]

Just give her a Bitcoin you must have, that's worth 2MThb.

[hobobo]

22 hours ago, Blue Muton said:

He can't. What she really wants is a hansum man.

Agree with you in all respects except I think she wants several hansum men

[6lover]

 

What I do not understand, why did he leave his wife in Thailand and fulfill her financial wishes instead of taking her with him straight away to his home country? I asked my bar girl after 3 days for her price to come to my country immediately and stay with me. Was expecting all sorts of <deleted>ty answers and high financial demands but not that she said: Take me with you, get the visa and you will get me for free forever

 

[kingofthemountain]

2 hours ago, Nees Shah said:

Thank you for pointing that out. But then again, I am just ignoring the unnecessary jibes from certain folks. I have made a stupid mistake but  I was in a bad place when I met her and she did pick me up. I would still like to think she will see sense. I also understand everyone needs money but pressing your husband to depart with 3m is not the right way. It’s going to be difficult for me mentally to get over her. I do love Thailand and planned to retire there but am worried about the loneliness it will bring. I can never trust a Thai person ever anymore. Worst case I will sell the condo and stay here in Blighty. 

Can i ask you if your marriage with her was just a ''village ceremony'' with few monks

or if you have done all the oficial process with the good papers at the ampur ?

 

And don't worry too much about your future without her, trust me at 55 (Except if you are

really ugly or with a big problem like taking 1 shower a week or semthing like that)

you can pick up all the 25-35 yo girls you want here in Thailand, there is no shortage

on the stock and it will cost you only a fraction of what are you actually paying 

(In fact why are you paying now exactly when 12 000 kms are beetwen you and your wife?

She can not give you sex nor affection, she doesn't love you at all anyway, do you feel

better throwing your money in the bin every month ? )

 

 

[Heng]

Maybe not a real post, but I'm sure we've seen plenty of similar couples having intense discussions right at the ATM machine (of all places).   **Filed under reality based fiction**