Today i find out my lady is cheating me,Not about f....with other man.The issue is that i support her about 800,000 bath since july last year.

Her friend msg me and told me that she use money for pay her family dept.I support her make her business succsed,She send me pics etc showing her business and call everyday on cam.But she have borrow bank 1 million allready.Now i know the thrut.My money have paid family dept and her son education at univercity,but never told me.She have also  buy a "temple" at a price of 30.000 bath for put ouside her parents home.Yesterday she send me pics of her new shop(never told me)She even send me pics how to exend her entrance more.(cost 100.000)I said NO.Her new shop sellimg GIFFARINE products but need 300.000 bath for fill it up.I said NO WAY.Im arriving 25th this month.Time so speak face to face.I dont have a clue whats going on.The last 4 years she never ever ask money,but after she meet her friend who have a foreign bf she totally change.I paid her special courses in khon-kaen(25.000)..i paid her another course 15.000..Yesterday she told me she want a ford ranger.I said no,so she hang up.She know i get 27 million bath from my incurance...she know my mother left me alot of money..she know i sell my house about 12 million..she know i sell my holidayproperties about 15 million.She know my pension about 220.000 bath a month.

This morning she called and said no more money.I just said OK.Hope u find money soon,and she hang up again.This lady was my former mistress.By the way she said when i arrive 2 weeks is enough.My plan is 3 months.

 

I don't know what your asking for,  however I think you know the answer.

 

Cut all ties now. No more money, no more contact - don't even be tempted to answer calls/texts!

 

Come back and enjoy yourself away from her and enjoy Thailand again trouble free.

"By the way she said when i arrive 2 weeks is enough.My plan is 3 months."

 

That line right there sums up what you have gotten for your money.   Cut your losses, stop the bleeding, and run.  Enjoy all three of your months without her.  Yes it will be tempting to contact her and get some kind of sense of closure, but it sounds like she is really good at stringing you along so that will only be forthcoming from you rather than her.   The 800k baht is gone forever, but it's not a complete loss if you treat it (and apply it!) as tuition.  

 

Good luck and best wishes as you move forward.

hahhahhha .......  great story,   ever thought about writing a book    ?

Plus, she has a Thai husband you don’t know about.

She's a keeper. ????

2 hours ago, stigar said:

She know i get 27 million bath from my incurance...she know my mother left me alot of money..she know i sell my house about 12 million..she know i sell my holidayproperties about 15 million.She know my pension about 220.000 bath a month.

And why would you let her know all of this ? 

It's an old story repeated many times. The 2 week thing is because she has to spare her time with other sponsors.

 

The most talented girls will have multiple sponsors, sponsors get the blame for girls not needing to work bars anymore

As excruciating your story is, its even worse reading a post with no spaces between words and badly written, but i guess that english is not the op's first language and i share his anguish when it comes to being cheated.. I know the feeling...

Stop being so mean with her! With all your money you  can easily afford to buy her a Ford Ranger!

And staying for three months is far too long - you are what is known as a 'bed blocker'.  Two weeks is long enough.

Move on--- Fast

3 hours ago, stigar said:

She know i get 27 million bath from my incurance...she know my mother left me alot of money..she know i sell my house about 12 million..she know i sell my holidayproperties about 15 million.She know my pension about 220.000 bath a month.

I may go trans and marry you myself !

How did she know about all the money you had coming in?

 

Answer that question and you will know more - - 

 

If you used money to seduce her, what did you expect? She thought that $$ was hers to spend... 

 

Many women have a feeling of entitlement to their husbands assets... and not just in Thailand. 

As my grandfather used to say :

 

Women are sitting on a fortune.

29 minutes ago, ezzra said:

As excruciating your story is, its even worse reading a post with no spaces between words and badly written, but i guess that english is not the op's first language and i share his anguish when it comes to being cheated.. I know the feeling...

it's ingrained in them ...  have you ever met an honest Thai because I sure as hell haven't. 

 

 

3 hours ago, stigar said:

Today i find out my lady is cheating me

She's not cheating you ......... you've just overpaid!

And it's not as if you're short of money and the overpaying has hurt you financially.

56 minutes ago, hereforgood said:

And why would you let her know all of this ? 

and let all of us know his personal financial situation. not sure Im going for this!!

 

2 minutes ago, nikmar said:

and let all of us know his personal financial situation. not sure Im going for this!!

 

I'm just thrilled this wasn't another "Crytpo" billionaire story ...real bricks and mortar wealth accumulation...old school

Me no have money but buffallo sick. Please give me money make buffallo good.

 

Washing machine broken also. Big ploplem.

 

Me give you jub jub mag mah.

3 hours ago, stigar said:

Today i find out my lady is cheating me,Not about f....with other man

Ahh..well...you may want to relook at this whole no extra marital cheating statement..... Also the kind of money you have 220k per month of pension.....around 8k USD....you can live a good life in any part of the world...What's this desperation is about??

So you are the other man my girlfriend is dating. You shouldn't be paying off her family debt. I have already done this. She's really cheating you now.

 

Post title nicely includes "or". There is no "or". No need to fool yourself. Run fast.

2 hours ago, ezzra said:

As excruciating your story is, its even worse reading a post with no spaces between words and badly written, but i guess that english is not the op's first language and i share his anguish when it comes to being cheated.. I know the feeling...

Many more ladies to look forward to, 

She sounds like a lovely girl, 

7 hours ago, stigar said:

.She know i get 27 million bath from my incurance...she know my mother left me alot of money..she know i sell my house about 12 million..she know i sell my holidayproperties about 15 million.She know my pension about 220.000 bath a month.

I think this is what's known as tempting providence. Perhaps it would have wiser to keep this information to yourself. 

 

5 hours ago, steven100 said:

it's ingrained in them ...  have you ever met an honest Thai because I sure as hell haven't. 

 

 

Maybe your only experience of Thai women are bar girls and hookers. I have been with my Thai lady for 12 years, I'd trust her with my life.

1 minute ago, giddyup said:

Maybe your only experience of Thai women are bar girls and hookers. I have been with my Thai lady for 12 years, I'd trust her with my life.

nope...never been with a bar girl or hooker. 

3 minutes ago, steven100 said:

nope...never been with a bar girl or hooker. 

You've never met every Thai woman either. It's not like Western women ever cheat or lie, do they? Or people in general when it suits their needs.

2 minutes ago, steven100 said:

nope...never been with a bar girl or hooker. 

You're missing out!

You should shut up about all the things you own.

 

Tell the next one that you live on a 65000Baht pension and that is needed for your visa.
Probably she will do a runner when she hears that amount.

The immortal carousel!

Just keeps on turning with the same tune.

 

I think we"ll close this one.