ex girlfriend pregnant

[Lolothai]

Hi,

 

3 months ago my wife left me for a rich guy, I left thailand with my 2 daughters and came back a month ago. I got a girlfriend for 2 weeks but got so much pressure from my wife it was impossible to be normal. I left my gf 2 days ago after living 2 weeks together and this morning she sent a picture of a positive test. I told her I can't have a child, my life is a mess and I have to take care of my family. She wants to keep the child and raise him alone.

What problems she could make in the future? Can she force a dna test? As I'm still married what would be the consequences? We had sex only one time without condom, really unlucky or irreponsible but still.

[KhunLA]

Worst script for made for TV movie.  Keep your day job.

[robblok]

Yea certainly unlucky and unresponsible. There is a reason why i never do that. When i have a regular GF i make sure she is on anti conception. 

 

I hope nothing comes from it but you might be responsible (at least morally) for some money for your kid.

[Iamfalang]

3 minutes ago, Lolothai said:

she sent a picture of a positive test. I told her I can't have a child,

some girls carry positive tests in their bag, and even buy some online.  NOT saying she did this, but I'd go to the doctor with her for another test.

 

Told her you can't have a child?  well, I think everyone here could write a book on this .... and I'm sure you can figure out what they would say.   All I will say is this:  my dad was everything in my life, no clue how bad life would be if I didn't know my dad.  

[BritManToo]

No consequences. 

Ps after a breakup they often claim to be pregnant. Make her take a pregnancy test while you wait and watch. 

[simon43]

I had my willy cut off 10 years ago.  Wait! I mean I had a vasectomy and notified the world's press of this fact. No-one has ever told me since that they are pregnant with my child.....

[Excel]

Ok just so we have the full picture;

1)  Where is your wife now ?

2) You said you left with your 2 kids and subsequently returned, where are your two kids now ?

3) You say you had a girlfriend for 2 weeks, how do you know she had no other sexual relationships immediately prior to moving in with you ?

4) How do you know the picture she sent to you showing a positive test was actually hers and current ? ( Could be somebody else's or even perhaps one she had done a long time ago and she has in fact already had a child with someone else)

4) Where is your ex GF now ?

[marin]

Wife leaves you for rich man. You have two kids together. She does not care about you or the kids and gives you responsibility for them. You return to a dodgy job that requires you to get your own work permit without their help. Now you seem to have knocked up some other woman. 

 

Get a script writer and go for it. You may have the Lakorn tale to beat them all. 

[2long]

If the OP isn't a troll, then the girlfriend is.

Move on.

[RichardColeman]

15 minutes ago, Lolothai said:

She wants to keep the child and raise him alone.

How on earth would she know its a boy after 2 weeks ? Baby would just be a blob !

[Maha Sarakham]

Troll.

[FriendlyFarang]

That girls tell a guy that they got pregnant from him is quite common, they either hope to get you back or to get some money out of you for an abortion or so.

Had this happen to me, and have heard the same of a friend. I just told her I had a vasectomy two years ago, after this I never heard from her again.

[Excel]

11 minutes ago, 2long said:

If the OP isn't a troll, then the girlfriend is.

Move on.

Perhaps they both are so what is the collective description for two Trolls ? Trollops ? ????

[CharlieH]

If she showed you a pic of a test, how do you know its a "him" ?

 

 

[Lacessit]

All I can do is shake my head at threads like these.

I won't have unprotected sex with any woman unless I have known her for quite a while. I have to also know she is not a gold-digger, and healthy. STD's are far too prevalent in Thailand.

[Bert got kinky]

 

Are you sure that she didn't send you her latest Covid test?

 

[Lolothai]

37 minutes ago, Excel said:

Ok just so we have the full picture;

1)  Where is your wife now ?

2) You said you left with your 2 kids and subsequently returned, where are your two kids now ?

3) You say you had a girlfriend for 2 weeks, how do you know she had no other sexual relationships immediately prior to moving in with you ?

4) How do you know the picture she sent to you showing a positive test was actually hers and current ? ( Could be somebody else's or even perhaps one she had done a long time ago and she has in fact already had a child with someone else)

4) Where is your ex GF now ?

1) in the land and house I bought in her name. She put her mother brother and niece inside and <deleted> her boyfriend sometimes in our bed. She married him at the temple. We met 3 times and have wonderful family week end and start to fall in love again but her business comes first and I think she still loves her boyfriend. She probably wants both, her rich life with her boyfriend and a second family life with me and my daughters. Not sure how long I will be ok with this.

2)my daughters are living with me. The mother is ok to let them with me and could also took them back but last time she was asking half my salary to keep them, she was not happy to keep the child while I would enjoy my girlfriend. Clearly doing what she is doing.

3)I don't know, she could have done exactly what you said.

4)Same, that's a possibility but don't want to really on fake hopes.

5) She is at her home, parents house, she will come back tomorrow evening to pick up the rest if her clothes.

 

I will add that she is a very beautiful girl and would have no proble finding very rich men. I met her by Thaifriendly and at her job, she worked as a waitress in a resort on the beach in Rayong area. Looks very clean, polo and pants very far from the bar girls. I really think she is a good person but I really don't want a child with a girl I spent 2 weeks with. I have so many things to clear, so much stress, I can't take care. I didn't put condom this day, I was lost, my life spinning out of control.

[Lolothai]

49 minutes ago, marin said:

Wife leaves you for rich man. You have two kids together. She does not care about you or the kids and gives you responsibility for them. You return to a dodgy job that requires you to get your own work permit without their help. Now you seem to have knocked up some other woman. 

 

Get a script writer and go for it. You may have the Lakorn tale to beat them all. 

Yeah that's how I feel too, like a bad actor in a even worse movie. Job isn't bad though and would allow me to continue in my field and have a career, otherwise I would become a labor.

[Lolothai]

28 minutes ago, CharlieH said:

If she showed you a pic of a test, how do you know its a "him" ?

 

 

Writting mistake as you certainly guessed, I'm a bit upset and stressed

[chuang]

Be a man and be responsible for your actions..

[Lolothai]

16 minutes ago, Bert got kinky said:

 

Are you sure that she didn't send you her latest Covid test?

 

The thing is it would have work as I'm so stressed, depressed and upset but I think the HCG on it is clear.

[pomchop]

if it is indeed your child then YOU have a responsibility to help provide for child..it is not his/her fault that u and mom screwed up....but a dna test should be required before you start witting checks as it may well not even be your kid...

[Lolothai]

1 minute ago, chuang said:

Be a man and be responsible for your actions..

I offered her to pay for hospital and when we met I told her I don't want children now. She has also to take responsibility for her action. She wanted a child despite what I want. And also I don't have enough money for this, my wife took everything.

[CharlieH]

It shows she pregnant, doesnt show its yours ! Get a test and find out  ifits yours, you may be worrying about something that isnt your problem.

[Lolothai]

2 minutes ago, CharlieH said:

It shows she pregnant, doesnt show its yours ! Get a test and find out  ifits yours, you may be worrying about something that isnt your problem.

I would prefer to don't officialise it right now

[bbko]

Just another man abandoning his child, are you Thai?

[daveAustin]

59 minutes ago, FriendlyFarang said:

That girls tell a guy that they got pregnant from him is quite common, they either hope to get you back or to get some money out of you for an abortion or so.

Had this happen to me, and have heard the same of a friend. I just told her I had a vasectomy two years ago, after this I never heard from her again.

This! Also had this happen many moons ago with a nice girl and immediately said impossible for me to have kids, after which she said she wasn’t pregnant. Many will try to trap you. If indeed she is pregnant, suggest DNA test if and when the time comes.

 

In any case, just chill out a bit; if she’s as nice as you say and it is all true, divorce yourself cheating skank of a wife, take the kids and marry this one. 
 

All the best. 

[Lolothai]

2 minutes ago, bbko said:

Just another man abandoning his child, are you Thai?

I'm struggling with my 2 daughters that I love very much. I don't have time for myself, I have to be the mother and the father, running between nursery school, begging people and paying them a lot to pick them up from school. I come back at 6:30 wash their clothes, prepare food play with them, police them when they fight run after them then in no time it's time to sleep. I start work since I got my visa and work permit process. I work 6 days a week. Wake up at 5:30 am to prepare everything for my girls and come back home at 6:30 pm.

[Kenny202]

Tell her to foxtrot oscar, block her and move on. You have enough on your plate

[Boomer6969]

My late Mum in law used to say that some girls know they are pregnant before the their partner has zipped up his fly. Your ex GF is obviously even more crafty, she know the gender of the egg before its first division.