Popular Post bob smith Posted April 17, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 (edited) i thoight of posting this as I witnssed something similar not too long ago. a thai man was beating his wife up in our apartment building near the stairs and yes i did get involved. he was drunk, skinny and looked like a thug. if his wife hadnt told me to not worry about it I may have given him a dig how about you blokes? would you lot get involved to save the poor damsel in distress or would you let the scumbag husband/boyfirned or whatever beat her like a rug in public? Edited April 17, 2023 by bogs smith 7 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post jvs Posted April 17, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 5 minutes ago, bogs smith said: and yes i did get involved. he was drunk, skinny and looked like a thug. if his wife hadnt said to me to not get involved I may have given him a dig So you did not get involved? 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bob smith Posted April 17, 2023 Author Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 (edited) 7 minutes ago, jvs said: So you did not get involved? i did initially. then she said mai pen ri, i said are you sure? she said yes.then the thug started laughing like a child. Edited April 17, 2023 by bogs smith 5 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post recom273 Posted April 17, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 The general answer is .. keep your nose out however, that may not sit well with your conscious. You don't know the whole domestic situation, maybe you go to give him a dig and he pulls out a knife or gun - also, you are a guest here, you are on rocky ground with the police if you start brawling in the street - leave it to a local to sort out. 6 1 1 1 6 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post jvs Posted April 17, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 2 minutes ago, recom273 said: The general answer is .. keep your nose out however, that may not sit well with your conscious. You don't know the whole domestic situation, maybe you go to give him a dig and he pulls out a knife or gun - also, you are a guest here, you are on rocky ground with the police if you start brawling in the street - leave it to a local to sort out. Yes you are right,even the woman may turn on you if you hurt her beloved husband. Walk away,this is Thailand and there are different rules here. 6 1 5 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bob smith Posted April 17, 2023 Author Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 (edited) 6 minutes ago, recom273 said: The general answer is .. keep your nose out im sorry but when i see that kind of thing i just cant. especially if there are kids around i have to say something Edited April 17, 2023 by bogs smith 2 1 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted April 17, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 22 minutes ago, bogs smith said: how about you blokes? would you lot get involved to save the poor damsel in distress or would you let the scumbag husband/boyfirned or whatever beat her like a rug in public? Probably I would get "involved" by telling the security guards or the management or the police. I wouldn't try to stop such a guy. The reason is that he must be crazy or drugged or drunk to beat her up in public. And people like that are not rational. Telling them to stop won't stop them. And the bad guy might have a knife or a gun or he just uses the next bottle to fight. I think the question is: Am I willing to risk my own health and maybe life to try to break up a fight? And if I am willing to do that, am I able to do that? For me personally the answers are No and No. 10 1 4 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post FritsSikkink Posted April 17, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 I will get involved and stop the fight. 3 1 2 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted April 17, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 6 minutes ago, bogs smith said: im sorry but when i see that kind of thing i just cant. especially if there are kids around i have to say something If you have to, then do it. But don't be surprised if you get hurt or end up being arrested by the police. It's your own risk. 7 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bob smith Posted April 17, 2023 Author Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 2 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said: I will get involved and stop the fight. you are a good man frits 2 1 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post smutcakes Posted April 17, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 If the lady was very pretty and/or had a good body/nice boobs and he was very small & extremely drunk/could barely walk i might try and impress the bird if there was the off chance i could cop a feel afterwards. (with her permission) Otherwise hell no, nothing to do with me. 3 1 6 12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bob smith Posted April 17, 2023 Author Share Posted April 17, 2023 2 minutes ago, smutcakes said: If the lady was very pretty and/or had a good body/nice boobs and he was very small & extremely drunk/could barely walk i might try and impress the bird if there was the off chance i could cop a feel afterwards. (with her permission) Otherwise hell no, nothing to do with me. thats definitely an interesting perspective!! 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Hummin Posted April 17, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 (edited) Depending on situation and location. I have been a security guard in my younger days, and we got involved in couple fights and wife abuse and beating once and awhile, and with an uniform it is a totally different story, as well being young and fit. Another important factor, be sure she whants you help, and do not attack you as well, that happens quite often when you get involved in situations like this, and last do not use excessive force or loose your temper. If you are not sure you can control the situation, get back up, or try to to talk them out of the situation instead of physically get involved. Edited April 17, 2023 by Hummin 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bunnydrops Posted April 17, 2023 Share Posted April 17, 2023 I'm not really a fighter, but would do what I could to distract him. Not here, but back in my home country this year, there was a man pulling a woman down the middle of the road with a rope (turned out to be his mother). I got him to stop and only came at me once when he saw I was calling the police. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bob smith Posted April 17, 2023 Author Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 1 minute ago, bunnydrops said: Not here, but back in my home country this year, there was a man pulling a woman down the middle of the road with a rope jaysus, sounds like something out of a spaghetti western! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mancub Posted April 17, 2023 Share Posted April 17, 2023 In public ? In Thailand ? Sorry. but then it's not my business. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Kwasaki Posted April 17, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 48 minutes ago, bogs smith said: how about you blokes? would you lot get involved to save the poor damsel in distress Dunno about involved in actual fighting just hands on separation, intervened twice once in a soi and once in a restaurant. I cannot ignore it, it's just who I am I cannot not do something. 4 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fat is a type of crazy Posted April 17, 2023 Share Posted April 17, 2023 Are you Bob or Bogs. Bob used that photo the other day in a post. I feel sometimes you can look someone in they eye and sense if they are a real threat. But best to be careful and let police do their thing. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post recom273 Posted April 17, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 25 minutes ago, bogs smith said: im sorry but when i see that kind of thing i just cant. especially if there are kids around i have to say something Then I have the greatest of respect for you, however, you didn't mention "say something" you inferred that you would physically intervene. I would put my own personal safety and my permission to stay here before physical intervention. Nothing wrong with telling him to stop or similar - nothing wrong with shouting to the local Moto taxis / security guard to come and sort it. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bob smith Posted April 17, 2023 Author Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 2 minutes ago, Fat is a type of crazy said: But best to be careful and let police do their thing. which isnt all that much most of the time! 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post RedArmy Posted April 17, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 I don't think anyone could really know for sure what they would actually do. Personally, I'm a very instinctive person & upon seeing this, my adrenaline would probably kick in & i would follow my instincts & jump in to try & defuse the situation. As a general rule though, try not to get involved when 2 Thais are having any kind of domestic altercation. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post dingdongrb Posted April 17, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 While living in China I saw many men beating their women in public almost on a daily occasion. I was told by a close Chinese friend (female) not to get involved as it probably wouldn't be good for me. And here in Thailand I was told pretty much the same thing from a close Thai friend (male) during one of my first trips here well over 20 years ago. Matter of fact he had even told me not to provide aide to any Thai I saw injured in an accident even though I was certified in CPR at the time. He informed me that if I touched the injured person and they became disabled or even died because of the accident that their family might say it was my fault and sue me. 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post John Drake Posted April 17, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 49 minutes ago, bogs smith said: im sorry but when i see that kind of thing i just cant. especially if there are kids around i have to say something You might want to go ahead and set up your GoFundMe account right now. 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KiChakayan Posted April 17, 2023 Share Posted April 17, 2023 "When in Rome, do as the romans do", so I should probably join in and make my contribution to the beating. LOL.. i'd most certainly run. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChaiyaTH Posted April 17, 2023 Share Posted April 17, 2023 (edited) If he doesn't look like a muay thai fighter and the girl seems really hurt, I might just find a brick and hit him on his head. Joking of course, I will land in jail and the girlfriend will then hate me. Usually these couples and people deserve each other anyway. She will just stay with the guy too. Edited April 17, 2023 by ChaiyaTH 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StayinThailand2much Posted April 17, 2023 Share Posted April 17, 2023 (edited) Not in Thailand, if his buddies were standing nearby. But in the West, clearly 'yes'. As someone pointed out, the woman might turn on you too, not to mention neighbours, etc. Interfering as a foreigner in this part of the world may not be met with appreciation, not even by the woman... Edited April 17, 2023 by StayinThailand2much 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post soalbundy Posted April 17, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 Depends on whether he needs any help or not 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stoner Posted April 17, 2023 Share Posted April 17, 2023 what do you tell a woman with 2 black eyes ? ....... nothing you already told her twice. :) 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted April 17, 2023 Share Posted April 17, 2023 Just now, stoner said: what do you tell a woman with 2 black eyes ? ....... nothing you already told her twice. ???? Bad taste 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post stoner Posted April 17, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2023 2 minutes ago, Hummin said: Bad taste oh ok then. well considering the new world we live in. the woman in question deserves no help from any man. would you step in if it was 2 men fighting ? remembering that in our modern society all are considered equal. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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