Are you having the average amount of sex?

[JimTripper]

Once a week in your 40’s? I could do it almost daily back then.

 

Once 50’s hit, like around 52, it dropped way down. I could even go without now if I wanted to. Maybe I need testosterone. Just don’t need it anymore.

 

Things better pick up soon or I’m just out to pasture.

 

If you’re coming up on your 50’s better enjoy it while you can ????????‍♂️. Ironically that’s the Thailand retirement age ????.

Edited August 6, 2023 by JimTripper

[habuspasha]

19 hours ago, Lacessit said:

I guess people over 80 can't have any sex, according to the data in the OP.

Not with the ailing 80 yr old wife, but at least 3 times a week with the 40 yr old GF.

[habuspasha]

13 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Can't say I care if they enjoy it or not, if they don't enjoy it they should have stayed single and bought a few cats.

You don't think you might increase availability and frequency by increasing her pleasure?

[habuspasha]

A couple of comments about the opening statistics:

First, I'd love to see some global comparisons.  We Americans may not be typical.

Second, there is some contradiction about the change over time (in addition to the absence of figures for those of us from the silent generation or early baby boom).  The source confirms the idea that the silent gen had more sex than later gens and the decline has continued.  Yet we recognize that sexual activity declines with age. I know many in my cohort blossomed in the 1960s but have gone "silent" since.  But surely I'm not unique in pushing the GF for more sex at 82.  If 90 is becoming the new 40, maybe the 80s  are becoming the new 30s.  You can blame blue pills and testosterone, but the effects they have are genuine.

[ChaiyaTH]

If you would assume someone to be in a relationship long-term I think it actually makes perfect sense. If you would have 63 times sex per year that comes to once a week on 52 weeks and then in 11 out of 52 weeks you would do it twice a week. 

 

I mean I am just in 30s but when you already together for a few years it does not need to be daily anymore if you ask me. It was different when I was single doing different girls all the time, then it could easily be up to 10 times a week with 3-5 different girls. 

I think trying to stick to the average of near twice a week is more than enough / healthy. If you not sleep with them at least for the average they usually (attempt to) get it elsewhere.

 

But guess it also depends how busy one is, when I had a lot of free time with girlfriends on my hands, it automatically also resulted in a higher frequency. As someone said already the average guys only have 8-14 sex partners in a lifetime, must be hell to not have visited Thailand for some action in a lifetime.

Edited August 6, 2023 by ChaiyaTH

[thaibeachlovers]

11 hours ago, save the frogs said:

every 2nd thread on here is about sex.

people seem to be spending 99 per cent of their waking lives consumed with sex. 

 

 

 

Sex is a primary genetic imperative for men, so yes, they think about it a lot. It's normally not a topic in polite company, but on an anonymous forum like this we can discuss what we wouldn't with our mothers.

Besides, it's way more interesting than where to get a pizza.

[thaibeachlovers]

7 hours ago, habuspasha said:

You don't think you might increase availability and frequency by increasing her pleasure?

When one is paying it doesn't matter if she gets pleasure.

 

Having said that, I got more pleasure from sex if my partner was enjoying it.

[thaibeachlovers]

3 hours ago, ChaiyaTH said:

If you would assume someone to be in a relationship long-term I think it actually makes perfect sense. If you would have 63 times sex per year that comes to once a week on 52 weeks and then in 11 out of 52 weeks you would do it twice a week. 

 

I mean I am just in 30s but when you already together for a few years it does not need to be daily anymore if you ask me. It was different when I was single doing different girls all the time, then it could easily be up to 10 times a week with 3-5 different girls. 

I think trying to stick to the average of near twice a week is more than enough / healthy. If you not sleep with them at least for the average they usually (attempt to) get it elsewhere.

 

But guess it also depends how busy one is, when I had a lot of free time with girlfriends on my hands, it automatically also resulted in a higher frequency. As someone said already the average guys only have 8-14 sex partners in a lifetime, must be hell to not have visited Thailand for some action in a lifetime.

Perhaps I'm different, but I wanted sex every day with my partner(s).

When they no longer wanted to do it at all was the beginning of the end for them in my life.

I never needed another person in my life, except for sex, and was quite happy on my own.

Would have been different if I'd wanted children, but I didn't.

[save the frogs]

15 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

so yes, they think about it a lot.

maybe some people think about sex too much was my point.

or that's the ONLY thing some people think about. 

just like some people think and talk about money 24/7. 

ever meet a stockbroker? 

 

[thaibeachlovers]

9 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

maybe some people think about sex too much was my point.

or that's the ONLY thing some people think about. 

just like some people think and talk about money 24/7. 

ever meet a stockbroker? 

 

Happily I never met a stockbroker, nor do I want to.

[KhunLA]

Average ...

... I'm so happy I've never been 'average'

[LaosLover]

18 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

maybe some people think about sex too much was my point.

 

just like some people think and talk about money 24/7. 

 

 

If this goes another page, this OP will exceed my only other long runner: Can you live in Thailand on $8K a month? Sooo much vitriol.

 

I predict Sex average-ness will win.

[Ben Zioner]

On 8/5/2023 at 7:50 PM, Elkski said:

I dont Believe these numbers 60-69 25?  Thats every 2 weeks.  Im surely 5+ times average. 

I agree, whatever my/your current performance is, these numbers are ridiculously low. And what is their definition of a a sex act? When I was 15 I was J..k..g off 4 or 5 times  a day, does that count?

[Doctor Tom]

11 hours ago, bignok said:

Most get married to 2 or 3rd gf.

IF I recall correctly after all this time, they weren't marriage material, at least not for me. Come to think of it,  neither was I at that time. 

[rocketboy2]

61,  wife 42, 4-5 times a week.

and i manual 4-5 times a week as well. 

[JimTripper]

22 minutes ago, rocketboy2 said:

61,  wife 42, 4-5 times a week.

and i manual 4-5 times a week as well. 

Are you cranking 4-5 x a week at age 61??

 

That can’t be normal. Are you on testosterone or anything like that?

[rocketboy2]

36 minutes ago, JimTripper said:

Are you cranking 4-5 x a week at age 61??

 

That can’t be normal. Are you on testosterone or anything like that?

1) Yes. with some internet porno sometimes.

2)a  why not. 

2)b  No

Morning glory, is few and far between now days. 

unless i'm bursting for a pee.

 

Ps had to buy a left handed mouse last week. 

 

 

 

Edited August 7, 2023 by rocketboy2

[JimTripper]

16 minutes ago, rocketboy2 said:

1) Yes. with some internet porno sometimes.

2)a  why not. 

2)b  No

Morning glory, is few and far between now days. 

unless i'm bursting for a pee.

 

Ps had to buy a left handed mouse last week. 

 

Is it something you enjoy doing, or does it feel more like a compulsion?

 

Sounds compulsive to me. Cranking almost every day coupled with sex almost every day. That’s compulsive, unless you’re horned up in your 20’s or something, even then it would be excessive.

[ThaiFelix]

You probably wouldnt believe me if I told you, just as I probably wouldnt believe a few of the posts from you lol!

[rocketboy2]

5 minutes ago, JimTripper said:

Is it something you enjoy doing, or does it feel more like a compulsion?

 

Sounds compulsive to me. Cranking almost every day coupled with sex almost every day. That’s compulsive, unless you’re horned up in your 20’s or something, even then it would be excessive.

Yes i enjoy it. it certainly is an urge that needs sorting.

but if i ignore the urge,  it does subside. but why waste it.

 

Yes i have always been like this. in my teens and up to about 35 sex was

a marathon. i have always been a one shot guy, but can control and last a long time back then.

 

 

[bignok]

4 hours ago, LaosLover said:

If this goes another page, this OP will exceed my only other long runner: Can you live in Thailand on $8K a month? Sooo much vitriol.

 

I predict Sex average-ness will win.

You should have combined sex with ladyboy discussion.

[Mark Nothing]

0.00 for many years.  I threw in the towel many years ago, being a complete and utter failure with women.  I saw no need to subject myself to the emotional, financial, and physical torture.

 

Eventually you get to the right answer but only after making all the wrong decisions.  Now I follow the no adultery commandment.

[wwest5829]

On 8/5/2023 at 7:37 PM, LaosLover said:

Most men have eight-twelve sex partners in their lives.

Really? I thought I was rather backward at a lifetime count of 24. Half of that number here in Thailand. As to the annual count? When I first arrived and had a steady Thai gf it was 3 times a day (making up for a dry spell). Now at 76 I have slowed down cosiderably but if the numbers given are correct I am at least 20-30 years younger!

Edited August 7, 2023 by wwest5829

[BritManToo]

54 minutes ago, wwest5829 said:

Really? I thought I was rather backward at a lifetime count of 24. Half of that number here in Thailand. As to the annual count? When I first arrived and had a steady Thai gf it was 3 times a day (making up for a dry spell). Now at 76 I have slowed down cosiderably but if the numbers given are correct I am at least 20-30 years younger!

Those numbers are only for white men that never left the western world.

And IMHO they're way too high.

 

If I'd stayed in the west it would have been 5 partners, and less than 1x a month.

Edited August 7, 2023 by BritManToo

[Muhendis]

On 8/5/2023 at 7:18 PM, LaosLover said:

I'm in that range too, so at 70, that means I have one in the bank per year.

Great suff.

Which Bank would that be?

[scottiejohn]

36 minutes ago, Muhendis said:

Great suff.

Which Bank would that be?

Not a sperm bank me thinks!

[spidermike007]

On 8/5/2023 at 7:37 PM, LaosLover said:

Most men have eight-twelve sex partners in their lives.

In the US maybe. Land of the forlorn. Closed for business. No thanks. 

[Skeptic7]

Unbelievably low numbers in all brackets. Unrealistically so IME. SUX to be you/them❗????

[PETERTHEEATER]

On 8/5/2023 at 2:38 PM, JensenZ said:

At an average of 35 posts per day, how do manage to fit it in?

If he's lucky, with a shoe horn.

[PETERTHEEATER]

At my age I bank it. I went to my sperm bank yesterday morning to make a deposit. Just my luck, ended up in a queue behind a woman paying in a month's takings. ????