Have you ever broken a Thai lady's heart?

[Adumbration]

16 minutes ago, simon43 said:

When I started to regularly visit Thailand around 2002 I arranged a date with a Thai lady who was on a dating website.  She knew that I lived in England but I asked her to meet me at Don Muang Airport on a certain date/time.  She thought that I was joking and was very surprised when I actually met her at the airport.  Her figure was somewhat 'plumper' than her online photo...

 

Anyway, we travelled around Thailand for a few days and I rapidly realised that she had an affliction known as 'barking mad'!  (I was to learn that this affliction seems to affect many Thai women).  My partner spent a lot of her time talking to herself. I decided that I would gently end the relationship and told her so while in my apartment in Saladaeng.  

 

Big mistake!  She went totally nuts, screaming and pleading with me to stay with her (I doubt it was love of my body/personality, rather love of my wallet).

 

In desperation to get her out of the apartment, I walked out of the building, with her running after me, screaming all the time.  I hailed a taxi and jumped in. 'Bai nai' said the driver in a slow voice. 'Bai anywhere' I shouted, as the mad woman tried to open the taxi door.

 

I took refuge in the Dusit Thani hotel, just around the corner.  But then I remembered that I had left my wallet hidden in the microwave oven in my apartment, and this mad woman still had a key!  What if she found my wallet?  What if she chucked a reheat meal in the microwave without looking first?

 

I carefully made my way back to my apartment and luckily the woman had disappeared.  Just in case, I rented a different apartment in Saladaeng. I noted a few weeks later a new profile on the dating website with her photo and claiming to be some sort of medical consultant.  Hmmm. Her broken heart didn't last very long ????

 

 

 

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They had internet in 2002?

[NextG]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

Women don't have hearts, not for sexual partners anyway, maybe some have hearts for their kids and mothers.

Seems that you go bitten hard. 
Life is a bit more complex and a bit more simple than that. 

[NextG]

1 minute ago, Adumbration said:

They had internet in 2002?

Yes. I have emails and email accounts from that period. Strange…

[Liverpool Lou]

1 hour ago, Adumbration said:

Oh....Look....a new fake member account with a nonsense clickbait post.

 

How refreshing...

He's been a member a lot longer than you have!

[BritManToo]

13 minutes ago, NextG said:

Seems that you go bitten hard. 
Life is a bit more complex and a bit more simple than that. 

I just realised the truth, and accepted it.

Once you understand that their biology and genetics drive them in a different way to men, your life will be happier and your finances will be safer.

[FritsSikkink]

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Women don't have hearts, not for sexual partners anyway, maybe some have hearts for their kids and mothers.

Maybe we should change that into:

Prostitutes don't have hearts for customers as it is a financial agreement and no love involved.

[FritsSikkink]

1 hour ago, Adumbration said:

And pets.  Don't forget that the Farang partner is always below dogs, cats and in your case, rabbits, in the pecking order.

Maybe you are but a lot of others aren't.

[BritManToo]

7 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

Maybe we should change that into:

Prostitutes don't have hearts for customers as it is a financial agreement and no love involved.

Every sexual relationship is a financial relationship for women.

How many homeless/unemployed men are getting married?

Do you think there's a single woman in the world that got married expecting her new husband to lower her standard of living?

 

Edited September 20, 2023 by BritManToo

[Gottfrid]

What a sad bunch of farangs there is on this forum. Finding every reason to speak bad of Thai girls and women. You should be ashamed. The most probable, is that with such comments as many post here, it´s you guys that are wrong for a relation with a Thai woman. You have just not matured enough, and are only able to see them as a sex partner.

Edited September 20, 2023 by Gottfrid

[FritsSikkink]

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

Every sexual relationship is a financial relationship for women.

How many homeless/unemployed men are married?

 

No, it isn't but maybe yours were.

Loads of unemployed married men.

[scubascuba3]

52 minutes ago, RamenRaven said:

Sarcasm, or did an agogo girlfriend really have her heart broken?

After all, believe it or not, working ladies can still fall madly in love and get broken hearts.

Yep she hated me after, she was young got attached very quickly.

 

No money involved, that's the acid test to tell if it's genuine

Edited September 20, 2023 by scubascuba3

[Gottfrid]

11 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Every sexual relationship is a financial relationship for women.

How many homeless/unemployed men are getting married?

Do you think there's a single woman in the world that got married expecting her new husband to lower her standard of living?

 

It´s just this kind of male-chauvinistic, weird and sick comments the infects this forum.

[NextG]

19 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I just realised the truth, and accepted it.

Once you understand that their biology and genetics drive them in a different way to men, your life will be happier and your finances will be safer.

I understand that and therefore can work with it. My finances are intact. I still haven’t had to pay for any woman. They would pay for me if I let them. Because I offer more than just a ‘sexual partner’. 

[NextG]

16 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Every sexual relationship is a financial relationship for women.

How many homeless/unemployed men are getting married?

Do you think there's a single woman in the world that got married expecting her new husband to lower her standard of living?

 

Wrong….

In some corners it’s natural to share the burden. 

[NextG]

22 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

Maybe we should change that into:

Prostitutes don't have hearts for customers as it is a financial agreement and no love involved.

Even that is not true..

[scubascuba3]

3 minutes ago, NextG said:

I understand that and therefore can work with it. My finances are intact. I still haven’t had to pay for any woman. They would pay for me if I let them. Because I offer more than just a ‘sexual partner’. 

You don't pay a girlfriend a monthly wage? many do

[NextG]

Just now, scubascuba3 said:

You don't pay a girlfriend a monthly wage? many do

???? No. That’s outside my realm. I’m regularly paying girls back who insist on paying for me. 

[scubascuba3]

Just now, NextG said:

???? No. That’s outside my realm. I’m regularly paying girls back who insist on paying for me. 

It's an age thing though, as you get old and if you still want a much younger girlfriend or wife you'll have to pay one way or another

[FritsSikkink]

2 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

It's an age thing though, as you get old and if you still want a much younger girlfriend or wife you'll have to pay one way or another

You are mixing up "girlfriend" and "prostitute with girlfriend experience".

[NextG]

5 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

It's an age thing though, as you get old and if you still want a much younger girlfriend or wife you'll have to pay one way or another

Wrong!

[scubascuba3]

19 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

You are mixing up "girlfriend" and "prostitute with girlfriend experience".

Not really, you have a fake girlfriend you pay a wage?

[scubascuba3]

17 minutes ago, NextG said:

Wrong!

Come back to the table when you're old

[Adumbration]

43 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Do you think there's a single woman in the world that got married expecting her new husband to lower her standard of living?

 

Yes...but how many has false expectations...

[Adumbration]

1 hour ago, NextG said:

Yes. I have emails and email accounts from that period. Strange…

You were not an alledgedly crazy Thai girl living in Bangkok back then....or were you?

 

Wait....have you ever had a date with @simon43?

[FritsSikkink]

2 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Not really, you have a fake girlfriend you pay a wage?

I have a wife, who earns her money with several businesses.

[scubascuba3]

Just now, FritsSikkink said:

I have a wife, who earns her money with several businesses.

She would be playing the long game, with your support

[NextG]

Just now, scubascuba3 said:

Come back to the table when you're old

Just silly. When I’m eighty, I’m not likely to be dating girls in their twenties. I’ll likely be having age appropriate relationships not based in n money, as is my norm. Though I won’t rule out dating girls in their twenties if the attraction is there ☺️

[FritsSikkink]

1 minute ago, scubascuba3 said:

She would be playing the long game, with your support

You don't know my wife, you keep paying the prostitutes.

My wife doesn't need my money, she has 3 houses with land and a Durian farm.

[bkk6060]

According to them, just about all of them.  They probably say the same to 2 or 3 other guys every day.

[NextG]

3 minutes ago, Adumbration said:

You were not an alledgedly crazy Thai girl living in Bangkok back then....or were you?

 

Wait....have you ever had a date with @simon43?

No, I actually have emails from a Thai girl with whom I sat down and spoke on my very first visit to Pattaya. We stayed in touch for a while. She paid from her own pocket to print out my emails and have them translated. She would tell me about her life; for example that she had a ‘short time’ booked that afternoon for 500 baht. Open and honest. Told me that she had an old man willing to look after her, but that she loved me… But I’d already told her that there was no possibility for me to join with a ‘bar girl’; ex-bar girl or otherwise.