susanlea Posted July 18 Share Posted July 18 Nice summary 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
save the frogs Posted July 18 Share Posted July 18 how sane are you on a scale of 1 to 10? people get their cholesterol levels checked, but there's no way to check how sane you are. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post stoner Posted July 18 Popular Post Share Posted July 18 spent most of my life trying to make others happy over myself. 2 1 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post hotandsticky Posted July 18 Popular Post Share Posted July 18 3 minutes ago, stoner said: spent most of my life trying to make others happy over myself. Like the safety announcement from flight attendants............put your own life jacket on before attending to others. 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post stoner Posted July 18 Popular Post Share Posted July 18 20 minutes ago, hotandsticky said: Like the safety announcement from flight attendants............put your own life jacket on before attending to others. i'm not that bright. 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bob smith Posted July 18 Share Posted July 18 where's gg? bob. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prubangboy Posted July 18 Share Posted July 18 41 minutes ago, stoner said: spent most of my life trying to make others happy over myself. Not a diss, but that sounds like co-dependency. It wrecked my life, so have a Goggle. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stoner Posted July 18 Share Posted July 18 8 minutes ago, Prubangboy said: Not a diss, but that sounds like co-dependency. It wrecked my life, so have a Goggle. you're right. but i still very much enjoy being with my wife. so that part helps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prubangboy Posted July 18 Share Posted July 18 Be for yourself at least a little bit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted July 18 Popular Post Share Posted July 18 (edited) 3 hours ago, stoner said: spent most of my life trying to make others happy over myself. This was a mistake I also made. But luckily my Brit wife taught me (during divorce) only to care about me ...... me me me me me. Nobody else matters! A few years back someone told me 'you're not a good person', my reply was I never claimed to be anything but bad. Edited July 18 by BritManToo 1 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted July 18 Share Posted July 18 4 hours ago, stoner said: spent most of my life trying to make others happy over myself. Here you are your true self? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post roo860 Posted July 18 Popular Post Share Posted July 18 3 hours ago, bob smith said: where's gg? bob. There's 2 🛎 ends with those initials mate! 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted July 18 Share Posted July 18 Im still learning and evolving, thats me 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fredwiggy Posted July 18 Share Posted July 18 The only reason I'm living in Thailand is because I have to get re-established back in the states with my daughter and that takes time. My wife always came first until she proved unworthy,and my kids always came first when I was alone until they can take care of themselves. I still take care of myself well, because it's the only way you can take care of others. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KannikaP Posted July 18 Share Posted July 18 4 hours ago, susanlea said: Nice summary Stick to 8 out of 10, or Literally Just told you Jimmy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scubascuba3 Posted July 18 Share Posted July 18 Sounds like many guys on this thread need counselling 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted July 18 Popular Post Share Posted July 18 I am who I am. I don't try to play a role or be someone else. Some people like me, others not. Fine. Being the same all the time and not trying to play a role makes life so much easier. 1 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soalbundy Posted July 18 Share Posted July 18 4 hours ago, save the frogs said: how sane are you on a scale of 1 to 10? people get their cholesterol levels checked, but there's no way to check how sane you are. Of all the gifts god did na gie us to see ourselves as others see us. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted July 18 Popular Post Share Posted July 18 13 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said: Sounds like many guys on this thread need counselling Most people who need counseling don't realize that they could benefit from counseling. I attended psychological group therapy for a couple of years in my 20th. Did I really need it? I don't know, probably not. Did I learn from it? Yes, a lot. 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bradiston Posted July 18 Share Posted July 18 5 hours ago, bob smith said: where's gg? bob. Which one? There's 2, right? Gamma and the other one whose name escapes me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
susanlea Posted July 18 Author Share Posted July 18 1 hour ago, OneMoreFarang said: Most people who need counseling don't realize that they could benefit from counseling. I attended psychological group therapy for a couple of years in my 20th. Did I really need it? I don't know, probably not. Did I learn from it? Yes, a lot. What did you learn? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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