Gaslighting - You plan a fun weekend and the mother in law turns up to visit a temple.  She pretends this is what you planned.

 

Guilt Tripping - You eat a lot... it makes me fat!  Since I met you I have put on weight.

 

Love Bombing - Nice for the first few months, but after she gets the money she turns nasty.

 

Silent Treatment - Your line posts are muted, messages unanswered, little interest what you say.

 

Triangulation - teaming up with her friends to agree and work against you

 

Projection - She sleeps all day then blames you for not watching the cat.

 

Blame Shifting - You lose your job.  ''Now my family have nothing because of you!''

 

Playing the Victim - You work hard all day she said ''I am bored, nothing to do all day.''

 

Stonewalling - You get a new contract and are excited 45,000 a month.  She ignores you because she wanted you to get 50,000.

 

Mirroring - Suddenly excited and happy with everything you do.

 

Ghost Girlfriend - You ask the girl in Seven Eleven for the stamps.  She asks ''Do you know that girl?  Why did you talk to her for so long?''

 

The Baby Shield - As a guilt trip, she asks you to chat with the kids on whatsapp and play with them more.  Then asks you to pay their families' bills and buy them a car.

 

Withholding Information - The bills are high.  She says it's because you use the fan all day.  She has a fish tank and two refrigerators constantly.

 

How about you?  Which are your favorite manipulation techniques that women use on you?

None

Zero

I am always surprised how many terms there are for all kind of strange behavior.

 

My gf is sometimes hangry. Normally that goes away as soon as she eats something.

A BJ out of the blue? Sits on my face for no reason? Bends over in the shower and twerks slowly? 

 

For no reason shaves her kitten? Waking up in the morning, and she already put it ,,

 

I hate being manipulated like that, or she suddenly pretend to be somebody else and dressing strange and whare strange make up, and unfamiliar perfume 😒 

None of the above & no other drama either.....

This is really quite a simple issue that a lot of guys make out to be a lot more complex than it really is. The bottom line is that if we are men with self-esteem, if we prefer a high quality of life with a good deal of harmony, and if we want a very high quality woman there are plenty of them out there.

 

However WE have to be very judicious, WE have to be very discriminating, WE have to qualify them extensively, WE have to spend a long time getting to know them and WE have to make a decision as to whether or not they're worthy of our attention. If they're not we just move on and if they are then we enjoy a wonderful life with them. Many of us have great gals that were enjoy being with everyday and if she's not making the quality of your life better, if she's not making you a better version of yourself daily, it's your responsibility to move on, and if you don't you are the one to blame, not her. She is who she is. How well have you selected? 

 

but after she gets the money she turns nasty.

 

and there's your problem, i hate to break this to you, but if you're paying her to be with you she's not your girlfriend, she someone with you for as long as you pay her. it's a business transaction, not a relationship.

 

the real problem is your perception of the situation, she's under no such misconception.

 

 

 

 

You need to find another woman , my wife does not do any of those things,

but if she did ,she would not last long , you must be exaggerating surely ,or

why would you stand for it ...

 

regards worgeordie

32 minutes ago, it is what it is said:

but after she gets the money she turns nasty.

 

and there's your problem, i hate to break this to you, but if you're paying her to be with you she's not your girlfriend, she someone with you for as long as you pay her. it's a business transaction, not a relationship.

 

the real problem is your perception of the situation, she's under no such misconception.

Guys in Thailand don't understand this very well.

I never seem to have those issues - probably because 'my gal' is made of silicone... 🙂

 

How many of these manipulation techniques has your girlfriend tried on you?
She would try one of them and I’d walk. Plain and simple. As one ages, I find one has less time for bs.

 

Be sure to ‘stress test’ them first to see how they react before you get serious, fellas. 😉

On 10/6/2024 at 2:04 PM, Hummin said:

A BJ out of the blue? Sits on my face for no reason? Bends over in the shower and twerks slowly? 

 

For no reason shaves her kitten? Waking up in the morning, and she already put it ,,

 

I hate being manipulated like that, or she suddenly pretend to be somebody else and dressing strange and whare strange make up, and unfamiliar perfume 😒 

Never ending, it have to stop 

 

First thing waiting coming to the hotel, and no time for beer at the pool even. 

 

 

 

OP's list is normal for woman. I got no problem with any of them.

 

BUT - as long as there isn't Western women "Headache" everything's just fine...

 

What a dill....you choose you're women poorly..

On 10/7/2024 at 3:00 PM, GypsyT said:

BUT - as long as there isn't Western women "Headache" everything's just fine..

 

denial of intimacy - my favorite of "her treatments". I'm in 15 minutes drive from Saphan Kwai. At the location like this who needs schmuckin' intimacy? 

Fortunately those relations w/western woman is long time over. 

 

 

How many of these manipulation techniques has your girlfriend tried on you?

 

Hand on heart............. none.

 

Mind you, if the wife finds out about her there'll be all hell to pay.