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New Relationship Trend - Women leaving men in old age

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New Data has shown a disturbing new trend: Since 1990 the divorce rate for over 50s has doubled, for over 65s it has tripled. It is mostly women leaving men and filing for divorce.

 

So men are confronted not just with a 50% divorce rate, but ON TOP, as men grow older women are now likely to leave them. Reasons are not  yet fully known, some point to better financial arrangements for women so they do not need a man, the trend to self-fulfillment fuelled by social media leading women to believe a relationship is not serving them, to increased life-span meaning women no longer want to live 20 plus years with a man they are no longer attracted to. Are we safe in Thailand? If so for how long?

 

 

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Are we safe in Thailand? If so for how long?

 

I would rather ask Is Thailand safe from us?

Imagine the amount of losers heading to Thailand - the worst part is their constant whining!

AN's gonna have a load of new members!

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4 minutes ago, ravip said:

Are we safe in Thailand? If so for how long?

 

I would rather ask Is Thailand safe from us?

Imagine the amount of losers heading to Thailand - the worst part is their constant whining!

AN's gonna have a load of new members!

 

Well said, it will be the older, divorced feminist women from the West who will bring this message to Thailand - "Hey it's okay to divorce after 50. You deserve to be happy, is your current relationship really fulfilling you?"

I guess it can happen to those who tend to subject their partners to a life of drudgery. Expecting then to cook and clean for the great providers. Bwahahahahahaha. Dinosaurs.

How about you OP? Is that you?

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14 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

So men are confronted not just with a 50% divorce rate, but ON TOP, as men grow older women are now likely to leave them. Reasons are not  yet fully known, some point to better financial arrangements for women so they do not need a man, the trend to self-fulfillment fuelled by social media leading women to believe a relationship is not serving them, to increased life-span meaning women no longer want to live 20 plus years with a man they are no longer attracted to.

 

Who do you figure has a better chance of upgrading to a younger model?  The old lady whose market value peaked decades ago, or the old gentleman whose market value just keeps compounding at 5-10% per annum (if he's invested wisely)?

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1 minute ago, TopGun10 said:

I guess it can happen to those who tend to subject their partners to a life of drudgery. Expecting then to cook and clean for the great providers. Bwahahahahahaha. Dinosaurs.

How about you OP? Is that you?

 

That can't help, to ignore the need to keep women entertained, boredom is most likely a key factor in these divorces, particularly as entertainment from social media, Netflix etc has soared. 

 

No, I'm actually like one of these older women, I divorced my wife for self-fulfillment reasons, I thought I could do better and deserved better. Interesting to see so many women do it.

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3 minutes ago, impulse said:

 

Who do you figure has a better chance of upgrading to a younger model?  The old lady whose market value peaked decades ago, or the old gentleman whose market value just keeps compounding at 5-10% per annum (if he's invested wisely)?

 

Excellent point. If you watch this Oprah video, you will see that the older women spin it as "we don't need to date - we don't need men"...and I believe them. They are financially set up, they have a big circle of friends as women always do, and they see no need for a man.

 

It is us, men, who need women, because of sex.

7 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Excellent point. If you watch this Oprah video, you will see that the older women spin it as "we don't need to date - we don't need men"...and I believe them. They are financially set up, they have a big circile of friends as women always do, and they see no need for a man.

 

It is us, men, who need women, because of sex.

 

Wait until they have to ask their big circle of friends to move some heavy furniture or change a flat in the garage.

 

Another part of that whole trend is the guys who are no longer accepting our status in the sexless "friend zone".

 

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Just now, impulse said:

 

Wait until they have to ask their big circle of friends to move some heavy furniture or change a flat in the garage.

 

Another part of that whole trend is the guys who are no longer accepting their status in the sexless "friend zone".

 

 

Well, they can hire a handyman for 50 bucks. I think, women genuinely do not like men. As they grow older. And for good reason, they would have been treated abominably badly by men. So they really do not want to be with a man long term after their 50s. The ones that divorce.

 

Yes, those men who divorce, no doubt protested against the sexless status, which let's face it, is inevitable, as women hit the menopause they lose the little desire they had for sex in the first place, and what man is burning for desire for a 55 or 65 year old woman? So the sex life is doomed in old age really, i suspect. But obviously I'm young and crispy, so i have no direct experience.

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24 minutes ago, TopGun10 said:

I guess it can happen to those who tend to subject their partners to a life of drudgery. Expecting then to cook and clean for the great providers. Bwahahahahahaha. Dinosaurs.

How about you OP? Is that you?

You think she should sit with her feet up and have a workfree life while you pay for everything?

I do all my own cooking cos hers is nasty Issan stuff.

But I do expect a bit of cleaning, dish washing and laundry ......... and sex.

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Just now, BritManToo said:

You think she should sit with her feet up and have a workfree life while you pay for everything?

I do all my own cooking cos hers is nasty Issan stuff.

But I do expect a bit of cleaning, dish washing and laundry.

 

Well said. But you do entertain her, right?

10 minutes ago, impulse said:

 

Who do you figure has a better chance of upgrading to a younger model?  The old lady whose market value peaked decades ago, or the old gentleman whose market value just keeps compounding at 5-10% per annum (if he's invested wisely)?

Not an easy question to answer - but its mostly the old gentlemen that keep jumping off balconies, not the old ladies.

Then... is it impossible for the old gentlemen with increasing market value to find partners in their own home countries>

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Brown’s most recent research, published in late 2024 with graduate student Jaden Loo, found that the share of currently divorced adults aged 65 or older has tripled since 1990 – contrary to popular perception and against the grain for divorce rates overall, which have decreased by nearly one-third since 1980.

 

https://www.bgsu.edu/news/2025/02/innovative-gray-divorce-research-from-bgsu-professors-draws-national-interest.html

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10 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Well said. But you do entertain her, right?

Not sure about that.

My Brit wife announced her divorcing me the same week as I announced my retirement.

She was 50, and I was 52 ....... so your OP was bang on!

She is living alone with some cats now the kids have moved out.

 

I married a Thai lady age 33 a few months after the divorce.

Not a bad move for me and the move to Thailand made up for my loss of assets.

39 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

New Data has shown a disturbing new trend: Since 1990 the divorce rate for over 50s has doubled, for over 65s it has tripled. It is mostly women leaving men and filing for divorce.

 

So men are confronted not just with a 50% divorce rate, but ON TOP, as men grow older women are now likely to leave them. Reasons are not  yet fully known, some point to better financial arrangements for women so they do not need a man, the trend to self-fulfillment fuelled by social media leading women to believe a relationship is not serving them, to increased life-span meaning women no longer want to live 20 plus years with a man they are no longer attracted to. Are we safe in Thailand? If so for how long?

 

 

I’ve seen this trend with four friends. The wife file for divorce and the guy does not see it coming.  Most ofthese women are not prizes in their 50s.

38 minutes ago, ravip said:

Are we safe in Thailand? If so for how long?

 

I would rather ask Is Thailand safe from us?

Imagine the amount of losers heading to Thailand - the worst part is their constant whining!

AN's gonna have a load of new members!

...imagine the strength of the Thumbs Down brigade.

Life will be fun, here at AN

Nothing is worse than staying in a miserable relation, and i presume that goes for woman too

The overall divorce rate is actually declining. It's still around 1.6% per 1000 people in 2024, down from 1.8% in 2023.

 

The main reasons for divorce are still the same. Incompatibility, abuse, alcoholism, drug abuse, infidelity and financial, although financial is still the reason many stay even thought miserable. Incompatibility from lack of communication is the main reason. Laziness of men has many women angry, but they're not likely to leave because of that.

 

Sex, or lack of, isn't a main reason. Many will live in a sexless marriage for fear of the dark unknown out there, meaning the women especially.

 

Everyone ages and some think their partner isn't doing their "share" of taking care of themselves, even though it's likely both who aren't. This is why the marriages that stay together the longest are like partners. Either both are into healthy lifestyles or both are couch potatoes.

 

Mismatches create anger and resentment. Many change after marriage, or actually just go back to how they really were. Some taking care of themselves good until they're settled down, and then get lazy, which can also be catching, where both get lazy.

 

If you subtract the greedy who are only there so they can get things, the rest are there for a partner, although finding a compatible one is still the hardest thing a human can do.

 

Unrealistic expectations from women ruins many marriages. Men who don't do their share ruins more.

 

Depression ruins many relationships, as does narcissistic, abusive partners.

 

Controlling hasn't a place in a relationship. The more they look at each other as equals, the longer the relationship lasts. Cheating ruins many more, which won't happen if you look at your partner as an equal.

 

The biggest problem in a marriage is not vetting your partner long enough. Not seeing them in all situations of stress, and ignoring the red flags in favor of the body and smile. People will stay in a marriage if both look at each other as equal partners, and not seeing the other partner as having to do a certain "job". Not having the same future plans ends many good relationships. In fact most relationships do end, and that's the one where they should the fastest. More independence does have more women leaving in middle or older ages, but they aren't always happier, although those in abusive, neglective relationships are, and men without a partner in their later years die sooner on average.

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@Cameroni I agree with you to a certain extent. Women realise the men they are with aren't all that. That they really only wanted them for regular sex and other than that don't really have much in common other than the kids.

It's different for couples who are actually into each other. Then it's not about 'needing a man', but not ever wanting to lose their best friend and companion.

Whereas the types who really just wanted someone for sex and have only money to offer, it makes sense that the women would want to get away from them and have some freedom to actually experience life.

I see men writing about women only want providers and providers are the real men, Doh!

You can't fix stupid. 

Women and men get offers all the time. Some will take the deal. Others would not ever sell themselves and will only bond for love.

So certain types only experience a certain kind of relationship.

 

@BritManToo No, I think she should be free to be what she is supposed to be. Not confined by male fantasies. 

If they are free and choose to stay with you of their own volition. Then you have a strong bond. If your bond is just sex, money and kids, that can put a strain on things.

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Way of the new world now where loyalty, devotion and faithfulness are out of the window and it's a me, me, me and only me now.

50 minutes ago, ravip said:

Are we safe in Thailand? If so for how long?

 

I would rather ask Is Thailand safe from us?

Imagine the amount of losers heading to Thailand - the worst part is their constant whining!

AN's gonna have a load of new members!

Weeell, cheer up, get a hobby of some sort, you never know what's around the corner.....🤗

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59 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

New Data has shown a disturbing new trend: Since 1990 the divorce rate for over 50s has doubled, for over 65s it has tripled. It is mostly women leaving men and filing for divorce.

 

So men are confronted not just with a 50% divorce rate, but ON TOP, as men grow older women are now likely to leave them. Reasons are not  yet fully known, some point to better financial arrangements for women so they do not need a man, the trend to self-fulfillment fuelled by social media leading women to believe a relationship is not serving them, to increased life-span meaning women no longer want to live 20 plus years with a man they are no longer attracted to. Are we safe in Thailand? If so for how long?

 

 

Being safe in Thailand is being totally independent .  Not counting on another to stay here. Divorce happens worldwide for the same reasons, but if you divorce here, you need to have a retirement visa with enough money to stay, or a dependent visa, which also requires money but less. If you didn't pay 100% for your house, you'll have to split the proceeds if sold, or just rent if you want to stay. You can be the best partner you can be, but if you don't pick a good partner for yourself, there's no guarantees it will last. 

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

Well said, it will be the older, divorced feminist women from the West who will bring this message to Thailand - "Hey it's okay to divorce after 50. You deserve to be happy, is your current relationship really fulfilling you?"

The Thai girls (outside Bangkok) will not listen mate - they do not believe that being fat and ugly is 'empowering' and they do not believe that they are 'equal' and they dont need 'validation' from other women.  Thai girls want to be feminine and dress like a girl - and nothing any fat ugly feminist western woman says is going to change that.  Plus the marriage laws in Thailand are not at all like in the west - here the women do not get treated like the sun shines out their back and front ends and they deserve everything - and the men do not get treated like they are all violent misogynist rapists who deserve nothing.    

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New Relationship Trend IN THE WEST - Women leaving men in old age

 

There, fixed it.  Western women are a sad-ass piece of work.  Who needs them.  Jettison them and find an Asian gal.  

1 hour ago, TopGun10 said:

I guess it can happen to those who tend to subject their partners to a life of drudgery. Expecting then to cook and clean for the great providers. Bwahahahahahaha. Dinosaurs.

How about you OP? Is that you?

Millennial Soy Boy ??

Does anyone get divorced in Thailand? I thought they just waited for you to die or just help you along.

Some cannot wait, so their 'brother' appears and asks you to leave the house for which you paid. All scenarios that happened, with alarming regularity.

59 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Excellent point. If you watch this Oprah video, you will see that the older women spin it as "we don't need to date - we don't need men"...and I believe them. They are financially set up, they have a big circle of friends as women always do, and they see no need for a man.

 

It is us, men, who need women, because of sex.

And we can get it easily - as long as we have money. Want women need (versus what they want) is not for sale or rent - a trusted companion and a partner in life to protect and support them.  So many women that fall for the feminist trap, and then severely regret it many years later when it all goes to sheite and their 'friends' all disappear. Often in the end it is just them and their cats - who eat them when they die.  Women need men a lot more than men want women (for sex).  

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4 minutes ago, TroubleandGrumpy said:

And we can get it easily - as long as we have money. Want women need (versus what they want) is not for sale or rent - a trusted companion and a partner in life to protect and support them.  So many women that fall for the feminist trap, and then severely regret it many years later when it all goes to sheite and their 'friends' all disappear. Often in the end it is just them and their cats - who eat them when they die.  Women need men a lot more than men want women (for sex).  

 

I don't think any woman wants a 50/50 partner, or they'd be paying at the restaurant, what they want is a companion, yes, but like you say, trusted, fulfilling all her needs. But her sexual need, at that age, has to be next to zero, after menopause. We on the other hand never stop wanting sex, and so we need women, which we can get true.

 

So maybe this trend is a blessing for us men, we get set free to live another day with younger more attractive women?

5 minutes ago, TroubleandGrumpy said:

The Thai girls (outside Bangkok) will not listen mate - they do not believe that being fat and ugly is 'empowering' and they do not believe that they are 'equal' and they dont need 'validation' from other women.  Thai girls want to be feminine and dress like a girl - and nothing any fat ugly feminist western woman says is going to change that.  Plus the marriage laws in Thailand are not at all like in the west - here the women do not get treated like the sun shines out their back and front ends and they deserve everything - and the men do not get treated like they are all violent misogynist rapists who deserve nothing.    

Marriage and divorce laws are similar, as the justice system in Thailand mirrors that in the west, but mainly European and French. Women usually get the children in the west, but in Thailand they always do, although joint custody is given if a man wants it. As far as property, Thais will split the property and in the case of foreign/Thai, it will usually spluit 50/50 of the things accrued after the marriage. Anything before belongs to who had it before. The same as the west, although the woman can get the house if it was bought during the marriage. If before, whoever bought the house gets it. I've never seen or heard of anyone mistreated in a divorce proceeding in the US, as the courts have to treat each party fairly. 

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11 minutes ago, connda said:

New Relationship Trend IN THE WEST - Women leaving men in old age

 

There, fixed it.  Western women are a sad-ass piece of work.  Who needs them.  Jettison them and find an Asian gal.  

 

I am afraid connda, that these trends from the West have a nasty habit of creeping into Thailand. We now have feminist buddhist monks here, feminist organizations. Thailand is not immune from this influence.

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