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Hello everyone. I thought that I will share my own experience with a Thai lady. Sorry in advance if I this post is in the wrong section. Also I believe that someone on this forum will read this and will not make the same mistake as I did. I met my wife a year ago. She was beautiful and lovely person. We are both a middle age but I felt that we had such a special connection between us. We called and FaceTime every single day. As soon as I finished work I runned home and start conversation. Sometimes 3-4 hours, sometimes more. Guys I'm 35 but I never felt like this. We were just the best mates. We had the same interest, like the music, traveling and even sex preferences. We had the same plans for a future. And the plan was very simple. We will get married and get a visa to join me and then live beautiful life, have kids and be happy. But there was only one requirement from my side. No lies. Whatever you did, good or not good tell me. Don't care about past but tell me. Be clear. She said she would never lie to me. So I was her 2nd farang. There was only one farang before me and I couldn't believe it but I agreed. It was hard for me to believe because I saw the other pics with her and other farang. After a couple months I discovered that this guy was her boyfriend too. I faced her with this fact and I broke with her because she lied to me. But she convinced me to come back. I started build slowly my trust again. Then we had a couple little fights and of course always was my fault. Let's get to the point. About 4 months ago I went to Thailand because I wanted to get married. Guys, everything has been changed since then. She was not much interested in me anymore, when I came back home she was always busy with friends, cleaning house etc. We have applied for a visa and everything was on the way to bring her into my country. Until last week. She went to meet friends. She said they will stay at the condo and cook together. She went to meet them quite early. After couple hours she switched phone off. I sent her millions messages on the messenger and there was only white circle which means messages was sent but not delivered. After 5 hours I saw that all my messages was delivered, so immediately I started text her to contact me but then again I only saw white circles. I knew something is going on. I went mad. She finally came back home at 1.30 am and she text me that her battery finished. If battery finished then how come she received all messages from messenger. There is only one answer. She went to meet someone and turned phone off, after she switched phone on and all messages poped on her screen, that's why I saw them delivered. And then she turned phone off again. The funniest thing about it is that she is angry on me and deleted me from Facebook and now we going to take divorce. It's all my fault because I caught her on lying, cheating on me. I spend last year chatting and visiting her. I took a good care of her. Pay her bills, buy presents etc, instead she removed me from her life so easy. There is much more aspects but I tried to keep this post short. Thanks for reading. 

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It's the awareness of the message indicators which is worrying. It's kind of stalkerish and you seem more concerned you never got answers when you wanted them and jumped to conclusions which by the sounds of your post you likely verbalised. At this point she possibly thinks your a bunny boiler. Long distance relationships are never easy.

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On 7/29/2017 at 6:21 PM, Superme said:

Not a bar girl. Worked for short period and then didn't work for a couple months. Started work 3 weeks ago again. 

There are thousands of available women here,move on,and next time just rent one :thumbsup:

one day.hopefully you will come across a good one :jap:

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On 7/29/2017 at 9:50 AM, colinneil said:

 

Every woman lies, i have one of the best wives a man could wish for, but sometimes even she lies.

 

Cannot agree Colin,in the four years I,ve been with my GF I,m not aware of any lies........if she ever did I would seriously consider my relationship with her,I know your situation is far more different to mine and some leeway in your case is understandable....good luck and keep smiling :thumbsup:

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30 minutes ago, petermik said:

There are thousands of available women here,move on,and next time just rent one :thumbsup:

one day.hopefully you will come across a good one :jap:

Well mate i hope your right about your GF, but it is not considered to be serious here like it is in the west.

My wife does not lie about serious matters, just stupid little things.

Example, on saturday wife said today i go to funeral my friend,  she have accident with motorbike, ok stay safe.

I was told by another person the friend topped herself because husband had got a mia noi.

Silly things like that, but a lie none the less.

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On 30/07/2017 at 1:21 AM, Superme said:

Not a bar girl. Worked for short period and then didn't work for a couple months. Started work 3 weeks ago again. 

Thank you for your reply.

 

Could you be more specific? My original question was " What is/was her job? "

 

I would also like to add a couple of questions.

 

" What would you estimate her net income (salary less tax, social welfare and other deductions) to be when in employment? "

" What would you estimate her total monthly expenditure including remittances to family and any finance payments or loan repayments to be ? "

 

Thanks again.

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On 7/28/2017 at 8:21 PM, Superme said:

deleted me from Facebook and now we going to take divorce

deleted you from Facebook..., ouch! Can't repair that one.

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On 7/29/2017 at 3:38 PM, sanemax said:

If she was a professional felang player , where her whole life revolves around relieving felangs of as much money as they can , it would change the situation . 

    If she was gainfully employed in a office or something , it would make a difference as to whether she genuinely liked him, or whether she was just playing him along

 

Yes they do exist well outside the bar area.

 

Thai lady (previously owned her own law company) now mid 60s lives in my fairly new higher price range moo bahn has survived 3 farang official husbands in the last 20 years, all now deceased, all died suddenly and within 3 or 4 years of marriage, all were within same age to 5 years older than the lady when they met.

 

Her house is quite large, always spending money for further additions / beatification etc, has a full time gardener and 2 live-in maids. She has a BM and an expensive Honda in her garage.

 

She married number 4 about 1 year ago, he's about 80 and rather fraile.

 

She spends much time trying to convince other Thai ladies to get into various pyramid and other get rich quick schemes.

 

On the other hand female and male gold diggers exist in all countries. 

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On 7/29/2017 at 4:40 PM, CharlieH said:

Without wishing to sound cruel, she went fishing, got a bite, reeled it in, you were amusing and helped her polish her English and her act. It was then catch n release, and on to a bigger fish !! (IMHO).

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