Bar problem

[aroundhtheblock]

    I entered a bar at Nana plaza at 20.00 and bar fined a girl long time. Our agreement with the mammasan and girl was for the girl to stay until 06.00 the next morning. The mammasan insisted i pay for everything up front, which I did on my credit card. 

      Later at the room, we proceeded and while in the act she was already asking to leave at midnight and then 03.00, making it very unenjoyable for me. After the act and pop, she got dresssed and began to play a game on her phone laying in my bed. She did not want to do anything besides play the game and rejected my advances to kiss her. Afterwards, she left at 22.30 and broke our agreement 8 hours early . I asked her to call mammasan who offered no help at all on the phone and was extremely unpleasant.

   This is a giant scam in my opinion and unlike normal bar transactions. Is there anything I can do to regain my money, where my long time ran out on me in less than an hour and purposefully planned it? I know it is not smart paying the girl upfront but I have not barfined in many years and was not expecting her to leave. I also think this is a bar to be avoided, possibly worse than others.

Edited March 10, 2018 by aroundhtheblock
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[OneMoreFarang]

Welcome to Thailand!

 

Many of us had an experience like that at some stage. And many of us learned from it.

You learned tonight and you won't do the same mistake again.

 

You could go back to the bar and ask for a partial refund but your chance to get any money back is very low. And if you get into a (heated) argument with anybody in the bar you only lose face or worse. Forget about it.

 

For the future I suggest you tell the girl clearly what you want and confirm that she understood what you talk about. If she just says "yes, yes, I do anything you want" then she likely didn't understand it (or you didn't ask for enough or she is one of the few exceptions). Agree on a price and pay after the service. And if you really insist on i.e. 9am and another round of sex in the morning better tell her in advance.

 

Forget about it, take another one, and enjoy the rest of the night!

 

[thaibry]

If you are British ask the credit card company to reimburse you under section 75.

For purists thus can only happen for transactions more than £100 but as the mamasan was involved I am sure that you were fleeced for more than that.

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[Here It Is]

This isn't the life for you, OP.  Think different by finding a nice lady.  

[OneMoreFarang]

2 hours ago, thaibry said:

If you are British ask the credit card company to reimburse you under section 75.

For purists thus can only happen for transactions more than £100 but as the mamasan was involved I am sure that you were fleeced for more than that.

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And if you do that make sure you never ever go to Nana again. Otherwise your hospital bill will likely be a lot more expensive than whatever you paid for that night.

[jerojero]

Go to Soi Cowboy. Tilac. Many decent girls there.

[OneMoreFarang]

2 minutes ago, jerojero said:

Go to Soi Cowboy. Tilac. Many decent girls there.

I am not so sure he is looking for a "decent" girl.

 

 

[grumbleweed]

2 hours ago, jerojero said:

Go to Soi Cowboy. Tilac. Many decent girls there.

Ah yes, the convent formerly known as Soi Cowboy

Your interpretation of what constitutes a decent girl leaves me wondering of what they have to do to become indecent

[suzannegoh]

If you are British ask the credit card company to reimburse you under section 75.

 

For purists thus can only happen for transactions more than £100 but as the mamasan was involved I am sure that you were fleeced for more than that.

 

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That's a good idea.  Adittionally, if it was a Gold card you might be able to take advantage of the card's 90 day warrantee protection. Just explain to them that the whore that you bought wouldn't put out and they should reverse the charge.

 

 

[DGS1244]

Stick to a short time only, as they say go to bed with a 10 and wake up with a 1, This is Thailand. 

[BarnicaleBob]

Good grief, you went out, payed for something that is illegal in Thailand and felt you didn't get your monies worth.  Go right on down to the tourist police and tell them you have been swindled while committing a crime.  I'm sure they will help you and maybe even give you lodging for a while.  

This reminds me of the guy who purchased drugs and got ripped off then, reported it to the police.  

[Tchooptip]

Pathetic! 

[Techno Viking]

3 minutes ago, BarnicaleBob said:

Good grief, you went out, payed for something that is illegal in Thailand and felt you didn't get your monies worth.  Go right on down to the tourist police and tell them you have been swindled while committing a crime.  I'm sure they will help you and maybe even give you lodging for a while.  

This reminds me of the guy who purchased drugs and got ripped off then, reported it to the police.  

Not to mentioned he handed over the credit card !

 

[Denim]

Talk about human trafficking. ?

 

People talking like they had bought a string of sausages and found a banger missing.

 

 

[Falcon]

As you gave your credit card details to the bar, i’d Be very surprised if the girl you paid for isn’t the only thing that’s disappeared early. If I were you, I’d call the credit card company and require as to the balance left on your card. Giving out credit card details in a bar isn’t the smartest move in my opinion.....

[milwaukeeboy]

In this case, you should always take out for a short time and pay as little as possible and then when they are in your room, do the negotiations for long time if they tickle your fancy.

Wanting service from someone who is clearly turned off by you and is forcing herself to be with you is kinda creepy.

[suzannegoh]

Wanting service from someone who is clearly turned off by you and is forcing herself to be with you is kinda creepy.

But without that Pattaya's economy would collapse.

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[chickenslegs]

Is it April 1st already?

[jacko45k]

4 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

And if you do that make sure you never ever go to Nana again. Otherwise your hospital bill will likely be a lot more expensive than whatever you paid for that night.

You think the network is so capable as to exact retribution on someone who cancelled a CC payment?

I don't.... although I would be cancelling the card as it's security is compromised.

 

OP.. many mistakes, live and learn. Take consolation in the fact that it happens to many,  girls  will leave after ST whatever was discussed or paid. Using a CC and paying in advance opened the door for them. The usual line is a sister calling saying she has lost her key! It is all BS!

 

I have recovered money from bar owners but generally I have got rid of the girl before anything happened and the bar was owned by a Westerner who made claims of aid for dissatisfied customers.

 

Move on....

[dinsdale]

Did you buy her some food, some drinks, be nice to her? Long term girls you might as well enjoy their company first. Be nice to them and more times than not they'll be nice to you. You got all night mate, no need to rush. Also, always pay after the fact. Barfine, ok you need to pay that up front. Cash not credit card.

[CockneyGit]

Wow! A mammasan and a hooker are involved in shady practices. Who'd have thought..!!

 

[RichardColeman]

So you are just worried about missing out on 3 hours of sex and paying for it ? I think most of us married here to Thais fee like this when the Mrs throws Thai strop over nothing and wont talk or have sex for days ! But hey, that's life. Mine's currently in a strop for 2 days now as I said I wanted her to put the toddler to bed - at 11.30 pm !

Edited March 11, 2018 by RichardColeman

[jenny2017]

She did not want to do anything besides play the game and rejected my advances to kiss her.

 

   Advances to kiss her. 

 

    

[NoshowJones]

7 hours ago, Here It Is said:

This isn't the life for you, OP.  Think different by finding a nice lady.  

Good advice, but I would think there is a reason why the OP is paying for sex.

[soistalker]

The longest relationship I would consider with a thai woman is 45 minutes.

[NoshowJones]

1 hour ago, grumbleweed said:

Ah yes, the convent formerly known as Soi Cowboy

Your interpretation of what constitutes a decent girl leaves me wondering of what they have to do to become indecent

I would think there are plenty of decent bar girls, just because she gets paid for sex does not make her indecent.

[PatOngo]

[colinneil]

Reading some of the posts on this thread has given me the best laugh i have had in ages.

At least he got his leg over, these days i can only dream about it.

[Straight8]

Paying in advance by CC in Nan plaza, about says it all.

 

Dude needs to catch up on some forum reading, and a lot of it... this is one man that needs some brotherly advice.

 

 

 

[Bannoi]

I used to have a bigger problem, trying to get them to leave.

 

You should consider yourself lucky.

 

I'll bet there are millions out there who would love to have been in your shoes.