The "beautiful Thai girl" myth?

[Ks45672]

1 hour ago, Kinnock said:

That was probably me.  ????

 

But I got such a great deal 9 years ago, I've not felt any temptation to trade her in.

If Thai vwomen are commodities then i think it will be obvious to most men and even the women that the beautiful ones can command a higher price than their western alternatives..... ???? 

 

Its just simple economics, demand is higher than supply for the finest quality examples 

[catman20]

2 hours ago, Kinnock said:

That was probably me.  ????

 

But I got such a great deal 9 years ago, I've not felt any temptation to trade her in.

i wonder if she feel the same way about u ? ????

[marcusarelus]

4 hours ago, GinBoy2 said:

More musing than anything else.

 

But is the prevailing view on TVF, that women, and Thai women in particular are simply a commodity to be bought and sold?

 

Don't get me wrong, everyone male or female, generally gets attracted to beauty, but what you are implying is that beauty can be bought, like the Trump's and Murdochs' do

 

Not disputing it happens, but in some respects it turns my stomach

I've seen Thai guys with ladyboys that turn my stomach.  I've seen Thai guys carrying a little yapping dog and packages running after Thai women shopping.  I've seen Thai men who let their wife decorate the whole house in pink hello kitty colors ant that turns my stomach.  I've seen beautiful Thai women chasing fat tomboys and that turns my stomach.  All those things turn my stomach because I don't understand them.  Wendy Murdoch got rich and that I understand although I wouldn't do Murdoch myself I do understand it and don't get nauseous.  

[marcusarelus]

4 hours ago, Ks45672 said:

 

 

I didn't mention anything about buying, beauty or women being simple commodities 

 

Those are all your own words!

 

I got married for my money twice and then I lost it and moved to Thailand.  I felt a little cheated when I realized the women were only after money and not my handsome face or well endowed body but I got over it thanks to a therapist on Soi ........ 

 

One of my ex wives married money again and I watch them on her facebook page.  Same stuff we used to do lunch at the yacht club and driving around town in the expensive antique cars with my kids.  The only difference is it's a different face in the pictures - not mine.  The kids look happy.  I guess you can buy love.

[LucysDad]

2 minutes ago, marcusarelus said:

 I guess you can buy love.

 

 

I do - regularly.

 

Thailand is a good option in that respect.

[BritManToo]

5 hours ago, GinBoy2 said:

But is the prevailing view on TVF, that women, and Thai women in particular are simply a commodity to be bought and sold?

That's the same all over the world, but in the west our governments have outbid us.

In SEA there's no free money & houses for them.

[Ks45672]

44 minutes ago, LucysDad said:

 

 

I do - regularly.

 

Thailand is a good option in that respect.

Someone should have told this guy about Thailand.. ???? 

 

https://metro.co.uk/2019/01/11/first-uk-man-jailed-trying-pay-sex-loses-appeal-8335224/

[phetpeter]

The main thing is no matter what, 24/7 lots of females walking around in the shortest of shorts, camel toes and all, the smallest t-shirt. lots of eye candy. who love you to look.

[neeray]

18 minutes ago, Ks45672 said:

Someone should have told this guy about Thailand.. ???? 

 

https://metro.co.uk/2019/01/11/first-uk-man-jailed-trying-pay-sex-loses-appeal-8335224/

I read your link. It looks good on him.

[Shiver]

On 1/10/2019 at 2:56 PM, Fex Bluse said:

I agree in part with other portions of your post. However, the reasons that people generally are not interested in foreigners has more to do with lack of shared common language, culture, worldviews, ect. 

 

I try my very best to respect people. Some make it very difficult. However, I do wish for the Thais that they become prosperous. If that ever happens, there will be almost no market for Thais marrying Westerners. It will vanish. So, I agree in part with you. 

 

Thankfully, the Thai-Chinese master class is too selfish to work on ensuring that the country as a whole can become wealthy as they are only concerned with their own wealth. 

 

So, there will be plenty of women for sale for decades to come. ????

Next year I'll be 50, and I still have a lot to learn, daily I see my errors.

My girl and I are approaching the 9 year mark.  I don't want to say "my girl is different" because in simple terms she's a decent version of a village girl that never got pushed to Pattaya or similar by her family (and family is who you should assess imho).  She's very independent, and doesn't really need anybody.  She's not a "soul mate" but I do better with her in this country than without, and I bring skills that help her thrive in her own country too, so with a lot of slack (eg. she likes plastic Buddhism, respects local tradition, and I don't interfere), and she doesn't get on my case about hanging out with friends when they're in town even if she doesn't like them.  That slackness or wiggle room allows both of us to do better together than being alone.  So rather than some Hollywood story of the misalignment of our stars, it's a fairly practical, close (but not too close) relationship that works for both her and me, both being fairly independent, both non controlling, and not always agreeing but both accommodating.

So it's not Shakespeare's R&J, but it seems to work so far, and I can't imagine straying, can't imagine quitting.  I've carried her, she's carried me (Bono "We've got to carry each other).  

Anyhow to get to the farang/local thing, I don't really think it's that much of an issue.  If I can help her keep face while with me (without the concrete makeup lol), and privately we're in happy company, I don't think farang is really an issue, anymore than colour/race/creed would affect any relationship if you have a meeting of minds, and at least a little in heart.

[bkk6060]

5 hours ago, Ks45672 said:

If Thai vwomen are commodities then i think it will be obvious to most men and even the women that the beautiful ones can command a higher price than their western alternatives..... ???? 

 

Its just simple economics, demand is higher than supply for the finest quality examples 

You are talking about Thai girls?

Sorry, you have been here, right?  Interacted with girls and Falang?

In fact they demand much much less, are much prettier and younger then western alternatives.

And demand is not higher then supply certainly not from the places I have been in Thailand.

 

[grollies]

8 hours ago, neeray said:

I read your link. It looks good on him.

I read it too. I like this bit, and I quote:

 

"She told the court that she had felt scared and ashamed after the incident, adding: ‘I was quite surprised as well. He is quite a handsome man.’

[grollies]

10 hours ago, marcusarelus said:

Wendy Murdoch got rich and that I understand although I wouldn't do Murdoch myself I do understand it and don't get nauseous.

Wendi or Rupert? (albeit the latter may be a bit soggy by now).

[BritManToo]

1 minute ago, grollies said:

I read it too. I like this bit, and I quote:

 

"She told the court that she had felt scared and ashamed after the incident, adding: ‘I was quite surprised as well. He is quite a handsome man.’

I wondered how they managed to prove he had offered money for sex, was her word good enough?

Always deny everything!

[Ks45672]

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I wondered how they managed to prove he had offered money for sex, was her word good enough?

Always deny everything!

Petrol stations have cctv and he apparently made sexual gestures or something and showed her a wad of cash so that back's up her story 

 

Also he left and came back again so doing it twice probably made things worse 

 

He didn't admit it btw

[Ks45672]

8 hours ago, bkk6060 said:

You are talking about Thai girls?

Sorry, you have been here, right?  Interacted with girls and Falang?

In fact they demand much much less, are much prettier and younger then western alternatives.

And demand is not higher then supply certainly not from the places I have been in Thailand.

 

Me and you probably have different ideas about what qualifies as the grade A merchandise in Thailand 

 

Of course all Asian women who take care of themselves will be an huge improvement over those greedy, obese, overfed creaturess from farang land but supply and demand still exists in Thailand

 

There is a lot more demand for the top 10% than the lower 90% regardless what you think

[BritManToo]

3 hours ago, Ks45672 said:

Petrol stations have cctv and he apparently made sexual gestures or something and showed her a wad of cash so that back's up her story 

 

Also he left and came back again so doing it twice probably made things worse 

 

He didn't admit it btw

I was just asking how much the car wash, she indicated she was busy and to come back later  ...............

[BritManToo]

3 hours ago, Ks45672 said:

Me and you probably have different ideas about what qualifies as the grade A merchandise in Thailand

This is my idea of 'grade A', now lets see yours?

[GinBoy2]

I'm losing faith in humanity reading some of you guys

 

What is this, 8th grade male locker room talk?

 

You talk about women like meat, yet curiously they're the same as you, without a dick, and probably better looking

 

Jesus Christ, just Grow Up!

[BritManToo]

2 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said:

yet curiously they're the same as you

Not all that much.

[Henryford]

Agreed a really beautiful western woman probably beats a thai girl but how many of the fat heffers in the UK would you call beautiful. And how many of them would entertain a guy over 50?

[BritManToo]

14 minutes ago, Henryford said:

And how many of them would entertain a guy over 50?

Not much chance if you're over 40!

And even then you'd need a really nice house and car.

[Henryford]

50 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said:

I'm losing faith in humanity reading some of you guys

 

What is this, 8th grade male locker room talk?

 

You talk about women like meat, yet curiously they're the same as you, without a dick, and probably better looking 

 

Jesus Christ, just Grow Up!

Some of the best looking ones even have a dick

[bkk6060]

6 hours ago, GinBoy2 said:

I'm losing faith in humanity reading some of you guys

 

What is this, 8th grade male locker room talk?

 

You talk about women like meat, yet curiously they're the same as you, without a dick, and probably better looking

 

Jesus Christ, just Grow Up!

Yes, believe it or not this is how many men talk.

Maybe at your church they do not.  Not in front of you anyway.

You may be suffering from WMS:   Western Male Syndrome.

Relax, just some guys talking on a website..

[atyclb]

On 7/1/2018 at 5:09 AM, mstevens said:

I think the big thing with Thai women is that they are very, very, very, very, very easy to meet.  Even if a foreign bloke has nothing going for him (no money, no game, no looks and no future), he can still find plenty of Thai women who will give him a chance.  That can cause some to say that Thai women are special, when perhaps what they mean is that Thai women give them a chance when women from their homeland do not.

 

 

sorry may i ask if that has been your own personal experience?

[grollies]

16 hours ago, BritManToo said:

This is my idea of 'grade A', now lets see yours?

Probably more like this:

 

 

[grollies]

20 hours ago, Benroon said:

now i have a little help with the Viagra that no one else except me seems to admit to taking it

and then...

 

20 hours ago, Benroon said:

Pointless to mention it because you'll just call me a liar but I have never popped a Viagra pill

Er, don't quite get your reasoning supperman.

[catman20]

7 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Not much chance if you're over 40!

And even then you'd need a really nice house and car.

the house and car does the trick for me all the time, i exploit it all to the max.????

[GinBoy2]

2 hours ago, bkk6060 said:

Yes, believe it or not this is how many men talk.

Maybe at your church they do not.  Not in front of you anyway.

You may be suffering from WMS:   Western Male Syndrome.

Relax, just some guys talking on a website..

Maybe you're right, but to my ears it's nauseating.

 

Try substituting those Thai women that's it's so much fun to objectify, for your daughter, sister or mother.

 

Bet it doesn't sound half as much the fun banter

[petermik]

7 hours ago, GinBoy2 said:

Maybe you're right, but to my ears it's nauseating.

 

Try substituting those Thai women that's it's so much fun to objectify, for your daughter, sister or mother.

 

Bet it doesn't sound half as much the fun banter

If you find some of the comments are distasteful GinBoy  just move on to another topic and put this one on ignore....quite simple really.......