Whats happened on this forum ?

[Social Media]

Haven't been around on here for awhile, and coming back this weekend was shocked at the responses to some topics by many members here.

 

A simple topic where someone asks for advice or whatever and responses are mostly ridicule, insulting, accusing the OP of lying, is saying "x", is not sayingyx", has a hidden agenda,, or is being paid to post, and more.

 

The autopsy of every word or looking for hidden meaning is just bizarre

What happened here and why is everything seemingly totally over analyzed and disected like that ?

 

Sure as hell put me off posting what I wanted for fear of being attacked, so instead posed this question.

 

Ok, let the "Tear apart" of this begin ????

 

 

[Kwasaki]

What can I say to upset you. ????

[transam]

2 minutes ago, Kwasaki said:

What can I say to upset you. ????

Yes, give us a clue.....????

[Social Media]

I was waiting for , what are you trying to say, whose feeding this to you ? Do you mean this, or did you mean that, ????

[KannikaP]

4 minutes ago, Black Ops said:

Perfect example ! Why even bother with that, you know exactly epwhat I was trying to say, and yet, there we have it, besides being againt forum netiquette to do so as well, Amazing 

I know it is the perfect example, you wanted it tearing apart, so I did. Now what does epwhat and againt mean.   LOL.. (Look, I am joking! ). 

But I do agree with you, some of the arguments/discussions on here, and 'over the water' are ridiculous.

Edited September 21, 2021 by KannikaP

[Mac Mickmanus]

Some people are sat at home , bored and nothing to do , an underlying feeling of frustration , their brain has slowed down and nearly come to a halt and the only thing they have left to do is criticise others and argue and complain 

[hotandsticky]

1 minute ago, Mac Mickmanus said:

Some people are sat at home , bored and nothing to do , an underlying feeling of frustration , their brain has slowed down and nearly come to a halt and the only thing they have left to do is criticise others and argue and complain 

 

 

It seems more prevalent on this forum than others    (where many ex TV posters are switching to).

[transam]

3 minutes ago, Black Ops said:

Actually, yes I am, thanks for pointing out my disability.

I can highly recommend LT grammar and spell check Google ad on, I never leave home without it...????

[transam]

3 minutes ago, Mac Mickmanus said:

Some people are sat at home , bored and nothing to do , an underlying feeling of frustration , their brain has slowed down and nearly come to a halt and the only thing they have left to do is criticise others and argue and complain 

I have the T-shirt.....????

[madmen]

It's pretty much the same 20 posters driving the hate on the forums. Miserable old gits stuck near a jungle somewhere with nothing better do 24/7

[LongTimeLurker]

2 minutes ago, Black Ops said:

No I dont find it necessary to highlight others mistakes as you seem to enjoy doing.

I thought it's what you wanted, hence the OP.

[Rimmer]

Spelling police posts removed

[BobinBKK]

What kind of nonsense post is this to ridicule those of us who ridicule others? You are far worse than we are! You are so bad ????   hahahahahaha

[Antonymous]

9 minutes ago, hotandsticky said:

 

 

It seems more prevalent on this forum than others    (where many ex TV posters are switching to).

I have seen this unnamed 'other forum' mentioned half a dozen times by different members now.

 

Which forum is it? This is a genuine question. Surely it isn't something top secret. There is still SOME free speech allowed on TV/aseannow. Please name it.

[Social Media]

Thanks to those who proved my point exactly and so quickly. I will know better than to come here and post again.

 

In the words of a well known show, "I'm out" 

This really isnt a good environment in which to participate.

[thaibeachlovers]

31 minutes ago, Black Ops said:

I was waiting for , what are you trying to say, whose feeding this to you ? Do you mean this, or did you mean that, ????

Perhaps a little thing like corona lockups making people PO and wanting to vent.

Anyway, I haven't seen anything different since before world news was eliminated, except certain posters from there are now lurking on other subforums IMO looking for someone to attack. Back then they more or less stayed on that forum, so one may not have noticed them.

[thaibeachlovers]

4 minutes ago, Black Ops said:

Thanks to those who proved my point exactly and so quickly. I will know better than to come here and post again.

 

In the words of a well known show, "I'm out" 

This really isnt a good environment in which to participate.

Bye, it's been real.

[86Tiger]

 

I too have noticed the increase in bitterness over past few months.

 

Sad really. I use the forum to try to keep up with current events in LOS and learn from questions /experiences of others.   I try really hard to simply ignore all the negativity and bickering. 

 

But it is getting more difficult.

[thaibeachlovers]

1 minute ago, 86Tiger said:

 

I too have noticed the increase in bitterness over past few months.

 

Sad really. I use the forum to try to keep up with current events in LOS and learn from questions /experiences of others.   I try really hard to simply ignore all the negativity and bickering. 

 

But it is getting more difficult.

You do realise that you are posting on "The Pub", do you not? For information about current events in LOS, this is not the subforum to be on, IMO.

[Rampant Rabbit]

1 hour ago, Kwasaki said:

What can I say to upset you. ????

Woahhhhhhhh let me jump in first, what is it with "you  "  people???? me first eh eh eh eh????

[StreetCowboy]

17 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Bye, it's been real.

Normally we would grade a flounce, giving it marks out of ten, or out of a window, or something.

 

If he was looking for justification for a flounce, he went the right way about getting it.

If he'd wanted a more constructive discussion, he might have chosen a more constructive ending than "Let the tear-apart begin", which seemed to be inviting trouble.

 

I don't see much more negativity on this forum than previously, but you have to bear in mind that people are restricted in their viewpoints, and prefer to argue rather than taking on board and accepting what the other party says - of which this is a prime example, refusing to accept the negative accusations labelled at the forum in general, and instead contrarily arguing positively.

 

I suppose some of us are just deliberately contrary, as the OP says.

[tubby johnson]

It has been like that since day one.  Full of bitter trolls and bored pensioners.

[lopburi3]

41 minutes ago, hotandsticky said:

 

 

It seems more prevalent on this forum than others    (where many ex TV posters are switching to).

Actually did not find that true - much worse on other forum with many quacks  posting to support a cause IMHO.  This remains the best forum for Thailand but as noted it has lost a lot of posters due to various reasons this year and some of the new blood has indeed not exactly been helpful.  But this seems to be the internet - every decade or so new communication paths open and old ones start to die.  It is a TikTok age - obviously some of us did not make the cut.

[simon43]

Lockdowns seem to have affected the mental health of many forum members....  But others are simply too sensitive and struggle to survive in the 'real world'.  Remember the old adage "sticks and stones..."

 

Personally, I don't give a **** if someone disrespects me (whatever that phrase means!),  or is rude to me, talks down to me etc etc.  I just put them on ignore to save wasting my time on reading their **** ????

Edited September 21, 2021 by simon43

[thaibeachlovers]

13 minutes ago, StreetCowboy said:

Normally we would grade a flounce, giving it marks out of ten, or out of a window, or something.

 

If he was looking for justification for a flounce, he went the right way about getting it.

If he'd wanted a more constructive discussion, he might have chosen a more constructive ending than "Let the tear-apart begin", which seemed to be inviting trouble.

 

I don't see much more negativity on this forum than previously, but you have to bear in mind that people are restricted in their viewpoints, and prefer to argue rather than taking on board and accepting what the other party says - of which this is a prime example, refusing to accept the negative accusations labelled at the forum in general, and instead contrarily arguing positively.

 

I suppose some of us are just deliberately contrary, as the OP says.

LOL. Check the OP's gender.

[bobbin]

36 minutes ago, Black Ops said:

Thanks to those who proved my point exactly and so quickly. I will know better than to come here and post again.

 

 

 

yeah.. you had a pretty good idea your point would be proven.. and now you're gone..

 

Somewhat akin to lobbing a hand grenade through the kitchen window as you walk by..

 

BTW, you know what they say about kitchens.. " If you can't stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen.."

[HAPPYNUFF]

Thats strange, seeing as how I   dropped out of two other "forums"  , actually bitch clubs,  to join up here.  I find it the best by far, especially the Real Estate section, or rather the sub headings there,  for  advice, help and assistance  for  work around the house..   To each his own I suppose.

[BangkokReady]

I find your lack of willingness to tolerate intolerance intolerable!

[CrunchWrapSupreme]

This place is tame compared to Reddit. ????

[BangkokReady]

2 minutes ago, CrunchWrapSupreme said:

This place is tame compared to Reddit. ????

"You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy."