My husband of 48 years keeps disappearing to Thailand and sending hundreds of pounds there every month - but when I question him he says it's 'none of my business'

[wazzupnow]

7 hours ago, wazzupnow said:

this is Thailand why you think it is a TGF and not a TBF hey maybe this is why its none of her business

https://www.tiktok.com/@webdevil33/video/7194180917139606790

 

[ThailandRyan]

How long has she got is why the husband started doing his business over here it appears. But as another poster on here has alluded to, it ain't cheap to get a divorce in the UK and he seems to be hedging his bets for now that she won't file for divorce and is why he is visiting and possibly building a flush bank account....but then I could be totally wrong.

[Stargeezr]

Short answer is, Julie, is Mia Noi.  

  Good Luck.

[Boomer6969]

What's so special about this story. Just like me 10 years ago, and it happens all the time. When I left I hadn't slept with the old woman for 15 years.

[OneMoreFarang]

I think Julie should be grateful that her husband still returns regularly to her. 

The alternative is that the husband will spend all his time and all his money in Thailand. No time and no money for Julie anymore.

 

And remember, there are many many temples in Thailand. It takes forever to visit them all.

 

[RandolphGB]

All perfectly honest and above board. He’s doing grueling charity work for The Single Mothers Of Isan Foundation.

[roo860]

Good lad, get it spent, enjoy yaself.

Seriously, seems a bit of a BS story. 

[kamahele]

Open your own bank account. Get a lawyer.

[Denim]

On Tuesday she should ask hubby to drop her off at the airport. She is flying to Gambia to take golf lessons. Then start sending honey there to pay for her lessons.

Then put a picture of her instructor on the bedroom wall. An athletic looking Gambian man with bulges in all the right places. Any questions ? None of hubbys business. .

[JayClay]

1 hour ago, HuskerDo2 said:

You are a fool. Your stupidity is beyond belief. You come to a msg board to find some sort of sympathy

It's always wise to read more than just the topic title before you start calling others fools.

[brianthainess]

1 hour ago, 2baht said:

He's got a Thai girlfriend, Julie, why don't you just go and get one yourself!

Maybe She doesn't have any lesbian inklings.  

[Dexxter]

1 hour ago, spidermike007 said:

Either that, or he is a student of Sukhothai architecture, and cannot stay away from it for long. 

Not sure why I read that as "Suck Hot Thai"

[brianthainess]

2 minutes ago, Dexxter said:

Not sure why I read that as "Suck Hot Thai"

No it's 'Suck HO Thai' 

[PingRoundTheWorld]

After 48 years of marriage, and working for his pension - let the guy have some fun while he's still breathing. The reason he's doing it "spontaneously" is likely because he doesn't want to deal with the nagging and drama or even worse - requests to take her with him. Some women seem to think they are entitled to be the final say in everything - grave error in the long run - wouldn't be surprised if he took her <deleted> for decades and finally broke and decided he just doesn't give a **** anymore.

[rwill]

hmmm....  It's not April 1st yet.

[PingRoundTheWorld]

41 minutes ago, RandolphGB said:

All perfectly honest and above board. He’s doing grueling charity work for The Single Mothers Of Isan Foundation.

Financing development, agriculture, and livestock for the less fortunate. He's one of many saints.

[roo860]

2 hours ago, goatfarmer said:

Audi alteram partem: you can't draw a conclusion about what is going on until you hear both sides. 

What's an an Audi got to do with it?????

[kotsak]

1 hour ago, Andycoops said:

You don't have to be a nuclear scientist to know what is going on.

 

He clearly sends money to his TGF and visits her.

Nah... I think he just likes visiting for the beaches and temples. 

 

[kotsak]

3 minutes ago, roo860 said:

What's an an Audi got to do with it?????

Audi as in audio, auditorium, etc.

 

Of course I would prefer a R8 ????

 

 

[thailand49]

Marriage is a two way street,  this type of behavior by any party is unacceptable " none of your business "

I suggest she wake up and smell the coffee and start to protect herself first and foremost the bank account. 

Next time he leaves  pack all his things set it at the door outside  change the lock get a good lawyer make the decision for him. 

 

[kingstonkid]

4 hours ago, ukrules said:

Maybe he's got another family going in Thailand, you don't need to be married to have another family.

 

It doesn't matter if his wife in the UK is Thai, nobody cares.

 

If they split it will almost certainly be a 50/50 split, he will move to Thailand and her, well she will be left with half the price of whatever house they live in once it's sold.

 

If they split she will get more than 50%>. He will lose everything and end up paying her support.

 

Let's face it he will have a hard time getting a court that will sympathy with him.

 

The reason he hasn't divorced or left her is he knows he would be screwed.

[me4175]

Better get a divorce ASAP before their savings are all gone. We all know how chaps like this one usually end up...

[shackleton]

If he is sending money to Thailand  and visiting regularly he probably has 

a young Thai girl of the night who he is visiting and looking after ????

There will be plenty of other  guys doing the same ????

If the wife is that concerned have it out with him and  go their own way 

[soalbundy]

1 hour ago, jaywalker said:

Jerry Springer meets the UK.

 

Both are morons.. Get a divorce.

Why bother at that age, allow the status quo. After 48 years it's not a broken heart through a lost love, just disappointment and hurt pride, he too will wake up to the truth of what is really going on, let him have his last fling and don't make waves, you may get drowned.

[Thomas KH]

3 hours ago, ezzra said:

I'll take a wild guess here, he's donating this money to the poor and needy of Thailand and engaged in charity work in Pattaya waling street. 

Finally, someone who makes sense.  I've been banging my head against a brick wall trying to decipher his motives. It all makes sense now. Thanks

[Harveyboy]

2 hours ago, Andycoops said:

You don't have to be a nuclear scientist to know what is going on.

 

He clearly sends money to his TGF and visits her.

Wow must be a Hamsun Man if he can get a Thai girl..

[soalbundy]

Just now, Harveyboy said:

Wow must be a Hamsun Man if he can get a Thai girl..

A hansome wallet more likely

[ignore it]

Seen in recent Thai media;

Dear Auntie Paun 
My boyfriend England and we care each other too much. 
He goes back his country a lot to take care for his old sister who is sick too much. He talk she die soon.
When he gone he send little money, but we ok now tourist begin come back Thailand. My massage, beauty shop,  nail salon make money enough.
Should I make visa to go visit his sister?

[swm59nj]

Just another normal situation in the LOS

[mberbae]

He is supporting a Thai woman ( and or family ) most likely.

Leave him and let him sink or swim on his own here.