Where should she look for a normal farang?

 

Not on AseanNow. 

16 minutes ago, fusion58 said:

Obviously! ????

Yep the real question is....

 

Can you find me a rich husband?

5 minutes ago, 473geo said:

Yep the real question is....

 

Can you find me a rich husband?

I guess most Thais realize that most farangs who live here have higher salaries than Thais. I think the minimum salary to get a work permit is now about 50k per month.

That is definitely a lot more than the average Thai person makes. 

9 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Joined June 2016 hence the 'confused'.

 

8 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Do you know what they think?

Or do you think you know what they think because you project your (dirty) thoughts on them.

Personally, I don't know what they think, and I don't pretend I know what they think.

Does that make me a cynic and you naive? I guess we'll never know, but I can confirm I'm a cynic.

9 minutes ago, Sticky Rice Balls said:

Ive always been frank and earnest with the thai ladies

 

Im Earnest in CM and Frank in Pattaya   ????

 

But alas my last thai wife asked if I was ignorant or just being apathetic...

 

I said I dont know and I dont care!

Got anything from this millennium?  

I would think get a job in at a western company, or at the desk of a nice condominium. 

 

Hotel desk makes no sense to me. Shure, you meet a lot, but they're generally only here for a short time, are married, have a girlfriend or they're looking to bang anything that moves. 

I think most men are looking to bang anything that moves, anywhere, in any setting. Solution is a man over 60? I bet lots of over 60s will chime in now, there may be snow on the roof but there's fire in the hearth, right?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

8 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Good post.

 

What I mean with "normal guy" is a guy who eventually wants to have a long-term gf or wife and live together with her. Maybe kids and all that.

She is realistic enough that it's unlikely that she will get the most handsome guy who is also rich and does everything for her. So at least her expectations, as far as I know, are reasonable. 

I have a friend in Bangkok working there, and it doesnt seem to easy to find a decent girl to be with. First of all to many fish in the water to catch the right one, and the redicolous dating games these days take the breath away from any decent man. 

 

Meaning go stupid social media important places, take selfies, dress funny, and act stupid if you get what I mean. Another fact is that many asian girls do not see themselves as tied up before married, and can date and talk to many at the same time, and finely pick the best offer. True or false? 

 

How easy is it to find an easy going lady in Thailand who have education, good work, no kids, and no stupid sin sod expectations? 

 

 

3 minutes ago, Sticky Rice Balls said:

i once put it in a bowl of soup as it was a nice temp

 

also tried it with a snake but kept getting away from me....

 

saving up for japanese robot sex doll..... ????  

 

*rides off to market to buy a melon*

Thanks for reminding me why I only post here from time to time to alleviate extreme boredom, and only as a last resort.

 

 

 

 

19 minutes ago, Hummin said:

I have a friend in Bangkok working there, and it doesnt seem to easy to find a decent girl to be with. First of all to many fish in the water to catch the right one, and the redicolous dating games these days take the breath away from any decent man. 

 

Meaning go stupid social media important places, take selfies, dress funny, and act stupid if you get what I mean. Another fact is that many asian girls do not see themselves as tied up before married, and can date and talk to many at the same time, and finely pick the best offer. True or false? 

 

How easy is it to find an easy going lady in Thailand who have education, good work, no kids, and no stupid sin sod expectations? 

 

 

At least one interested in a piker. 

 

At my work, many nice, single women were interested in the western guys, but they were not interested in the guys that were just sport-fuc*ing. 

 

In this regard, Thai women are generally much smarter than western women. 

 

6 minutes ago, Yellowtail said:

At least one interested in a piker. 

 

At my work, many nice, single women were interested in the western guys, but they were not interested in the guys that were just sport-fuc*ing. 

 

In this regard, Thai women are generally much smarter than western women. 

 

If both have interest in each other, the most normal thing is to F their brains out. Thats what normal people do, when they fall in love and have good chemistry! 

 

People who just take one because they need one, might not have the same experience. 

 

Picking a good one and make a smart choice might end up as dead sea in the bed room.

3 minutes ago, Hummin said:

If both have interest in each other, the most normal thing is to F their brains out. Thats what normal people do, when they fall in love and have good chemistry! 

 

People who just take one because they need one, might not have the same experience. 

 

Picking a good one and make a smart choice might end up as dead sea in the bed room.

That's what normal hedonistic narcissists like to do anyway.

 

Stream some porn while you're going at it, maybe you'll get some "likes" and make some new "friends" as well!

 

 

Just now, Yellowtail said:

That's what normal hedonistic narcissists like to do anyway.

 

Stream some porn while you're going at it, maybe you'll get some "likes" and make some new "friends" as well!

 

 

Sounds like missed the fun part of falling in love 

4 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Sounds like missed the fun part of falling in love 

I sorry you never got to feel the real part that lasts a lifetime. 

 

I fell in love any number of times and sex any number of times before I ever heard of Thailand. 

 

You crack me up.  

 

5 minutes ago, Yellowtail said:

I sorry you never got to feel the real part that lasts a lifetime. 

 

I fell in love any number of times and sex any number of times before I ever heard of Thailand. 

 

You crack me up.  

 

A lifetime still have to be proven by both of us! For some a lifetime could mean 40 more years to go, like me if Im getting as old as my family relatives.

 

Do not brake yourself up! 

19 hours ago, Led Lolly Yellow Lolly said:

Seriously, when I first started posting on TV back in 2003, a topic like this on a Friday night would be two pages long at least. All the interesting characters are long gone.

Just out of interest, If you started posting in 2003, why are you member 261,089?

 

From Simon43 (member #174 from 2003)

13 minutes ago, simon43 said:

Just out of interest, If you started posting in 2003, why are you member 261,089?

 

From Simon43 (member #174 from 2003)

Maybe a right-winger...

20 minutes ago, simon43 said:

Just out of interest, If you started posting in 2003, why are you member 261,089?

 

From Simon43 (member #174 from 2003)

 

I addressed this question umpteen times (including with you). My original member ID was in the low hundreds, and I was sharing personal information. I later realised I wanted more anonymity in a forum like this, so have had multiple incarnations since.

 

 

 

 

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What is normal? You never know. In the beginning there might be a click.

It looks like you are compatible to each other. Then it changes in short or longer time.

Then "normal" is gone. Normal doesnt exist, it is just a moment in time, you think and experience a "normal" and then it fades away.

Or you must consider that breaking up, changing in feelings is a normal thing today(ever?). You should. I have met and seen a lot with this. 

 

Your 30 yo woman, if she wants , she just tries, all is a shot in the dark.

Results in the past, arent a (+/-) guarantee for the future.

 

I knew a Thai woman, she got married with an Aussie, took her there and expected her to sleep with his friends?! His first wife was an Australian hooker, which he also saw in his mariage with the Thai. 

A Dutch guy married an ambitious woman in Pattya, had her own small company.

He was once married (Dutch) and had organized sex parties with his first wife.

OK, if you like and wife also, your choice, normal for you

He also wanted to turn the Thai woman, to do so. In the meantime she was working , he was visiting other ladies. He hadnt told her (yet) about his "plans".

 

You saw the movie once in AN? Thai gf and bf, he beated the hell out off her for.. ?

Just smashing her with his fist, on daytime with many Thai witnesses (doing nothing), so thats Thai way? It is still in my mind, how such a movie can impact you.

Yeah it amazes me, you can run into such situations sometimes.

But it can also be the other way around.

 

A Dutch guy was just married to a Thai and corona just started when he left, so difficult to travel for 2 years. So after quite some time, he went to her finally. He was happy feeling to see his wife. And then when he arrived and they saw each other, the first thing his wife asked: Why are you so late?

It really knocked me of my chair, laughing.

It reminded me on a same event with my wife to be then. My transportation was a motorbike then and it was a real november, cold, rain. So when I arrived soaking wet and cold, she said: why are you so late?

However THAT was already a sign, considered to the future. At that time I should have turnend back home, even with rain and cold. It is not "normal"?

So after I stopped laughing, I felt sorry for the guy. 

 

To find someone for real, it is rare, it is not just "normal" or you have to adapt a new normal.  

You saw this week, gf is lying and changing, married woman addicted to card gambling and changing, son running from dad due to divorce. And those guys werent really poor. what is normal?

 

Where to find a "normal" farang? Can be anywhere or nowhere, same as finding that woman. If she doesnt take any action then she will not have any farang. She wants but she hesitates, time goes on and she still wants kids(?). 

Once saw a docu about UK guys in Thailand, one was very happy with his ladyboy. At least he said. That was a once married to woman man. He had his son come over to spend time in his life with the ladyboy.
Tell me what is normal? A hot sexy bargirl can be normal for you, if it is in your boundaries of normal.

Recommending her where to find a normal farang, can differ from her perspective.

18 hours ago, Hummin said:

I find it quite remarkable you calling other working girls trash, when the same women working at hotels, 7/11 and restaurants do the same as the other trash girls after working hours. 

Thai women who work in 7/11s and hotels work as prostitutes after they finish work?  Is that what you're saying?

 

Seems a little close to "all Thai women are prostitutes".

 

What's wrong with liking hotel receptionists and not liking prostitutes?

1 hour ago, Hummin said:

If both have interest in each other, the most normal thing is to F their brains out. Thats what normal people do, when they fall in love and have good chemistry!

Some women have figured out that a lot of men do not want commitment, they just want to have sex with women for a while and leave them.  To try to avoid these types of people, they are careful who they have sex with and avoid what the person you replied to calls "sport f*ckers".

 

Obviously some women like to sleep around also, but not the sensible one or those looking to get married.

19 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

If a guy arrives in Thailand and that nice hotel receptionist smiles at him, will he ask her out? Probably not, because he thinks it's her job to smile at him and what if she says no? How dare you? She, as the receptionist, would obviously also not ask him. Good girls don't do that, especially not at work.

Thai women can also be extremely flirtatious.  I've encountered a number that have behaved in a way that back home would suggest they are interested in me, only to find out at some point that they aren't actually single.  This is also not good for a shy person, as it means that one of the subtler ways of expressing/sensing interest is totally unreliable.

1 hour ago, BangkokReady said:

Some women have figured out that a lot of men do not want commitment, they just want to have sex with women for a while and leave them.  To try to avoid these types of people, they are careful who they have sex with and avoid what the person you replied to calls "sport f*ckers".

 

Obviously some women like to sleep around also, but not the sensible one or those looking to get married.

I guess that must be difficult for "good" Thai women.

If they deny sex for a long time, then maybe the guy gets bored and goes somewhere else - there are more than enough opportunities.

And if they give in early, then that behavior is also open for interpretation.

I guess it's difficult for them.

2 hours ago, BangkokReady said:

Some women have figured out that a lot of men do not want commitment, they just want to have sex with women for a while and leave them.  To try to avoid these types of people, they are careful who they have sex with and avoid what the person you replied to calls "sport f*ckers".

 

Obviously some women like to sleep around also, but not the sensible one or those looking to get married.

Obviously some women like to sleep around also, but not with the sensible one or those looking to get married! 

 

Yes, I know, I have been around a few of those while they obviously had a few on gras, who they acted like a primadonna to. 

 

To be true, Thailand have them all, just hard to know what you finely end up with, if not a bar lady, you can only be positively surprised in the future if everything goes well. 

2 hours ago, BangkokReady said:

Thai women who work in 7/11s and hotels work as prostitutes after they finish work?  Is that what you're saying?

 

Seems a little close to "all Thai women are prostitutes".

 

What's wrong with liking hotel receptionists and not liking prostitutes?

Read my reply in context to the one I replied, and not stand alone typed.

 

 

Join a fitness club, have lunch with colleagues in an outdoor food market where Thai and foreign staff from MNCs and other companies go, etc.

 

Apart from the above the OP should have ideas. 

On 7/8/2023 at 12:19 AM, OneMoreFarang said:

Can you explain that please.

Maybe she had bad experience with a Thai guy, or two, and somehow she thinks farangs are better.

This is a woman who works in the middle of Bangkok. Farangs are not really exotic here. 

After work ???? Bangkok Thursday Hash House Harriers. 

I always get asked if I have single friends (probably the same as any farang in Thailand).

 

If they are serious, I have to recommend that they actually go to a western country and join social media over there. The odds are against them meeting a single, available, decent/average sort of bloke in Thailand. Out here in rural Isan, every local farang they meet on social media will be attached (whether they admit it or not).

 

In Thailand, there are dozens of women for every reasonably presentable farang. In western countries, the odds are usually the other way around.

 

My wife sometimes takes her single friends to Australia and signs them up to a paid dating site. I'm talking about Thai women in their late thirties/fourties who are presentable. The girl will always get dozens of requests and my wife usually lines up interviews with half a dozen of the most promising. A non-negotiable rule is that the guy must not be a regular visitor to Thailand.

 

If a girl is serious about meeting a farang, she must do her best to learn English and save to holiday or study in a western country. Forget about dating a bloke who is a regular visitor to Thailand.