My chances and options with thai women

[ericthai]

On 7/9/2020 at 11:51 AM, kingofthemountain said:

How many years do you have to wait exactly?

I am now on my 2nd year trying to do my best

but still only the large men with beards

I heard 3 yrs, just wait a little longer!! 

[Tagged]

Interesting to see the whole theme being recycled once again, with same outcome. As I said, your best chance is a Thai Bride company, who do all the searching for you, and you will get exactly what you want from skin tone, hair, height, weight, education, kids, family, and so on, and you will know what she will expect from you, and she your wishes. No surprises or hidden ghosts. 

[JRG23]

You for real?

[billybog]

lolol  from what you wrote...you will be fleeced like a  golden duck....lollolol   come on down...lol

[elgenon]

If you're normal life would be difficult. It's the adventurous that do well. : )

[izod10]

Give it a miss,get a dog  (four legged type)

[SteveK]

Try and find a girl who owns her own house. That's what I did and it made things a lot easier.

[tonray]

On 7/9/2020 at 8:44 PM, Jjjjjjj said:

When i was younger some cute girls liked me. Now im too old in Europe, and my game

here is done.

Pretty much says it all

[Berkshire]

9 hours ago, Jjjjjjj said:

There is some hatred against me in this thread.

I never did mention that i will treat women bad. Im a nice guy.

So, keep your comments to yourself, and lets keep this thread in its theme.

 

Not sure what you've heard about Thailand, but I'm certain it's not reality.  There are some Thai women who are in desperate situations and would love anyone--foreigner or otherwise--to bail them out.  What you're offering is not very appealing.  You want a young Thai girl with no kids to move out of Thailand to some cold place and work (because you've got no money).  So she has to leave her family and friends and Thai culture to be with someone with whom she can barely communicate.  Even if you were to find such a girl, it wouldn't last.

 

An attractive 23 yr old with no kids has many better options than you.  I'm sorry, but you need to lower your expectations. 

[RocketDog]

On 7/9/2020 at 8:58 PM, A1Str8 said:

You have very good chances. All you have to do is dress up nicely, have some good manners and go talk to girls.

The best ways to find good girls: nurses in hospitals, girls working in libraries, cafe shops, stores inside malls etc.

Just normal places where normal people work. 

The best ones you can find in small towns, villages. Or those working in factories. They are young, and uncorrupted by the sick society we live in. 

You simply go talk to them. Make some small talk. Ask for their number. Ask them out. That's all it takes.

Good advice. I might add that learning to speak Thai would be a helpful skill as well. Nearly all the women you described will not speak English. 

[brianthainess]

On 7/9/2020 at 8:44 PM, Jjjjjjj said:

 

a: is this thing even for me

b: do i have a chance with there young ladies?

a: NO

b: NO

[owl sees all]

On 7/9/2020 at 8:58 PM, A1Str8 said:

You have very good chances. All you have to do is dress up nicely, have some good manners and go talk to girls.

The best ways to find good girls: nurses in hospitals, girls working in libraries, cafe shops, stores inside malls etc.

Just normal places where normal people work. 

The best ones you can find in small towns, villages. Or those working in factories. They are young, and uncorrupted by the sick society we live in. 

You simply go talk to them. Make some small talk. Ask for their number. Ask them out. That's all it takes.

Great post. Great advice.

 

So much negativity on here. A lot of jealousy too. You are just 37, and have a potential great life ahead. Most of the posters on TVForum would like to be 40 years younger, to have another crack.

 

Now as far as the ladies go:

 

Must try to meet them before they learn the tricks of gold-digging. If you want a young lady that is ready for love and commitment, must get them from areas that you feel comfortable with. If you like swimming; join a swimming club. Fencing; get in there. Want to learn to ride a horse; girls all over the place. Like to lift weights; join a weightlifting group (Papawadee was a gold medalist and everyone's hot fantasy).

 

Have to be careful on the internet platforms. Things are not always as they seem.

 

 

[Pilotman]

20 minutes ago, owl sees all said:

Great post. Great advice.

 

So much negativity on here. A lot of jealousy too. You are just 37, and have a potential great life ahead. Most of the posters on TVForum would like to be 40 years younger, to have another crack.

 

Now as far as the ladies go:

 

Must try to meet them before they learn the tricks of gold-digging. If you want a young lady that is ready for love and commitment, must get them from areas that you feel comfortable with. If you like swimming; join a swimming club. Fencing; get in there. Want to learn to ride a horse; girls all over the place. Like to lift weights; join a weightlifting group (Papawadee was a gold medalist and everyone's hot fantasy).

 

Have to be careful on the internet platforms. Things are not always as they seem.

 

 

at 37 I was at one of the heights of my career, so should this person be, not drivelling on about Thai woman and finding love.  I can never understand how younger men come to Thailand to basically drop out of 'real life' and bum around  in second class employment until they get old.  My advice, stop whining, and get on with building a career and a life. This is not the place for either for a man bordering on middle age.  

[owl sees all]

36 minutes ago, Pilotman said:

at 37 I was at one of the heights of my career, so should this person be, not drivelling on about Thai woman and finding love.  I can never understand how younger men come to Thailand to basically drop out of 'real life' and bum around  in second class employment until they get old.  My advice, stop whining, and get on with building a career and a life. This is not the place for either for a man bordering on middle age.  

The OP'er is obviously a romantic.

 

Not everyone sees the life in front of him the same. Remember Pilotman; 

 

Love is the sweetest thing
What else on earth could ever bring
Such happiness to everything

 

 

[Pilotman]

4 minutes ago, owl sees all said:

The OP'er is obviously a romantic.

 

Not everyone sees the life in front of him the same. Remember Pilotman; 

 

Love is the sweetest thing
What else on earth could ever bring
Such happiness to everything

 

 

That may be fine in the eyes of some, until they get near to retirement age, with no pension and very little cash put aside.  Thats when a wasted life comes into focus, when it is too late.  I have seen numerous examples here in Thailand, people who came in early middle age, thinking they were living the dream, only to find out that their prospects  and future was a bleak older age.  Love is not much good to you then, even if you have found it.  

[CorpusChristie]

On 7/9/2020 at 8:58 PM, A1Str8 said:

You have very good chances. All you have to do is dress up nicely, have some good manners and go talk to girls.

The best ways to find good girls: nurses in hospitals, girls working in libraries, cafe shops, stores inside malls etc.

Just normal places where normal people work. 

 

You mean, walk around hospitals and asking nurses whether they wanted to get married to you or not ?

[owl sees all]

1 minute ago, CorpusChristie said:

You mean, walk around hospitals and asking nurses whether they wanted to get married to you or not ?

Depends.

 

Could go to a hospital and help an old biddy get to her seat. Find out where the nurses eat. Select a nice one and follow her home to her village. Whack your finger with a hammer and go to a clinic where some nice 'uns are.

 

Personally I'm not into nurses. Not into uniforms at all really. I like girls who lift weights.

[AlfHuy]

58 minutes ago, CorpusChristie said:

You mean, walk around hospitals and asking nurses whether they wanted to get married to you or not ?

I would prefer the Doctor.

[AlfHuy]

55 minutes ago, owl sees all said:

Depends.

 

Could go to a hospital and help an old biddy get to her seat. Find out where the nurses eat. Select a nice one and follow her home to her village. Whack your finger with a hammer and go to a clinic where some nice 'uns are.

 

Personally I'm not into nurses. Not into uniforms at all really. I like girls who lift weights.

Something like that? Yak

Imagine her, sitting on your face, lol.

[owl sees all]

29 minutes ago, AlfHuy said:

Something like that? Yak

Imagine her, sitting on your face, lol.

Imagine her sitting on yer face. Couldn't get her off. I can't breathe.

 

But I was thinking more of:

 

 

Some lovely pics of Prapawadee on TVForum by George (founder member and still contributing) in August 2008.

""

This woman from a nothing background to take OLYMPIC GOLD, who only recently recovered from a severe injury to her whole left arm that occurred at another weight-lifting event recently and for which they showed a clip of on the program... while lifting and she was going for the clean, her left arm collapsed as it looked like her bicep had ruptured... taken off in a stretcher. Then return to training.... and eventually, Beijing.

 

From this she comes out of nowhere... and commences to exceed the highest weight ever hoisted by anyone of her dimensions. You could legitimately consider her the strongest woman in the world at 52 kilos.

Heck of a story...

 

Prapawadee Jaroenrattanatarakoon... Heck of a name...

 

""

 

 

[samtab]

if you are like me you will screw hundreds non pro and you won't be able to stop ! 15 years later i am still screwing ! Why choosing anyone when the buffet is unlimited ?!

 

 

[RocketDog]

17 hours ago, Jjjjjjj said:

why bang 50 brasses first?

For the simple reason that you learn a lot about a field by playing on it for a while. 

You learn much about what you really want in a woman by seeing what you really don't want. 

It's called experience, and there's only one way to get it: you experience it. 

[garygooner]

I would have expected a post like this to have been written by someone far younger than 37!!!

Why even post? 

Come here, look around, talk to women, see what you think. Lol. 

[khunPer]

6 hours ago, SteveK said:

Try and find a girl who owns her own house. That's what I did and it made things a lot easier.

Right you are...???? 

A fellow countryman asked me some advise about marriage to Thai lady he had met, and I tried kindly to recommend him to have prenuptial made before. He however answered me that he was not afraid of loosing anything, because he owned nothing, whilst the lady in question was single owner a quite big beach resort...????

[cerox]

19 minutes ago, garygooner said:

I would have expected a post like this to have been written by someone far younger than 37!!!

Why even post? 

Come here, look around, talk to women, see what you think. Lol. 

Cannot 555

Thailand closed. No plans to open.

Why do we even think about it.

[CorpusChristie]

So the OP wants a young educated pretty Thai woman, (with no children) to quite her job fly to his Country and live there and get a menial job to pay her own way and to help with the mortgage payments on his house he hopes to buy and also to produce a few kids in her spare time .

   I suggest the OP comes to Thailand , gives out his hotel address and then he can choose from the queues of Ladies that fit that criteria, who will be lined up outside his room, passports in hand  , excitingly hoping to be the chosen one 

[transam]

28 minutes ago, khunPer said:

Right you are...???? 

A fellow countryman asked me some advise about marriage to Thai lady he had met, and I tried kindly to recommend him to have prenuptial made before. He however answered me that he was not afraid of loosing anything, because he owned nothing, whilst the lady in question was single owner a quite big beach resort...????

...........which her ex farang husband financed..............????

[khunPer]

14 hours ago, Jjjjjjj said:

There is some hatred against me in this thread.

I never did mention that i will treat women bad. Im a nice guy.

So, keep your comments to yourself, and lets keep this thread in its theme.

I'm sorry about your problems with European girls, but I think you misunderstand the answers in this thread, it's not "hatred against" you, but merely telling you the fact that your chances for finding an close to half your age Thai girl is extremely limited without being a good provider.

 

Try to think of how it was back in time in Europe, some 80-100 years ago before ladies began to work, at that time a marriage for a girl mainly was the question of finding a good provider for a future family. In many ways the Thai culture is quite similar to how Europen culture once was, 75-100 years ago.

 

When I was single in my mid 40s and up to 50, I could have a lot of interest from single ladies around 40. But not having a family yet – i.e. child/children – a future partner should be within a reasonable range to produce some. I was not really interested in those abandoned "old" single moms, I would be way more interested in their daughters close to 20????, but middle aged men and young girls are not well seen in Europe, unless you are famous or rich, preferably both; average handsome is unfortunately not enough...????

 

I had read in a book that when a man pass the age of 40, he enters "the payment class", and I just had to accept that facts...

 

Luckily I still had a few years to save up some money – that seemed easier than instantly become famous in a relative old age – and as my savings were far from enough for the European level, Southeast Asia were an option to gain some "genuine" interest from young ladies in their early 20s.

 

Unfortunately this seem to be quite common facts, but always look at the bright side of life: At 37 you still have plenty of chances to within a few years save some money, and get "genuine" interest from girls in their early 20s – I talk from extremely positive experience, the only difficult part was to choose...????

 

 

[khunPer]

5 minutes ago, transam said:

...........which her ex farang husband financed..............????

Actually not, she has inherited it, she is from an old Chinese family...????

[transam]

1 minute ago, khunPer said:

Actually not, she has inherited it, she is from an old Chinese family...????

Well most of the blokes here on this forum ladies are...........................????