Who is older, your wife/girlfriend or you?

[RamenRaven]

I've been seeing more older Thai woman / younger non-Thai man couples recently. They seem to be getting more common if you look hard enough.

 

So let's take a vote!

 

[Ben Zioner]

16 minutes ago, RamenRaven said:

I've been seeing more older Thai woman / younger non-Thai man couples recently. They seem to be getting more common if you look hard enough.

Yeah, gen Z  losers.  

[Dogmatix]

When I was 17 I got my first real girlfriend who was 19 and had her own flat in London where I was studying at a crammer away from home. I moved in with her and did some growing up being around her friends who included a few older than her who had already graduated from university and were working. They were nice to me even though I was a long haired kid to them. Then I went to university myself and broke up with her and got  a gf my own age. Now my wife is 25 years younger. Theres a lot to said for an older gf when you are a teenager but do you want a 95 year old wife when you are 70?

[Hummin]

8 minutes ago, Ben Zioner said:

Yeah, gen Z  losers.  

Who is the real loosers would be interesting to see in real life when it comes to members here. 

[Ben Zioner]

3 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Who is the real loosers would be interesting to see in real life when it comes to members here. 

Yep, but I'd do that research once gen Z turn 70.

[KhunLA]

My partners have always been much younger than myself.  5-18 yrs in USA, 20 yrs +/- here/TH.

 

Never dated anyone over 30 in the USA, not really by design, just the way it was.

 

My daughter (Thai) likes the idea that her BF is younger than her.   Chip off the ol' block.

[Gsxrnz]

My wife is 36.

 

My girlfriend is 26.

 

I'm one year older than their combined ages.

 

I leave the math to the reader. 

[Hummin]

1 hour ago, Ben Zioner said:

Yep, but I'd do that research once gen Z turn 70.

Well, they are a production of gen X and Y so what can possible go wrong? 

Edited September 13, 2023 by Hummin

[RamenRaven]

4 hours ago, Ben Zioner said:

Yeah, gen Z  losers.  

But I can imagine that the older ladies are constantly paranoid and thinking "Is this young stud going to ditch me for a younger lady?" So they take care of their looks and behave well.

 

Guess these younger gen boys are really the winners instead?

[Expat68]

I am 70 year old and have never had a girlfriend/wife who has been within 6 years of my age in my lifetime. When I was young the biggest gap was 20 years, now I am older currently the gap is 30+, she doesn't complain, nor do I!!

[edwardflory]

Me 77...her 54

[bfc1980]

11 minutes ago, Expat68 said:

I am 70 year old and have never had a girlfriend/wife who has been within 6 years of my age in my lifetime. When I was young the biggest gap was 20 years, now I am older currently the gap is 30+, she doesn't complain, nor do I!!

Your partner is 100 years old??? That's impressive. 

[1FinickyOne]

On 9/13/2023 at 5:43 AM, RamenRaven said:

I've been seeing more older Thai woman

Maybe it's the same couple walking past you many times? 

[BritManToo]

On 9/13/2023 at 6:11 AM, Dogmatix said:

Theres a lot to said for an older gf when you are a teenager but do you want a 95 year old wife when you are 70?

I didn't want a 50yo wife when I was 50!

 

[1FinickyOne]

On 9/13/2023 at 7:45 AM, KhunLA said:

Never dated anyone over 30 in the USA

Fear of menopause? 

[PeachCH]

I'm 80, wife 39, married for 12 years 

[NorthernRyland]

generally young Thai women are extremely annoying and they seem to not mature until well into their 30s.

[BritManToo]

On 9/13/2023 at 6:11 AM, Hummin said:

Who is the real loosers would be interesting to see in real life when it comes to members here. 

I'd guess it was the people that can't spell losers!

[BritManToo]

On 9/13/2023 at 6:01 AM, Ben Zioner said:

Yeah, gen Z  losers.  

That's a bit cruel, more to do with not understanding whats available to them IMHO.

When I first arrived age 52, I thought it was amazing that I could score a 40yo girlfriend.

Then I noticed that 30yo Thai ladies didn't cost any more, and had less baggage, so I went younger.

[Hummin]

13 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I'd guess it was the people that can't spell losers!

Funnyman 

[Hummin]

Just now, Hummin said:

Funnyman 

Or fannyman?

[wwest5829]

On 9/13/2023 at 6:11 AM, Dogmatix said:

When I was 17 I got my first real girlfriend who was 19 and had her own flat in London where I was studying at a crammer away from home. I moved in with her and did some growing up being around her friends who included a few older than her who had already graduated from university and were working. They were nice to me even though I was a long haired kid to them. Then I went to university myself and broke up with her and got  a gf my own age. Now my wife is 25 years younger. Theres a lot to said for an older gf when you are a teenager but do you want a 95 year old wife when you are 70?

She was 4 years older. We were together 4 1/2 years. Maggie May, 1971 …

[brewsterbudgen]

Unsurprising results so far!

 

My wife is 30 years younger than me and I don't, currently, have a girlfriend.

[Celsius]

My wife is 100 years older than me

[transam]

On 9/13/2023 at 6:11 AM, Hummin said:

Who is the real loosers would be interesting to see in real life when it comes to members here. 

I'm always loose.....

[KhunLA]

46 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

Fear of menopause? 

Nah, just worked out that way.  Also have to consider, I was only 45 in the USA, and could easily pass for 35, or so I was told.

 

When I say date, means a relationship, lived with or dating monogamously.  Did have a few friends w/bennies, in my age group, few years younger, when the mood struck us.  A couple co-workers at the airlines, quite convenient.

 

Menopause, wife going through that now, emotionally fine, but damn hot/cold is annoying.   Especially when I'm asleep and she adjust the AC.   Either wake up sweating or freezing ... ????

 

Me, 69 come December

Wife, 47 next month

 

1st Thai wife 22, me 44, 2 months shy of 45

Edited September 14, 2023 by KhunLA

[Celsius]

On 9/13/2023 at 7:56 AM, Gsxrnz said:

My wife is 36.

 

My girlfriend is 26.

 

I'm one year older than their combined ages.

 

I leave the math to the reader. 

62,000 baht a month

[Callmeishmael]

My wife is 5 1/2 years younger than me.

[bkk6060]

My gf is 30 years less.  That is my breakoff, 30 years or more younger then me.

If I want a fat, wrinkled old lady I would have stayed home.

[StayinThailand2much]

I once had a girlfriend who was a month older than me, but otherwise I don't look for older ones, unless they want to be my sugar-mommy...