Have you ever broken a Thai lady's heart?

[RamenRaven]

Sometimes it's also the other way around. It's not just middle-aged farangs having their hearts broken by young bar girls.

 

Maybe we were the ones who cheated on them or dumped them for someone else when they genuinely loved us.

Maybe we didn't marry them when they really wanted us to do so.

 

Any stories?

[JayClay]

Yes, a few. One of which will haunt me to the end of my days.

 

Not marrying a girl, however is not a valid way to break a heart. Unless you mean duming a girl at the same time as not marrying her?

[RamenRaven]

Just now, JayClay said:

Yes, a few. One of which will haunt me to the end of my days.

 

Not marrying a girl, however is not a valid way to break a heart. Unless you mean duming a girl at the same time as not marrying her?

*hugs*

 

Why does it still haunt you?

 

[JayClay]

Just now, RamenRaven said:

Why does it still haunt you?

Sometimes a break up is difficult for both sides. Sometimes life gets in the way and leaves two people in a position where there is just no way forward.

 

Of course, we're brought up to believe that love can conquer everything. But, just as with most things we're brought up to believe, that's total horse carp.

[ezzra]

No, but couple of them nearly broke my bank...

[foreverlomsak]

When the walking ATM (me) refused to just shell out money without a good reason

[BritManToo]

36 minutes ago, RamenRaven said:

Maybe we didn't marry them when they really wanted us to do so.

Women don't have hearts, not for sexual partners anyway, maybe some have hearts for their kids and mothers.

[Adumbration]

Oh....Look....a new fake member account with a nonsense clickbait post.

 

How refreshing...

[alien365]

3 minutes ago, Adumbration said:

Oh....Look....a new fake member account with a nonsense clickbait post.

 

How refreshing...

If you hover over his name, you will see he joined in 2018. His number of posts is not unusually low for that period. 

 

One of my neighbours has had her heart broken by several western men who if anything seemed to sponge off her rather than bring anything to the table. They were mostly from Scandinavian countries. She no longer believes that western men are better than Thai men.

[spidermike007]

Thai women seem to recover from a broken heart, faster than I have ever seen. They are resilient and they just move on.

[Adumbration]

8 minutes ago, alien365 said:

If you hover over his name, you will see he joined in 2018. His number of posts is not unusually low for that period. 

 

One of my neighbours has had her heart broken by several western men who if anything seemed to sponge off her rather than bring anything to the table. They were mostly from Scandinavian countries. She no longer believes that western men are better than Thai men.

Member account data can be set in the back end of a website.  Most, if not all forum software platforms have this capability.  I know this because I have built and "primed" several forum websites myself.

[RamenRaven]

8 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

Thai women seem to recover from a broken heart, faster than I have ever seen. They are resilient and they just move on.

Thais, whether men or women, move on more easily because they have a cyclical view of the world. They believe that everything constantly comes and goes. Once something is gone, then it will come back again in another form. Birth and re-birth, reincarnation, that kind of stuff.

 

The Thai perspective on life is radically different from what you'd see in the West.

 

[Adumbration]

43 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Women don't have hearts, not for sexual partners anyway, maybe some have hearts for their kids and mothers.

And pets.  Don't forget that the Farang partner is always below dogs, cats and in your case, rabbits, in the pecking order.

[spidermike007]

1 minute ago, RamenRaven said:

Thais, whether men or women, move on more easily because they have a cyclical view of the world. They believe that everything constantly comes and goes. Once something is gone, then it will come back again in another form. Birth and re-birth, reincarnation, that kind of stuff.

 

The Thai perspective on life is radically different from what you'd see in the West.

 

Very true, and quite fascinating. Just one of the things that drew me here in the first place, and one of the aspects of life here that I continue to find enjoyable. Back home, nearly everything and alot of people were very predictable. Not here. And it keeps life fresh and unpredictable, and that is a very good thing. At least for me.

 

I continue to insist that Thailand is NOT a foreign country. It is a distant planet, and is less Westernized than most countries. I love that.

[RamenRaven]

Just now, spidermike007 said:

Very true, and quite fascinating. Just one of the things that drew me here in the first place, and one of the aspects of life here that I continue to find enjoyable. Back home, nearly everything and alot of people were very predictable. Not here. And it keeps life fresh and unpredictable, and that is a very good thing. At least for me.

 

I continue to insist that Thailand is NOT a foreign country. It is a distant planet, and is less Westernized than most countries. I love that.

Glad to see a forum member here actually enjoying Thainess.

So refreshing to see this vs. all the other Thai bashing posts.

[thaibeachlovers]

24 minutes ago, alien365 said:

If you hover over his name, you will see he joined in 2018. His number of posts is not unusually low for that period. 

 

One of my neighbours has had her heart broken by several western men who if anything seemed to sponge off her rather than bring anything to the table. They were mostly from Scandinavian countries. She no longer believes that western men are better than Thai men.

It took getting married for me to understand that Thai women were no better than western women at using me.

 

I probably did hurt one Thai girl, and if I could jump back in time I'd do things differently.

Lovely lass, but too soft hearted to be on the game.

 

One of the reasons I preferred bar girls was that hearts didn't normally get broken when the time came to leave, as never was the word "love" uttered.

[RamenRaven]

Hey guys,

Men and women are all humans.

Some foreign men have broken Thai women's hearts. I've heard quite a few sad, moving stories of Thai women having their hearts broken and ripped to shreds.

 

What makes you think that all Thai women are emotionless money-leeching reptiles?

Have you ever heard Thai love songs? Especially when sung by Thai women who obviously think about their heartbroken past while singing those songs?

Haven't you heard Thai women talk about the pain of being abandoned by men whom they had really loved?

 

Going through some of these replies, it seems like some of us farang men are actually the emotionless reptiles.

[NextG]

3 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

It took getting married for me to understand that Thai women were no better than western women at using me.

 

I probably did hurt one Thai girl, and if I could jump back in time I'd do things differently.

Lovely lass, but too soft hearted to be on the game.

 

One of the reasons I preferred bar girls was that hearts didn't normally get broken when the time came to leave, as never was the word "love" uttered.

Because they didn’t love you?

[bignok]

Life is overrated

Love is temporary

Rather be a bird

[RamenRaven]

8 minutes ago, bignok said:

Life is overrated

Love is temporary

Rather be a bird

Says the Big Nok

[bignok]

Whats the point of life?

[BritManToo]

27 minutes ago, RamenRaven said:

What makes you think that all Thai women are emotionless money-leeching reptiles?

I think all women are essentially untrustworthy. Thai women, if anything, are just more obvious about it and have less recourse in law to sieze your assets.

[BritManToo]

5 minutes ago, bignok said:

Whats the point of life?

42!

[BritManToo]

31 minutes ago, RamenRaven said:

Haven't you heard Thai women talk about the pain of being abandoned by men whom they had really loved?

Believe women?

 

Not me!

Everything they say is to manipulate you.

[simon43]

When I started to regularly visit Thailand around 2002 I arranged a date with a Thai lady who was on a dating website.  She knew that I lived in England but I asked her to meet me at Don Muang Airport on a certain date/time.  She thought that I was joking and was very surprised when I actually met her at the airport.  Her figure was somewhat 'plumper' than her online photo...

 

Anyway, we travelled around Thailand for a few days and I rapidly realised that she had an affliction known as 'barking mad'!  (I was to learn that this affliction seems to affect many Thai women).  My partner spent a lot of her time talking to herself. I decided that I would gently end the relationship and told her so while in my apartment in Saladaeng.  

 

Big mistake!  She went totally nuts, screaming and pleading with me to stay with her (I doubt it was love of my body/personality, rather love of my wallet).

 

In desperation to get her out of the apartment, I walked out of the building, with her running after me, screaming all the time.  I hailed a taxi and jumped in. 'Bai nai' said the driver in a slow voice. 'Bai anywhere' I shouted, as the mad woman tried to open the taxi door.

 

I took refuge in the Dusit Thani hotel, just around the corner.  But then I remembered that I had left my wallet hidden in the microwave oven in my apartment, and this mad woman still had a key!  What if she found my wallet?  What if she chucked a reheat meal in the microwave without looking first?

 

I carefully made my way back to my apartment and luckily the woman had disappeared.  Just in case, I rented a different apartment in Saladaeng. I noted a few weeks later a new profile on the dating website with her photo and claiming to be some sort of medical consultant.  Hmmm. Her broken heart didn't last very long ????

 

 

 

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[scubascuba3]

A 19yo Pinup agogo girlfriend, broke her heart when i kicked her out, tough love

[RamenRaven]

That was a wild chase Simon!

 

Anything can happen in LOS. Every now and then out of the blue, I hear crazy stories like this in Thailand.

[RamenRaven]

1 minute ago, scubascuba3 said:

A 19yo Pinup agogo girlfriend, broke her heart when i kicked her out, tough love

Sarcasm, or did an agogo girlfriend really have her heart broken?

After all, believe it or not, working ladies can still fall madly in love and get broken hearts.

[NorthernRyland]

1 hour ago, Adumbration said:

Oh....Look....a new fake member account with a nonsense clickbait post.

 

How refreshing...

what do you mean, good ol' RamenRaven is a pillar of the community

[BarraMarra]

Thai woman's hearts are not made of flesh there made of Reinforced Concrete.