Popular Post Mika78 Posted May 4 Popular Post Share Posted May 4 Endless stress. Ex-wife, with a new husband (Thai) to whom I left everything, as long as she left me alone. Every two/three weeks she asks for money and money to pay for electricity, water, the installments of the new boyfriend/husband's motorbike, to pay the installments of their apartment and if I don't do, she threatens to report me to the police: for what I don't know, but the mere thought has always made me fall into the trap of this blackmail. But that's enough: she can report me, I'm curious to know for what purpose. Sorry for the outburst. 2 2 3 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post AnotherOneHere Posted May 4 Popular Post Share Posted May 4 I think you should better pay. It seems like a very reasonable thing to do. 2 13 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post rocketboy2 Posted May 4 Popular Post Share Posted May 4 Grow a pair. 3 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post johng Posted May 4 Popular Post Share Posted May 4 4 minutes ago, Mika78 said: Every two/three weeks she asks for money and money to pay for electricity, water, the installments of the new boyfriend/husband's motorbike, to pay the installments of their apartment and if I don't do, she threatens to report me to the police: As Nancy said ,,,Just say no it's easy once you do it the first time, unless of course your ex has some very incriminating evidence against you which none of us only you would know about then maybe better to just leave the country ? 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post reefsurfah Posted May 4 Popular Post Share Posted May 4 Wtf? Hell no..💩 2 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scubascuba3 Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 Ex wife? divorce? clean break, say no. Women here try and hang on to their ATM for as long as possible, sadly men are often mugs 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post simon43 Posted May 4 Popular Post Share Posted May 4 If she really makes your life a misery, then if it is possible, simply up and move to somewhere else in Thailand/Asia and cut all ties with her. Many years ago, after having 'problems' with my mad ex#2, I simply upped and went to work in Burma, knowing that a Thai women would not follow me there. It worked and I remained teaching in Burma for many enjoyable years 🙂 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Prubangboy Posted May 4 Popular Post Share Posted May 4 20 minutes ago, Mika78 said: I left everything, as long as she left me alone. -Has this ever worked out even a single time in the history of the universe? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post retarius Posted May 4 Popular Post Share Posted May 4 21 minutes ago, Mika78 said: Endless stress. Ex-wife, with a new husband (Thai) to whom I left everything, as long as she left me alone. Every two/three weeks she asks for money and money to pay for electricity, water, the installments of the new boyfriend/husband's motorbike, to pay the installments of their apartment and if I don't do, she threatens to report me to the police: for what I don't know, but the mere thought has always made me fall into the trap of this blackmail. But that's enough: she can report me, I'm curious to know for what purpose. Sorry for the outburst. move elsewhere 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Will B Good Posted May 4 Popular Post Share Posted May 4 Weird.....change your phone and move.....no way my ex gets a penny out of me. 1 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brianthainess Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 24 minutes ago, Mika78 said: Endless stress. Ex-wife, with a new husband (Thai) to whom I left everything, as long as she left me alone. Every two/three weeks she asks for money and money to pay for electricity, water, the installments of the new boyfriend/husband's motorbike, to pay the installments of their apartment and if I don't do, she threatens to report me to the police: for what I don't know, but the mere thought has always made me fall into the trap of this blackmail. But that's enough: she can report me, I'm curious to know for what purpose. Sorry for the outburst. Move. bar her phone number. simple. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonlover Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 7 minutes ago, Prubangboy said: 26 minutes ago, Mika78 said: I left everything, as long as she left me alone. 7 minutes ago, Prubangboy said: -Has this ever worked out even a single time in the history of the universe? Yes, it's worked twice for me in my lifetime. Just up and go. And it works even better if you have, or she thinks you have, nothing more to give. Just do it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Startmeup Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 Cut her off. Block all comms. Move elsewhere if she knows where you live because you dont want her showing up out of nowhere after a few weeks. Otherwise shut up and deal with it, it's your choice. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bkk6060 Posted May 4 Popular Post Share Posted May 4 (edited) If she is threatening to report you to the police, but won't say why I bet deep down you know why. Edited May 4 by bkk6060 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
worgeordie Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 Record her making threats ,that if you don't give her money she is going to report you to the police , try and get her to say what for , then report her to the Police , it's the only way you are going to get any peace ... good luck , you are paying her boyfriends motorbike installments no no no ! regards worgeordie 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tropicalevo Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 Did you have any children together? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GammaGlobulin Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 (edited) You are 100-percent correct. Those living today must find best strategies to manage ENDLESS STRESS without succumbing to stress-induced illnesses. This is key for living a slightly better life. How does one become more resilient? Such strategies are learned early in life, I think. If we do not learn them early, then our lives often take a turn for the worse. Just, please listen to Duckworth, from PENN, concerning how to teach our youth to become more resilient. This is the best that a parent can do, looking ahead..... This girl is a Prof at PENN And, she is ALSO Chinese. So, for me... She is just perfect.... (Did you pick up on the alliteration?) Edited May 4 by GammaGlobulin 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JimTripper Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 (edited) Those kind of blackmail payments never work, they just get bigger and bigger. You're just buying time. Edited May 4 by JimTripper 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAFETY FIRST Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 (edited) 1 hour ago, Mika78 said: Endless stress. Ex-wife, with a new husband money and money There's got to be something in it for you, It's not a one way street. This is a weird story, why don't you make things weird? How about asking to have a threesome, keep things interesting. Maybe get the new hubby, get his ex Mrs involved in the party. 🤣 Edited May 4 by SAFETY FIRST 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jvs Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 1 hour ago, Mika78 said: Endless stress. Ex-wife, with a new husband (Thai) to whom I left everything, as long as she left me alone. Every two/three weeks she asks for money and money to pay for electricity, water, the installments of the new boyfriend/husband's motorbike, to pay the installments of their apartment and if I don't do, she threatens to report me to the police: for what I don't know, but the mere thought has always made me fall into the trap of this blackmail. But that's enough: she can report me, I'm curious to know for what purpose. Sorry for the outburst. Are you still living close to her? Why are you still talking to her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mitkof Island Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 The two questions I always ask the victim of the $cam Thai woman? Where did you meet the lovely creature? And can you speak any Thai? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 The last time I had trouble with someone unpleasant, I asked myself: Is there anything that person can do to me (report to the police, publish, etc.) which would be a big problem. I concluded: No. So, if anybody wants to make trouble, let them try. Just play it cool and don't let her wind you up so much that you do something stupid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 2 hours ago, Mika78 said: Endless stress. Ex-wife, with a new husband (Thai) to whom I left everything, as long as she left me alone. Every two/three weeks she asks for money and money to pay for electricity, water, the installments of the new boyfriend/husband's motorbike, to pay the installments of their apartment and if I don't do, she threatens to report me to the police: for what I don't know, but the mere thought has always made me fall into the trap of this blackmail. But that's enough: she can report me, I'm curious to know for what purpose. Sorry for the outburst. Just move, cut all contact, no forwarding address. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GammaGlobulin Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 No matter what the situation, it's always best to just pay whatever is asked, and then cut your losses, and then get on to your new life. NEVER DWELL upon the history of a relationship which has gone bad. Life is short. Maybe just move to a new country, and you will feel far better in a short amount of time. IN FACT, after moving away, and maybe moving to a new country....you will very soon.... Wonder why you were so stressed, in the first place. CHANGING one's environment, and even moving very far away to a new country, is.... The very best FIX for almost every problem in life. Please believe me...because....I have had... Much experience with Psychotic Wives. Not Joking, Folks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Korat Kiwi Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 14 minutes ago, BritManToo said: Just move, cut all contact, no forwarding address. Agree 100%. I have done that in the past. And I'll probably never return to the Philippines. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
patman30 Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 What is keeping you here? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlexRich Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 I find this story hard to believe? Your ex wife demands money and you give it to her? Report you to the Police for what? Your story makes no sense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Korat Kiwi Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 2 hours ago, Mika78 said: Endless stress. Ex-wife, with a new husband (Thai) to whom I left everything, as long as she left me alone. Every two/three weeks she asks for money and money to pay for electricity, water, the installments of the new boyfriend/husband's motorbike, to pay the installments of their apartment and if I don't do, she threatens to report me to the police: for what I don't know, but the mere thought has always made me fall into the trap of this blackmail. But that's enough: she can report me, I'm curious to know for what purpose. Sorry for the outburst. Just get the hell out. Change your phone simcard, move to a new district/province/country and stop communicating with this leech. Start anew. It's invigorating getting YOUR life back. Do it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seppius Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 Seems like the OP has many problems to life in Thailand He never told us how he got on with this? https://aseannow.com/topic/1326083-errorforgetfulness-of-the-century/#comment-18875466 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
save the frogs Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 But sounds like you married a horrible human being. You never got any red flags when dating before marriage? Maybe she has some police friends that can cause you problems. If so, might be better to move to another area. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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