2 hours ago, kenk24 said:

 

I once met a young marine in a bar who was bragging abt getting a bj for free in a bar down the block... I told him it wasn't free, he just stiffed her on the tip.. then he wanted to hit me.

semipro fi

1 hour ago, OneMoreFarang said:

How can you get a full service which you don't request?

If you don't request it then it's time to say stop. And then it's not a full service.

And if you don't say stop but smile at the girl because she makes you happy then you can't exactly say you didn't request it.

oooooh, so complicated ,,,,,,,, dizzy ...

46 minutes ago, plumberman123 said:

i dont give a <deleted> what you think

 

youve just confirmed youre a hooker chasing sex tourisy and stay as close as you can to NP so youre close to the action

 

 

But was she a he ?????

Geez you (Sorry, he) could have had 4 HJ’s with what the night eventually cost you (sorry, him). 
If, as you wrote, she/he started to give a hand job. This then means that you (Sorry, him) must have allowed the zip to be undone.

 

Hmmm. I suggest you and your mate remain in The UK.

2 hours ago, plumberman123 said:

i dont think so

 

hes a pretty straight person

 

 

And so was his John Thomas!

????????????

Basically he was arrested for not paying for sexual favour , which is illegal in Thailand! But being Thailand the police who get protection money aren't going to allow their clients to get ripped off !

7 minutes ago, pixelaoffy said:

Basically he was arrested for not paying for sexual favour , which is illegal in Thailand! But being Thailand the police who get protection money aren't going to allow their clients to get ripped off !

"not paying for sexual favour , which is illegal in Thailand!"

What are you talking about..prostitution at this time is illegal in Thailand.

So how can not paying for sex be illegal..think about it.

You need to study Thai law before you post, otherwise it confuses people.

New definition of "nanasecond":

 

The time it takes for a relatively new poster to get cut down in flames.

 

Rooster

3 hours ago, Enoon said:

Arrested for "failing to accept and pay for sexual services"?

 

Charged with "resisting the advances of a prostitute"?

 

I'd like to hear that read out in court.

Sidetrack:
In the UK I had a friend in the police. He always said that if he arrested someone, later to read out in court what the arrestee said, the thing he said he'd feel a fool saying was if someone had said, "Alright officer I'll come quietly, but society is to blame."

Oddly enough it never happened.

3 hours ago, plumberman123 said:

hes a quiet guy, 64yo

Nana Plaza... No Place For Old Men.

 

Great movie BTW.

Obviously some details missing from this story. If I had to hazard a guess, I'd put my money on it that she was in fact a he. When your pal realised this he freaked out and tried to get out of there fast. She - or is it he - felt a service had been provided and demanded payment. Your pal refused to pay, at which point it all blew up and the cops <no pun intended> came.

if a bar screws you, just pay on your credit card and sign it as 'FRAUD'. then call your bank and tell them it was a fraudulent charge and get it charged back.

 

i had a bar pull a stunt on me once and try to turn my 10,000 thb or so bill into 25,000thb

 

it really pays to have a good working relationship with a good bank. i spent a lot of money with my bank and have a good track record with them over many many years, so they backed me on this instantly and reversed the charge.

i am not surprised to hear this story.

more stories similar to that will be more common.

the result of course is the virus crisis and the sharp fall in thai

businesses revenues.

the owners and workers still have to survive, pay the bills, food, ext., and the

fastest way will be to scam / extort / overcharged the available customers.

 

 

6 hours ago, ChouDoufu said:

just curious.  why are you posting this?  you don't seem to be asking for advice, nor requesting assistance for your friend. 

 

why go to the trouble of registering to use an intertubes forum to tell expats living the dream something they would already know?

Should have said the copper fined him for not having his passport on him for good measure !

10 hours ago, Don Mega said:

10 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Yeah, sure. 

How often did you go into a bar in Thailand? And how often did that happen to you?

it was his "mate" !!!!

I know that is what he said happened to his mate.

But how reliable ist that information from his mate?

This is why I asked how often that happened to him.

I live here since over 20 years and if I would have visited just one bar a week that would be 1,000 visits. And I can assure you something like what supposed to happen never happend to me and I never heard about it from any mate. That is for me statistic enough to know the chance that it happend the way he described it is very low.

I also saw enough guys being thrown out of bars because they didn't behave and/or didn't pay. And as far as I could tell they all had a chance to pay before they (some) were arrested. It seems arrests happen only to the stubborn stupid who think they know it all.

3 hours ago, plumberman123 said:

3 hours ago, bwpage3 said:

How could he pay more if someone had to bring him 4000 baht to spring him from his arrest?

 

Story is unraveling.

i dont understand your reply

he didnt have 4,000 on him to pay the fine

In my opinion, your mate went to Nana Plaza with totally insufficient funds for the night out. Does your mate realize what Nana Plaza is? If he wanted a quieter, less pressured and cheaper experience with the option of some female company, there are dozens of bars on Soi 4 that fulfill this far, far better than anything inside NEP.

 

As for the story that as soon as the lady's hand went inside your mates shorts, he immediately jumped up, called 'rape' and was instantly harassed for 1000 baht, that is so far-fetched it's laughable. I know some demimondaines can range between delightfully insistent and obnoxiously persistent but I seriously doubt that anyone's hand went up anyone's kilt while one of the participants was unaware that a hand job was the inferred possibility, denying that they had encouraged it let alone suggesting that they were outraged and calling it a sexual assault.

 

There are bars where on purchasing a lady drink, their tits come out and your cock gets pulled out and 100% of the blokes that go there know that's what they're getting into and it is all 100% mutually agreed from the get-go. But AFAIK, those sort of bars don't exist in Nana Plaza, so chances are your mate sat their nursing his drink, the bar girl nursed hers while she petted his ferret through his shorts. ie. no animals were released in the wild. After he decided that she wasn't going be the chosen one to induce the vinegar stroke of exquisite release that your old mate truly wanted, he check-binned but DIDN'T TIP HER FOR THE INFORMAL PLEASURING HE HAD ALREADY RECEIVED. Rude, cheap Charlie behavior.

 

Your mate didn't get 'arrested' and 'fined' for refusing to pay a persistent bar girl for unwanted services rendered, he got stitched up for being the one responsible for when "things got heated" well after the fact. Rude, gobby, cheap Charlie behavior has never, ever been a winning strategy.

Let's get something "straight" here... YOU (your own best mate) were in a ladyboy bar and YOU don't want to admit that you got taken for a fool, so YOU changed the story to the third person ("my mate"). You'll feel a lot better if you just admit your attraction to dolled-up males and get on with enjoying your stay in BKK.

Lucky you didn't get a stiff upper lip

9 hours ago, Jane Dough said:

New definition of "nanasecond":

 

The time it takes for a relatively new poster to get cut down in flames.

 

Rooster

No, it's the amount of time the lady/boy needs to play with your Johnson before you need to pay full fare...

I don't know about your mate, but I don't leave home without mine.

 

Not that its ever happened to me, but is there an extra fee if the "playing" is done to completion? Maybe he finished and then tried to get out without paying for the ending.

13 hours ago, plumberman123 said:

but paid 4,000 to police

...penny wise & pound foolish I'd say..

8 hours ago, Metapod said:

if a bar screws you, just pay on your credit card and sign it as 'FRAUD'. then call your bank and tell them it was a fraudulent charge and get it charged back.

 

I like this...is it an international norm to do this...I mean do CC companies advise this as a course of action specifically?

Or is it your advice? Im curious.

2 minutes ago, JHolmesJr said:

 

I like this...is it an international norm to do this...I mean do CC companies advise this as a course of action specifically?

Or is it your advice? Im curious.

I'm curious as well, I wonder if it works with Thailand issued credit cards ?

5 hours ago, NanLaew said:

In my opinion, your mate went to Nana Plaza with totally insufficient funds for the night out. Does your mate realize what Nana Plaza is? If he wanted a quieter, less pressured and cheaper experience with the option of some female company, there are dozens of bars on Soi 4 that fulfill this far, far better than anything inside NEP.

 

As for the story that as soon as the lady's hand went inside your mates shorts, he immediately jumped up, called 'rape' and was instantly harassed for 1000 baht, that is so far-fetched it's laughable. I know some demimondaines can range between delightfully insistent and obnoxiously persistent but I seriously doubt that anyone's hand went up anyone's kilt while one of the participants was unaware that a hand job was the inferred possibility, denying that they had encouraged it let alone suggesting that they were outraged and calling it a sexual assault.

 

There are bars where on purchasing a lady drink, their tits come out and your cock gets pulled out and 100% of the blokes that go there know that's what they're getting into and it is all 100% mutually agreed from the get-go. But AFAIK, those sort of bars don't exist in Nana Plaza, so chances are your mate sat their nursing his drink, the bar girl nursed hers while she petted his ferret through his shorts. ie. no animals were released in the wild. After he decided that she wasn't going be the chosen one to induce the vinegar stroke of exquisite release that your old mate truly wanted, he check-binned but DIDN'T TIP HER FOR THE INFORMAL PLEASURING HE HAD ALREADY RECEIVED. Rude, cheap Charlie behavior.

 

Your mate didn't get 'arrested' and 'fined' for refusing to pay a persistent bar girl for unwanted services rendered, he got stitched up for being the one responsible for when "things got heated" well after the fact. Rude, gobby, cheap Charlie behavior has never, ever been a winning strategy.

I would add he probably got off lightly. Same stunt in some bars would get him something a lot worse than a kip in the cells and 4,000 baht 'fine'.

19 hours ago, plumberman123 said:

He has said that he went into an ago go and a hooker sat with him, he bought her a drink and then she started giving him a handjob of which he didnt request.

next time tell your friend to come to Hua Hin. nothing like this ever happens.

A "mate" once met a hooker in a room. Grabbed her ass and decided she was a bit ugly to go ahead so started walking out, the crazy hooker went mad and tried to grab him and threatened to call cops. The mate just walked away and laughed at the crazy woman trying to grab his arm. Crazy thing wanted to get paid.

You have truly got to have a ruckus going to even get a cop near Nana Plaza.

On ‎2‎/‎20‎/‎2020 at 7:20 PM, plumberman123 said:

its no joke pal

 

hes had a terribkle experience

 

Shouldn't have gone to a Go GO and buy a prostitute a drink and let her get into his pants then.

On ‎2‎/‎20‎/‎2020 at 7:44 PM, plumberman123 said:

i beleive him

 

its shook him up

 

hes a quiet guy, 64yo

 

no need for him to lie

The prison part shook him up.