CELIBACY: The Oft Neglected Choice for a Better Life

[yogi yogi]

i have been reading that a lack of ejactulation is a cause of prostate problems in men. 

[hotchilli]

10 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

Celibacy is very underrated in our present culture.

 

Please do not knock it unless you have first tried it.

 

I have tried it, for 20 years.

I first knocked it and enjoyed it, and been knocking it for the last 50 + years.

My ole man said if it ain't broke don't try to fix it... he was smart.

[thaibeachlovers]

2 hours ago, PAWNEESE said:

The trouble being that normal people dont see the fun in being infantile and a smartarse.

Define "normal".

Does "normal" exist in humans?

I've known a lot of people in my life, and I would struggle to identify any as some sort of "normal", as that would imply that a majority of people were similar.

 

[thaibeachlovers]

1 hour ago, yogi yogi said:

i have been reading that a lack of ejactulation is a cause of prostate problems in men. 

I can guarantee that is BS, unless I was different to every other man that had prostate problems.

[humqdpf]

Some of the foreigners living in Thailand lived a life of celebacy for decades before moving to SE Asia. Some of them were even married during some of that time. So I am not sure you are preaching to the right audience.

[Sparktrader]

10 hours ago, anto said:

Maybe i am off topic but bursting the sausage  to porn does much mental damage .Beware !!!

Steak is more healthy. Rib eye grass fed.

[thaitom]

11 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

In fact, lifestyle changes are not that difficult.

 

One can, for example, swear off chocolate pudding or crab cakes, for life, and reap positive consequences.

 

Don't just go with the flow if you think you might live a better life by finding a better way.

 

Celibacy is very underrated in our present culture.

 

Please do not knock it unless you have first tried it.

 

I have tried it, for 20 years.

 

Tried ?   Now I want some chocolate pudding.

[Sparktrader]

3 hours ago, 473geo said:

Ladies toilets?

Ladyboy contests????

[Sparktrader]

1 minute ago, thaitom said:

Tried ?   Now I want some chocolate pudding.

Crab cakes arent bad

[Sparktrader]

6 minutes ago, humqdpf said:

Some of the foreigners living in Thailand lived a life of celebacy for decades before moving to SE Asia. Some of them were even married during some of that time. So I am not sure you are preaching to the right audience.

White women 

[Mac Mickmanus]

12 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

I am speaking, now, for the first time on TV, about the important topic of Celibacy. 

Myself, being a single guy with time and money on my hands and who liked a beer and who has the tendency to act rather recklessly after a few beers , after five years of living freely , I really wouldnt be bothered if I never saw a naked female again .

   Had numerous regular girls that needed regular  servicing?

  Got to the stage where my main concern was about how to get them out my room , that was before they even went to my room 

   In the end I lowered the flag on my flag pole and raised the White flag .

[thaitom]

8 minutes ago, Sparktrader said:

Crab cakes arent bad

damn , now I want crab cakes ,  or those thai fish cake things. 

[thaitom]

Just now, thaitom said:

damn , now I want crab cakes ,  or those thai fish cake things. 

I will take food over sex anytime

 

[Sparktrader]

2 minutes ago, thaitom said:

I will take food over sex anytime

 

Combine the 2

I tried mars b a rs and ...

[Sparktrader]

Blueberry danish and ....

 

Interesting

[Sparktrader]

Beer and ...

 

 

 

 

[Bluespunk]

12 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

Would you not wish for a more stress-free lifestyle which is far easier to attain than conversion to vegetarianism

I became vegetarian at 17 by deciding to do so.

 

That was several decades ago

 

Not hard at all.

 

For some celibacy is even easier to achieve-all they have to do is start talking and they are left alone.

Edited September 13, 2021 by Bluespunk

[Moonlover]

2 hours ago, yogi yogi said:

i have been reading that a lack of ejactulation is a cause of prostate problems in men. 

No, the problem with the prostate is that it never stops growing. When man's life expectancy was only only around 40 years that wasn't a problem. Now we're living into our 70s and more, it has become a problem.

[Thingamabob]

A tediously long post, but not a bad idea. The early days of celibacy will be difficult, as they are when giving up anything one enjoys. 

[zzaa09]

53 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I can guarantee that is BS, unless I was different to every other man that had prostate problems.

Prostate issues are not terribly selective, but instead randomly common among guys of particular age groups. 

The best science has yet to conquer an understanding of why all this comes about as well as it's varying severity in some yet not others. 

 

Count your blessings that you might never have to experience such issues. 

You'll be knowing that REAL MEN/MANLY MEN don't go unscathed. ????

[digger70]

12 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

In fact, lifestyle changes are not that difficult.

 

One can, for example, swear off chocolate pudding or crab cakes, for life, and reap positive consequences.

 

Don't just go with the flow if you think you might live a better life by finding a better way.

 

Celibacy is very underrated in our present culture.

 

Please do not knock it unless you have first tried it.

 

I have tried it, for 20 years.

 

You say you tried it for 20 yrs , So now you're Not .

 Maybe ok for some . So is being a RK Priest but look what they do.

As for me one lives only Ones ,Make the most of it in a decent way if one can. 

People and other animals are on this planet to Multiply for the next generation and to enjoy life.

If you don't like thats fair enough just don't expect it from anyone else.

[Sparktrader]

2 hours ago, yogi yogi said:

i have been reading that a lack of ejactulation is a cause of prostate problems in men. 

Lack of zinc

[jvs]

Celibacy?Not for me thank you,now that i am a little older i no longer would like to

hump any good looking girl i see but i still enjoy looking.

I would need Lupron or Zoladex or something like that to even attempt to be celibate,

but i enjoy being a man.

Back to the OP ,from another topic i gather he does not really want to be celibate,he is in Love

in my opinion for a man love and lust can be the same.

If you can't be with the one you love,love the one your with!

[Sparktrader]

54 minutes ago, Moonlover said:

No, the problem with the prostate is that it never stops growing. When man's life expectancy was only only around 40 years that wasn't a problem. Now we're living into our 70s and more, it has become a problem.

87 avg age in west

[Rookiescot]

10 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Error. I just looked up the definition of celibacy and according to google it's abstaining from sex AND marriage.

Surely they are both the same?

[Nickelbeer]

Better life for WHOM????   I would rather be dead. Celibacy is NOT a "choice" it is the END of normal life.

[Moonlover]

7 minutes ago, Rookiescot said:

10 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Error. I just looked up the definition of celibacy and according to google it's abstaining from sex AND marriage.

 

7 minutes ago, Rookiescot said:

Surely they are both the same?

Not to my knowledge.

[Rookiescot]

3 hours ago, yogi yogi said:

i have been reading that a lack of ejactulation is a cause of prostate problems in men. 

Got a link to that?

If thats the case wee need to stop going for a pee as well.

[Rookiescot]

Just now, Moonlover said:

 

Not to my knowledge.

You must have got a good one then. 

I was thinking of my first wife from Scotland.

[sungod]

11 hours ago, Andrew Dwyer said:

TBL’s point about the Catholic Church is a valid point, how does the OP advise people to be celibate when it is forced upon them and not a choice ??

 

Also, forgive my ignorance but, is celibacy only abstinence from the actual act of lovemaking/fornicating or is it total abstinence from any form of “ pleasures of the flesh “ ?

Can 5 minutes with the Victoria Secret catalogue and a jar of hand cream be classed as “ falling off the wagon “ ?

In the Catholic Church I'm told celibacy only counts if its with adults.