How many Thai women did you "date" before you decided "this is the one"?

[sipi]

I married the first one I met.

I'm kinda lazy when it comes to chasing skirt.

[ChrisKC]

6 hours ago, 4MyEgo said:

She multi-tasks too. 

 

On a more serious note, the girl doesn't stop from when she wakes up which is around 6am till when she sleeps which is past midnight. I wonder where she gets her energy, might have to do with all of the kids we have, she is also a fantastic cook and a fire cracker in bed, ok, I better stop there, as they say jealousy has no boundaries ????

 

She multi-tasks too

 

 

Does this mean she can have sex and a headache at the same time?

[ChrisKC]

Things were not much different 2,000 years ago.

 

Socrates, said., get married and if you have good wife good luck to you; if you have a bad wife, become a philosopher.

[OneMoreFarang]

4 hours ago, Rampant Rabbit said:

youd  have to define "date" I MET 4 ,porked two just to be sure , married  one in the space of 3 weeks, 16 years  ago. I made the right choice despite the bucked teeth claw  foot and awkward gait, that and the endless flatulence

Maybe you should have tried some more...

[Golden Triangle]

2 hours ago, Khabib said:

Excellent, you obviously worked it out, and just maybe, you're a real handsome man too!

Nah, nothing Hansum about me, but I do have a lot of luck ????

[Damrongsak]

1 hour ago, sipi said:

I married the first one I met.

I'm kinda lazy when it comes to chasing skirt.

Same here.  We were more like pals.  Used to hang around a bit at her Mom's house or her brother's tailor shop, just chasing off boredom.  We'd occasionally see a movie, accompanied by two of her young siblings or a couple of her friends.  Maybe go to a temple on festive occasions.  But that was 44 years ago and things were pretty conservative back then.  Just had our 43rd anniversary this month. 

[Jeff Olssson]

8 hours ago, ExpatOilWorker said:

A classic little classroom math challenge is to calculate the probability of 2 or more people share the same birthday. The math is a bit convoluted, but in a group of 30 the probability is 71%.

 

Now, what is the probability that 2 members have dated one or more of the same girl?

We are probably fast approaching 100% here.

But luckily there are more than 365 girls in Thailand!

Edited October 29, 2021 by Jeff Olssson
Clarification

[hotchilli]

On 10/29/2021 at 2:25 AM, OneMoreFarang said:

So how about you: How many Thai women did you "date" before you decided "this is the one"?

Before I got married probably 25-ish... or even more

after married 17-to-date [just to make sure this is the right one]

[hotchilli]

On 10/29/2021 at 3:19 AM, OneMoreFarang said:

I understand that there are a few differences from one to another. But if the second one is the opposite in many ways then I worry what the third one will be. Same as the first one?

An amalgamation of the good bits, minus the bad ones maybe?

[Tropposurfer]

A very wise, deeply grounded, happy, and satisfied older man once spoke to me with pure pearls about successful relationships with the significant intimate other; 'Make of yourself what you would wish in your partner'. 

[ExpatOilWorker]

3 hours ago, Jeff Olssson said:

But luckily there are more than 365 girls in Thailand!

Correct, but you also have more than one "birthday"????. The larger sample frequency, even in a huge group of girls quickly increases the probability of sharing, as shown by the following example. 

 

What's the chance that the breath you just inhaled contains at least one air molecule that was in Julius Caesar's last breath--the one in which he said (according to Shakespeare) "Et tu Brute? Then die Caesar"?

 

It is actually 98.2%.

[chicowoodduck]

I have dated a few too many and intend to keep that trend alive and well for as long as my third leg holds out! ????????????????

[Jeff Olssson]

49 minutes ago, ExpatOilWorker said:

Correct, but you also have more than one "birthday"????. The larger sample frequency, even in a huge group of girls quickly increases the probability of sharing, as shown by the following example. 

 

What's the chance that the breath you just inhaled contains at least one air molecule that was in Julius Caesar's last breath--the one in which he said (according to Shakespeare) "Et tu Brute? Then die Caesar"?

 

It is actually 98.2%.

It all depends on what numbers you assume. This is off topic but just as an example let’s assume there are 1000 expats on TVF who can possibly choose a date among one million Thai girls. The probability that they all date different girls is 60.67%.

[SiSePuede419]

One.

 

A hothead party girl.  She broke up with me 5 times in 6 months.  After her, I said never again.  But I came back 15 years later and met my wife.  Didn't need to meet anyone else because I could tell they were all inferior in some way.

 

We got married 4 years later and now have a 2 year old child.

 

Marry the smart, educated ones not the massage "therapists" or party girls, 555.

Edited October 30, 2021 by SiSePuede419

[NoshowJones]

I dated about six before I met my wife, among these dates I lived with a girl in Korat for three weeks, when I met my wife, I was still living back in Scotland, and made two more trips to see her in Thailand before I decided for sure that she was the one, though I was almost certain that she was as I had stayed with her for about two weeks before I flew back to Scotland.

The first words I said to her were "your beautiful," and things started from there.

[elgenon]

Still "auditioning"!!!  55555

[OneMoreFarang]

2 hours ago, Tropposurfer said:

A very wise, deeply grounded, happy, and satisfied older man once spoke to me with pure pearls about successful relationships with the significant intimate other; 'Make of yourself what you would wish in your partner'. 

Young, pretty, cute - somehow that won't work. ???? 

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, ExpatOilWorker said:

Correct, but you also have more than one "birthday"????. The larger sample frequency, even in a huge group of girls quickly increases the probability of sharing, as shown by the following example. 

 

What's the chance that the breath you just inhaled contains at least one air molecule that was in Julius Caesar's last breath--the one in which he said (according to Shakespeare) "Et tu Brute? Then die Caesar"?

 

It is actually 98.2%.

Do I really care how many other member "know" her? As long as she takes a shower in between and maybe rests a little that's good enough.

[OneMoreFarang]

30 minutes ago, SiSePuede419 said:

A hothead party girl.  She broke up with me 5 times in 6 months.  After her, I said never again.  But I came back 15 years later and met my wife.  Didn't need to meet anyone else because I could tell they were all inferior in some way.

I bet at the start with your party girl you also could tell all the others were all inferior in some way...

[NoshowJones]

23 hours ago, Pravda said:

I dated 5 or 6 ladyboys before I married my Thai wife

I thought same sex marriage was not allowed in Thailand.  

[bert bloggs]

I posted how i met my Thai wife,first words ,she was not my first Thai GF, i dated a girl for 2 years before ,but we broke up , before that i was married  in the UK  and lived with a girl for many years, God knows how many girls i slept with in my life.

[RafPinto]

2 hours ago, possum1931 said:

I dated about six before I met my wife, among these dates I lived with a girl in Korat for three weeks, when I met my wife, I was still living back in Scotland, and made two more trips to see her in Thailand before I decided for sure that she was the one, though I was almost certain that she was as I had stayed with her for about two weeks before I flew back to Scotland.

The first words I said to her were "your beautiful," and things started from there.

Hope you are not from Peterhead.

I lived in Aberdeen for 10 years and still couldn't understand the ones from Peterhead and further up.

[NoshowJones]

4 minutes ago, RafPinto said:

Hope you are not from Peterhead.

I lived in Aberdeen for 10 years and still couldn't understand the ones from Peterhead and further up.

No, I was from a town about 12 miles from Glasgow.

[RafPinto]

6 minutes ago, possum1931 said:

No, I was from a town about 12 miles from Glasgow.

I know. I met you in Giffnock.

 

Also funny accent.

 

 

[NoshowJones]

2 minutes ago, RafPinto said:

I know. I met you in Giffnock.

 

Also funny accent.

 

 

How did you know it was me? I have played gigs there.

[RafPinto]

Just now, possum1931 said:

How did you know it was me? I have played gigs there.

I know.

When you were busy playing, I took care of your lady.

[NoshowJones]

1 minute ago, RafPinto said:

I know.

When you were busy playing, I took care of your lady.

Which one?

[RafPinto]

Just now, possum1931 said:

Which one?

Molly.

[NoshowJones]

1 minute ago, RafPinto said:

Molly.

I will need to check one of my old diaries to see if I was ever with  girl called Molly

[RafPinto]

2 minutes ago, possum1931 said:

I will need to check one of my old diaries to see if I was ever with  girl called Molly

Your ex-wife also was interested but she wasn't my style.