Can you talk to Thai cashier girls working in stores like 7 Eleven?

[jhoncm]

I go to the same 7 Eleven store everyday. The reason is I really like a cashier girl from there.

 

I dressed well, stay confident and treat politely to everyone when I go there.

 

As I go there almost everyday, she knows me but we never had conversation.

 

I cannot catch her outside. I only see her working in the store.

 

So I'm wondering can I have a small talk with her in the store. Like asking her name etc.

Is it ok or does it look bad as she is working?

[The Hammer2021]

Yes. Talk politely and first time maybe ask her  friend too. Nothing too Hi So or expensive.

[Baron Samedi]

 

Go for it !!! ????

 

 

[Mac Mickmanus]

Go into the 7/11 and ask for foot long sausage , when she hands it over to you, look into her eyes , wink and ask her whether she wants a 12 inch sausage as well 

[Hummin]

You overthinking. 

 

She speaks English? You should have figured out this by now? 

 

How old are you ? She? 

[dj230]

If I were you I'd just type in your phone on google translate "wow you're so beautiful, can I have your line?", and hand your phone to her during checkout, hasn't failed me. 

 

 

[CharlieH]

Point out into thd store and ask her if she can help uou with something. Then she"ll follow you and you have her on her own for a moment. ????

[FritsSikkink]

Not when you are in front of me in the queue.

[champers]

2 hours ago, The Hammer2021 said:

Yes. Talk politely and first time maybe ask her  friend too. Nothing too Hi So or expensive.

A gleesome threesome. Go for it.

[Baron Samedi]

1 hour ago, CharlieH said:

Point out into thd store and ask her if she can help uou with something. Then she"ll follow you and you have her on her own for a moment. ????

CharlieH, moderator @ Aseannow... and pickup artist @ 7Eleven ????

This is clearly the way to go !

 

[Dan747]

"Good Luck"-Have some "FUN!"

[SAFETY FIRST]

4 hours ago, jhoncm said:

Can you talk to Thai cashier girls working 7 Eleven 

Don't go near her, she's mine, find your own gf. 

 

Edited June 11, 2022 by SAFETY FIRST

[scubascuba3]

Girls get hit on often, remember some guys just offer them money off the bat, so don't expect a great response, but depends on you.

 

Another thing you can do is have a quick chat and give her your number and or Line ID on a piece of paper or card, it's more discreet than swapping Lines in the shop in front of colleagues.

 

Also remember they are paid to be friendly, doesn't mean she likes you

[Nemises]

Easy! Offer to buy her a coffee. But try not to explode like this Romeo when she refuses your offer.

 

 

"When the 27-year-old staff member informed the man that she didn’t want him to pay for her coffee he "exploded"

 

 

[ColeBOzbourne]

Is that the same cashier girl that goes home and complains to her live-in boyfriend about some creepy, well-dressed farang guy that hangs around the store every day and stares at her? 

[Excel]

4 hours ago, Mac Mickmanus said:

Go into the 7/11 and ask for foot long sausage , when she hands it over to you, look into her eyes , wink and ask her whether she wants a 12 inch sausage as well 

Don't be disappointed if she replies, "yes I would like all of  that but not 4  off your 3 inches"  ????

Edited June 11, 2022 by Excel

[Excel]

3 minutes ago, ColeBOzbourne said:

Is that the same cashier girl that goes home and complains to her live-in boyfriend about some creepy, well-dressed farang guy that hangs around the store every day and stares at her? 

No, that's her Mother ????

[ezzra]

Get a Thai person to write  a polite note to her whereby it gives your name and where are you from and ask if sh'ed like to have a cup coffee with you and leave your phone number and see what happen... 

[StayinThailand2much]

2 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Don't go near her, she's mine, find your own gf. 

Both of you will have to take it up with the 2 or 3 Thai boyfriends she already has...

[phetphet]

I don't see why not. But better to go at quieter times so you don't hold up the queue.

[daveAustin]

You gotta go real slow. They’re very busy. Suggest off the cuff extra word here and there, like ‘your hair’s nice’ — pom suay — as opposed to would you like to try my footlong? You say you’re always well dressed. That is a given. Defo no wife-beaters and f’lip falops. But, yes, 7-11 girls and bank clerks can be got. Be amusing and not serious; don’t be creepy, staring and like 95 years old lol. Good luck. 

Edited June 12, 2022 by daveAustin

[Peterw42]

OP, yes, just start with some small talk when she serves you, "how are you today", "It looks like rain" etc. Ask her name and start addressing her with her name "hello khun <name>", offer your name. Include a small chocolate in your order, when she hands it to you hand it back.

Maybe visit the shop around shift change time, firstly to see if a heavily tattooed Thai guy picks her up, secondly she would be free to talk.

 

[2long]

As @Humminrightly points out, think about the age(s). I find several of our local 7Eleven girls attractive, and I flirt a little bit and have a joke often. But some of them are under 20 years old, and I turn 51 this month. 

There comes a time when young girls (not bar girls) are flirtatious with us older guys because they see us as a 'safe uncle figure' and not as a potential relationship partner. But the male eye, brain, ego and libido can make us overthink things... and end up in trouble.

 

Your age, her age, your marital status and her relationship status are all very important factors.

[RichardColeman]

7 hours ago, jhoncm said:

The reason is I really like a cashier girl from there.

Yes, I like a girl in the 7/11 too , BUT I am also about 40 years older than her. 

 

I do not know the poster age, but hopefully this girl he wants to talk to is not like 30-40 years younger - and they mostly are.

[Fat is a type of crazy]

You are thinking ‘She smiled at me. I’ve still got it’ She is thinking ‘He seems nice. Reminds me of grandpa’ If she says yes be realistic about what she is after.

[BangkokReady]

26 minutes ago, 2long said:

There comes a time when young girls (not bar girls) are flirtatious with us older guys because they see us as a 'safe uncle figure' and not as a potential relationship partner.

Also Thai girls can be incredibly flirtatious and behave in a way that a Westerner might view as being "interested" even if they have a boyfriend.  I have experienced this myself, much to my annoyance.

 

Perhaps they want to cheat, perhaps they want to upgrade, perhaps they're just having fun.  Either way, tread lightly and look out for signs of them having a boyfriend.

[cdemundo]

8 hours ago, jhoncm said:

Like asking her name etc.

You gotta have a clue.

I once stayed in hotel in Bangkok at the same time as an American who loudly called all the front desk women "tilac" all the time, not noticing that they cringed when he called them that. (I was not that American, I swear.)

So you gotta watch how she responds.

So far it sounds like she hasn't given you an opening.

 

I don't know where you are from but I am from the States and would never do any of the following there.

The things I am suggesting I wouldn't do in the States cuz I am an "average Joe" who would probably get shot down hard and left bleeding if I did.

But in Thailand I have done such things and had fun and met women.

 

Yeah, "Like asking her name etc." that would be first.

Ask her name.

Tell her your name, next time you come back does she remember?

Even if not you can joke about it. "You don't remember me? You break my heart."

Thai women love silly, harmless jokes in my experience.

If she doesn't joke around with you, well then you have your answer.

 

Of course you don't want to get in the way of her work so be aware if other members of AseanNow are in line behind you.

In my opinion it is easiest to joke around in full hearing of other employees;

otherwise it's kind of creepy.

Luring her off into the store on a pretext seems creepy to me.

The more straightforward the better.

 

Don't put her on the spot much, 

"Do you have a boyfriend", playfully, can almost always get away with that.

If she jokes around with you: "Do you think farangs make good boyfriends?" or something like that.

You will know if she is interested by her answer, encouraging or no.

Leaving it casual either one of you can act like it was only a joke and no embarassment.

 

As long as you don't have weird intentions, why feel embarrassed?

And in my experience with girls in Bangkok your intentions gotta be pretty weird to freak them out.

Edited June 12, 2022 by cdemundo

[KhunLA]

Next time checking out with your bowl of noodle purchase ...

 

"tired of these noodles ... you know good noodle shop, maybe good khao soi, or tom yam?"

"maybe you can show me someday" ... plant the seed, see how many smiles you get afterwards.

[bkk6060]

To avoid disturbing her work, write your name and phone or Line on a small piece of paper and discreetly hand it to her.  I have done this and it works.

Good luck.

[dingdongrb]

Heck with the 7-11 girls, give me one of those cuties from Swensen's.