Where to find a sugar friendship?

[Gottfrid]

16 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

He finds some really lovely, high functioning women. Sometimes he has to juggle them. Thailand is a great spot for finding a woman, whether she be a civilian, PFP, or in between. 

So, that must mean that all who wish to have plenty of women should go to Thailand? My god, you are a sad bunch of people! How would it be to grow up and finally be real men?

[BarstoolChang]

There's no way OP ain't Bob Smith's alt account.

[Celsius]

56 minutes ago, MichaelHunt said:

Because she's new at this (I am her first sugar daddy/first farang), she still does it like she enjoys it. I keep expecting her to slack off, but she hasn't yet.

 

And she was just a cashier.....I mean a University student who never dated a farang before but you were her first hookup on tinder and of course since deleted her profile.

 

 

 

 

 

 

[G Rex]

1 hour ago, MichaelHunt said:

I found mine on the ThaiFriendly website. She's a very pretty 20-year-old university student, from a somewhat poor family of food vendors in an outer Bangkok suburb.

 

I'm 64 (but I l don't look a day over 63.) I'm not especially handsome, so to compensate, I pay her handsomely. (I pay her by the visit, by the way - which helps to keep her motivated. I think it would be crazy to pay for such a service once a month in advance. And we don't go out on "dates". All of our time together is spent in my apartment, where she is comfortable enough to stay all night every time.)

 

I've been seeing her once a week for about a year now. SHE always calls ME to see if I'm available when she has a day off, and the sex is great - at least for me, and apparently for her as well - since, as I said, she's always calling me to see if I'm available for her to visit. Or maybe she just likes the good money for the not terribly unpleasant sex. Because she's new at this (I am her first sugar daddy/first farang), she still does it like she enjoys it. I keep expecting her to slack off, but she hasn't yet.

 

Since I've been taking care of her, I have noticed that her lifestyle has improved considerably (new iPhone, nice new clothes, etc.), which is the whole point of the relationship for her. I am happy to see her life getting better, and she certainly makes my life better.

 

She has another year left with her studies, and I get the feeling that she would like to continue our arrangement at least until she graduates. From my perspective, I'm satisfied enough with the arrangement that I'm in no hurry to end it.

Michael Hunt (AKA Mike).  Are you serious?  

 Rumour has it you are distantly related to Richard Cranium.

[Sigmund]

OP should watch his nuts as most of the hot girlies offering their hired relationship, have many other "sponsors" on their string, Watch out for STD's as Hiv and Aids are widely spread in Thailand. I would not try any such rubbish with a wife and kids back home and risk bringing back some STD or other infection or virus.

[Adumbration]

Proficient in Thai but does not know how to meet a gik.

 

More fake content.

[BenStark]

27 minutes ago, Adumbration said:

Proficient in Thai but does not know how to meet a gik.

 

More fake content.

Site is up for sale so traffic need to be created at any cost.

 

I doubt that those who feed the trolls will get a percentage of the sales.

[mania]

4 hours ago, whistersniff said:

I'm realistic about my situation and what I can and cannot offer a lady on the side, so I am willing to go the sugar route.  However, I'm not interested in bar ladies or prostitutes.

I would say your not realistic at all if you think your not getting a prostitute as a side girl. You want to pay for sex but dont want a prostitute ???? ok

 

Unlike you  Side girls are realistic & know your married, also know what you cannot offer so they are always looking always "working"

 

 

[stoner]

2 hours ago, MichaelHunt said:

I've been seeing her once a week for about a year now. SHE always calls ME to see if I'm available when she has a day off, and the sex is great - at least for me, and apparently for her as well - since, as I said, she's always calling me to see if I'm available for her to visit. Or maybe she just likes the good money for the not terribly unpleasant sex. Because she's new at this (I am her first sugar daddy/first farang), she still does it like she enjoys it. I keep expecting her to slack off, but she hasn't yet.

 

the delusion in this paragraph is enough to fill 2 private dancer books. 

[JensenZ]

3 hours ago, MichaelHunt said:

I'm 64 (but I l don't look a day over 63.)

LOL. I'm 64 and don't look a day over 65. The OP can't even be straight about his age, yet he's asking for advice. He says he's double the age of a college student, so maybe 50 and thinks he looks late 30s... oh, yes, and fit too. It's a bit strange that a person who is proficient in Thai (that would take many years of study and close contact with Thai people in order to perfect his pronunciation) needs advice from people here about women in Thailand.

 

Age is very important to girls. They don't like sex with men older than their fathers. Sure, for money, no problem, but they secretly feel very weird about it.

[JensenZ]

1 hour ago, BenStark said:

Site is up for sale so traffic need to be created at any cost.

 

I doubt that those who feed the trolls will get a percentage of the sales.

I agree - it's a troll post, but I did feed it LOL

[ChaiyaTH]

Pay as you go and man up when you meet someone you do want to be with, kids are not stupid, and they will not like you to have done it later on.

 

If you both already are good doing this now what is the difference to level up.

 

Its usually only a benefit for kids once at a ok age anyway, they get best of both worlds and happier parents.

[ChaiyaTH]

5 hours ago, whistersniff said:

I don't want it to be transactional in the sense that I'm paying a prostitute for one hour of sex and leaving. Otherwise, I'd just pay a prostitute for one hour of sex and leave.  

So you know your realistic option then, its funny you speak of risks too, there would be more with a sugar girl that potentially falls in love or finds out your real life to then cause drama.

 

You could also frequent less prostitutes as of todays mojo and pay for a more quality escort to receive the girlfriend experience.

[PingRoundTheWorld]

I think you're confused. Bar girls and prostitutes are exactly the type of women who would be glad to have a no commitment sugar situation. In fact many of them already have one or more "boyfriends" sponsoring their lifestyle from overseas with occasional visits to LOS.

 

You could go on dating websites like Thai Friendly, or even Tinder - but the women there who would accept a sugar relationship are exactly the same - they're freelancers who use dating sites/apps to find customers instead of bars/clubs. It doesn't matter where you meet her and how you try to hamster it in your head that "she's different" - a prostitute is a prostitute.

 

Normal non-prostitute Thai girls will not accept a sugar situation. Beginner prostitutes and semi-pros who hold a job but "moonlight" on the side could fit your description, however they tend to be a lot more jealous and needy than more experienced ones. Expect phone calls in the middle of the night and all those things you wish to avoid. You really should be looking for pros who won't pretend it's an actual relationship.

[PingRoundTheWorld]

2 hours ago, JensenZ said:

Age is very important to girls. They don't like sex with men older than their fathers. Sure, for money, no problem, but they secretly feel very weird about it.

Clearly you have not been intoduced to the wonderful world of "daddy issues".

[SAFETY FIRST]

8 hours ago, Prubangboy said:

You want a sex relationship with someone who's not really into you, but you don't want it to be in any way "transactional".

 

My thoughts exactly. 

 

'Average Joe' wants a relationship but doesn't want to pay. 

 

OMG, these loser guys better have a lot of money because they will be doing a lot of masterbating if not. 

[Prubangboy]

It's hilarious that he don't use the brains that God gave him and just go to an internet Sugar dating site.

 

But noooo, he wants to meet his little nymph in the wild, at a coffee bar perhaps.

 

Why won't anyone tell him where this magic coffee bar is? He's asking outright: where is the coffee bar?

 

Is this moribund website only fit for dentist recco's and solar panel discussions?

 

He looks late 30's and is fit. He's done his part .

 

The women are waiting. At the coffee bar. Why won't you c-blockers tell him where it is?

[whistersniff]

7 hours ago, ericthai said:

you speak perfect Thai, but dont know how to find a Thai girl??

Proficient is not perfect. 

[whistersniff]

I expected to get blasted, but didn't expect so many disgruntled haters on this forum.  

[whistersniff]

41 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

It's hilarious that he don't use the brains that God gave him and just go to an internet Sugar dating site.

 

But noooo, he wants to meet his little nymph in the wild, at a coffee bar perhaps.

 

 

I don't use internet dating sites for privacy purposes.

[whistersniff]

1 hour ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

My thoughts exactly. 

 

'Average Joe' wants a relationship but doesn't want to pay. 

 

OMG, these loser guys better have a lot of money because they will be doing a lot of masterbating if not. 

Did you read the OP? It's opposite of what you wrote. I am willing to pay, but not for a one and done transactional experience (i.e., hooker).  But that doesn't fit your narrative that allows you to post an unfunny, smartass comment.

[Prubangboy]

36 minutes ago, whistersniff said:

I don't use internet dating sites for privacy purposes.

-And yet, and yet, hanging around in coffee shops, disco's and approaching little hotties at the mall can some how be done invisibly?

 

The best trolls on this thread were the wits who urged you to skulk around in college libraries: "Mistah, why you no can find book"?

 

Are you in a dead bedroom situation? My sympathy, been there, done that. But many are as well, and are seeking your kind of relationship.

 

I don't think the sugar lifestyle forum is wrong; it exactly replicates the ups and downs of these relationships as I observed them with my relative and her friends.

 

You sound like my friend who was trapped in a bad marriage and wanted a long-term female hook up.

 

I said, "walk me through this, who is this woman who's attractive and sexual, but finds married-you to be her best option out of many?" 

He said: "Maybe someone who's husband is dying of cancer".

 

I said; "God just did not make enough of them to go around. And a lot of them will be fatties. Plus, a lot mopey whining about the cancer". His plan made more sense than your's.

 

Who is this woman who wants to sit on your old (but fit) face, when so many other better and less complicated faces beckon?

 

What's your monthly budget for said face-sitting?

[Prubangboy]

39 minutes ago, whistersniff said:

I am willing to pay, but not for a one and done transactional experience (i.e., hooker).  

What about going to the same hooker several times, or even regularly on an on-going basis?

 

You know, getting to know her, taking her out for big bowls of soup like they like?

 

Pros: Easy to implement, they're mostly nice people, soup is cheap.

 

Cons: They are flat out hookers, not grey area hookers like you prefer.

[2baht]

Whatever you do, DON'T tell anyone. OK? ????

[Prubangboy]

1 hour ago, whistersniff said:

 for privacy purposes.

 

[Lacessit]

I understand about one-third of female university students in Thailand are seeking a sugar daddy to assist with their living expenses. They advertise openly on social media.

 

Unless the OP is as good-looking as a movie star, he is deluding himself if he thinks the relationship will be anything more than transactional.

 

Women have always been attracted to good looks, power, intelligence and money. IMO money will always win in a canter.

[scubascuba3]

Sounds like you actually want someone who likes you, try and meet someone out and about.  Thaifriendly is an option but it will be transactional, ok for most

[whistersniff]

To clarify about transactional: yes, it will be transactional in that she is receiving money in return for her time. But I'm looking for something more than one hour with a person for sex. I'm surprised (or not) that so many on this board are acting like this is a unicorn situation. It's not uncommon in other parts of the world and given what I've seen in Thailand there are options here as well because there's a population of women looking for financial support and stability.  

 

Yes, the lady I find won't be 100% committed to me. I stated in my OP I expected that and am just fine with it.

[Dante99]

2 hours ago, whistersniff said:

I expected to get blasted, but didn't expect so many disgruntled haters on this forum.  

What can you expect when you are a sick cookie?

[brianthainess]

So if I understand you, you want a Gik and free sex, good luck with that, also the risk of being shot/stabbed by her jealous husband/ boyfriend is very high and or Him demanding money.