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On 1/16/2018 at 2:45 PM, MaeJoMTB said:

Met mine, also much younger, agreed a purchase price with her and her mom, married 2 weeks later.

After 9 years and a child, she's finished high school and completed 2 years at University.

 

Marriage to an educated woman my own age who I dated for 2 years before marriage, complete disaster.

 

Tell me about these rules again?

 

Tell the full story Joe

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I will never marry here in Thailand. I have lived with my girlfriend here for over 2 years - very happy. Marriage would ruin it I am sure. She knows I will not marry, or buy her a house - she seems happy enough. But it took me over 10 years to find her !

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' To men who married women '

 

Would have made a better thread title. Can't see what difference nationality makes.

 

Works for those who genuinely love each other and enter into it with their eyes open. 

 

Been happily married now for 6 years. Were together 5 years before that and never thought about it much. In the end we went ahead to make our lives easier with regard to the laws of our respective countries , re visas etc.

 

Had we not married nothing would be different between us but would just have had to face more beurocratic hassles.

 

If however you are not ready to give up your freedom to have several partners then marriage is probably not a good idea.

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On 2/6/2017 at 9:14 PM, nuakmuaynina said:

Well I am a farrang lady that married a thai man...whilst I had some good experiences, it was a complete waste of time, and not worth my energy or the heartbreak.   

I am kind of surprised because I know many farang ladies married Chinese or Japanese in Canada and they seem to be doing well. On the average I mean of course not all of them are doing well. Is your ex hubby alcoholic? That would be bad if he is.

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On 8 June 2016 at 5:43 PM, tollgate said:

My beautiful Thai wife thought it was acceptable to:

Spit in my face.

Rip shirts off me.

Attack me with broom handles, a heavy wooden chair and even a large kitchen knife.

Break my stuff.

Guess what? I left her. Took me 8 years to do it. Stupid me.

Now she has said sorry and wants me back!

I thought that you were talking about my ex wife, but when you omitted being slashed by the knife I  may have jumped to conclusions.

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On 6/9/2016 at 10:37 PM, seancbk said:

I've often wondered why guys are so desperate to get married here.

not desperate to marry, just desperate to get a visa without visa runs,

and unless you are 50, theres no visa to get unless you marry,

-enter visa runs

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No. She is the best of my last 4 wives, and the youngest one. Nothing to regret about. Any problem...I will start looking for wife #6. Perthaps a richier one. I am only over 70 now and getting married keep me in better shape every time, and keeps my savings growing. Amazing Thailand!

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12 hours ago, poanoi said:

not desperate to marry, just desperate to get a visa without visa runs,

and unless you are 50, theres no visa to get unless you marry,

-enter visa runs

 

I married mine for the VISA, was only expecting  her to hang around for 3-4 months, 9 years later she's still here.

I guess we've got used to each other now.

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20 hours ago, madusa said:

I am kind of surprised because I know many farang ladies married Chinese or Japanese in Canada and they seem to be doing well. On the average I mean of course not all of them are doing well. Is your ex hubby alcoholic? That would be bad if he is.

 

No he didn’t drink much at all actually. 

But he gambled and had affairs/lied. I got messages on Facebook from women saying they’d slept with my husband. So I got rid. He still moans to people about it, and of course tried to make out like he was the victim in the story. 

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Been married to my Thai wife 18 years this year. We've had our ups and downs through the years but never once thought of splitting up. We have a beautiful 15 year old daughter. Spent our first 7 years in Thailand and last ten years in the US. I think the secret was I was living and working in Thailand and we had time to get to really learn and love each other. She was not my first Thai girlfriend and those two were disasters especially the second one which I lived with for almost a year.

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Me & my Mrs have been living together for nearly 7 years now and in a relationship for nearly 8, I don't see any reason to rush into marriage, we're happy as we are, no kids, just the 2 of us, ideal.

 

Just out of interest, if we were to marry, say this year, would that affect my pension entitlement as far as the old age pension in the UK is concerned, IE: would I get more :smile: TIA

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17 minutes ago, Golden Triangle said:

Me & my Mrs have been living together for nearly 7 years now and in a relationship for nearly 8, I don't see any reason to rush into marriage, we're happy as we are, no kids, just the 2 of us, ideal.

 

Just out of interest, if we were to marry, say this year, would that affect my pension entitlement as far as the old age pension in the UK is concerned, IE: would I get more :smile: TIA

 

 

No.

 

infact those who were entitled to the old additional allowance for a wife will lose that benefit in 2020.

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On 1/27/2018 at 3:43 PM, nuakmuaynina said:

 

No he didn’t drink much at all actually. 

But he gambled and had affairs/lied. I got messages on Facebook from women saying they’d slept with my husband. So I got rid. He still moans to people about it, and of course tried to make out like he was the victim in the story. 

If you walk on the sea beach & I ask you to find two stones that match each other exactly, do you think you could find them? Say give you one year to do that(everyday or any hours you need). That's how marriage looks like, looking for two stones that match. Most of the time the stones almost match but not quite and these stones are not many.

Human are not meant to get married, only people who understand this are the "Musuo" tribal people in south west of Tibet a province belongs to China. If you google "walking marriage of Musuo" you will see interesting people who don't get marriage. They have sex and they look after the kids but the men don't live with the women.

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24 minutes ago, madusa said:

If you walk on the sea beach & I ask you to find two stones that match each other exactly, do you think you could find them? Say give you one year to do that(everyday or any hours you need). That's how marriage looks like, looking for two stones that match. Most of the time the stones almost match but not quite and these stones are not many.

Human are not meant to get married, only people who understand this are the "Musuo" tribal people in south west of Tibet a province belongs to China. If you google "walking marriage of Musuo" you will see interesting people who don't get marriage. They have sex and they look after the kids but the men don't live with the women.

Meh, marriage per second is not a big deal for me. We mainly did it for visa reasons, however, what bothers me is honesty. In any relationship but especially romantic ones. I have no problem with open relationships,  and if I’d had known it would be a different story. 

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24 minutes ago, madusa said:

If you walk on the sea beach & I ask you to find two stones that match each other exactly, do you think you could find them? Say give you one year to do that(everyday or any hours you need). That's how marriage looks like, looking for two stones that match. Most of the time the stones almost match but not quite and these stones are not many.

Human are not meant to get married, only people who understand this are the "Musuo" tribal people in south west of Tibet a province belongs to China. If you google "walking marriage of Musuo" you will see interesting people who don't get marriage. They have sex and they look after the kids but the men don't live with the women.

Meh, marriage per second is not a big deal for me. We mainly did it for visa reasons, however, what bothers me is honesty. In any relationship but especially romantic ones. I have no problem with open relationships,  and if I’d had known it would be a different story. 

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On 1/16/2018 at 2:45 PM, MaeJoMTB said:

Met mine, also much younger, agreed a purchase price with her and her mom, married 2 weeks later.

After 9 years and a child, she's finished high school and completed 2 years at University.

 

Marriage to an educated woman my own age who I dated for 2 years before marriage, complete disaster.

 

Tell me about these rules again?

 
Marriage to an educated woman my own age who I dated for 2 years before marriage, complete disaster.
But on 2/3 you said otherwise;
On 2/3/2018 at 8:42 AM, MaeJoMTB said:

"I first married a virgin, almost no sex in the entire marriage."

 

 So, you dated her for 2 years before marrying her and she was still a virgin when you got married...yep, righto..

You really should stop with your lies on forum.

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