Why do thai men let the girlfriends work in bar

[SteadyEddie]

32 minutes ago, ThailandRyan said:

Buying into the long con I see.  

She is my friend but not good enough friend to go question what she is doing lol. I do know her and I know they havent been together long, she was with an ozzy guy before and has a kid with, then with someone from u.k. Im just using her story as an example. I know loads of thai guys let their long term gf do it and it just amazes me.

[Ron jeremy]

1 hour ago, Ron jeremy said:

They can pay their room , food transport, and send money back to the village the same as the millions who have chosen not to sell their ass. Not all gals aspire to become prostitutes. Perhaps if they didn't get pregnant at 15, they wouldn't be in that position?  And their boyfriends are all for the idea of the gal going to work, meeting a  falang, perhaps a house, money sent every month, hey, maybe these guys ain't so stupid after all? Who's the stupid one sending money? 

And the falang don't seem to have any problem going to Thailand, marrying a prostitute- bar girl. No morals there!

[Tagged]

2 hours ago, kingofthemountain said:

Thai men understand a girl's body is like a sink

once well cleaned it's as if it had never been used 

I assume you havent seen many homes and their sink? 

 

Edit note: Thai home in a village

Edited June 9, 2020 by Tagged

[tribalfusion001]

Once a girl has had 100+ customers then the work is easy, the skilled ones will make sure you don't last long. Although I've never met a Thai man who has a hooker for a girlfriend. I know a few farang who have had one working in a go go bar and come back to them at the end of her shift with some money and a big mac.

[alyx]

Well, different cultures.

Prostitution (mind you, working in a bar doesn't systematically equal to that) is not perceived as a vile job (even though it is not legal in Thailand). On the contrary it brings bread to the family members whether they are husbands  or parents

This being said, the same goes for guys, who, for some, have girlfriends, usually doing the same job I concede, so why should you only point at one gender working in the industry ? (rhetorical)

[ezzra]

Simple equation really, Farangs= money, drunk Farangs= even more money in tips and extras, sweet life, get the GF work in a bar and me sitting here watching telly drinking me beer and smoking me a reefer...

[pineapple01]

Same reason Ferang Men do, or does that spoil the Thai Bash. Topic

[baansgr]

They like sloppy seconds

[Boomer6969]

3 hours ago, kingofthemountain said:

On a more anecdotical side, in fact and at least in Pattaya a lot of the ''boyfriends'' are

''girlfriends'', there are a lot of couple girl\girl. you can see the ''tom'' come pick their

fiancees at the closure of the a gogos late in the night.

If that's right it is a terrible loss of opportunity.

[1FinickyOne]

3 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

"You can have my body, but you can't have my soul" type of thing..

Correct... and they might ask of Westerners the same question in reverse, selling their souls for a few dollars.. but they accept... 

[zoza]

3 hours ago, daphnia88 said:

There are still waitresses.... Maids.... Nannies..... they can get a job fairly quickly if they want to. It just won't be a quick 2k made within 4 hours.... Which then proves my point. Money wins over everything else. 

from what i have seen and been told the vast majority do not have Thai boyfriends, why would they?

the place were they work has security, and in general i have not heard of much trouble.

 

they also earn more than 2k a pop (in Bangkok they get some customers who have lots of influence in Thailand, and lots of money, but they tend to pay less than your average punter) 5k-10k is closer to what your Farang punter pays and these girls will have a few regulars who send money each month. 

right now everything is shut so they are just waiting in their rooms, there are a few online services currently asking for ladies as they say its the new way....but time will tell and i can not see it closing completely. 

[mr mr]

4 hours ago, SteadyEddie said:

Why do the thai men let their girlfriends work in bar?

money. 

[impulse]

3 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Newbie poster, controversial subject, here we go again!

 

Crafty <deleted>, though.  He didn't write a novella like most of them do.

 

[thaibeachlovers]

26 minutes ago, zoza said:

from what i have seen and been told the vast majority do not have Thai boyfriends, why would they?

the place were they work has security, and in general i have not heard of much trouble.

 

they also earn more than 2k a pop (in Bangkok they get some customers who have lots of influence in Thailand, and lots of money, but they tend to pay less than your average punter) 5k-10k is closer to what your Farang punter pays and these girls will have a few regulars who send money each month. 

right now everything is shut so they are just waiting in their rooms, there are a few online services currently asking for ladies as they say its the new way....but time will tell and i can not see it closing completely. 

5k-10k is closer to what your Farang punter pays

On what planet?

[Curt1591]

P-I-M-P-S

[bkk6060]

When open walk down the side sois off Walking Street around 7 pm 100's of Gogo girls on the back of motorbikes being dropped off by their Thai bf.  A kiss goodbye see you tomorrow and off they go to work.

I assume the bf is fine with all of it as he wants the money she makes for booze, cigarettes, partying and gambling.

[PatOngo]

The mangda boyfriends are generally lazy but just love the easy money. Why wouldn't they stay home and get out of it with their mates when they can send the gik out to hawk her crotch!

[VocalNeal]

4 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

An interesting discussion.

 

Perhaps the idea is a completely alien concept to us (westerners) who've grown up with the luxury of education and a welfare service befitting of western morals, however, those who have grown up in society where the necessity for such is tolerated, accepted and understood I suspect the actions of 'going with another' for money is seen as nothing more than work.... its a job, its just a job...

 

"You can have my body, but you can't have my soul" type of thing....

 

 

I know a woman, ahem, who had a child, boyfriend ran away. Familiar story.

 

Went to BKK to work in a shoe factory.  3-4000 a month less 1000 for accommodation. Sent money home for upkeep of child.

Transferred from production to security with a pay raise to something like 6000 a month.

Someone told here that if she was willing to dance in a bikini she could get 9000 a month. Which she did. No brainer really.

 

Doesn't mean she has no morals. Just different to the morals farang mongers think they have. 

 

 

[BritManToo]

2 minutes ago, VocalNeal said:

Someone told here that if she was willing to dance in a bikini she could get 9000 a month. Which she did. No brainer really.

Doesn't mean she has no morals. Just different to the morals farang mongers think they have. 

It's a fairly short step from dancing in a bikini (or serving drinks) to prostitution.

They're surrounded by hookers saying how easy it is, and seeing how much money they make.

Normally the new girls can hold out for a week, rarely two.

Edited June 10, 2020 by BritManToo

[sukhumvitneon]

If your "girlfriend" works as a prostitute than you are a cuck

[Bruce Aussie Chiang Mai]

Its $$$$$$$$$ and many stupid farangs willing to pay.

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[ThailandRyan]

2 hours ago, tribalfusion001 said:

Once a girl has had 100+ customers then the work is easy, the skilled ones will make sure you don't last long. Although I've never met a Thai man who has a hooker for a girlfriend. I know a few farang who have had one working in a go go bar and come back to them at the end of her shift with some money and a big mac.

as well as giving them some of the special sauce for the Big Mac...

[ThailandRyan]

1 hour ago, Curt1591 said:

P-I-M-P-S

P....y Is My P....'s Straightjacket

 

Is that what the acronym stands for..

 

Standing by to be banned for another set of long days with that answer. 

[LomSak27]

6 hours ago, SteadyEddie said:

Why do the thai men let their girlfriends work in bar?

 

Money  ???? 

[zoza]

1 hour ago, thaibeachlovers said:

5k-10k is closer to what your Farang punter pays

On what planet?

on planet proper Establishment in Bangkok with proper birds not some dingy Pattaya ****hole

go-go's in Pattaya have been quoting 2k-4k including bar fine   

birds in your local beer bar have been asking 1k-1.5k + for about three years 

i have seen girls banking 200 k in two months before this Covid-19 broke

these young ladies are buying land and investing their money the last thing they want

is a Thai boyfriend.

[brewsterbudgen]

Anyone reading this thread would think that prostitutes in the west don't also have boyfriends, lesbian lovers or husbands.  Why should Thai prostitutes be any different?

[ThailandRyan]

3 minutes ago, brewsterbudgen said:

Anyone reading this thread would think that prostitutes in the west don't also have boyfriends, lesbian lovers or husbands.  Why should Thai prostitutes be any different?

Thats the age old question that can only be answered succinctly with another question.

 

How many men in the west get married to there Western Prostitute vs. How many western men marry their Thai working bar girl?

 

[BritManToo]

51 minutes ago, brewsterbudgen said:

Anyone reading this thread would think that prostitutes in the west don't also have boyfriends, lesbian lovers or husbands.  Why should Thai prostitutes be any different?

I'm not sure why they should be different, but they definitely are.

Used to work near Kings Cross station, walking past was often approached, was never tempted ..... they looked 'diseased'.

Beer bars/gogos in Pattaya, completely different class of girl.

[Kadilo]

3 hours ago, zoza said:

 

i have seen girls banking 200 k in two months before this Covid-19 broke

these young ladies are buying land and investing their money the last thing they want

is a Thai boyfriend.

You “have seen “. ........or they have told you?

Edited June 10, 2020 by Kadilo

[BritManToo]

4 hours ago, sukhumvitneon said:

If your "girlfriend" works as a prostitute than you are a cuck

Everyone who has a girlfriend is eventually a 'cuck', some sooner than later.

The only way to avoid women cheating on you, is to never get involved with one (apart from your mom).

 

Back to your male supremacist sites looking for your young Christian virgin.