Do I need to stop my relationship with my Thai girl?

[HandsomeTallFarang]

Seems like the love has died and she is just using me as a crutch. I'm not old or ugly or short but I think she thinks the perfect farrang male model will come give her familya fortune in baht every month. She is a very attractive lady but our relationship has grown tenuous. High maintenance and gorgeous who doesn't appreciate all the sacrifices I make for her. I'm on the ropes, gentlemen, and I think it's time we stopped.

[tonray]

By all means, drop her so you can hook up with someone even worse.  

[Kwasaki]

Are you sure she is not a proffesional the really hot ones were I found in my long holiday time here, years ago now mind.

 

Ask yourself do you want commitment with her or not that is mostly what is wanted. 

[BritManToo]

5 minutes ago, HandsomeTallFarang said:

who doesn't appreciate all the sacrifices I make for her.

Never make sacrifices for women.

Pay for what you  get!

[OneMoreFarang]

12 minutes ago, HandsomeTallFarang said:

Seems like the love has died and she is just using me as a crutch. I'm not old or ugly or short but I think she thinks the perfect farrang male model will come give her familya fortune in baht every month. She is a very attractive lady but our relationship has grown tenuous. High maintenance and gorgeous who doesn't appreciate all the sacrifices I make for her. I'm on the ropes, gentlemen, and I think it's time we stopped.

You are not happy with her anymore - for whatever reason.

And what do people who are not happy together anymore? They separate!

What would be the point of staying with a person who doesn't make you happy?

 

Apart from that I suggest have a close look what problems you have to make sure you don't repeat the same problems in the next relationship. Money might be one issue but often there are a lot more issues and just pretending all would be happy if she would only receive enough money is often unrealistic. 

[xylophone]

41 minutes ago, HandsomeTallFarang said:

Seems like the love has died and she is just using me as a crutch. I'm not old or ugly or short but I think she thinks the perfect farrang male model will come give her familya fortune in baht every month. She is a very attractive lady but our relationship has grown tenuous

In your post you said, "seems like the love has died" and, "our relationship has grown tenuous", so there you have two very good reasons to move on.

 

If you accept that, then moving on will be easy, however if you still have feelings for her, then you have perhaps a tough decision to make.

 

IMO hanging on to an almost dead relationship is a complete waste of time.

[petermik]

Move on...why make one woman miserable when there's plenty more out there that can make you happy...

 

[Brer]

Could be worst if you were married.

There at least a million others out there and some are extremely beautiful physically and in nature.

[BritManToo]

Just now, Brer said:

and some are extremely beautiful physically and in nature.

Those would be guys pretending to be women.

[Brer]

5 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Those would be guys pretending to be women.

Well I don’t know how fussy he is.

[CharlieH]

So, What do you want here, affirmation ? We dont know her or you, you made a statement and already made your decision it would seem.

 

Go get another one, you know she will.

 

Thats life mate.

[Excel]

Perhaps she does not understand that "the perfect farang male model" as you put it are nearly all gay ????

[OneMoreFarang]

4 minutes ago, CharlieH said:

So, What do you want here, affirmation ? We dont know her or you, you made a statement and already made your decision it would seem.

 

Go get another one, you know she will.

 

Thats life mate.

Maybe the problem is to end that relationship. Lot's of girls (and also guys) don't like to hear that it's over.

 

I suggest he should post her picture and contact details on TV. Soon she will realize that there are lots of other guys out there who like to contact pretty young girls. Then our member will be released of his problem and maybe she is able to make one or two other members happy. Clearly a win/win situation.

[OneMoreFarang]

3 minutes ago, Excel said:

Perhaps she does not understand that "the perfect farang male model" as you put it are nearly all gay ????

Maybe she wouldn't mind as long as he is rich and willing to share all that money. ???? 

[ThailandRyan]

Pack up the bags, take what's yours and "Hit the Road Jack"

 

https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=Hit+the+road+jack&view=detail&mid=41293ABD16930B9DD8C241293ABD16930B9DD8C2&FORM=VIRE0&ru=%2fsearch%3fq%3dHit%2bthe%2broad%2bjack%26cvid%3d5033ba2677cc45fd811c954d0c961f1c%26aqs%3dedge..69i57.5487j0j9%26FORM%3dANAB01%26PC%3dLCTS

 

Plenty of fish in the sea, and as said many times before never put forth more than you can afford to walk away from.

Edited April 15, 2021 by ThailandRyan

[swissie]

Woulden't be the first time:

OP has has been associating with "good" Thai girls before, them delivering little exitement in the bedroom.

Then comes along a girl with true bedroom talents. Making it hard to part, the Farang realising that it may take years for him to find another certified "bedroom-talent". That would (for most men) be a good reason to hang on to a relationship even if other "perks" have evaporated.

It's easy: Men sleep 8 hours a day. Another 8 hours they spend time on silly things like eating, drinking, making money, playing golf.

What do they do with the rest of the remaining 8 hours? Looking to reproduce. Preferrably with a "bedroom-talent" instead of a boring good (Thai) girl).
Sex is generally underrated in a relationship. Could it be that the OP finds himself in this situation?  

[CG1 Blue]

5 hours ago, HandsomeTallFarang said:

I'm not old or ugly or short

That one sentence speaks volumes

[sipi]

I married the village "ugly duckling" who had been shelved, best thing I ever did.

She's the perfect wife, and frankly beautiful in my eyes.

Mind you, I'm no oil painting.

[mstevens]

It sounds like you've made the decision to move on but don't have the gonads to tell her. Do it, move on and very soon you'll feel a whole lot better about life.

[scubascuba3]

Guys get confused with girlfriends vs employees, if it isn't working let her go and hire someone else

[lodstewart]

dump her and hard, so she realises that she didn't put the effort in to keep you happy.

you will then hook up with one who is devoted to you for what you are, not just for the gold she can screw out of you.

c'mon mate, theres thousands of them out there, start selecting .......slowly,  take your time ok

[koolkarl]

I have the philosophy pump 'em and dump 'em.

Never caused me a heartache.

[Deli]

It's a all about the Benjamins. Drop her, next one to come.

[tonray]

1 minute ago, Deli said:

It's a all about the Benjamins. Drop her, next one to come.

If she's an Issan girl that would be "Benjamats"

[1FinickyOne]

7 hours ago, sipi said:

I married the village "ugly duckling" who had been shelved, best thing I ever did.

She's the perfect wife, and frankly beautiful in my eyes.

Mind you, I'm no oil painting.

Actually, a lovely post - - A friend told me years ago that any Thai lady can put on make-up and be beautiful... but not every lady is beautiful inside... 

 

In the truly kindest way... you deserve each other and the happiness and contentment you seem to have... 

[nobodysfriend]

13 hours ago, HandsomeTallFarang said:

Seems like the love has died and she is just using me as a crutch. I'm not old or ugly or short but I think she thinks the perfect farrang male model will come give her familya fortune in baht every month. She is a very attractive lady but our relationship has grown tenuous. High maintenance and gorgeous who doesn't appreciate all the sacrifices I make for her. I'm on the ropes, gentlemen, and I think it's time we stopped.

 

Men are not monogamous by nature .

Only society teaches us that .

 

[1FinickyOne]

22 minutes ago, koolkarl said:

I have the philosophy pump 'em and dump 'em.

Never caused me a heartache.

or a warmth of heart and tender moment?

[Tagged]

7 hours ago, CG1 Blue said:

That one sentence speaks volumes

Im not sure what he trying to tell here? Obvious he did not understand girls do not like cheap Charlies, and nothing to do with our age or look. 

 

 

[crazykopite]

It’s whats under the skin not what’s on top of the skin  if I meet a girl I invite them to come and stay with me for a week or two that gives us both an idea if we can live in Harmony as of today I’m still looking for the right one although the last girl to stay still keeps in touch and never asked for anything but she spent 24/7 on her bloody phone and I mean 24/7 .

[Excel]

1 minute ago, crazykopite said:

It’s whats under the skin not what’s on top of the skin  if I meet a girl I invite them to come and stay with me for a week or two that gives us both an idea if we can live in Harmony as of today I’m still looking for the right one although the last girl to stay still keeps in touch and never asked for anything but she spent 24/7 on her bloody phone and I mean 24/7 .

Yep they love their phones, have you seen how some of those new ones vibrate ????