6 hours ago, JimTripper said:

Started losing interest right after Covid hit. Downhill ever since. I blame it on age since I don't have another reason really (54 now). Nothing physical wrong, maybe it's depression?

 

It's so bad for me now an attractive woman could offer and I would just shrug it off. 🤷🏻‍♂️ I hope things improve. I still remember having a great time sexually before Covid hit.

 

I'm still attracted to exceptional women, but they don't pass my way very often.

It's either low testosterone coupled with high estrogen levels or just stress. Stress is one of the biggest libido killers. If you're using Finasteride to keep your hair - then that is likely your problem. 

10 minutes ago, JensenZ said:

It's either low testosterone coupled with high estrogen levels or just stress. Stress is one of the biggest libido killers. If you're using Finasteride to keep your hair - then that is likely your problem. 

It's probably stress for me. Stress coupled with some mild depression & rumination or something, or maybe a mild mid life crisis.

 

I think stress acts different as I age. Sometimes when I was younger stress actually seemed to increase sexual desire, maybe the opposite now.

8 hours ago, swissie said:

To the point: How is your sex-life as a senior male? In Thailand or elsewhere?

 

ill let you know when i get there in 30 years. 

8 hours ago, swissie said:

Contribute to topic: How is your old age sex live? Nevermind your or my neighbours.

Methinks you enjoyed your creative writing exercise...

 

I would only reply, my life lacks the animal noises... control yourself man. 

8 hours ago, bignok said:

I don't ask anyone about sex. None of my business. 

 

Talk to a doctor perhaps.

I'm guessing your American? You seem hung up.. Or down.. Depending on your age... On the topic of sex. Why? Why is sex taboo but not personal finances or what kind of car your drive? 

 

Shying away from talking about your sex life is... Ridiculous... A society imposition..IE... religious thinking. 

 

To answer the OP... I'm 72 now... My sex life doesn't involve the same vigor and romance as it did up until I was about 65....now it's about affection more than a sexual act. 

 

The topic is interesting.. To those that shy away from the topic... Think about why you feel it's so private for you? 

 

As for talking to a doctor... seriously? He didn't say there was any non functioning bits and pieces on him ... He was curious... 

8 hours ago, bignok said:

I had sex in a pool and a spa bath. That was fun. 

Did your hand get tired? 

Very much a one sided 'old age' aspect to our sex life as the wife is 26 years younger than me.....555

10 hours ago, bignok said:

Why do you care?

 

And you complain about people trolling your threads........

9 hours ago, bignok said:

I had sex in a pool and a spa bath. That was fun. 

 

41 minutes ago, gargamon said:

Did your hand get tired? 

 

No, but my eye got infected.

The most over rated human activity, a good dump is far more satisfying

I've found since I've aged, that what I used to do all night takes me all night to do now.

Just now, NONG CHOK said:

I've found since I've aged, that what I used to do all night takes me all night to do now.

Actually I lost my virginity in the back of my first car. It was ok but I've since found out that it would've been much better if I had company and I was not alone.

Never was in the 'reproducing' mode, and never bothered.  Younger days, and sex, searching for love was the driving force, 24/7, just a notch in front of planning retirement.

 

Now, not so much, and stuck with the demanding task of satisfying the wife.  Life is Hell 

10 hours ago, swissie said:

Contribute to topic: How is your old age sex live? Nevermind your or my neighbours.

he loves to waffle on about nothing relevant.

6 hours ago, Bobthegimp said:

 

My parents ran a seniors' home back in the 70's and 80's. 

 

It was quite a large facility with 250 residents, no long term care patients.  The conversation around our dinner table invariably included the gossip about how many women each of the male residents was shagging.  Old ladies outnumbered old men by a large margin, and there was a high demand for services from the remaining stallions. 

 

Those grannies were horny as hell, just not for their husbands. 

You been watching Cocoon?

I am 68 and still at it. Not everyday. I did mention in another thread that my sex drive is like a bank account, as soon as I withdraw I lose all interest.

 

I sometime need the help of the V or C, no not what you are probably thinking, I mean ED meds.

 

I have difficulty in completing the task and the girls actually like that.

 

A lady I met on ThaiF... . She visited a couple weeks ago. She is 39 and really enjoys it and I obliged. Probably the most in a long time. And the great bonus is she doesn't ask for money, only the bus fare. I obviously take her places and buy food and also give her a good tip on departure.

 

For me it's not the climax is the intimacy of a lady. 

 

Hopefully I can go a few more years.

9 hours ago, swissie said:

A honest contribution concernig the issue. Thanks.

I hope it was as good for you as it was for him. I've never heard of someone getting off on the ability of older guys to have sex.

Still, I suppose there's always one ............ 

Just now, Bundooman said:

I hope it was as good for you as it was for him. I've never heard of someone getting off on the ability of older guys to have sex.

Still, I suppose there's always one ............ 

Why you on the thread then?

Well,

"Not as good as I once was, but as good as I ever was once.

Not sure what constitutes old, but libido need not fade with age. If one stays in shape, it stays strong.

 

Personally, I enjoy the act as much now as when I first started as a teen. Practice makes perfect, and what is the meaning of life if not a drive to perfection..

 

One word of advice: TRT is not a good idea. Better to build testosterone naturally via exercise, and maybe supplements like tongkat ali. The body produces testosterone and sperm at the same time. If one gets TRT, the body sees it has sufficient testosterone and stops producing it, which means it also stops producing sperm. Upwards of 25% of those who get TRT never can produce their own testosterone again.

 

Not enough can be said about the benefits of strenuous exercise, including lifting heavy weights. Better sleep, better mobility, a stronger libido, more testosterone and a much lower incidence of ED are part of the benefits. If one lifts very heavy---such as a last set that one can do maybe 3 reps max---the body responds by churning out both HGH and testosterone, both of which slow aging.

 

If the libido is fading---and if you care---get your vitals checked. Find out how much free testosterone you have. If the libido is low, chances are FT is low.

 

Some of this is genetic. I'm lucky enough to have way above average free testosterone, so I have the libido of a teen and not once has anything not 'risen to the occasion'. Maybe---as the OP wrote and Bertrand Russell likely would agree---sex is silly and overrated, but I hope I never come to feel that way. Sex may not be everything in life, but it certainly is one of life's most pleasurable activities. It's also healthy, as it produces lots of useful hormones that can reduce stress and increase blood flow.

 

There is also some evidence that more frequent 'finishing' is correlated with reduced levels of prostate cancer. So do the '[human thing' and have sex.

11 hours ago, swissie said:

Many views as to why we were born into this world. General consensus is: To reproduce! This is not possible without "having sex". In my younger years I followed this rigorous "call of nature" unconditionally and with much "gusto".

Today (as an old geezer) I look at it in a different way. Today, having sex means to insert a part of my lower body (resembling a cucumber) into the lower part of a female (resembling a mysterious pink body opening).

 

The act usually includes the utterance of animalistic noises, ranging from howling wolves to the guttural noises of a hippo. The "climax" of all this activity is short for women and even shorter for men. Whereas the longer term results of this animalistic encounter may be longer lasting.

Finally, women past menopause have mostly lost interest in "reproduction" as opposed to old men still looking with interest at younger women, not really knowing why.

Clearly, God (the Gods) are feminists. Making the aging process for women much easier than for men.

To the point: How is your sex-life as a senior male? In Thailand or elsewhere?

 

When I first came to Thailand I was a fat boy in a candy shop. Three times a day at 64 1/2 ... OK I was in love with most Thai females and after a stateside divorce several years prior. Add on another 12 years and, well ... I'll quit looking when they close the lid on the coffin but .... Think of a puppy chasing a car. Just what does he think he will do if he caught up with the car? I do "get by with a little help from our friends" (better living through chemistry! It is amusing to note that if I refer to taking a "little blue pill" it might well be "Aleve".

Alright, although at my age it's the organizing of the before and after which is demanding.

Still enjoy it, although that little blue pill is used once in awhile.

 

More interested in the oral and digital side of things these days

 

 

1 hour ago, Bundooman said:

I hope it was as good for you as it was for him. I've never heard of someone getting off on the ability of older guys to have sex.

Still, I suppose there's always one ............ 

Maybe he likes old guys.

54 minutes ago, Walker88 said:

Not sure what constitutes old, but libido need not fade with age. If one stays in shape, it stays strong.

 

 

 

Def true. So true, it warrants a brief thread jack:

 

https://slate.com/human-interest/2023/11/strength-training-failure-strongman-lifting.html

 

 

I'm 71, my western wife is 60. She's had some medical issues and her energy is very variable. We still have very strong attraction and chemistry. Moving that along to a horizontal encounter prob means: on vacation, late afternoon, pre-dinner. Because if we eat first...

 

Let's round it up to around 6-8 times a year these days. I'm going to call 2024 right now as a solid 7.

 

I envy guys who can enjoy P4P. For me, the not into me-factor kills it. I'm like, I'll just do myself instead. At least I'm into me.

 

My wife would go along with it, but given the condom necessity and the cross examination when I got home, I've yet to see a prospect who'd be worth the trouble.

 

 

Soon will be 73 years young and all the mechanisms are still in full working order dare I say it’s like a steel rod no blue pills required . Spend an hour working out at home or in the gym is great for good blood circulation 

78 with a very attractive partner (45) of 13 years. Once, maybe twice a week for us, tho I am fortunate that she has always been easy to cum, DATY is a favorite. V is a good friend

I started mongering in Thailand at 53, pay for play, and over indulged all the time. By my mid 60's I was looking for something more involved, have no regrets. 

old age sex?
If you've never had a gummy you haven't lived.

10 hours ago, bkk6060 said:

If someone is in their 40's or 50's and have lost interest in sex, I think they may need therapy or a thorough  medical/hormone test.  Sex is very important for me cannot think of a more enjoyable human experience and is one of the reasons I came here.  I would probably leave if any desire or ability to have sex was gone.

I'm mid-60s now. I was very active for most of my 40s to 50s. A libido dropping into old age is not something that requires therapy. We all get old, our abilities diminish and then we die. 

 

The way you talk about it is one-dimensional. I'm only interested in sex if I have a partner who is attracted to me, even when the body starts to decay. That's very difficult to solve if you are alone and in your 60s or older.

 

My wife was 28 years younger and still in prime condition. She no longer found me attractive (even though she would never say it, I knew it), so sex became a duty. We are still friends, but I let her go so she has a better chance with a younger guy of similar age. I felt like I was holding her back.

 

Why would I want to get therapy to increase my libido so I can go out every night and pay prostitutes for sex, on a timer?  That's crazy <deleted>. I'm more relaxed and content with my life without having to think about sex all the time. I embrace my low libido. I don't see it as a problem. I'm very active in the gym and with cardio, so the rest of me works really well.

 

Biochemically speaking, I probably have high SHBG levels, which bind to free testosterone, which can substantially lower your libido.

10 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

I'm middle aged, in my 50's, I suppose that's old age sex. 

 

It couldn't be better now I got rid of the kids mother. 

My kids are teenagers now (late teens), never married the mother, didn't think it was a good idea not knowing Thai law, so we just moved on. 

 

My new chick is soft, cute and sexy. 

This might be what you guys need, a new one.

 

A new model will get the spark back, trade in the old model. 😎
 

Most faranga date ugly from what ive seen