Heartless! Daughter keeps blind father, 89, tied up without food lying in his own feces

[webfact]

Heartless! Daughter keeps blind father, 89, tied up without food lying in his own feces 

 

Picture: 77kaoded

 

Locals in an estate in Sa Kaeo in the east of Thailand came across a shocking scene and called in social services and the police.

 

Yuan, aged 89, unable to see out of either eye was chained to a bed without food or water. 

 

Dressed in the same clothes for a month he had just been abandoned among his own feces and urine. 

 

Ban Khok Kamnan community leader Berl, 59, called in the authorities when neighbors could take the situation no more. 

 

Picture: 77kaoded

 

Yuan was helped out and given a shower and changed. He was taken to temporary accommodation.

 

Locals told the media that Yuan's carer was his daughter Rabiap who had gone to work at Big C in the downtown Sa Kaeo area. She had a boyfriend or spouse elsewhere and didn't have much time for her father. 

 

Social services plan to speak to her and other relatives about their father.

 

Soure: 77kaoded

 

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[WineOh]

12 minutes ago, webfact said:

Dressed in the same clothes for a month he had just been abandoned among his own feces and urine.

Sounds like a standard months holiday with friends in thailand for me ????

Edited December 4, 2020 by Liverpoolfan

[Dmaxdan]

So much for respecting and honoring your elders!

 

Social services need to do a lot more than just speak to the daughter. 

[worgeordie]

20 minutes ago, webfact said:

Social services plan to speak to her and other relatives about their father.

Yes she needs a good talking to,she needs to go to prison,

you would not treat a dog like that..

regards Worgeordie

[robertyongym]

If she had (IF IF IF) no "good reason" for having done what she did, the same ought to be meted out to her.

[Tarteso]

To the Poor and miserable woman;
 

 In the Early BuddhistTexts such as the Nikāyas and Āgamas, filial piety is prescribed and practiced in three ways: to repay the gratitude toward one's parents; as a good karma or merit; and as a way to contribute to and sustain the social order...

[colinneil]

Heartbreaking story, how can that disgusting excuse of a daughter do such a thing.

Her own father, left in filthy conditions, without food, she needs a damn good slapping.

Hopefully something can be done to help the poor man live out the rest of his days being cared for properly.

[Natai Beach]

47 minutes ago, colinneil said:

she needs a damn good slapping.

maybe you could give it to her. A damn good one.

wear your Chang singlet.

 

Edited December 4, 2020 by Natai Beach

[cardinalblue]

She has a BF who demands her time and energy...she wants to give her father an iv to speed things up...

 

time for euthanasia in thailand?

Edited December 4, 2020 by cardinalblue

[Golden Triangle]

Any chance of someone at ThaiVisa keeping on top of this story and keeping us informed of any outcomes............PLEASE

[colinneil]

33 minutes ago, Natai Beach said:

maybe you could give it to her. A damn good one.

wear your Chang singlet.

 

What a stupid thing to say to a none drinker, but then again you keep coming out with rubbish comments.

Just weird comment, maybe you should sit down it is time for your hi tea, i heard it was cod on ????????????????the menu.

Edited December 4, 2020 by colinneil

[faraday]

1 hour ago, Natai Beach said:

maybe you could give it to her. A damn good one.

wear your Chang singlet.

 

You just love posting baiting comments, indeed I saw yet another one a few days ago regarding British women.

 

Same with your daft comments about MG, which when given facts to the contrary, you continued with your baiting.

 

Really don't know why you, & another short time member are permitted to continue.

 

Childish really.

 

[Cake Monster]

4 hours ago, webfact said:

Ban Khok Kamnan community leader Berl, 59, called in the authorities when neighbors could take the situation no more. 

Its almost as if its OK to do these terrible things to a fellow Human ..... as long as its only for a short while.

[ChaiyaTH]

Let me guess, she hoped he would have died by the time she returned, untie him and pretend its all natural. After that, sell the land and house too.

Edited December 4, 2020 by ChaiyaTH

[zyphodb]

1 hour ago, cardinalblue said:

She has a BF who demands her time and energy...she wants to give her father an iv to speed things up...

 

time for euthanasia in thailand?

 

God I hope that's irony, given what it's like here can you imagine the abuse a law like that would get...

[hotchilli]

6 hours ago, worgeordie said:

Yes she needs a good talking to,she needs to go to prison,

you would not treat a dog like that..

regards Worgeordie

Sounds like she treated him exactly like a dog, chained up, living in filth.

[Natai Beach]

3 hours ago, Golden Triangle said:

Any chance of someone at ThaiVisa keeping on top of this story and keeping us informed of any outcomes............PLEASE

 

The neighbours had been feeding the guy and giving him water. They told the Gamnan of his plight.
They searched and found the key to unlock him.

The Gamnan called social services. 
Social services took him in, cleaned him up and are now looking after him and took him to hospital and gave him a medical check.
So good on the community. 

 

There might be a good reason that she couldn’t care less about him. He might have been a wife basher and beaten her mum up, might have slapped her around when she was young or worse. He might have been a yaba using alcoholic.

I suspect it is more than we know. 

Just because he is old doesn’t mean he was a good person or dad.. Who knows? Maybe karma has caught up with him?

 

i would like to hear her side before we start giving her a damn good slap. It is very unusual for a daughter not to care about her father, especially in Thailand.

[sammieuk1]

Kids and elderly abuse of this depravity should carry mandatory death sentence anywhere???? 

[GreasyFingers]

Terrible way to treat your father but from my experience not totally unexpected. I have got the impression (from some in my Thai family, so a small sample) that when you are over 70  you are not really needed, even a burden. Not what I expected from a culture that has the parents as the important people. Some Thais are no different to western children in the way they look at the elderly.

[robblok]

3 hours ago, zyphodb said:

 

God I hope that's irony, given what it's like here can you imagine the abuse a law like that would get...

Its done well in the Netherlands can be done well here. Euthanasia  is a human right. Also you can't as a kid ask for a Dr to perform it on your parents. Its a whole process that is carefully monitored. Talking about Dutch version not the cruel american version where they leave someone to die. While in the Dutch version they help you die. 

 

If done properly this would be a great law. 

[Pique Dard]

8 hours ago, webfact said:

Yuan, aged 89, unable to see out of either eye was chained to a bed without food or water. 

 

meanwhile, i've been told family ties are very strong in thailand

[tifino]

a photo of 'her' down on the ground and in shackles herself with a circle of fingers pointed at her; would have been apt!

[faraday]

49 minutes ago, Natai Beach said:

There might be a good reason that she couldn’t care less about him. He might have been a wife basher and beaten her mum up, might have slapped her around when she was young or worse. He might have been a yaba using alcoholic

 

I do actually agree with your opinion, which surprises me.

 

The daughter may have learnt abusive behaviour from her father, which is passed down through families.

 

It's called the 'chain of torture'.

 

Dreadfully sad, though.

[billd766]

2 hours ago, GreasyFingers said:

Terrible way to treat your father but from my experience not totally unexpected. I have got the impression (from some in my Thai family, so a small sample) that when you are over 70  you are not really needed, even a burden. Not what I expected from a culture that has the parents as the important people. Some Thais are no different to western children in the way they look at the elderly.

It is a bit different in my Thai family and that of my neighbours plus a friend in BKK.

 

We had my MIL living with us for 3 or 4 years before she died aged 68 in a small house we built with my wife's family in mind. My wife and neighbours kept an eye on her every day. When my FIL aged 82 was dying down in BKK, my wife went down for 2 weeks in three to look after him, sharing his care with her 2 brothers and their wives for about 3 months.

 

My younger neighbour has been looking after her Dad in Issan for the last 3 months and he died on Saturday and my wife and the elder neighour went down on Monday to help her out and they are due back on Sunday.

 

When I spoke to her tonight she said that a good friend of many years had her Mum aged about 80 die today up in Phitsanulok. The old lady was well looked after in the later years of her life.

 

There are many more like this in rural Thailand where the children still look after their families in the villages. I am not so sure about the cities though.

 

I hope my wife and son plus the neghbours can keep an eye on me when it gets to that time of my life. I am 76 now.

[billd766]

2 hours ago, Pique Dard said:

meanwhile, i've been told family ties are very strong in thailand

They are out in rural Thailand and far stronger than they are in the west.

[FarangJon]

Thai Rak Thai.

[brianthainess]

21 hours ago, webfact said:

Ban Khok Kamnan community leader Berl, 59, called in the authorities when neighbors could take the situation no more. 

So how long had the neighbors known of the *situation*. by the way it is reported, the neighbors knew of his plight. ????

[zyphodb]

12 hours ago, robblok said:

Its done well in the Netherlands can be done well here. Euthanasia  is a human right. Also you can't as a kid ask for a Dr to perform it on your parents. Its a whole process that is carefully monitored. Talking about Dutch version not the cruel american version where they leave someone to die. While in the Dutch version they help you die. 

 

If done properly this would be a great law. 

 

Huge differences between the Netherlands and here in most respects. I stand by what I said...

 

[ChakaKhan]

14 hours ago, hotchilli said:

Sounds like she treated him exactly like a dog, chained up, living in filth.

Seems to me thai dogs get much much better treatment/ protections, in the eyes of thais

[robblok]

1 hour ago, zyphodb said:

 

Huge differences between the Netherlands and here in most respects. I stand by what I said...

 

Yes there is a huge difference, and i get your point. But the main point was that decissions to end a life can only be made by the person who's life is going to end and only if he is of his right mind. Only if you find a Dr to falsify stuff could you get someone killed against his or her wishes.

 

To do such a thing is going to cost (bribe) then its going to give back. So I doubt it would be done. Especially by poor people. Maybe some Thai wives would try to get their farang husband out of the way. Is that your fear ?

 

But seriously to bribe a DR to commit murder, even for Thai standards that is hard if not impossible.