26 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

I was staying at View Talay 6, went down to Beach Road, secured a lady, and came back to the room. Once there, she insisted that the lights be turned off, and we did the deed in the dark, doggy style.

 

To this day, I am not sure if she was a lady or a Ladyboy.

 

I wasn’t examining her closely, it was pitch black, and everything felt normal, no reason to check to make sure.

 

So, was that heterosexual, or am I gay?

While I don't really believe you, if you thought she was a woman when you did the deed, you're safe. 

 

If you knew on the beach and pretended he was a she, you're gay.

 

If you figured it out after starting when you found there was an outie where there should have been another innie, and continued, you're likely bi, unless you were drunk, and then you may just be a horn-dog. 

5 hours ago, xylophone said:

They are/were my thoughts too KhaoYai....until I read this: Now I'm confused!!! But Ladyboys do nothing for me, I may add!!

 https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/gender-identity/sex-gender-identity/whats-intersex 

 

Intersex is an umbrella term that describes bodies that fall outside the strict male/female binary. There are lots of ways someone can be intersex.

 What does intersex mean?

Intersex is a general term used for a variety of situations in which a person is born with reproductive or sexual anatomy that doesn’t fit the boxes of “female” or “male.” Sometimes doctors do surgeries on intersex babies and children to make their bodies fit binary ideas of “male” or “female”. Doctors always assign intersex babies a legal sex (male or female, in most states), but, just like with non-intersex people, that doesn’t mean that’s the gender identity they’ll grow up to have. This brings up questions about whether or not it’s OK to do medical procedures on children’s bodies when it’s not needed for their health. 

Being intersex is a naturally occurring variation in humans, and it isn’t a medical problem — therefore, medical interventions (like surgeries or hormone therapy) on children usually aren’t medically necessary. Being intersex is also more common than most people realize. It’s hard to know exactly how many people are intersex, but estimates suggest that about 1-2 in 100 people born in the U.S. are intersex.

I'm not sure that I agree that that is an actual gender or medical term.

 

My main argument is with those who say their sexuality can be whatever they identify as.

2 hours ago, Yellowtail said:

While I don't really believe you, if you thought she was a woman when you did the deed, you're safe. 

 

If you knew on the beach and pretended he was a she, you're gay.

 

If you figured it out after starting when you found there was an outie where there should have been another innie, and continued, you're likely bi, unless you were drunk, and then you may just be a horn-dog. 

My point is that i couldn't tell the difference in the dark. I couldn't see anything, or feel anything unusual. I don't want to go into details about the mechanics, but i can say i still don't know.  My gaydar was not blaring, that's for sure. 

1 hour ago, KhaoYai said:

I'm not sure that I agree that that is an actual gender or medical term.

 

My main argument is with those who say their sexuality can be whatever they identify as.

That's like saying, no matter how much you modify a VW, it will never be a Porsche. 

2 hours ago, bert bloggs said:

We believe it happened,just like you said,dont we? Well dont we ?????

True story. Do enough ladies, and there will be some weird episodes. 

15 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

My point is that i couldn't tell the difference in the dark. I couldn't see anything, or feel anything unusual. I don't want to go into details about the mechanics, but i can say i still don't know.  My gaydar was not blaring, that's for sure. 

So you had sex with people are you aren't sure whether that had either male of female genital's ?

Why do men like ladyboys ? 

Because 25% of the population are bisexual and are willing to experiment.  Can't find any other reason.  

 

5 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

My point is that i couldn't tell the difference in the dark. I couldn't see anything, or feel anything unusual. I don't want to go into details about the mechanics, but i can say i still don't know.  My gaydar was not blaring, that's for sure. 

From my experience when I think it might be a ladyboy then it's an instant softener, any suspicion is enough. You had suspicions but were still turned on? doesn't matter you didn't check

8 hours ago, The Hammer2021 said:

Thai girls like lady boys sometimes

I would avoid girls who have sex with ladyboys, greater risk of HIV

49 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

From my experience when I think it might be a ladyboy then it's an instant softener, any suspicion is enough. You had suspicions but were still turned on? doesn't matter you didn't check

I wasn’t thinking about ladyboys at the time, it was just wham-bang-thank you ma’am.

 

it was afterwards that I started wondering.

 

Anyway, in the dark, doing doggy, there wasn’t any sign it was a Ladyboy. Perhaps one of the experts here can tell me how to tell.

11 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

I was staying at View Talay 6, went down to Beach Road, secured a lady, and came back to the room. Once there, she insisted that the lights be turned off, and we did the deed in the dark, doggy style.

 

To this day, I am not sure if she was a lady or a Ladyboy.

 

I wasn’t examining her closely, it was pitch black, and everything felt normal, no reason to check to make sure.

 

So, was that heterosexual, or am I gay?

1. Most of us don't actually check to make sure but there are various activities that usually take place before the act that would clearly identify an imposter.  I don't think I've ever been in such a rush that I'd move straight to the main event.

 

2. If you were so drunk that you couldn't identify the gender of the person you were with - I doubt you'd have been capable of a). fully indulging and b). remembering it.

Well I've learned a few things in this thread;

 

Men who have sex with other men can identify as heterosexual if that's how they feel.

 

Some men can have sex with a person but afterwards don't know what gender that person is (was).

 

What an odd world we live in these days. For all we know, our mothers could actually be ouf fathers and our sisters could be our brothers....................................brain fried!

 

Its going to be so much better when there's sex robots - you just flick a switch and they're whoever you want them to be.  They'll probably be installed in hotel rooms soon - alongside the trouser press.

 

????????????

8 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

True story. Do enough ladies, and there will be some weird episodes. 

Spoken like a true gentleman,  'Do' enough ladies...................................jeez.

8 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

That's like saying, no matter how much you modify a VW, it will never be a Porsche. 

It won't.

1 hour ago, KhaoYai said:

1. Most of us don't actually check to make sure but there are various activities that usually take place before the act that would clearly identify an imposter.  I don't think I've ever been in such a rush that I'd move straight to the main event.

 

2. If you were so drunk that you couldn't identify the gender of the person you were with - I doubt you'd have been capable of a). fully indulging and b). remembering it.

My activities before the event were asking how much to go to View Talay 6. I guess I did it wrong.

1 hour ago, KhaoYai said:

there are various activities that usually take place before the act that would clearly identify an imposter

For example, did she (?) talk in an unusually deep voice?

9 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

True story. Do enough ladies, and there will be some weird episodes. 

It does not take many before you can tell an innie form an outie, or one hole from the other. 

3 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

Perhaps one of the experts here can tell me how to tell.

If you don't know by now, you likely never will. 

 

If would be a more believable story if you said you had gotten a hummer instead...

1 hour ago, JetsetBkk said:

For example, did she (?) talk in an unusually deep voice?

No. I would have noticed that immediately. 

1 hour ago, Yellowtail said:

It does not take many before you can tell an innie form an outie, or one hole from the other. 

Really? In the dark? 

 

Tell us about distinguishing between the holes, you sound like an expert. I couldn't tell you the difference in the dark, doing doggy, unless i suspected my partner was a ladyboy. Then, i would just turn on the lights. 

54 minutes ago, Yellowtail said:

If you don't know by now, you likely never will. 

 

If would be a more believable story if you said you had gotten a hummer instead...

Again, this all happened in the dark. I assume your experiences with ladyboys were with the lihhts on, so it was easy to tell. 

A predilection for getting their tools smeared with brown gravy and intestinally fermented somtam perhaps? An aversion for long term child support? A penchant for ticklish rectal hair? Fake straight?

 

Lots of reasons. 

1 hour ago, Danderman123 said:

Again, this all happened in the dark. I assume your experiences with ladyboys were with the lihhts on, so it was easy to tell. 

lights off is a dead giveaway, I'd say it was an LB which you suspect anyway, you don't appear to have this doubt with all the others so I suspect this was an LB assuming you didn't make the story up. I reckon you had suspicions at the time, hence doubting it after, so I conclude LBs may well be for you, don't fight it

8 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

I wasn’t thinking about ladyboys at the time, it was just wham-bang-thank you ma’am.

 

it was afterwards that I started wondering.

 

Anyway, in the dark, doing doggy, there wasn’t any sign it was a Ladyboy. Perhaps one of the experts here can tell me how to tell.

Not a LB expert, but if she/he/it had to lube/oil up first, then congrats, you can check LB off your bucket list.

 

You obviously have had enough women, if you can't tell the difference.  Again...congrats.

If you cant tell the difference between a girls p-ssey and a mans b- m god help you ????

5 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

Really?

Really

 

5 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

In the dark? 

Absolutely

 

5 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

Tell us about distinguishing between the holes, you sound like an expert. I couldn't tell you the difference in the dark, doing doggy, unless i suspected my partner was a ladyboy. Then, i would just turn on the lights. 

I'm no expert, but clearly they are shaped different, and the trajectory is different as well. 

 

 

3 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

lights off is a dead giveaway...

Not true, a lot of women like the light out, but how dark is a hotel room at night?

4 hours ago, mvdf said:

A predilection for getting their tools smeared with brown gravy and intestinally fermented somtam perhaps? An aversion for long term child support? A penchant for ticklish rectal hair? Fake straight?

 

Lots of reasons. 

Pleeeeaaaasssseee - enough!!

18 minutes ago, Yellowtail said:

Not true, a lot of women like the light out, but how dark is a hotel room at night?

Maybe they don't want to see you, but LBs like disguise, one of their tricks

7 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

My activities before the event were asking how much to go to View Talay 6. I guess I did it wrong.

We're having to go into way too much detail here but there doesn't see to be any way around it.

 

You're asking us to believe that you met someone on Beach Road, asked them how much, went straight back to the condo and immediately 'did the deed', no talking, no preliminaries, just straight 'in' - wham bang? There are quickies and there are wastes of time - in this case there was also a total waste of money.

 

In that case, why even bother going to Beach Road and paying? You might as well have 'taken care' of your desires yourself.

 

Your story is about as believable as Putin saying he had no plans to invade Ukraine.