she wants money and is threatening me verbally. what should I do?

[bob smith]

i am in koh changy. my girl has left the hotel wehn i rfuse to pay her salary for 4 days. i dont know if she is still on isand or not. she says if i no pay she will call her brother in Korat and he will do something to me. is this threat real? am i? what should i do? i been in situation like this before in the dominican. they were all talk and no trousers there. should I just pay her? she wants total 20,000 for 4 days company. i have the money but the thought of having to pay for someone who I thought really likes me is stinging feeling. i could just leave the island and never look back, i already block her on facebooky but she still has my phone number. 

[Swiss1960]

So you engage with a sex worker and refuse to pay? Well, you'll have it coming...

[2baht]

Pay her, Bob! It's ONLY...... 5000 baht per day! ????

 

 

Edited August 1, 2022 by 2baht

[stoner]

8 minutes ago, bob smith said:

who I thought really likes me

she love you long time.....well 4 days anyways.

[starky]

Next! Just pay her ya tight arris . Question is why would you refuse to pay? Your either trolling or clueless. 

[sipi]

Take her to a bar and pretend to fall asleep.

[stoner]

Just now, sipi said:

Take her to a bar and pretend to fall asleep.

this thread is now closed. no further comment needs to be made. 

 

perfection.

[worgeordie]

You were so cocky when you took her from the sleeping

Farang in a bar , thought she liked you..... no your money,

if any of what you say is true , you should be worried ,if

she has called for her brother to collect money from you,

he won't be coming alone. time to leave Koh Changy as

you put it. 

regards worgeordie

[Dante99]

pay her and get into therapy immediately

 

you are sick

[bob smith]

11 minutes ago, Swiss1960 said:

So you engage with a sex worker and refuse to pay? Well, you'll have it coming...

she did not tell me she is sex worker when i meet

[bob smith]

1 minute ago, Dante99 said:

pay her and get into therapy immediately

 

you are sick

why am i?

[steven100]

geeeze ,  5000 bht / day .....  she must be a stunner at that price.

[Banana7]

Always ask cost/price before renting or buying.  The situation is hot, you have done something to anger her, so you have to cool things down. Try negotiating, or just give her a reasonable sum that you think is fair or market rates. If more is demanded, make an excuse why more is not available at this time. Leave for some reason, ie. meet friends elsewhere.  Threat could be real.

[Dante99]

5 minutes ago, bob smith said:

why am i?

 

19 minutes ago, bob smith said:

i rfuse to pay her salary for 4 days.

You don't keep your agreement.

 

20 minutes ago, bob smith said:

she says if i no pay she will call her brother in Korat and he will do something to me. is this threat real? am i?

You wonder if you are real.

 

20 minutes ago, bob smith said:

the thought of having to pay for someone who I thought really likes me is stinging feeling.

You were way wrong thinking she likes you.

 

21 minutes ago, bob smith said:

i already block her on facebooky

And that is what you consider to be a positive step.

[smutcakes]

Christ you must be bored. I thought my life was boring, but that might need to be reassessed when seeing what others are up to.

[Denim]

29 minutes ago, Swiss1960 said:

Well, you'll have it coming

He's had the coming its the going that is the friction point.

 

So much for snooze and you lose.

 

Her agenda was sin and you win

 

 

Edited August 1, 2022 by Denim

[stoner]

7 minutes ago, steven100 said:

geeeze ,  5000 bht / day .....  she must be a stunner at that price.

you must hang with some high quality women. 

[Gecko123]

Patts? Swampy? Now Koh Changy?

 

The use of pet geographic names really makes me roll my eyes. It doesn't make people sound like they're old hands who have been in country for ages. It makes them sound pretentious, disrespectful, and unappreciative of the beauty of the language.

[bob smith]

eevrtting is OK now. she is back at my room and say sorry she dont really want money and she doesnt have brother. are they crazy or what hahaha. she is takes me for lunch later to say sorry.

[steven100]

1 minute ago, bob smith said:

she dont really want money

I find this very hard to believe .....   every Thai wants money 

[FritsSikkink]

39 minutes ago, bob smith said:

why am i?

Troll

[Henryford]

What do you agree to pay her before you went. You think she went with you for free?

[bob smith]

mods please close this thread. there is no problems now.

[Jerno]

24 minutes ago, bob smith said:

eevrtting is OK now. she is back at my room and say sorry she dont really want money and she doesnt have brother. are they crazy or what hahaha. she is takes me for lunch later to say sorry.

Until tomorrow, then repeat the antics.  But she REALLY likes you.  555

[Dante99]

23 minutes ago, bob smith said:

eevrtting is OK now. she is back at my room and say sorry she dont really want money and she doesnt have brother. are they crazy or what hahaha. she is takes me for lunch later to say sorry.

and you believe all that

 

oh don't forget to ask her to return your ATM card after she finishes draining your account

[2baht]

7 minutes ago, bob smith said:

mods please close this thread. there is no problems now.

See Bob.......5000 baht a day works! ????

[simon43]

26 minutes ago, bob smith said:

eevrtting is OK now. she is back at my room and say sorry she dont really want money and she doesnt have brother. are they crazy or what hahaha. she is takes me for lunch later to say sorry.

Yep, that's what she says while she waits for her brother and 'friends' to arrive on koh Changy Changy..

 

You do have good medical insurance don't you?

[starky]

36 minutes ago, stoner said:

you must hang with some high quality women. 

Yep only white, half chinese, rich supermodels for many on this forum. Everyone else is either ugly/ ladyboy/ not as pretty as the girls i see everyday shopping.

[Thujone]

36 minutes ago, bob smith said:

eevrtting is OK now. she is back at my room and say sorry she dont really want money and she doesnt have brother. are they crazy or what hahaha. she is takes me for lunch later to say sorry.

There's always the possibility that this is a delaying tactic while brother/hubby gets his mates together to come visiting.

Pay her, then just to be on the safe side, do a runny from Koh Changy.

Edited August 1, 2022 by Thujone

[steven100]

mods,  it's all ok now ... she doesn't really want any money