Dan discusses his Pattaya Bargirl relationship and advises others to not do the same.

[thaibeachlovers]

18 hours ago, TroubleandGrumpy said:

Nah mate - it is the Kiwis who are sheep shag****s.

Only the pretty ones though.

[thaibeachlovers]

14 hours ago, Lacessit said:

One would hope you are not speaking from experience.

In any case, you have the wrong country. It's Kiwis who have that reputation.

We have prettier sheep than Aussies do.

[SAFETY FIRST]

58 minutes ago, Walker88 said:

 

Are you this "Dan" guy?

He could be but I doubt it. 

Dan is the MD of Asean Now 

 

 

 

[Lacessit]

1 hour ago, thaibeachlovers said:

We have prettier sheep than Aussies do.

I don't know about prettier. They would not have the cockleburrs and bindis of Aussie sheep, presumably less painful.

[PB172111]

22 hours ago, PJ71 said:

Who cares, the guys a tool.

 Is there any chance you could expand your vocabulary and attempt to explain your comment in greater detail. Or maybe this is your limit and time is of the essence because you are having trouble adding up all the slips in your bar bin 😎

[PJ71]

36 minutes ago, PB172111 said:

 Is there any chance you could expand your vocabulary and attempt to explain your comment in greater detail. Or maybe this is your limit and time is of the essence because you are having trouble adding up all the slips in your bar bin 😎

I don't need to explain anything to you buttercup.

 

ps - i don't drink, weed is my drug of choice, try again....

[brianthainess]

22 hours ago, Fat is a type of crazy said:

It's almost like you don't like this Dan guy

I think Dan is Desperate.  I read his book years ago.

 

 

[transam]

58 minutes ago, PJ71 said:

I don't need to explain anything to you buttercup.

 

ps - i don't drink, weed is my drug of choice, try again....

A dope puffer, I thought as much...........😂

[PJ71]

59 minutes ago, transam said:

A dope puffer, I thought as much...........😂

Yip.

[jippytum]

People will make their own decisions and mistakes. Dan regaled us with how happy he was. Now its gone tits up he advises against it. 

[bbbbooboo]

Hmmm… how does it go?… make your decision and do the opposite?(or is it thr other way around, i get so confused?)

[bbbbooboo]

4 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Only the pretty ones though.

Hmmm… i’ve only been with 1 sorry i mean 11 sheep before!

[biggeoff69]

What a load of hogwash, people will always go with their gut,

[TroubleandGrumpy]

1 hour ago, transam said:

A dope puffer, I thought as much...........😂

Yes mate - they dont call it 'dope' for no reason.

[TroubleandGrumpy]

5 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Only the pretty ones though.

I knew a Kiwi once - he would always ask people he just met and told them his life story -  "So, I have done all of those things and achieved all those successes in my life, but do they call me John the Builder?, or John the Kiwi Rugby player", or John the Lawyer? or even John the Father? - No!!  But you fu** one lousy sheep and they never let it go." 

[NoshowJones]

On 10/23/2023 at 10:28 AM, petermik said:

Marrying a bargirl has been done to death....give it a rest

Personally, I don't think anything can be done to death on a big forum like this. There are new members joining up all the time.

[NoshowJones]

On 10/23/2023 at 1:05 PM, BarraMarra said:

With a second name of Cheeseman, what do you expect?

"Firstly because especially at that age you shouldnt be paying for sex," There are lots of unattractive overweight farangs in their twenties and thirties who would never be able to have their rocks off with attractive young girls without paying for it.

[nickmondo]

On 10/23/2023 at 11:06 AM, Bkk Brian said:

true.  he is just one of many nobody wannabes

[timendres]

17 hours ago, In Full Agreement said:

You know, over the years, I'll bet I haven't heard that more than about 500 times.       Amazing how it just stays so completely fresh each time it's used.

 

I worked on Wall Street (as a lowly programmer) for many years.

The traders also had a famous expression they repeated often:

 

If it floats, flies, or f___s, rent it.

[Danderman123]

Wow, more people here concerned about sex with a sheep than the poor souls who marry bargirls.

 

In the Real World, I meet a lot of bargirls who have hooked a customer boyfriend. In virtually 100% of the cases, they simply view the customer as an ATM.

 

One lady I know has a customer who says he wants to marry her, and sends her 40,000+ baht a month. I took her to Macau last month, and she had to go to the hotel lobby to talk to him. Also, she had to go to the lobby when her Thai husband called.

[BritManToo]

On 10/23/2023 at 12:29 PM, Goat said:

But the Pattaya prostitutes would have to be right up near the top of financial disasters as I think Dan alluded to.

IMHO marrying a woman anywhere in the world is a high stakes bet!

[Danderman123]

18 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

If a guy can afford it, why not?

The important part is he should not forget that he pays.

If he pays regularly and he thinks she loves him that is a problem.

Do you know anyone who pays regularly (and is outside Thailand) who doesn't think "his" bargirl loves him?

[tubby johnson]

5 hours ago, brianthainess said:

I think Dan is Desperate.  I read his book years ago.

 

 

 

 

His chin looks like a scrotum.

 

[kingstonkid]

On 10/23/2023 at 11:25 AM, QuantumQuandry said:

There's an age when you should pay for sex and an age when you shouldn't?

 

Who determined the correct age and the appropriate level of shaming?  Is there a chart?

We all if we have sex with anyone other than Rosy and her sister pay for sex in some way or another.  It does not matter how old you are or where you live you still pay for it.

[xtrnuno41]

You are there in the relationship, you dont like it, you stop.

Maybe a slight difference as being a bar girl (?), but women are all the same, at least in my experiences.

And maybe a bar girl IS good, you never know until you try. It is about finding the right one.

[save the frogs]

1 hour ago, Danderman123 said:

Do you know anyone who pays regularly (and is outside Thailand) who doesn't think "his" bargirl loves him?

 

there's too much emphasis on "romantic love" in pop culture and people are deluded in real life relationships. not only with bar girls. 

[huberthammer]

Getting life advice from <deleted>fluencers is probably the only thing worse than using advice given in a bar.

 

[Danderman123]

17 minutes ago, huberthammer said:

Getting life advice from <deleted>fluencers is probably the only thing worse than using advice given in a bar.

 

Or getting life advice from posters here. The #1 post here is "my bargirl is different".

[Danderman123]

1 hour ago, xtrnuno41 said:

You are there in the relationship, you dont like it, you stop.

Maybe a slight difference as being a bar girl (?), but women are all the same, at least in my experiences.

And maybe a bar girl IS good, you never know until you try. It is about finding the right one.

Ignorance is bliss for the suckers who go home and send money to a bargirl.

 

One former bargirl I know has a sucker on the hook who is sending her money to build a new house. But she is constantly messaging me and wants to see me.

 

My rule is no hanky panky with ladies who have a Farang boyfriend. But idiot sponsors are okay. So, maybe I will go for it. Again.

[SAFETY FIRST]

7 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

My rule is no hanky panky with ladies who have a Farang boyfriend

Dumb rule 😎