Serious discussion - What do you see in a ladyboy?

[BritManToo]

Just now, BenDeCosta said:

The ladyboys that I have met usually seem a little unhinged to me, often can be quite aggressive, or overly jealous, or get angry and argumentative at the drop of a hat over nothing. That puts me off.

Every woman I have lived with was exactly the same (but without a penis).

It's the penis that puts me off.

[BenDeCosta]

9 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Every woman I have lived with was exactly the same (but without a penis).

It's the penis that puts me off.

I'm never interested in another man's penis because I am not homosexual, but some ladyboys are very attractive with very feminine bodies, I've only experienced them after a bout of heavy drinking because I wanted something different. Usually, the hotter they are, the more likely they are to be a bit bonkers, I find the same with girls, though.

Edited May 17, 2021 by BenDeCosta

[EVENKEEL]

6 minutes ago, NCC1701A said:

this topic reminds me of the time years ago on thaivisa when I took a moment to correct some members comments that "all men think about having sex with other men." 

 

i made a huge mistake trying to make that person understand that was their own thoughts and that they are very incorrect. 

 

i am sure i was placed on a list for character assassination which i am still on.  

 

good luck with this topic. 

 

i have to go throw a rock at the hornets nest in my backyard. i have been meaning to do for a while now. 

 

 

 

You have a backyard, you hi-so you.

[CharlieH]

All I see is another person.

Some of those people need:

psychiatric help,

others need anger management,

others a better stylist,

others just another drink.

[RJRS1301]

2 hours ago, RobMuir said:

One night after a lot of beer I thought I would see what all the fuss was about and would give it a go.

 

I seriously advice against it.

 

It hurt like buggery.

Buggery does not always hurt, breathe through it and lube up Im told

 

[RJRS1301]

15 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Every woman I have lived with was exactly the same (but without a penis).

It's the penis that puts me off.

Not all LBs retain their penis, many fully transition

 

[RichardColeman]

My Dad always used to say when you find a girlfriend you potentially want to marry, then look at her mom. See how she ages, her features, her beauty and skin, her temperament, etc.

 

I would imagine looking at a ladyboy parents you need look at dad. Bald, fat.But if you want a bald fat old man in a dress that's up to you I suppose.

[CharlieH]

Lets no get in to specifics please or this will have to close.

[cocoonclub]

53 minutes ago, Mavideol said:

What do you see in a ladyboy?

 

a gay man with a pair of boobs

Interesting. I see a girl with a cock. 

[bkk6060]

It is about what I do not want to see.

[clivebaxter]

They don't bleed every month, don't get pregnant, not as much moaning and are usually more intelligent

[canthai55]

 

[NCC1701A]

23 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

You have a backyard, you hi-so you.

more than one. ????

[BritManToo]

16 minutes ago, CharlieH said:

others just another drink.

Good idea .......... just opened one!

[1FinickyOne]

1 hour ago, Jingthing said:

as far as sexual attraction, lbs are for straight men not gay men.

or not?? since they have the same parts, there must be a gay aspect to it... I think there is just something else going on - neither here nor there.. 

 

and from what i have seen, the guys I have met w/lb Gfs tend to be the overly macho type guys... the ex-marines who imply w/every breathe that they can strangle you in 5 different ways and kill you in three seconds flat... 

 

I have no real concern either way.. I am not particularly attracted or repulsed... they are often very pretty. And they seem like they might be characters. 

[1FinickyOne]

21 minutes ago, RichardColeman said:

I would imagine looking at a ladyboy parents you need look at dad. Bald, fat.But if you want a bald fat old man in a dress that's up to you I suppose.

It is sort of sad, but for the most part, from what I have seen, there are some very pretty lady boys, but no beautiful lady men... and some get a little creepy... 

[Jingthing]

6 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

It is sort of sad, but for the most part, from what I have seen, there are some very pretty lady boys, but no beautiful lady men... and some get a little creepy... 

Could be because they didn't get the mones early enough innit.

[Jingthing]

15 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

or not?? since they have the same parts, there must be a gay aspect to it... I think there is just something else going on - neither here nor there.. 

 

and from what i have seen, the guys I have met w/lb Gfs tend to be the overly macho type guys... the ex-marines who imply w/every breathe that they can strangle you in 5 different ways and kill you in three seconds flat... 

 

I have no real concern either way.. I am not particularly attracted or repulsed... they are often very pretty. And they seem like they might be characters. 

It's about how they present. As females. 

[1FinickyOne]

6 minutes ago, Jingthing said:

Could be because they didn't get the mones early enough innit.

I have no idea of the chemistry involved??.. i know one guy who had a sort of boy-ish looking lady boy and years later he sent a photo of what looked like a male truck driver... both body and face..

Edited May 17, 2021 by 1FinickyOne

[lanng khao]

Only ever had the services of a ladyboy once, give me a touch moving a wardrobe, smashing lad...

[Boomer6969]

A ladyboy? That's just an another man who's got bigger problems than I have.

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, EVENKEEL said:

We've noticed several pic you post of cute "girls" are or once used the boy's room.

Really? Which one?

I know I am not always right but I am pretty sure in more than 90% I know if a girl is a real girl - even without detailed inspection. 

Here is one just for you. She exists only in virtual reality so it's up to you how you want to see her.

[kingofthemountain]

37 minutes ago, Jingthing said:

It's about how they present. As females. 

True

if you ask to a ladyboy if he is attracted by the gay men

her answer will be: ''nope, i am not lesbian'' 

[Antonymous]

27 minutes ago, Boomer6969 said:

A ladyboy? That's just an another man who's got bigger problems than I have.

 

I've heard them called 'cocks', 'willis', 'dicks' and a score of other names, but never 'problems'.

 

????

[watthong]

3 hours ago, zhounan said:

 

I believe there is a lot of confusion in people's sex life.

 

Oh dear, this topic keeps coming up like the seasonal flu (along with "do you miss your home country," "why do you come to Thailand," "what do you hate/love about Thailand" and myriad other mundane topics.) In a similar thread that was posted some time ago, I took a deep dive into the "real" reason why some men go for ladyboys. But it has been some years now so I guess the thread had been deleted as OP said he had searched for it in vain. And not surprisingly what's he got the mostly clueless one-liner (what else is new?) responses. My guess is that for most (and mostly straight as on TVF) folks they simply can't get pass the visual or human sexuality 101..So let's cut to the chase:

 

Believe it or not (for those who don't want to believe/hear/face the balls...sorry, I mean the velly velly simple truth) apart from all out gay men such as yours truly there are so called "straight" men who want/need/long to play with another man's dick. Yes, Dorothy: They love dicks the way other straight men love pussies (just so you can imagine the ways...) Then after they got "full(y)filled" (wink wink) they would go home and happily fulfill their manly duty to their wife/gf as if nothing happened. 

 

There's a clinical classification for this behavior, but we're are in 2021 I believe, so let's skip that and see it from OP's POV, "I believe there is a lot of confusion in people's sex life." I agree, and let's see where such confusion arises from: Due to societal taboos, conventions, religious upbringing, indoctrinated belief, bigotry, homophobia et al, some (meaning not all) men NEED to be seen in romantic/sexual liaisons with women - or who can pass for women, so on cue, ladyboys step in. Even behind closed door AND in bed, they still rely on the visuals - make-up, wigs and lingerie atop the "bid bulge" and throaty voice - to maintain the illusion of being with the opposite sex! However after the light switched off and the panty about to be dropped, a juicy meaty dick (as opposed to a <deleted>/strap-on) is what's so dearly sought after, and for this category of men, it doesn't matter whom it is attached to. A forbidden po-la-mai, if there ever was one! 

 

Btw, most ladyboys nowadays have come to realize that the "family jewels" is actually a real one, ie one that can earn you a living, thank goodness, so now you won't find one who would part with it so easily. After all, if a man wants a real pussy, why would he settle for a fake one? 
 

[thaibeachlovers]

2 hours ago, BenDeCosta said:

The ladyboys that I have met usually seem a little unhinged to me, often can be quite aggressive, or overly jealous, or get angry and argumentative at the drop of a hat over nothing. That puts me off.

That sounds like more than a few women I've met.

 

Some of them look so like real women it's hard to be sure till they start speaking.

[thaibeachlovers]

20 minutes ago, watthong said:

Btw, most ladyboys nowadays have come to realize that the "family jewels" is actually a real one, ie one that can earn you a living, thank goodness, so now you won't find one who would part with it so easily. After all, if a man wants a real pussy, why would he settle for a fake one? 
 

IMO a genuine m to f transexual wants to be as real a woman as possible, so they are going to have the cut regardless. It's only the ones that want or need money ( usually to pay for the op, apparently ) that are going to remain intact.

Let's remember that there are loads of ladyboys out there in all sorts of "normal" jobs that are not on the game.

 

After all, if a man wants a real pussy, why would he settle for a fake one? 

You are looking at it only from the point of view of commercial sex ladyboys. It's not always about that and more often IMO it's about THEM, and not about customers.

[thaibeachlovers]

2 hours ago, 1FinickyOne said:

It is sort of sad, but for the most part, from what I have seen, there are some very pretty lady boys, but no beautiful lady men... and some get a little creepy... 

I've never seen more than one older ladyboy ( I have to wonder why ), and she was a sad sight indeed.

 

However, with the current numbers of women getting breast implants, ladyboys are not going to be the only unsightly old bodies with the silicone boobs dangling, in about 40 years time.

[Lacessit]

I've seen some ladyboys that are stunningly beautiful, others less so. Never been interested in experimenting with them, I'm so hetero I only recently graduated from the missionary position.

Given the high percentage of ladyboys that appear to come from certain rural villages, IMO there are environmental factors involved in their conversion from males.

[1FinickyOne]

1 hour ago, Lacessit said:

I only recently graduated from the missionary position.

On your knees in prayer? [though really too much info - some of us here tend to visualize]

 

1 hour ago, Lacessit said:

ladyboys that appear to come from certain rural villages

I can't even imagine what you are trying to say here... 

 

1 hour ago, Lacessit said:

IMO there are environmental factors involved in their conversion from males.

a more interesting question might be a genetic variant as they often tend to be tall and trim... I think they are born that way, nothing environmental about it...