When Dating a Woman, How Important is Her IQ?

[GammaGlobulin]

My Dear Friends,

 

I have met many women in my life, and I prefer, by far, women to men, of any level of intelligence.

 

I would even go so far as to say that I prefer some less intelligent women to some smarter men, unless said men were both super smart, and also shared some feminine characteristics, traits important to me in my men friends.

 

I am speaking about a man’s enjoyment and appreciation of his feminine side, such as, and for example, flower arranging, long walks, nurturance, empathy, tenderness, cooperativeness, warmth, and total lack of gym-type behavior such as snapping a towel at one’s best friend in the showers..

 

I am sure most of you guys here know that I am not just idly blowing gas only to hear myself speak. Because, please believe me, thinking of women, and how great they are, is central to my being. Nothing could be finer than thinking about women all day.

 

And, regarding women of high IQs, may I say here that a woman’s higher IQ can even extend into the bedroom, where smart women seem to engage in more creative antics, compared to less intelligent girls.

 

It’s like this:  If you just want to date and marry a factory girl, one who’s got “stains all down her dress”, then maybe you will never be truly satisfied in the long term. 

 

I need to cut this short, I think.

I have said my piece..

And now, I’m more at peace.

 

Still, before I leave, I will leave you with this:

 

 

Girls are great, Man.

I love them Big Time, as Trump often says.

But, I don’t take after Trump, no way, no how.

I like nice girls.

 

Best regards,

Globobulin

 

Note:  Do you like girls smarter than you?

 

 

[dj230]

higher the better in my opinion 

[AlexRich]

Someone with a good nature and an above average intelligence. 

[GammaGlobulin]

When I considered the importance of a lover with a high IQ, I did not necessarily mean someone like Yoko Ono, although she is talented and intelligent.

 

 

 

She got a bad rap back in the day.

Why, I do not know.

 

She graduated from Gakushuin University and Sarah Lawrence College, apparently. Both are decent schools. I had always thought that  Sarah Lawrence College was some sort of "finishing" school.  Maybe it was.

 

John Lennon was very satisfied with her IQ, presumably.

And, she went to his head.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[GammaGlobulin]

Still, for Brains and Beauty, few can top Dietrich.

 

 

If only she were Asian, too, she might be tempting.

 

Note: This amazing photograph may have been taken by Milton H. Greene, "an American fashion and celebrity photographer and film and television producer, best known for his photo shoots with Marilyn Monroe."  Marilyn was no dummy, either.

 

Edited July 16, 2022 by GammaGlobulin

[FritsSikkink]

Hopefully enough to ignore this drivel. Blocked you but still see your daily nonsense

[Why Me]

I am uncomfortable with women smarter than me. Which has drastically limited my dating options.

[GammaGlobulin]

7 minutes ago, Why Me said:

I am uncomfortable with women smarter than me. Which has drastically limited my dating options.

You are too modest, my son.

[GammaGlobulin]

Hedy Lamarr:  Just one more example of an intelligent woman any man here would be proud to have on his arm.

 

 

Not only was she an inventor, but she also appeared nude in film before this was customary.

 

This is why many agree that, the smarter the woman, the more exciting in so many ways.

 

Lamarr was a genius to die for.

 

If only she had been Asian.....

 

 

[KhunLA]

To the title, very important, if not a 1 night stand.  Even then I need to have some type of stimulating conversation.  As intelligence is sexy.

 

My relationships are 24/7, so I need intelligent conversation with that person.

[GammaGlobulin]

11 minutes ago, KhunLA said:

To the title, very important, if not a 1 night stand.  Even then I need to have some type of stimulating conversation.  As intelligence is sexy.

 

My relationships are 24/7, so I need intelligent conversation with that person.

Besides being 24/7, are your relationships also three times six and four times seven, twenty-eight and eleven?

[bkk6060]

If you are here and don't speak fluent Thai how will you know?

It is difficult even if they speak some English to have a "meaningful" conversation with a female here.  Serious talking about general life issues, financial matters, etc. seems pretty rare.

Edited July 16, 2022 by bkk6060

[OneMoreFarang]

2 hours ago, FritsSikkink said:

Hopefully enough to ignore this drivel. Blocked you but still see your daily nonsense

I also blocked him. But this is for once and interesting question. Luckily it can be answered without reading a long text. I am sure there is such long text, but luckily I don't see it.

[ezzra]

This poster is one bored dud who post and than feed his own post with his own multiple replies...

[OneMoreFarang]

I have a genius IQ and a good enough job to earn money for two (I don't want children).

The optimal girl would be: relative young, cute, sexy, honest, good personality, fun to be with, a good cook, a good housewife and intelligent.

And obviously she must love me and make me happy.

Now which of those qualities are necessary in a female partner? And which can be replaced with other people?

Personally I wouldn't be interested in any girl who is not is not in this group: relative young, cute, sexy, honest, good personality, fun to be with

I could cook myself or hire a maid.

And intelligence? I think she must be smart enough to live without problems. I.e. she must be able to count and use money efficiently for maybe a week or so. If she visits her family up country she must be smart enough that after the week she still has enough money left in her pocket to return. She must also be smart enough not to fall for all the scams which are out there. That level is IMHO necessary.

More intelligence is fine with me. But how many high intelligent girls are out there who meet the other criteria? As far as I see: very few. And most of them wouldn't be interested in me.

 

So the short answer is: She should have enough IQ to be able to function in life and don't make too many stupid mistakes. For the rest I will think for both of us. ???? 

[OneMoreFarang]

2 hours ago, Why Me said:

I am uncomfortable with women smarter than me. Which has drastically limited my dating options.

Likely she won't want you.

Women want a partner who is on their level or higher. Never lower.

Women with high and very high IQ have difficulties finding a partner because there are not so many men with very high IQs.

And men don't use the same system. Statistically men more or less don't care about which job she has or IQ. 

 

 

[OneMoreFarang]

43 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

If you are here and don't speak fluent Thai how will you know?

It is difficult even if they speak some English to have a "meaningful" conversation with a female here.  Serious talking about general life issues, financial matters, etc. seems pretty rare.

That's great.

Compare that to an intelligent western woman who wants constantly meaningful conversations with you about how you spend your money (= her money).

 

[itsari]

You need to talk with them far longer than any other activity in a relationship . Yes intelligence is important . Yet if they are too smart that can be a inconvenience .

[Gottfrid]

3 hours ago, FritsSikkink said:

Hopefully enough to ignore this drivel. Blocked you but still see your daily nonsense

Ops! That must be terrible for you. Do you know, that you do not have to click the link. You do not have to read what you call drivel and nonsense. That is you own choice. Apparently, you do things against you own will, just to be able to tell people that you don´t want to. Yeah, I guess we all have different way of spending our time on the planet. 

But, can you please enlighten me. What is nonsense and drivel with that he post something in "Pub, Fun & Entertainment & Expat Life"? He just ventilate, that his opinion is women with higher IQ and why. Is it because it do not fit your circle of interest, or? The question is if this is better and more interesting that the 999th question about 90 day reports or how long you can stay on Covid extensions?

Also, if you have problem about the ignore function in the forum? My advice would be the post that in the support channel. ???? 

[jerrymahoney]

29 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I have a genius IQ

 

[GammaGlobulin]

2 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

If you are here and don't speak fluent Thai how will you know?

It is difficult even if they speak some English to have a "meaningful" conversation with a female here.  Serious talking about general life issues, financial matters, etc. seems pretty rare.

Almost, a truer word was never spoken than this utterance of yours. 

 

As an example of this truism, I suggest that you reread the excellent book, "The World of Suzie Wong". 

 

In this book, the tart, Suzie, seems to have no idea who Winston Churchill might be. At least, that is, until Churchill's name is properly pronounced in Chinese, and then she understands, immediately. 

 

Holden was a great actor and a funny fellow, well met. But the short novel is better. 

 

There are 383 pages in this novel. I lapped them up, several times, when I was young. 

 

Unless you are completely and absolutely bilingual, then you will never be able to discuss in depth the underlying themes of the greatest novel ever written, 'Crime And Punishment', with your Suzie Wong. 

 

Years ago, there were a few White Russians floating about in China and Asia who had read Dostoevsky in Russian. But they are now long gone, just like the Sichuan chefs in Jiang Jieshi's army. 

 

These good Sichuan cooks died one by one, until there were, finally, none. 

 

They died, gradually, one by one, in Taiwan, like the 10 little Indians in Agatha's novel. 

 

So, you are correct. And, I don't know of anyone here in Thailand who has both read much of Dostoevsky and can also understand this post. 

 

There are some, but few and far between. 

 

Finally, and most importantly, I must add that it really matters little what topics of import you discuss with your GF. If the girl is super smart, then meaningful and fulfilling communication will always be fairly easy. 

 

And if, on occasion, one is still not satisfied in life, then there is always Thaivisa. 

 

 

[daveAustin]

26 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I have a genius IQ

Lol. Me too. In fact, most of us probably are on this site by our own admission. Then again, you do realise those online tests are junk, right. Einstein and Newton were geniuses... 

Traditionally, you would typically want a girl at or approaching your level of intelligence, but would need to be able to communicate effectively. But I think most blokes come here to get away from all that and like em thick and cute. ????

[Berkshire]

1 hour ago, bkk6060 said:

If you are here and don't speak fluent Thai how will you know?

It is difficult even if they speak some English to have a "meaningful" conversation with a female here.  Serious talking about general life issues, financial matters, etc. seems pretty rare.

True.  It seems some expats even use a Thai woman's level of English proficiency to determine her intelligence.  This is asinine beyond words.  I've met Thai women with PhD's who don't speak much English.  I've also met bargirls with zero education who speaks excellent English.  When a farang says he can't have meaningful conversation with a Thai female, it's almost always due to the language barrier.  Learn Thai!

[BritManToo]

7 minutes ago, daveAustin said:

Traditionally, you would typically want a girl at or approaching your level of intelligence, but would need to be able to communicate effectively. But I think most blokes come here to get away from all that and like em thick and cute. ????

Traditionally you would want a woman who could work your farm and produce many babies, and maybe bring some extra land with the marriage. 

 

The woke last 50 years you consider as 'reality ' has no connection with tradition, and will be gone once the religion of peace has it's way. 

[Rampant Rabbit]

9 minutes ago, daveAustin said:

Einstein and Newton were geniuses... 

Ive  known some of these  geniuses genii? and many couldnt cross a  road without being run over, the real geniuses  are those  people who can instantly  understand ANY subject those bastewarsd who can learn anything ,  just for  fun, theres  nothing they cant understand or learn, those  swines who decide to learn a  language or the piano and after a  few  days    could  play chopins  fantasie  impromptue  blind fold  with their  feet.............you  know the  sort....jealous? yeah damn right I am 

 

[Lacessit]

I don't care what a woman's IQ is. Her EQ is of far more interest to me.

My GF has an education far below mine. However, she is very street-smart, and her EQ is in the stratosphere.

[GammaGlobulin]

27 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

Ops! That must be terrible for you. Do you know, that you do not have to click the link. You do not have to read what you call drivel and nonsense. That is you own choice. Apparently, you do things against you own will, just to be able to tell people that you don´t want to. Yeah, I guess we all have different way of spending our time on the planet. 

But, can you please enlighten me. What is nonsense and drivel with that he post something in "Pub, Fun & Entertainment & Expat Life"? He just ventilate, that his opinion is women with higher IQ and why. Is it because it do not fit your circle of interest, or? The question is if this is better and more interesting that the 999th question about 90 day reports or how long you can stay on Covid extensions?

Also, if you have problem about the ignore function in the forum? My advice would be the post that in the support channel. ???? 

Please, if possible, do not be overly judgmental nor harsh. Curiosity, and clicking as a result of curiosity, is a crucial part of the learning process.

 

As well, not all posts on the Internet please everybody, nor should they.

 

If posts could be posted ONLY if they met the high hurdle of pleasing everybody, then where would we be? 

 

Speaking of clicking, have you read much of B. F. Skinner? 

 

Many years ago, Skinner devised his Skinner Box. In his Skinner Box, Skinner put pigeons. He proved that pigeons would peck a key for limited reward, and continue pecking unto death. 

 

Much of his behavioral research has been adapted to motivate us Humans to act similarly after we attach ourselves to the Internet. 

 

Therefore, if you wish to ask the question concerning why we click on topics which might not agree with us, maybe this is due to curiosity, combined with our compulsion to peck for limited reward. 

 

Therefore, do not judge to harshly... For these clickers, just like the pigeon-peckers in a Skinner Box, know not what they do. 

 

 

(Please note that much of Skinner's work, his assumptions/hypotheses, have fallen out of favor in recent decades. Yet, peckers still survive, and not only in the lab.) 

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, Rampant Rabbit said:

Ive  known some of these  geniuses genii? and many couldnt cross a  road without being run over, the real geniuses  are those  people who can instantly  understand ANY subject those bastewarsd who can learn anything ,  just for  fun, theres  nothing they cant understand or learn, those  swines who decide to learn a  language or the piano and after a  few  days    could  play chopins  fantasie  impromptue  blind fold  with their  feet.............you  know the  sort....jealous? yeah damn right I am 

 

Did you ever participate in an IQ test? I mean a real certified test which takes hours?

Then you would know that the test is not just one test. There are several test. One person might be very good in one test and not so good in another test.

Intelligent people understand things fast - in general. Not every intelligent person is a mathematic genius or someone who can learn instruments fast.

 

And obviously there is high IQ and very high IQ. Only about 15% of people have an IQ higher than 115. And 2% are higher than 132. And then there are the 0.0xxx% groups. There are not many of them around.

[GammaGlobulin]

20 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Did you ever participate in an IQ test? I mean a real certified test which takes hours?

Then you would know that the test is not just one test. There are several test. One person might be very good in one test and not so good in another test.

Intelligent people understand things fast - in general. Not every intelligent person is a mathematic genius or someone who can learn instruments fast.

 

And obviously there is high IQ and very high IQ. Only about 15% of people have an IQ higher than 115. And 2% are higher than 132. And then there are the 0.0xxx% groups. There are not many of them around.

Have you ever noticed that, the higher one's IQ, the more difficult it becomes to communicate with the majority? 

 

And, just due to various factors, women will always be the majority. 

[proton]

Cute, submissive and stupid does for me, high Thai IQ is only spending 8 hours a day on their phones instead of 12 ????