Would you ever marry a bar girl? If so, why?

[save the frogs]

what percentage of "normal" girls in the west turned some tricks on OnlyFans during the pandemic to help pay the bills? 20% maybe? 

20% of guys in the west will marry a girl who did a stint on Only Fans and not even know. 

 

 

[bignok]

3 hours ago, Kwasaki said:

Lot of of men here would have no compassion or care about what happens in the poor farmer community.

They are not interested in the culture or what poor thai peoples situations are like.

Over my 20 years here I have Punch the lights out of 3 falangies who talk like they do on this forum when they said it to face.

I didn't pay the hospital bill either.

Lucky you not in Jail. 

[brewsterbudgen]

1 hour ago, thaigrifter said:

Most men wouldn't even think of having a relationship with a prostitute in their own country, so why would they do it in Thailand? 

Perhaps you should come here and you might find out!

[Hummin]

1 hour ago, bob smith said:

someone give this man a medal!

 

answers on a postcard guys,,,

What matters in a marriage, is to be happy! So the man who is happy with his wife wins no matter where she comes from or what she have done!

 

Simple as that ????

[CG1 Blue]

12 hours ago, bob smith said:

most are uneducated parasites.

'parasites', says the man who lets his missus pay for nights out 80% of the time ????

[bunnydrops]

I believe most of the married farang men that I know are married to bar girls. Some of the girls are some of the nicest, kind and giving girls. I would have married them if I had met them outside the bar scene. I, truth be told, have never been with a bar girl, don't really like bar "atmosphere", don't drink much. But I know many get into that work to find a Farang husband. Some here who's husbands have died and left them with a nice house and money return to the bars to find another. We tend to judge them by our Judio-christian upbring. Thai women see the world differently. A good book to read "Thai Fever".  https://www.amazon.com/Thailand-Fever-English-Chris-Pirazzi/dp/1887521488

[bizboi]

3 hours ago, bob smith said:

You must be so proud of yourself...

 

You should be done for GBH and deported. 

 

You're dangerous. 

Naaaa just a keyboard warrior with a big finger!!!

[NextG]

1 hour ago, save the frogs said:

what percentage of "normal" girls in the west turned some tricks on OnlyFans during the pandemic to help pay the bills? 20% maybe? 

20% of guys in the west will marry a girl who did a stint on Only Fans and not even know. 

 

 

Silly…

[Celsius]

1 hour ago, save the frogs said:

what percentage of "normal" girls in the west turned some tricks on OnlyFans during the pandemic to help pay the bills? 20% maybe? 

20% of guys in the west will marry a girl who did a stint on Only Fans and not even know. 

 

 

 

What a bunch of crap

[malthebluff]

15 hours ago, bob smith said:

over the years i have read many stories about farangs who come to thailand, meet a girl in a bar and fall head over heels in love.

within a few weeks/months they are married and he is planning to take her back to his home country.

ive also met a few bar stool joeys with similar stories.

tellin me how much he loves her, and she loves him.

they've usualy known each other less than a month.

 

what are these blokes thinking?

are they that desperate that the only girl they can get is a bar dweller?

who probably had 1 or 2 guys for breakfast before you showed up.

 

i see them pretty much daily. all over weight, bald, with no teeth.

the girls love them. only because he is paying of course.

the girls dont even look at me when i sit on my stool.

im well dressed, not too old and speak thai.

they know that I know their game like the back of my hand. 

 

a fool and his money are easily parted. this is especially true when it comes to the bar scene.

why on earth would a western bloke marry a bar girl?

I just do not get it.

I agree with you but only to some extent, to the bar girls it's just a job that pays well to support family back home and I think given the chance of a let's say office job with same salary they would jump at it, also bar girls make up around 0.00001% of thai women and they not all the same. Get away from the tourist areas and see the differance 

[couchpotato]

35 minutes ago, malthebluff said:

I agree with you but only to some extent, to the bar girls it's just a job that pays well to support family back home and I think given the chance of a let's say office job with same salary they would jump at it, also bar girls make up around 0.00001% of thai women and they not all the same. Get away from the tourist areas and see the differance 

 Haha??    0.00001%...you might want to check your math..

[still kicking]

4 hours ago, save the frogs said:

what percentage of "normal" girls in the west turned some tricks on OnlyFans during the pandemic to help pay the bills? 20% maybe? 

20% of guys in the west will marry a girl who did a stint on Only Fans and not even know. 

 

 

Just look at Tash Peterson the vegan troublemaker who makes $40.000 per months on Only Fans.

[lineofentry]

You actually know jack <deleted> smart ar5s

[cowellandrew]

 

i see them pretty much daily. all over weight, bald, with no teeth.

if looked like that I would give her a miss! ????

[Dan O]

8 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

If I were to marry a "bar girl/prostitute", then I would first insist she got some help from a qualified therapist:

 

 

 

I'm not sure she would be the one needing therapy

[GammaGlobulin]

24 minutes ago, Dan O said:

I'm not sure she would be the one needing therapy

As you say, such a fate, for me at least, would be highly likely.

And so, I would never tempt fate by marrying a prostitute or a bar girl.

But, each to his own, and I should be the last to judge others.

 

 

[bob smith]

11 hours ago, Kwasaki said:

Nah supported and witnessed by Thai people, applauded all round. 

 

Disrespectful falangies not liked here.

Horrible person. 

 

Can't fight with your brain so need to use your fists.

 

Go back to school, caveman. 

[bignok]

9 hours ago, Hummin said:

What matters in a marriage, is to be happy! So the man who is happy with his wife wins no matter where she comes from or what she have done!

 

Simple as that ????

True. Be happy. Care not about other opinions. Mosr opinions are just extended burbs.

[EVENKEEL]

6 minutes ago, bob smith said:

Horrible person. 

 

Can't fight with your tongue so need to use your fists.

 

Go back to school.

Just 2 old farts who drink too much and say stupid things.

[4MyEgo]

On 8/5/2023 at 11:15 AM, bob smith said:

why on earth would a western bloke marry a bar girl?

I just do not get it.

I'm so glad you are so woke and don't marry a "bar girl", thus saving her a heck of a lot of future grief living and putting up with you.

 

What's not to get, you fall in love, it happens, bar girl or other title.

 

For the record, 16 years and going strong, 2 kids and the rest is history, happier than a pig in mud.

 

I got it.

 

I get to live in another country that is far more relaxed than my home country and is cheaper by far.

 

I don't have to pay any taxes as a foreign resident and of course don't have to work.

 

What makes for a successful marriage in my books, regardless of a woman's job title, e.g. "bar girl", restaurant waitress etc is the personality of the person your marrying, and as long as you keep your finances separate (support) but do not hand over your finances, then your marriage (business) will continue to succeed, hand it over by wearing your heart on your sleeve, then you are opening yourself up to a possible failure, as others have found out, other have also managed to continue happily, each to their own, and as far as I'm concerned you only invest as much as you're prepared to lose, house, car, bike etc, whereas your investments remain separate for that fall back position if ever. 

 

I hope you find your true virgin soon and that she has an income so that you don't have to support her and that it's love at 1st sight, oh and a bit of advice, stay away from bar girls, they're a bad breed, according to the expert who posted this topic 

 

EDIT: Have you ever heard of other failed marriages Thai or Western, where guys invested heavily, could you tell us the women's titles, just for the record.

 

Takes two to Tango Charlie.

[BritManToo]

3 minutes ago, 4MyEgo said:

EDIT: Have you ever heard of other failed marriages where guys invested heavily, could you tell us the women's titles, just for the record.

Bob doesn't seem all that happy with his educated wealthy respectable Thai woman (according to previous posts).

Maybe it's time for him to try a bar girl?

[ThailandRyan]

15 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Bob doesn't seem all that happy with his educated wealthy respectable Thai woman (according to previous posts).

Maybe it's time for him to try a bar girl?

Yet he did if you remember.  He stole the bargirl from an old foreigner who was sleeping and took her on a trip with him.  I am highly skeptical of anything posted by Bob or as he was known for awhile Bogs, as his stories are all just that stories and seem to be wind-ups but whatever, if people want to believe him then more power to him.

[bob smith]

37 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Maybe it's time for him to try a bar girl?

I tried one last night but I sure as hell aint gonna marry her ???? 

[JRG23]

Let me tell you.... A true story..... (I have lived and worked in Thailand for about 30 years.)

 

I was married to a 'good' Thai girl in the early 1990s a couple of years after starting work in BKK. From a well-off family, she was a trained lawyer and got a job in the city (Bangkok). We have wonderful children - but our marriage was a nightmare. After 12 years of living together (9 as married) we divorced 17 years ago. 

 

Three years after the divorce (around 2009) I married a bar girl. From Pattaya. Everyone told me not to. But my marriage to my 'bargirl' wife is great. We are going strong, she helps continuously with my work and around the house and with looking after everything. We have two wonderful kids and enjoy our time together tremendously. Yes, we have ups and downs - but I wouldn't change her for anyone else.

 

So what's the answer to your question? Well, for me, it's clear. 

[Henryford]

Would you ever marry a western woman ?

 

Whatever a thai girl costs it will be peanuts compared to what a farang woman will cheat you out of.

[bob smith]

13 minutes ago, JRG23 said:

So what's the answer to your question? Well, for me, it's clear.

for every success story there are a thousand failures.

 

Statistics dont lie.

[bob smith]

13 minutes ago, Henryford said:

Whatever a thai girl costs it will be peanuts compared to what a farang woman will cheat you out of.

you been burned by a western woman before?

 

No sympathy from me if you have.

[Hanuman2547]

No, I would never marry a bar girl.  

[SiSePuede419]

This is the kind of question a smart, savvy bar girl would ask to sharpen their 30 second elevator pitch. ????

[Kwasaki]

13 hours ago, ArnieP said:

What a thoroughly nasty admission.

They started it.