Best Thailand Online Sites to Chat/Meet a Thai Lady

[Dan747]

 I have a friend visiting Thailand in December and he would like to Chat and possibly meet up with a Thai lady when he goes over for three to four months. Appreciate any info and Thank you in advance. 

[ChaiyaTH]

Thaifriendly.com is the biggest out there and you surely get in touch with some girls, spending the 30 dollar monthly fee highly increases chances as of unlimited messages and showing up at top of the inbox. 

 

In terms of finding anything serious or real, no dating apps or sites will help with that (few exceptions). Basically just lazy ones who never really talk, even they initially add you or people looking for money as usual. 

So the question really is what he wants to find, if he just wants a holiday GF I give it a better chance by visiting soi 6 in Pattaya or so. If he wants a boring ultra conservative girl with luggage, Thaifriendly might work out fine too. 

If he actually wants to meet someone properly, real life is the answer, and you do that by going out and about, not hiding behind a computer without even being here. Many bored farangs play dating sites to fool girls so they left long ago (while they are abroad and not here, girls will think its nonsense).

Anyway to properly answer: start 1-2 weeks before arrival on premium thaifriendly, be pro-active and message dozens of girls, pick some who seem to be realtime and go for a date saying you are now still down south or whatever for another week etc.

 

Profile requirements: a good description without too much to tell, 2-3 nice pictures, not less and make yourself 5 years younger, they are too stupid to tell anyway. As a 23 year old I used to get 2 girls daily in BKK that way, for taxi or food costs only or a thousand if they looked good enough.

Edited October 26, 2021 by ChaiyaTH

[Denim]

Your friend needs to be a bit more specific. 

 

Is he looking for a serious relationship leading to log term commitment , marriage.

 

Or a non bar girl cheap physical relationship.

 

Different websites cater to different needs.

[ChaiyaTH]

7 minutes ago, Denim said:

Your friend needs to be a bit more specific. 

 

Is he looking for a serious relationship leading to log term commitment , marriage.

 

Or a non bar girl cheap physical relationship.

 

Different websites cater to different needs.

No they do not, all websites cater to money orientation, left or right. Some might give you a ''relationship'' in return, doesn't mean the primary objective and condition is being paid in money or improve life and lifestyle.

 

Been working in the dating industry for 14 years, but what would I know (reading backend messages too). Maybe 3% is serious and straightforward and honest.

Edited October 26, 2021 by ChaiyaTH

[Pravda]

I recommend aseannow.com

[clivebaxter]

2 minutes ago, Pravda said:

I recommend aseannow.com

Better than the thaiger anyway, they probably don't allow Thais on there if they can't speak English ????

[RichardColeman]

Met my school teacher wife on Thaifriendly in June 2015, flew to meet meet her August, Married her in September. Together now 6 years , 1 child. Most suitable lady for me I have ever met, good mother, financially sensible and a good brain (probably married below her in that regard). Only woman I have met that I know will stay with me and take care of me in old age.

 

That said, there is some right nutcases, hookers and scammers on there too. Good luck

 

 

[ChaiyaTH]

1 minute ago, RichardColeman said:

Met my school teacher wife on Thaifriendly in June 2015, flew to meet meet her August, Married her in September. Together now 6 years , 1 child. Most suitable lady for me I have ever met, good mother, financially sensible and a good brain (probably married below her in that regard). Only woman I have met that I know will stay with me and take care of me in old age.

 

That said, there is some right nutcases, hookers and scammers on there too. Good luck

 

 

Yeah, the seldom few good stories out there are usually from that site (owned by a LB in Singapore).

[Grecian]

My gf was approached by thaifriendly and paid 10k bht to use her pic on the cover pages  and advertising! I

I'd listen to chaiyathai's take on things.

[The Hammer2021]

The 'dating' websites are joyless. Absolutely no fun. A big waste of time except for cheap Charlie's. Tell your pal to go out drinking at the usual places.

[gt162]

Thaifriendly, Thaicupid, Tinder, etc.

 

Many women from bars, freelancers, escort services have accounts with all of them to increase their chances of "getting foreigners". Lots of whackos, prostitutes and general women looking for "rich foreigner".  You may be middle age, old age, unattractive men but money plays big role.

 

https://mojomatt.me/thai-dating-sites-apps/

 

And how one lonely middle age Youtuber who hooked up with his current Thai woman.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited October 26, 2021 by gt162

[scubascuba3]

For freelancers, Thaifriendly or Tinder. Thaicupid seems to have more non freelancers

[chuang]

Soi Cowboy.th

[BangkokReady]

13 hours ago, Grecian said:

My gf was approached by thaifriendly and paid 10k bht to use her pic on the cover pages  and advertising! I

I'd listen to chaiyathai's take on things.

I'm not sure what you think this brings to the conversation.  Obviously they're going to use a model on promotional material.  If you believe the model on the ad banner or sign up page is the girl you're going to get on the website, you shouldn't be using them at all, possibly you shouldn't be using the internet.

[BangkokReady]

12 hours ago, gt162 said:

And how one lonely middle age Youtuber who hooked up with his current Thai woman.

Can you be a little more condescending and negative?  It feels like there's some slight ambiguity around how bitter you are.

Edited October 27, 2021 by BangkokReady

[Neeranam]

Stay away from these sites, go to bars and meet ladies the same as you would in any county. 

I don't mean the pink pussy bar. 

Sites are full of desparate women wanting cash from a foreigner 

[PoorSucker]

42 minutes ago, Neeranam said:

go to bars and meet ladies

Bars are closed.

[clivebaxter]

2 hours ago, Neeranam said:

Stay away from these sites, go to bars and meet ladies the same as you would in any county. 

I don't mean the pink pussy bar. 

Sites are full of desparate women wanting cash from a foreigner 

Bars were full of the same!

Edited October 27, 2021 by clivebaxter

[hotchilli]

18 hours ago, Dan747 said:

I have a friend visiting Thailand in December and he would like to Chat and possibly meet up with a Thai lady when he goes over for three to four months. Appreciate any info and Thank you in advance. 

You don't say what area in Thailand... that would help.

If it's a beach resort no issue..

just tell him to smile at anything he fancies, she will do the rest.

 

[malt25]

Ah... for a friend. That makes all the difference.

[chicowoodduck]

Try Walking Street / Beach Road/ Soi Buakhao in Pattaya City…cheap top of the line coin operated ladies….????????????

[PFMills]

11 minutes ago, chicowoodduck said:

Try Walking Street / Beach Road/ Soi Buakhao in Pattaya City…cheap top of the line coin operated ladies….????????????

Coin operated ladies……..   love it

[ezzra]

https://www.dateinasia.com/ pulled few good ones from there in my younger days, still going good with many nationalities and many Thai ladies as well...

[ChrisKC]

It is not difficult in the slightest to find a woman in Thailand. In my opinion, there are no such things as the best dating website or the best town or the best bar or how educated they might be.

 

But, the best woman for anyone in particular could be just around the next corner tomorrow, or it might take eight years as it did in my case!

[BritManToo]

20 hours ago, Dan747 said:

and he would like to Chat and possibly meet up with a Thai lady when he goes over for three to four months.

Tell him to sit in a coffee shop every morning for a week ..... he'll be beating them off.

They'll hunt him down.

Edited October 27, 2021 by BritManToo

[steven100]

5 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Tell him to sit in a coffee shop every morning for a week ..... he'll be beating them off.

They'll hunt him down.

I met a thai lady once ......   and ever since that horrible experience I just run forrest run   !!

[Neeranam]

4 hours ago, PoorSucker said:

Bars are closed.

Good point, but some are actually open where I live. 

Anyways, better to just pick up ladies in shopping malls, supermarkets etc. 

 

 

[Neeranam]

1 hour ago, chicowoodduck said:

Try Walking Street / Beach Road/ Soi Buakhao in Pattaya City…cheap top of the line coin operated ladies….????????????

Definitely stay away from Pattaya, it is not the real Thailand. Nice girls don't go to work there. 

[PoorSucker]

5 minutes ago, Neeranam said:

Definitely stay away from Pattaya, it is not the real Thailand. Nice girls don't go to work there. 

Perhaps OP friend prefer naughty girls.

[Confuscious]

22 hours ago, ChaiyaTH said:

Thaifriendly.com is the biggest out there and you surely get in touch with some girls, spending the 30 dollar monthly fee highly increases chances as of unlimited messages and showing up at top of the inbox. 

FORGET THAIFRIENDLY!!!
 

Thaifriendly does not let you communicate with any girl/woman unless you pay for a subscription.
Thaifriendly mark almost every girl as "Important" and blocks the communication if you are not a paying member.
Best of all, I have girls/woman on my list who didn't Login since 5 years and they are still marked as "Important".
Far better sites on the internet without the stupid "Important".