77 OLD man will be married with a 20 y/o young girl

[BangkokReady]

6 minutes ago, blackprince said:

At 77 maybe he's hiring a nurse?

I'm sure whether he wants a nurse or something more intimate, he's going to pay for it.

 

It's so funny (sad) how when people look at situations like this they seem to think a lifetime of hard work means nothing.   Like the poor woman is being exploited for her body, but the lifetime of use of the man's body to earn the money, that the woman will no doubt get, means nothing.

 

Don't get me wrong, I'd rather work in an office to earn some money than have sex with a man, but his money didn't fall out of the sky.

[blackprince]

14 minutes ago, BangkokReady said:

I'm sure whether he wants a nurse or something more intimate, he's going to pay for it.

 

It's so funny (sad) how when people look at situations like this they seem to think a lifetime of hard work means nothing.   Like the poor woman is being exploited for her body, but the lifetime of use of the man's body to earn the money, that the woman will no doubt get, means nothing.

 

Don't get me wrong, I'd rather work in an office to earn some money than have sex with a man, but his money didn't fall out of the sky.

I didn't say his lifetime's work work means nothing or that these two people shouldn't be together.

I'm just digging into the notion of what "consenting adults" really means.

We all have to work (well most of us anyway), but some of us are lucky enough to live in countries where we have access to education and opportunities. This young woman didn't have that luck (I'm assuming).

I've been sat in restaurants enjoying a beautiful afternoon, relaxing, life is good. A couple of sexpats sit down at a table nearby and start discussing their exploits with underage girls (their words). Life suddenly doesn't feel so good. It's happened more than once.

Whatever this guy is doing, this girl is of age anyway. Good luck to them.

[1FinickyOne]

6 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Reminds me of the joke,

 

65 year old guy walks into a bar with his new stunning 20 year old wife.

Barman says, "Cor mate, how did you score that one?"

Old guy replies, "I lied to her about my age"

Barman says, "Wot, like you said you were 40?"

Old guy, "Nah, I told her I was 93"

I had an uncle - when he was 70, he told everyone he was 80 and everyone said, Wow, you look great... 

[bbko]

7 hours ago, Tarteso said:

a 77-year-old British uncle

Why do we need to know he's an uncle?

[Chris.B]

7 hours ago, GrandPapillon said:

I wonder what those pretty eyes are really seeing in the video chat ????

 

18 months relationship and never met? that's not a relationship ????

A desperate chance of a way out of Myanmar?

[Chris.B]

6 hours ago, glegolo18 said:

why end up on the streets???? He have a pension for God sake, is that so surpricing....

More likely that SHE wll end up on the street whenever this guys is dead and gone...

 

Maybe she'll get a council flat with a bun in the oven and benefits. Better than living in Myanmar. 

[RichardColeman]

7 hours ago, Pravda said:

She told him she's 20

..................and a woman

[pomchop]

It would be better for her if he were 93...then she wouldn't have to put up with him for long...of course 77 is not exactly a spring chicken....her chances of ending up with some amount of $$ are much better than working in a market in burma....easy to judge peoples motives from a comfortable seat....but if you came from a dirt poor family with little to zero hope of ever making enough $$ to live some semblance of a decent life many might , like this gal, grab at any chance to "hit the jackpot".

[rupert the bear]

it s their life and their choice,judgemental  and opinionated  know it alls,aggh what i came here to avoid.a very north european and north american female atrribute id rather avoid.

[prakhonchai nick]

Has she got a younger sister?????

[Tarteso]

8 hours ago, bbko said:

Why do we need to know he's an uncle?

I think the Thai press meant "guy" not "uncle"… Lost in translation ?

[vandeventer]

15 hours ago, FruitPudding said:

Well, why not?

 

It is obviously mutually beneficial.

 

I see no harm. Although, you could say they are both predators of a different kind, just preying on each other for sex and money. Like I said: mutually beneficial.

 

Good luck to them.

To me why not, just as long as they don't have kids as life will be very hard for her after he is gone.

[BritManToo]

4 minutes ago, vandeventer said:

To me why not, just as long as they don't have kids as life will be very hard for her after he is gone.

Are you sure?

If she inherits a home in Bath, she'll be minted for life.

And still young enough to have another husband in the UK after.

If she has two kids in the UK, that will get her a guaranteed minimum income for the next 20 years (child tax credit system).

[Card]

Must check her shoes before marriage. If they are sparkly then she is on the make.

[Captain Monday]

That girl is 20 like I'm 33.

Android phone takes years off.

[cyril sneer]

good on him

[vandeventer]

55 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Are you sure?

If she inherits a home in Bath, she'll be minted for life.

And still young enough to have another husband in the UK after.

If she has two kids in the UK, that will get her a guaranteed minimum income for the next 20 years (child tax credit system).

The big word here is if.

[klauskunkel]

17 hours ago, Tarteso said:

Is this ethic, Moral or logical ?

It's historical, cultural and financial.

[GinBoy2]

It's stories like this that give every normal thai/farang relationship a bad name, and buy into the stereotype,

 

I'm 10 years older than my wife, yet whenever folks hear I'm married to a Thai, it's the usual snigger and teenage mail order bride thing that goes through their mind.

 

Of course meet that girl in person and wow betide you try that sh**t on, you'd be on the wrong side of a vicious Thai woman's tongue!

[PeachCH]

What the problem? My wife is 41 years younger. Never had any age related problems. Probably better to live together for a while, before getting married. 

[hotchilli]

17 hours ago, CharlieH said:

Consenting adults, who is anyone to judge anothers relationship.

Up to them. ????

He knows what he's doing, and she may have a bright future... best of luck to them both.

[steven100]

she told him she's 20 and he told her he's rich .....  what could possibly go wrong.  !!     Lol

[Hummin]

10 hours ago, Chris.B said:

A desperate chance of a way out of Myanmar?

Sad indeed!

[BritManToo]

18 minutes ago, steven100 said:

she told him she's 20 and he told her he's rich .....  what could possibly go wrong.  !!     Lol

Have you seen how rural Cambodian farmers live?

If he has only a UK pension and a council house, she will still think he's rich.

[Bert got kinky]

 

He is most likely aware of what can go wrong and I don't doubt that his family would have been reminding him by nagging him and calling him an old fool.

They are both consenting adults and are obviously happy in their relationship.

I pray that I am still a lover (or even alive) at 77 years old, what a way to see out the end of life.

 

Best of luck old chap.

 

[Hummin]

24 minutes ago, Bert got kinky said:

 

He is most likely aware of what can go wrong and I don't doubt that his family would have been reminding him by nagging him and calling him an old fool.

They are both consenting adults and are obviously happy in their relationship.

I pray that I am still a lover (or even alive) at 77 years old, what a way to see out the end of life.

 

Best of luck old chap.

 

I just pray I'm not going to be that silly old chap in the end of my life, and are much better off with the same old lady I'm with now, sharing good memories and a good life.

 

 

[portlandtree]

18 hours ago, Pravda said:

She told him she's 20

Lol maybe 40 or 12 she lost her I’d and birth certificate how convenient 

[LukKrueng]

18 hours ago, Tarteso said:

A 20-year-old Myanmar woman meets a 77-year-old British uncle online.  They are now planning to get married,

Are you jealous?

[Hummin]

3 minutes ago, LukKrueng said:

Are you jealous?

What to be jealous of? Being a silly old chap, or a poor girl who see this as the only way out of Mayanmar?

[peter zwart]

18 hours ago, stigar said:

They saved my day.My lady is only 14 years younger then me.(shes 45)

Hahahaha, same feeling here. Mine is 32. Only 20 years yonger.