Avoid trap of losing money to women

[Sparktrader]

2 minutes ago, chalawaan said:

I know a lot of dogs who give great massages, they didn't make the cut for bargirl. 

No need to buy the dogs, just rent.

Free pats and licks too

[TheScience]

2 hours ago, Sparktrader said:

Not sure why you are trying to tell me what to do. I dont tell you what to do. Control issues.

You are the OP that opened this thread correct? You were clearly requesting advice.

 

Please refer back to your OP.

[TheScience]

2 hours ago, Sparktrader said:

You sound unhappy.

No, you sound extremely unhappy. Ever since you have joined this forum you've posted absolutely inane, juvenile questions almost exclusively about sex.

 

I don't think you've ever stepped foot in Thailand.

 

I'm about the as far from politically correct a person you will meet but comparing women in general to dogs. Sorry, you are way out of line and that is precisely why you had to op this question in the first place.

 

I provided a quality list of flags in which to identify what I consider a good mate. You scoffed and mocked comparing women to dogs - numerous times.

 

Enjoy the dog because you'll never get the woman unless she's grittingly doing by the hour.

 

Lost

[Sparktrader]

2 minutes ago, TheScience said:

No, you sound extremely unhappy. Ever since you have joined this forum you've posted absolutely inane, juvenile questions almost exclusively about sex.

 

I don't think you've ever stepped foot in Thailand.

 

I'm about the as far from politically correct a person you will meet but comparing women in general to dogs. Sorry, you are way out of line and that is precisely why you had to op this question in the first place.

 

I provided a quality list of flags in which to identify what I consider a good mate. You scoffed and mocked comparing women to dogs - numerous times.

 

Enjoy the dog because you'll never get the woman unless she's grittingly doing by the hour.

 

Lost

Nice rant. Been going to Thailand for 20 years. Have a nice evening. 8.19pm Thai time.

 

There's always one.

[LaosLover]

1 hour ago, TheScience said:

Ever since you have joined this forum you've posted absolutely inane, juvenile questions almost exclusively about sex.

 

......And this is a bad thing, why?

[Mac Mickmanus]

3 hours ago, chalawaan said:

Now then, now then, it was fun while it lasted. 

He was the man who raped and molested Children right up until he died 

[Sparktrader]

41 minutes ago, LaosLover said:

......And this is a bad thing, why?

He joined the forum 10 months after me. How would he know? 

[Sparktrader]

50 minutes ago, Sticky Rice Balls said:

my moral standing is lying down these post covid days........ill put it in a bowl of soup, if warm

I hear custard is better

[2 is 1]

Avoid trap of losing money to women.

Reply to this question: 

I think every man pay way or other in relationship and he should! Still can be alpha male! But if lose all money to woman or you are on womans leash then you are looser. 

I have not been whit 500 woman but (or dont know, stop counting after hair start grow in down low) have had "few". Still have make mistake whit asian woman(Filipina) and was looser because not make prenup whit her! Whit my Thai woman im not pay much, she manage her self almost everything and government pay our other house in town. I help in other way , help family in farm drive stuff to sell etc. I know ofcourse she dont mind if i give her more money lol. But if you start give much you cant come back to give less!

[Bruno123]

17 hours ago, 2 is 1 said:

Avoid trap of losing money to women.

Reply to this question: 

I think every man pay way or other in relationship and he should! Still can be alpha male! But if lose all money to woman or you are on womans leash then you are looser. 

I have not been whit 500 woman but (or dont know, stop counting after hair start grow in down low) have had "few". Still have make mistake whit asian woman(Filipina) and was looser because not make prenup whit her! Whit my Thai woman im not pay much, she manage her self almost everything and government pay our other house in town. I help in other way , help family in farm drive stuff to sell etc. I know ofcourse she dont mind if i give her more money lol. But if you start give much you cant come back to give less!

Have you considered that an Alpha male is not quite what you imagine?

You are paying for everything, but you imagine that you are the Alpha? 

So to be an Alpha you have to pay for everything; but if she outsmarts you then you are a loser. ???? 

So are you an Alpha or a Loser? Can you be both?

Seems like you are looking for a problem to fit the solution.

 

Pay way or other? What does that mean? Of course you pay with your time. If you are paying with your time and paying for everything; you are already a loser. Just fooling yourself that it makes you superior. Forget about that Alpha nonsense ???? 

 

 

 

[2 is 1]

10 minutes ago, Bruno123 said:

Have you considered that an Alpha male is not quite what you imagine?

You are paying for everything, but you imagine that you are the Alpha? 

So to be an Alpha you have to pay for everything; but if she outsmarts you then you are a loser. ???? 

So are you an Alpha or a Loser? Can you be both?

Seems like you are looking for a problem to fit the solution.

 

Pay way or other? What does that mean? Of course you pay with your time. If you are paying with your time and paying for everything; you are already a loser. Just fooling yourself that it makes you superior. Forget about that Alpha nonsense ???? 

 

 

 

Lol im not saying im alpha.But surely im not under woman also if im not want to some times. (An alpha male is a man who takes charge, one who imposes his will on others, not the other way round.) But it has nothing to do about giving money to woman. Just tell my story and point.

[BritManToo]

30 minutes ago, 2 is 1 said:

Lol im not saying im alpha.But surely im not under woman also if im not want to some times. (An alpha male is a man who takes charge, one who imposes his will on others, not the other way round.) But it has nothing to do about giving money to woman. Just tell my story and point.

An Alpha male is a male that takes what he wants, when he wants it.

Genghis Khan was an alpha male, he enjoyed riding the horses and sleeping with the wives and daughters of his recently defeated enemies.

 

Guys that lift, read self improvement books, and try to talk a girl into giving them a free one ..... not so much.

[Hummin]

20 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

An Alpha male is a male that takes what he wants, when he wants it.

Genghis Khan was an alpha male, he enjoyed riding the horses and sleeping with the wives and daughters of his recently defeated enemies.

 

Guys that lift, read self improvement books, and try to talk a girl into giving them a free one ..... not so much.

Short, a alpha male is someone people or animals follow and who dominating a group out of same specie. 

 

Dictionary

the most successful and powerful male in any group. a strong and successful man who likes to be in charge of others.

 

 

[RafPinto]

Thanks guys.
Now I understand why they call me: Khun Alpha farang.

[LaosLover]

Alpha-dom has been over-used to the point of being a joke by red pillars. Most guys could do with more standing up for themselves and their self-interests.

 

They don't have to go full on Viking Pillager to stop being taken advantage of.

[Sparktrader]

Apha male - angry guy with tattoos

 

Attracts bogan chicks

 

Good Sportsman - often a bit girly and modern. Pretty boy.

 

Dates models

[LaosLover]

If you think -even for a moment- that you're an alpha male, you're really a bit of a comedic figure, like the never actually seen in the wild "Chad".

 

Just stand up for yourself, don't be a doormat. You don't have to mimic Clint Eastwood in High Plains Drifter.

[Sparktrader]

2 minutes ago, LaosLover said:

If you think -even for a moment- that you're an alpha male, you're really a bit of a comedic figure, like the never actually seen in the wild "Chad".

 

Just stand up for yourself, don't be a doormat. You don't have to mimic Clint Eastwood in High Plains Drifter.

Sigma male his characters

 

Independent

 

 

 

 

[LaosLover]

This whole alpha-drama may be playing out solely in your own head, completely undetectable by outside observers.

 

How often in your life do you think, "wow, that guy is really alpha and not a run of the mill rhymes with grass hole"?

[BritManToo]

3 minutes ago, Sparktrader said:

Sigma male his characters

 

Independent

I'm an Omicron male.

Someone that's not all that serious, you'd like to avoid, but can't no matter what precautions you take ..........

[Sparktrader]

1 minute ago, LaosLover said:

This whole alpha-drama may be playing out solely in your own head, completely undetectable by outside observers.

 

How often in your life do you think, "wow, that guy is really alpha and not a run of the mill rhymes with grass hole"?

Who cares really

 

Alphas look weak to me. Act tough but all show. Insecure.

 

Sigmas more secure. They dont need groups to impress.

[Sparktrader]

6 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I'm an Omicron male.

Someone that's not all that serious, you'd like to avoid, but can't no matter what precautions you take ..........

Im half Sigma half Z

[LaosLover]

Fun to gas on about on the internet, but under what real life circumstances can you envision yourself saying out loud, "I am a Sigma Male (and proud of it)"?

[Sparktrader]

Most dont know what it is. I wish I was a bird. Rather fly around. Humans are rather limited. A bird can fly all over the place. 

[The Hammer2021]

On 4/13/2022 at 7:34 PM, richard_smith237 said:

I guess it all depends where you are, who you hang around with, where and how you met your significant other.

 

 

The vast majority of Western guys I know in Thailand are in perfectly normal relationships with Thai women, not really much different from the west... Mutual respect, similar socio-economic status... just regular decent couples....   I don’t know why some guys struggle and end up in disastrous situations. 

 

 

And end  up on this forum!

[BritManToo]

On 4/13/2022 at 7:34 PM, richard_smith237 said:

The vast majority of Western guys I know in Thailand are in perfectly normal relationships with Thai women, not really much different from the west... Mutual respect, similar socio-economic status... just regular decent couples....   I don’t know why some guys struggle and end up in disastrous situations. 

I've only encountered one couple like that.

 

[ratcatcher]

On 4/13/2022 at 6:54 PM, LaosLover said:

If I had a relationship with a poor person in Alabama, I'd likely run into a lot of the same poverty-based relationship problems and expectations as I read here. If it were a black person, there would be cultural differences.

 

But Alabama is like wealthy Switzerland and a black Alabama sharecropper is practically my sister compared to the disparities in Thailand.

 

When I lived in England as an American, I underestimated the differences between them and me because I felt that I "knew" the place because of the shared language, which you don't even have in Thailand. But England is like Mars to Americans and Thailand is like Pluto. So always remember you're visiting Pluto and that you're not a Plutonian.

In view of  your planetary references, I was wondering if that information regarding Mars & Pluto came from Uranus?

[tomazbodner]

On 4/13/2022 at 6:37 PM, Sparktrader said:

Every guy I know who lived in Thailand lost money. $100,000+ Married Thais and money went into family or taken by women or just wasted on randoms.

How many people do you know? Actually I am glad that you don't know me.

[tomazbodner]

But seriously, Sir...

 

It takes 2 to tango. People often end up in disastrous relationships because of where they look for partners, and what kind of people they are likely to find at such places.

 

I don't think you can expect a smooth ride when finding your partner at a night club, or a bar. Now of course, there could be exceptions everywhere, but in many cases things do go wrong. Add to that different upbringing and values, different culture, different interests, and in this forum also a large age gap, and this wouldn't even go smoothly at members' original countries.

 

Without much of a social safety net, for many, the family is the safety net. Add to that protecting the face, and it's not so far fetched to imagine someone being "forced" to show success by channeling wealth to family, to show off to the neighbours. Of course, then comes parents' greed, especially in some very remote areas, who see their children as nothing more than their slaves to be forever grateful to their parents for nothing more than giving them birth. As what some of these parents did after the birth couldn't even be a remotely plausible description of upbringing. That is, before some of them even got sold off to gangs, or just expected their monthly income from their daughters to buy stuff... to show off...

 

I used to work in media and had a chance to join interviews of both the underprivileged girls that some members here enjoy renting, as well as their ignorant parents, and many stories were heartbreaking on one side, and making me want to strangle someone on the other side.

 

The sad thing is that when left to "the street" to educate children, nearly never anything good comes out of it. So having an expectation of things working out from a visitor's point of view is very naive.

 

But as said, there are always exceptions. Just far too few.

 

Go meet girls in a park. Cinema. Gallery. Travel fair. In a restaurant or convenience store. In gym. At an animal shelter. Book store. You know, places where you might find people who are interested in "normal" things, maybe same things as you are, and you'll have a far better chance of success and avoiding problems later.

[Danderman123]

I only go with ladies who have Thai husbands.