Thai women kissing and foreplay

[Lacessit]

44 minutes ago, sqwakvfr said:

 I thought this was different  but based upon my experience if you want affection and passion the last place to look  might be a Thai woman.  Every Thai woman, no matter the age, that I have dated never expressed any kind of warmth or affection.  Even when we were alone. 

 

 

I have to put in some foreplay before my GF gets into passion. That's OK, all women respond differently. And she is definitely not into public displays of affection, again OK by me.

As far as affection in private goes, I get spontaneous displays of it every day. It may be you, or the women you choose to be with.

 

 

[Robin]

I guess that in 'Western' cultures you have to win affection before sex, hence the emphasis in 'snogging' kissing and general foreplay, that is the route taken by most young couples.  I kissed many girls long and hard, before I got to screw one.  That used to be the standard approach.

I get the impression that Thai men lack such subtleties and  it is <deleted> now or move on.  Do they regard sex as being their right from any younger girl?

When I first encountered Thai ladies, they all wanted the 'Thai style' kiss.  After they had been eating garlic, that was all I wanted.

[sqwakvfr]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

Almost all the Thai women I've been alone with displayed warmth and affection, even the ones I was paying short-time. Maybe it's you and not them.

Then you have bee lucky.  

[sqwakvfr]

22 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

I have to put in some foreplay before my GF gets into passion. That's OK, all women respond differently. And she is definitely not into public displays of affection, again OK by me.

As far as affection in private goes, I get spontaneous displays of it every day. It may be you, or the women you choose to be with.

 

 

Yeah it's me.  I am repulsive but I am generous.  But what does that matter?

[1FinickyOne]

11 hours ago, kingstonkid said:

Asked one lady why she doe snot like kissing

Well, doe snot kissing does not sound attractive... ah - ok - a typo...

 

some do, some don't.... covid season and all, maybe more don't lately.. 

[1FinickyOne]

11 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Why bother when you can bang them straight away.

Kissing is just wasting time.

You got a bus to catch? 

[Lacessit]

19 minutes ago, sqwakvfr said:

Yeah it's me.  I am repulsive but I am generous.  But what does that matter?

I would find it difficult to express affection for a fat, wrinkly woman, irrespective of how generous she was. Most men would.

I'm old and fairly ugly, but I do keep myself in good shape, and shower daily.

[1FinickyOne]

1 minute ago, Lacessit said:

I'm old and fairly ugly, but I do keep myself in good shape, and shower daily.

yeah, 2x a day works too...

[FriendlyFarang]

Depends on the woman and their experiences. I think quite a few Thais just don't kiss, so if the girl only had Thai guys before she might not have much experience with kissing.

Before dating with me, my girlfriend had two Thai boyfriends, that's her whole experience with men. She had completely no experience with kissing and I had to teach her.

Now she still doesn't like kissing as foreplay, but when we are a few minutes into doing it already and she gets in the mood, then she initiates kissing and sometimes can't get enough of it.

[bolt]

Thais are hopeless at showing emotion, they see it as a weakness so its old fashioned stiff upper lip and all that 

 

We must remember as we get older we become more hygienic, and sharing saliva becomes more or less important.

 

 

 

[sqwakvfr]

31 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

I would find it difficult to express affection for a fat, wrinkly woman, irrespective of how generous she was. Most men would.

I'm old and fairly ugly, but I do keep myself in good shape, and shower daily.

I shower twice a day and once at the gym.  Is there a prize for this?  

[Lacessit]

44 minutes ago, sqwakvfr said:

I shower twice a day and once at the gym.  Is there a prize for this?  

Depends on the deodorant you use. I'm told Brut is passe.

[bamboozled]

9 hours ago, Dave Aarons said:

Newbie to this forum maybe but 16yrs in Thailand, married for 13 of them and owned a very popular bar in Pattaya for 5yrs.

LOve it!

[ericthai]

11 hours ago, kingstonkid said:

I was hoping to get answers from some of the guys here that are married to Thai ladies

 

As to wham bam thank lyou mam I am older so the engine needs to get revved up before starting  

 

watch some porn that will help!

[Dan O]

14 hours ago, habuspasha said:

I would like to read more thoughtful responses to OP's question which I think highlights an important cultural difference I wish I could explain.  

It's been my experience from Thai women directly over my 35 years here is that culturally the act of sex is more a body function  for many rather than an act of sexual  passion. Not all but many.

 

It is loosely coupled with the fact that so many young Thai women have OLD bf or husbands, which you seldom would seem in the western countries.

 

they tend to favor security and stability (financially and life style) over passion, love and desire as you would see in the west. 

[Hummin]

11 hours ago, Dave Aarons said:

Newbie to this forum maybe but 16yrs in Thailand, married for 13 of them and owned a very popular bar in Pattaya for 5yrs.

And that gives you an exceptional visdom in love! 

[1FinickyOne]

4 hours ago, sqwakvfr said:

I shower twice a day and once at the gym.  Is there a prize for this?  

yes, of course... you don't stink [as much as you would if you didn't] 

[NanLaew]

19 hours ago, Hummin said:

Girls and women being teached that playing with the thing, is the way to the western mans hearth, next on the list is food and beer. 

To an American man's heart maybe. IMHO, they are way over infatuated with BJ's.

 

Fried liver with bacon and onions and mashed spuds first.

 

Washed down with a pint or five of Strangler's Old Misty.

 

Then a bit of rumpy pumpy.

[NanLaew]

13 hours ago, Dan O said:

It is loosely coupled with the fact that so many young Thai women have OLD bf or husbands, which you seldom would seem in the western countries.

Seldom seen at the shopping malls, markets, restaurants and clubs in most every town and city outside of the usual Thailand monger traps either.

[Excel]

6 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

Seldom seen at the shopping malls, markets, restaurants and clubs in most every town

Well you must be a busy bee to have stated that "most every town". Seems like a grossly over generalised statement based on an absurdity to me but still, are there any towns in Thailand that you have not been to or is it your hobby driving around Thailand stopping at malls, markets restaurants etc. on the off chance you can spot a lady with and elder partner or not ?????

[NanLaew]

35 minutes ago, Excel said:

46 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

Seldom seen at the shopping malls, markets, restaurants and clubs in most every town

Well you must be a busy bee to have stated that "most every town". Seems like a grossly over generalised statement based on an absurdity to me but still, are there any towns in Thailand that you have not been to or is it your hobby driving around Thailand stopping at malls, markets restaurants etc. on the off chance you can spot a lady with and elder partner or not ?

You're surprisingly non-analytical today.

 

What happened?

 

Not getting out of the box so much?.

[Will B Good]

No doubt, in my limited experience of being here on and of for 30 years, that Thai girls are at best not overly keen on kissing.

 

I think they see it as something that is even more intimate than sex.

[NanLaew]

3 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

No doubt, in my limited experience of being here on and of for 30 years, that Thai girls are at best not overly keen on kissing.

 

I think they see it as something that is even more intimate than sex.

Could also depend a lot on precisely where one is kissing them, no?

[Boomer6969]

My (Thai) wife enjoys kissing, she gives (not so great) BJs, and is quite shy she when it comes to me giving her oral sex. So I don't get much of the latter as a reluctant partner is a bit of a turn off.

 

She is a lot more penetration driven than most of the western (non P4P) partners I've had. Which is a bit of a worry as I have no idea how I would get her satisfied if I couldn't get it up anymore. And I am turning 70 early next year. Maybe back to school?

[Lacessit]

22 minutes ago, Boomer6969 said:

My (Thai) wife enjoys kissing, she gives (not so great) BJs, and is quite shy she when it comes to me giving her oral sex. So I don't get much of the latter as a reluctant partner is a bit of a turn off.

 

She is a lot more penetration driven than most of the western (non P4P) partners I've had. Which is a bit of a worry as I have no idea how I would get her satisfied if I couldn't get it up anymore. And I am turning 70 early next year. Maybe back to school?

I have noticed that too, IME Thai women welcome full penetration. The stiffer the better. They also seem to be able to achieve orgasm in a variety of positions, whereas Western women favor on top.

Fear not, there are little blue pills that can help.

[ColeBOzbourne]

2 hours ago, NanLaew said:

Washed down with a pint or five of Strangler's Old Misty.

 

Then a bit of rumpy pumpy.

After five beers my 'rumpy' generally refuses to get 'pumpy'.

[ColeBOzbourne]

A Thai lady recently edumacated me that smoking a cigarette together while kissing is how you catch AIDS. So, cross that fetish off your list.

[GammaGlobulin]

If you want kissing...

Please return to where you came from.

 

Everybody knows about this.

 

This is just too intimate of a subject to write much about here.

 

 

[it is what it is]

 

can honestly say it's never been a problem for me. OP, have you checked your breath?! maybe you're not just very good at kissing... maybe the girls just don't fancy you...

[Elkski]

Not an issue with the Thai women I tried.