How many Thai women did you "date" before you decided "this is the one"?

[ExpatOilWorker]

2 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Do I really care how many other member "know" her? As long as she takes a shower in between and maybe rests a little that's good enough.

As long as she knows to scream the right name on the right night, it is all good and fine. 

Maybe as a safeguard, this is why Thai girls refer to all of us at Tilac. 

[lelapin]

Divorced from my 1st English wife 43 years ago. After many years searching for the right one in the UK, I moved to Thailand. After one year here I met THE BOSS. Spent 15 years living together to make sure all the boxes were ticked and married 2 years ago. What a great decision.

[4MyEgo]

13 hours ago, ChrisKC said:

She multi-tasks too

 

 

Does this mean she can have sex and a headache at the same time?

This time around, I am the one with the headaches as she's a goer......and I honestly can't keep up with her, bit more off than I could chew, but I never refuse her, I just suffer the 45 minutes of shear pleasure and the pain that goes along with it ????

[RafPinto]

20 minutes ago, 4MyEgo said:

This time around, I am the one with the headaches as she's a goer......and I honestly can't keep up with her, bit more off than I could chew, but I never refuse her, I just suffer the 45 minutes of shear pleasure and the pain that goes along with it ????

Must be a typo.

 

You mean 45 seconds.

[RafPinto]

[4MyEgo]

1 minute ago, RafPinto said:

Must be a typo.

 

You mean 45 seconds.

Maybe when my young wife ages and isn't pretty anymore, or I am too old to accommodate her needs, but for now I will keep on taking the 45 minutes as she is one of those rare ones who can have multiple orgasms.

 

I know, I know lucky me ???? 

 

[RafPinto]

2 minutes ago, 4MyEgo said:

Maybe when my young wife ages and isn't pretty anymore, or I am too old to accommodate her needs, but for now I will keep on taking the 45 minutes as she is one of those rare ones who can have multiple orgasms.

 

I know, I know lucky me ???? 

 

Did she get her Masters at the "university of arts and fake orgasm"?

[Mac Mickmanus]

2 minutes ago, 4MyEgo said:

Maybe when my young wife ages and isn't pretty anymore, or I am too old to accommodate her needs, but for now I will keep on taking the 45 minutes as she is one of those rare ones who can have multiple orgasms.

 

I know, I know lucky me ???? 

 

How do you manage to make her have multiple orgasms and how many can you manage ?

[DrPhibes]

21 hours ago, crazykopite said:

OMG a Thai woman who know how to use an iron you are a very lucky fella It seems you made the right choice 

I'd be careful on defining use.  He said she was ironing, he never said what she was ironing:

[GeorgeCross]

dated: two

shagged: "a lot"

had to chase: one (married her) ????

[4MyEgo]

16 minutes ago, RafPinto said:

Did she get her Masters at the "university of arts and fake orgasm"?

I take it that, that is where you got yours from.

[4MyEgo]

21 minutes ago, Mac Mickmanus said:

How do you manage to make her have multiple orgasms and how many can you manage ?

It is not me, I can just lay there and she will just keep them coming while she straddles me, that said, she orgasms in every position regardless, it's great for my ego....lol

 

Edit: I would say she will drop after about 8-10, funny thing is I can still keep going... ????

 

Edited October 30, 2021 by 4MyEgo

[ChrisKC]

1 hour ago, 4MyEgo said:

This time around, I am the one with the headaches as she's a goer......and I honestly can't keep up with her, bit more off than I could chew, but I never refuse her, I just suffer the 45 minutes of shear pleasure and the pain that goes along with it ????

So how much longer do you think you will be able to keep it up?

[WhiteBuffaloATM]

Was doing the thailand expat redlight clubbing tourist scene 2004 - 2011…. must have done a hundred uni type ladies ( very rarely bar girls) from Thai Friendly and Nightclubs….not really dating as my Zero Tolerance policy removed nearly all before fourth or fifth date……and I was working abroad.

 

met terrific uni thai lady 2005 and was on off with her for five years only because she was also “ with” her future husband on off who was messing around for those years. I was very happy being the “special reserve”. her main guy finally got his act together and they married & moved back to Europe and still there…that may have been her end game and I was “used”….no matter, if he had withdrawn she would have been the “one”…..that Bill Withers song applies …”keep on using me … until you use me up”

 

also had a sensational screw buddy “reserve” myself over those years …..tried for a kid but no dice…..physical dynamite but she had near zero conversation so no intellectual compatibility…..

 

met the actual “one” in 2011 ….bang there she was..architect on holiday….been together ever since….she stayed with me in Europe & Korea …our kid, house and all here….complete compatibility on all levels… extremely happy & grateful….. together and great health…..

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, lelapin said:

Divorced from my 1st English wife 43 years ago. After many years searching for the right one in the UK, I moved to Thailand. After one year here I met THE BOSS. Spent 15 years living together to make sure all the boxes were ticked and married 2 years ago. What a great decision.

Something like this?

[Fat is a type of crazy]

6 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Do I really care how many other member "know" her? As long as she takes a shower in between and maybe rests a little that's good enough.

Last of the romantics

[Red Forever]

20 hours ago, grubman said:

But every time you give her a love bit she goes down on you.................

I gave mine a lovebite. All she did was fart and flew out of the window!

[Red Forever]

7 hours ago, SiSePuede419 said:

One.

 

A hothead party girl.  She broke up with me 5 times in 6 months.  After her, I said never again.  But I came back 15 years later and met my wife.  Didn't need to meet anyone else because I could tell they were all inferior in some way.

 

We got married 4 years later and now have a 2 year old child.

 

Marry the smart, educated ones not the massage "therapists" or party girls, 555.

I married one of the 'smart, educated ones'. Written and spoken English were perfect. The lady was not.

Let's not slip into the lazy (wrong) narrative that 'educated' is good and 'buffalo Issan' is bad.

There are many smart ladies out there who outwit hapless farang with a smile on their sweet faces.

[ChrisKC]

14 minutes ago, Red Forever said:

I married one of the 'smart, educated ones'. Written and spoken English were perfect. The lady was not.

Let's not slip into the lazy (wrong) narrative that 'educated' is good and 'buffalo Issan' is bad.

There are many smart ladies out there who outwit hapless farang with a smile on their sweet faces.

One should accept these truths of anyone, man or woman from anywhere. In other words: take time to read the whole book

[Knocker33]

 About 500

[DefaultName]

I was the usual "kid in a candy shop" tourist, went through a lot of the local "entertainment". 

Got seriously wasted one night and a girl took care of me & saw that I got into a tax home.  Went back the next night to say thanks, and she's still taking care of me 13 years on.

[Walker88]

I'm curious about overcoming cultural differences. I'm not inexperienced, having lived in many countries, but some cultural gaps are easier to bridge than others.

 

For example, I am not a 'believer', so myths and superstitions kind of grate on my logical mind, and deeply held belief in myth or superstition is like running fingernails on a chalkboard. The pedant in me just needs to speak up, and it's all I can do (as one or two Mods here might already know) to refrain from causing offense.

 

Being a curious sort, I also tend to have many interests, and find joy in discussing topics with people who also have many interests. I have yet to meet a Thai woman whose interests go much beyond the Three Fs (and sometimes 4 Fs, though I cannot write that 4th word here for fear of censorship). The 3 Fs are family, Facebook and food. While at least 2 out of 3 can be interesting, they are not enough to carry a day of conversation, much less an extended relationship. Ennui is going to set in........on both sides, no doubt. Now I'm sure there must be well-read and accomplished Thai women who could run circles around my knowledge, but I have yet to meet the right one----and that despite being sinfully rich and drop dead han sum (there's some hyperbole back there <---------)

 

Kudos to those who have found the scratch to sate their itch....perhaps if I commit to continued and endless 'research', I will find the Holy Grail of marital bliss.

[OneMoreFarang]

5 minutes ago, Walker88 said:

I'm curious about overcoming cultural differences. I'm not inexperienced, having lived in many countries, but some cultural gaps are easier to bridge than others.

 

For example, I am not a 'believer', so myths and superstitions kind of grate on my logical mind, and deeply held belief in myth or superstition is like running fingernails on a chalkboard. The pedant in me just needs to speak up, and it's all I can do (as one or two Mods here might already know) to refrain from causing offense.

 

Being a curious sort, I also tend to have many interests, and find joy in discussing topics with people who also have many interests. I have yet to meet a Thai woman whose interests go much beyond the Three Fs (and sometimes 4 Fs, though I cannot write that 4th word here for fear of censorship). The 3 Fs are family, Facebook and food. While at least 2 out of 3 can be interesting, they are not enough to carry a day of conversation, much less an extended relationship. Ennui is going to set in........on both sides, no doubt. Now I'm sure there must be well-read and accomplished Thai women who could run circles around my knowledge, but I have yet to meet the right one----and that despite being sinfully rich and drop dead han sum (there's some hyperbole back there <---------)

 

Kudos to those who have found the scratch to sate their itch....perhaps if I commit to continued and endless 'research', I will find the Holy Grail of marital bliss.

I think it's best to concentrate on the important gf/wife properties. I don't expect to have a conversation about international politics or rocket science or home automation or climate change and many other topics with my gf. I like to cuddle with her, let her prepare good food, go out and have a good time, play some pool and some of that f activity. I can do lot of the talking with other people. I can do hobbies with other people. There will never be just one person in my life who should be the perfect person in every way. Let's concentrate on gf properties for the gf. All the other things can be done with other people.

[BritManToo]

22 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I think it's best to concentrate on the important gf/wife properties.

Early 30s and weighing under 50Kg are the most important considerations.

Also willingness to bang when I feel like it.

I rejected a couple that wanted to do it too often ......... that became old really quickly.

Happy to do a bit of housework helps, but is not vital.

 

Everything else I can get from guys, and I'm happy enough to do my own shopping & cooking.

 

Edited October 31, 2021 by BritManToo

[RafPinto]

23 hours ago, ChrisKC said:

So how much longer do you think you will be able to keep it up?

For this, she has a few brothers.

[Silencer]

I had 10-15 "one/two week millionaire" trips to LOS before deciding to find the "right" one. I won't count 2 day to one week "flings" as consideration (but did help with personality trait observations). First serious Thai was in the US, upper middle class background, well educated (law degree) and a beauty queen. Family has good money, houses, all high-end cars and designer everything. On some levels ticked off what many might say would be hard for your average visitor to find and develop a connection with. Anyway, dated several years, but while dating, still made trips to Thailand to sample other options. During sampling, fell in love with another Thai girl in US (who was soon returning to Thailand), and dated her concurrently for 2 years, almost married. Had two very close Thai friends in Thailand that were interested to go to the next level, but I ever reached that stage. In the end married the long-term girl knowing I would be moving to Thailand in the near future. I would have had a very comfortable life. However, after one year of marriage, I decided I married for the wrong reasons and separated. Living in Thailand now I met the "right one" and we have been together 3 years and I expect to be with her til the end. So, maybe 3 serious Thai girls before finding the right one. By the way, I went from a near Hi-so, to the opposite end of the social economic spectrum but money was never really the issue...for me.

 

 

[OneMoreFarang]

3 minutes ago, Silencer said:

By the way, I went from a near Hi-so, to the opposite end of the social economic spectrum but money was never really the issue...for me.

Interesting.

From what I hear I don't think I would be interested in a HiSo (and she also not in me). But it would be interesting to read from you why you did what you did?

Was the HiSi to LoSo just an accident? Or do you think that in general most guys would be happier with LoSo (sorry, I don't know a better term for not-HiSo).?

[thaibeachlovers]

On 10/30/2021 at 6:39 PM, Mac Mickmanus said:

How do you manage to make her have multiple orgasms and how many can you manage ?

Never managed yourself then?

[thaibeachlovers]

1 hour ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Interesting.

From what I hear I don't think I would be interested in a HiSo (and she also not in me). But it would be interesting to read from you why you did what you did?

Was the HiSi to LoSo just an accident? Or do you think that in general most guys would be happier with LoSo (sorry, I don't know a better term for not-HiSo).?

IMO a hiso would be far too high maintenance, and the sin sod is too high anyway.

 

[Caldera]

Why settle for one if you can have them all? ????