Why Do You Think Thai Women Prefer to Hang with You? A Foreigner in a Foreign Land?

[GammaGlobulin]

Strangely enough, this preference is actually, occasionally, true, and some Thai women prefer to hang with men from foreign lands.

 

The question is, why.

 

AA.  Is it because you are more handsome?

BB.  Is it because you are more romantic?

CC.  Is it because you are perceived as being more exotic?  Erotic?

 

What is the reason?

 

Why do you think Thai women love you so much?

 

Are you more caring?

 

Do you think you enjoy pillow talk more than most?

All women love pillow talk, for example.

 

There is no simple answer, and no single answer fits all cases.

 

And, therefore, what is the reason that Thai women will cross cultural boundaries and seek out foreign men, and fall in love with a foreign stranger?

 

Each of you, those who have fallen in love, might have a different answer.

 

Maybe, the answer is that cultural barriers no longer count, much.

Maybe, no one much cares about cultural barriers, these days.

 

Or, is is that, you are both exotic and erotic?

[GammaGlobulin]

One thing you might not realize is that some Asian women prefer blue eyes.

 

Several Asian women have told me that I have eyes like a Siberian Husky.

 

In rare cases, Asian women prefer men with blue eyes.

 

Maybe this is the same with you.

[ourdon]

Because it just looks too weird for them to be sitting there hugging an ATM machine.

[baansgr]

Money

[scubascuba3]

No mention of money anywhere in Ops post, keep it real

[zzaa09]

Being the reasonably perceptive and connected gentlemen that you might be, Double D, we'll assume you clearly understand that all Thai ladies shouldn't be painted with the same brush - quite frankly, one can differ from the next and the next quite easily. 

 

I'll play along. 

I believe a defined answer might be a mix of CC and [my own two added] DD, which is: financial and familial stability. And EE: expert practitioner of cunnilingus.

 

In a parallel world, might be more insightful to ask a hundred random Thai ladies the same thing. 

 

Edited September 16, 2021 by zzaa09

[The Cipher]

The exact same reasons that local women in local lands prefer to as well. ????

[mvdf]

1 hour ago, GammaGlobulin said:

The question is, why.

 

AA.  Is it because you are more handsome?

BB.  Is it because you are more romantic?

CC.  Is it because you are perceived as being more exotic?  Erotic?

 

 

AA: No

BB: No

CC: No

 

The correct answer is DD: it's because you are a walking and breathing ATM.

 

 

Edited September 16, 2021 by mvdf

[GammaGlobulin]

10 minutes ago, mvdf said:

 

 

AA: No

BB: No

CC: No

 

The correct answer is DD: it's because you are a walking and breathing ATM.

 

 

EE: I am in love.

 

((SAME as many of you, one might dare say.  You know you are in love. I am COMPLETELY in love.))

Edited September 16, 2021 by GammaGlobulin

[zzaa09]

16 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

EE: I am in love.

 

((SAME as many of you, one might dare say.  You know you are in love. I am COMPLETELY in love.))

What is this thing called, Love?

What is this thing called love.

[zzaa09]

30 minutes ago, ezzra said:

So this is how it's going to be with the OP coming up with some wacky and hypothetical scenarios every morning? many of which have been discussed in this forum before...

.....ad nauseam - 

[PFMills]

57 minutes ago, ezzra said:

So this is how it's going to be with the OP coming up with some wacky and hypothetical scenarios every morning? many of which have been discussed in this forum before...

Pity that there is no more POTY, this guy would clear up 555

[GBW]

1 hour ago, scubascuba3 said:

No mention of money anywhere in Ops post, keep it real

Didnt realize we were bound to only options in Ops post?????????????

[trent1970]

I agree with most of the healthy cynics on here. They think you have money. Let us not romanticize this any further.

[jazzdog32095]

The best things in life are free
But you can keep them for the birds and bees
Now give me money
That's what I want

You're lovin' gives me a thrill
But you're lovin' don't pay my bills
Now give me money
That's what I want

Money don't get everything it's true
What it don't get, I can't use
Now give me money
That's what I want

Well now give me money
A lot of money
Wow, yeah, I wanna be free
Oh I want money
That's what I want
That's what I want, well
Now give me money
A lot of money
Wow, yeah, you need money
Now, give me money
That's what I want, yeah
That's what I want

[sirineou]

2 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

 

Why do you think Thai women love you so much?

because there is so much of me to love ????

[Gottfrid]

Clearly it is because I am a hunsum man, and I do sit dow. I buy drink, pay bar fine, buy a car, build a house, take care of family and give her money to spend. What´s not to love?

[wanderingengine]

Maybe part of it is lack of cultural attachment.

Everyone has a rank and position within their country or culture. Who your parents are, the way that you dress, the cultural references that you understand, etc. all tell people where you rank in your society. Often, this rank does not change even if a person's economic position changes (they earn more money).

The only way to interact without the baggage of social ranking is by interacting with someone from outside of your culture who doesn't understand the social and cultural ranking signals that are present.

[jazzdog32095]

1 hour ago, zzaa09 said:

Being the reasonably perceptive and connected gentlemen that you might be, Double D, we'll assume you clearly understand that all Thai ladies shouldn't be painted with the same brush - quite frankly, one can differ from the next and the next quite easily. 

 

I'll play along. 

I believe a defined answer might be a mix of CC and [my own two added] DD, which is: financial and familial stability. And EE: expert practitioner of cunnilingus.

 

In a parallel world, might be more insightful to ask a hundred random Thai ladies the same thing. 

 

And name it '' One Hundred Thai Lies "

[BE88]

Because cash only and increase my social status with rich farang, what else I love you honey ?

 

If she then realizes that you don't have all the money she imagined, then you're fired.

[Danderman123]

4 minutes ago, BE88 said:

Because cash only and increase my social status with rich farang, what else I love you honey ?

 

If she then realizes that you don't have all the money she imagined, then you're fired.

I am not sure if they increase their social status if they bring a Farang home. I guess it depends on the baseline. If she is from Isaan with one or more ex-husbands, and some kids, then sure, almost anything will bring her status up, a new watch, or something she can show on Facebook will do. 

[BangkokReady]

4 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

what is the reason that Thai women will cross cultural boundaries and seek out foreign men

Most women enter into a committed relationship with someone because they provide for them or increase their social standing.  They also try to maximise this by finding the person who will allow the highest provision or increase in social standing that they can secure.  It's likely that native women seek out foreign men because A, they are far richer and have much higher status than the local men within their reach, or B, local men are not interested in them at all so none are in their reach.

[Caspersfriend]

4 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

And, therefore, what is the reason that Thai women will cross cultural boundaries and seek out foreign men, and fall in love with a foreign stranger?

Thai men!

 

The opinion of many Thai women I have known/know

Edited September 17, 2021 by Caspersfriend
Clarification

[Antonymous]

[Peterw42]

All things being equal, Thai women probably dont prefer "hanging with a foreigner"

 

You may be confusing hookers and their customers, who, of course, will tell the customer what he wants to hear, and hang with anyone who keeps paying.

 

Obviously, things like money, security, trust, monogamy etc, enters into the equation, that is the same all over the world. 

Edited September 17, 2021 by Peterw42

[zzaa09]

37 minutes ago, Caspersfriend said:

Thai men!

 

The opinion of many Thai women I have known/know

An overwhelming opinion.

[Skallywag]

5 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

What is the reason?

LOL...Money, it is all about the money.  Delude yourself all you want, but it isn't because your exotic, erotic, or handsome.  Also face.  If you have nice car, condo, or job even better.  

If you give them all the money the want, you will be all these things to them. 

 

Life is temporary, and so is Love in Thailand IMO

 

Overly cynical?

 

Peace

[Pravda]

2 friends of my wife just wanted a baby with Farang. No money. After they got the baby they kicked Farang sperm donor out of their life.

 

 

[CharlieH]

Off topic posts removed.

 

 

[CharlieH]

As others have said MONEY and in most cases a better lifestyle.

Thai women that I have known have all commented that Thai men are often lazy, not dependable and are butterflies flitting from flower to flower.

Hence why their are an abundance of unmarried mothers. Which leads to another point, Thai men rarely accept another mans child, farangs will !

So, they can find money, dependability, acceptance of off spring and often a much higher standard of living including International travel.

IMHO