Popular Post Adumbration Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 (edited) No...its not me... My long time GF has 7 brothers and one older sister most of whom are working overseas in Korea, Taiwan, Israel....etc Her family is way up north on the Mekong. Mum and Dad have some nice land that backs onto a giant fresh water lake. Her oldest brother (58) lives in Mum and Dads house and has a couple of little wooden boats that he takes out on the lake to catch fish....mostly small stuff that sells for 50-60 baht a kilo. On a good day he will make 300 baht and does not get out every day because of weather. He is basically broke. I should say up front that her family as a whole is very good. They have never asked me for a cent. My GF makes her own money and sends some up to Mum and Dad when she can. They are fine because they have so many kids (working overseas). Anyway the older brother rang up drunk late the other night, asking my GF to transfer him a couple of 100 baht so he could eat moo gattat (Pork Barbeque). This has happened a handful of times in the past but I have been with my girl a long time. My GF told him to go home and did not transfer him any money. Yesterday, my GF informs me that the older brother is getting married to a 17 year old girl from the village (his first marriage by the way and no kids to date) and, I quote: The girl is very attractive apparently (I have requested a photo) and has several boys and men in the village that want to marry her, but she has choosen her brother...get this... because he has a stable income with his fishing boats He is already sleeping with the girl (she is staying in the GF's Mum and Dad's house) and has been for at least 12 months The girl's parents are happy to ignore the underage sex issue provided my GF's brother pays them 10K baht The brother has asked to lend 10K from my GF's older sister who is working in Korea The date for the pukan marriage ceremony in the village, and the sinsot amount, has yet to be set. But at this stage the sinsot is expected to be in the 20k baht range Source of money for sinsot has yet to be confirmed, but I image will also be borrowed from sister in Korea My GF has again asked me when we are having our pukan ceremony (this issue comes up about once every year) but has been ignored by me, for well over a decade now As you can see there is a whole raft of morality and TIT issues that should provide for an interesting discussion and susequent thread. For those of you seeking to marry a young hot Thai girl in her teens have you considered buying two little wooden canoes yet? Over to you... Edited September 21, 2022 by Adumbration 1 2 22 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 Age of consent in Thailand is 15. So no legal or moral issues. 19 4 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post FriendlyFarang Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 9 minutes ago, Adumbration said: The girl's parents are happy to ignore the underage sex issue provided my GF's brother pays them 10K baht There is no legal issue, age of consent in Thailand is 15 unless the parents forbid it, but sounds like they give their OK. 10 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Stocky Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 It's consensual, she's above the age of consent (15) and the age to marry (17), the parents are happy - there are no problems. 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post warrima Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 BIL must be hung like a donkey. 14 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ezzra Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 (edited) Rural Thai sex scene are like Sodom and Gomora, everybody boinking everyone regardless of age or relation,, and thinking of marrying a pretty 17 years old only makes me salivating profusely i'm ashamed to admit...... Edited September 21, 2022 by ezzra 6 1 2 1 16 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bob smith Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 3 minutes ago, ezzra said: Rural Thai sex scene are like Sodom and Gomora, everybody boinking everyone regardless of age or relation,, and thinking of marrying a pretty 17 years old only makes me salivating profusely i'm ashamed to admit...... you are not the only one bro.. just imagining her shape is enough to send me into a fenzy. 4 1 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post FritsSikkink Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 The problem is that as a 58 year old he still can't take care of himself. Needs to "borrow" money to buy consent of the girls parents, the sinsot, the wedding party. Then getting a couple of kids which he can't provide for too. Your GF and her sisters need to tell him he won't get any money and find a job or other business. Funny that he does have money to get drunk though. 6 3 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post CharlieH Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 Within the law, consenting adults etc, who is anyone to sit in judgement. As the Thais say "upto you" . 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted September 21, 2022 Share Posted September 21, 2022 sounds like his issue to work out.. or not. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post NativeBob Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 For those who somehow related to schools a.k.a. "teechas" - you meet thai kids daily personally and you got first hand experience with 'em. My point is: even 17 years thai girl still has a mind of a child, unable to sort things rationally. Sorry to say that but its just a dumb kid. And not just a kid, but rural dumb kid from remote village. What consent? Old fart lured her into "You show me yours I'll show you mine" game. Disgusting! 10 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post JohnOFphon Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 Back when I was teaching English in NE... I think it was a school in Ban Phai. I had one 17 year old girl student that like to practice her English with me. I thought it was good fun until the last week of school. Just before she would of turned 18.,,she invited me to her home.....to meet her parents. I told her I didn't have time as I needed to prepare for moving the day the school closed. She looked at me with big sad eyes and told me we couldn't get married unless I met her folks. I was out of town 15 minutes after checking out at the school. 2 1 18 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post JayClay Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 (edited) 1 hour ago, ezzra said: thinking of marrying a pretty 17 years old only makes me salivating profusely i'm ashamed to admit I would also be ashamed if I was to fantasize about marriage. Edited September 21, 2022 by JayClay 2 1 1 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralf001 Posted September 21, 2022 Share Posted September 21, 2022 What is a pukan ceremony ? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VinnieK Posted September 21, 2022 Share Posted September 21, 2022 No way a 17 yr old will marry a broke 58 yr old. I refuse to comment on all other issues arising from it. Not gonna happen. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post proton Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 3 minutes ago, VinnieK said: No way a 17 yr old will marry a broke 58 yr old. I refuse to comment on all other issues arising from it. Not gonna happen. 50 year old religious leaders have married 6 year olds before ???? 4 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post roo860 Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 10 minutes ago, Ralf001 said: What is a pukan ceremony ? Not official, village wedding. 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingstonkid Posted September 21, 2022 Share Posted September 21, 2022 What are her prospects living in the village? NONE really As to him being wealthy sure he is. He has a great bank that he can make withdrawals whenever he wants. His sisters For the girl's sake, I think the family needs to close the bank. Then again you get a disgruntled brother who will make life miserable for mom and dad. We don't know what the other guys are like but obviously, they have not made the same impression. I would suggest that the GF and sisters get together with her and have a talk. Does the family want to support another family? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post spidermike007 Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 No legal or moral issues here. Just common sense issues. Why on earth would anyone want to marry a 17 year old? Sure she likely has a great body. At least until the first kid arrives. But, what else? Anything to relate to? I totally understand getting with a younger woman. As long as there is some common ground. But, I think I suffer from the disease of CSR (common sense and reason). This sounds like a trophy thing. 6 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrJ2U Posted September 21, 2022 Share Posted September 21, 2022 2 hours ago, Adumbration said: No...its not me... Oh too bad. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Chris.B Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 What's it to you? You are a foreigner. 2 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post transam Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 7 minutes ago, spidermike007 said: No legal or moral issues here. Just common sense issues. Why on earth would anyone want to marry a 17 year old? Sure she likely has a great body. At least until the first kid arrives. But, what else? Anything to relate to? I totally understand getting with a younger woman. As long as there is some common ground. But, I think I suffer from the disease of CSR (common sense and reason). This sounds like a trophy thing. Naaaaaaaaah, you're just jealous...........???? 3 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post MrJ2U Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 1). She's probably already pregnant. 2). Thinks 200-300 baht a day occasionally is a windfall. There is virtually no chance of making a good living in Issan unless your a politician or already rich. Beautiful cousin, 15 here is engaged to her 15 year old boyfriend. Both families are borderline poverty. Continuing life chain poverty. Mostly ends up with the girls moving to Pattaya, Bangkok, etc and the man drinking all day in-between odd jobs and growing rice. Nothing you can do. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Liverpool Lou Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 (edited) 1 hour ago, JohnOFphon said: Just before she would of turned 18.,, "...would of turned.,," You "teach" English? Edited September 21, 2022 by Liverpool Lou 6 3 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post kidneyw Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 Has she got a sister? 1 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Hummin Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 2 hours ago, BritManToo said: Age of consent in Thailand is 15. So no legal or moral issues. I thought locals and foreigners did not apply to same law? Moral issues? There is plenty if you have any emphasis with people in need and what drives them to make such decisions. 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post n00dle Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 2 hours ago, ezzra said: Rural Thai sex scene are like Sodom and Gomora, everybody boinking everyone regardless of age or relation,, and thinking of marrying a pretty 17 years old only makes me salivating profusely i'm ashamed to admit...... Well that got pretty fokking creepy, really fokking fast. 4 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Hummin Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 7 minutes ago, MrJ2U said: 1). She's probably already pregnant. 2). Thinks 200-300 baht a day occasionally is a windfall. There is virtually no chance of making a good living in Issan unless your a politician or already rich. Beautiful cousin, 15 here is engaged to her 15 year old boyfriend. Both families are borderline poverty. Continuing life chain poverty. Mostly ends up with the girls moving to Pattaya, Bangkok, etc and the man drinking all day in-between odd jobs and growing rice. Nothing you can do. There is plenty of options to make a good living in Isan if you have the guts to do something, and make a plan for future. It is a cultural thing that weighs them down, but many do make a good living still. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post transam Posted September 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2022 1 minute ago, Hummin said: I thought locals and foreigners did not apply to same law? Moral issues? There is plenty if you have any emphasis with people in need and what drives them to make such decisions. I see no probs at all, King Charles III met Diana when she was 16, married at 20..... So many farangies here looking down their nose, but I reckon they never asked the age of Thai birds they fluffed around wiv....???? 7 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hellohello123 Posted September 21, 2022 Share Posted September 21, 2022 Where is jerry springer when you need him! 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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