Help A Brother Out

[LaosLover]

I have a pre-paid condo sitting idle for 2 months. A friend of a friend who I've never met (but is well-vouched for) wants stay there.

 

To fulfill his lifetime dream of finding a girlfriend. But only for 2 months.

 

He's what some might derisively call an Incel, but I would call more unlucky and un-gamed. He's a fierce believer in Red Pill theory. He idealizes Asian women, particularly on dress size issues.

 

What advice do you have for him? Is ThaiFriendly his first go-to?

 

He doesn't mind a soft sponsorship deal on the cheapskate side so long as it's thinly disguised as shopping money. He would believe any working as a cashier-only at the bar story. He hasn't had sex in 8 years.

 

 

[steven100]

19 minutes ago, LaosLover said:

He hasn't had sex in 8 years

just go get bar girl for today and worry about the gf tomorrow

[LaosLover]

I tend to agree.

 

I'd be willing to be his (gag me) wingman and go to a few beer bars. And then just let the inevitable woman pick him.

 

But he's very down on that route due them all being enslaved and stuff. He's left wing Red Pill, which I'm guessing is very rare.

[Stocky]

59 minutes ago, LaosLover said:

He's what some might derisively call an Incel

Find him a nice ladyboy

[Gottfrid]

The mentality of this guy seems to be fantastic. I would reconsider letting him stay in your condo as you never met or know him. 

[LaosLover]

3 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

The mentality of this guy seems to be fantastic.

True. I will be binning the mattress pad after he leaves.

 

We've been emailing. He has a good job at a uni and is a total pothead.

 

My friend will drift over at some point and stay in the condo too. My condo is 85% Air BnB. It's not like anyone will notice they're there.

[Jimjim1]

9 minutes ago, LaosLover said:

True. I will be binning the mattress pad after he leaves.

 

We've been emailing. He has a good job at a uni and is a total pothead.

 

My friend will drift over at some point and stay in the condo too. My condo is 85% Air BnB. It's not like anyone will notice they're there.

My feeling is that you COULD be stacking up a very big future problem especially if he does something that involves the cops, sounds to me as though he is into something that is beyond the pale.

As an experienced ex private landlord I personally would not entertain it, but that is my choice.

you must make your own.

[markclover]

Get a job and some money and women will find you.  There's no point giving him a condo.  The woman will figure him out.  She will interrogate him constantly and create a profile on him.  When she works him out she will drop him like hot coal.

 

-  How does he travel around the city.

-  Who cooks for him.

-  Why are his shirts not ironed.

-  Entire computer and phone history

-  Ask a friend to interrogate him separately.

 

Men are loved conditionally and they will receive their first bunch of flowers on their gravestone.

 

Edited February 2, 2023 by markclover

[stoner]

will all this be happening in bkk ? 

 

just a pothead ? i can help him towards his tenure to becoming a full fledged stoner like myself.

 

i will take your friend out smoke his brains out and pre pay for a girl to come up to him and make like he is a boss pick up baller. 

 

he goes home nuts and all is well. except for that mattress. good call binning it. 

[OneMoreFarang]

He should read Private Dancer to get a good idea about what is going on.

 

Otherwise I don't recommend anybody gets personally involved with this guy. Because likely it will end bad - one way or another.

Maybe he does not find the right girl, then obviously all girls are bad.

Maybe he finds the perfect girl. And then he can't afford her anymore. And when she leaves him, she is obviously bad.

Maybe some girl plays the long game or gets pregnant or whatever.

There are just too many versions of what can possibly go wrong. And it is just so much easier to blame everybody else.

 

I think the best he can do is hire a girl by the hour and look how it goes. And maybe the same one again or another one. I am sure he will need some time to get used to the new situation. Take it easy! 

 

 

[LaosLover]

21 minutes ago, Jimjim1 said:

sounds to me as though he is into something that is beyond the pale.

 

He wants to go on dates that are not really dates. Not dismember women in the bathroom and then stick me with the cleaning bill. 

 

I hope this doesn't de-rail into a lot of dull finger-wagging and look before you leap-posturing. As bored shut-ins, you should be praying for a disaster.

 

It's no biggie to let an OK-ish person be in the condo. I live 5 minutes away. I told the agent. She said it's better just to do it than ask permission. In the lobby, there are giant signs saying Air BnB renting is forbidden. I never see the same people in the elevator twice. I see a lot of rolling luggage coming and going.

 

I too have found a bed with people I only knew second hand. It's a global nomad kind of thing. I've been a bit of a global nomad/couch surfer since 1990 but didn't know it. 

[Woof999]

If he's not had sex for 8 years then I'd tarp up the bedroom beforehand in case it ends up resembling a Dexter crime scene.

[EVENKEEL]

I suggest he contact Bob Smith for advice.

[RedArmy]

"He hasn't had sex for 8 years".

 

His arm must be right sore.

[LaosLover]

8 minutes ago, stoner said:

will all this be happening in bkk ? 

 

just a pothead ?

 

 

The condo is in the Nimman section of Chiang Mai.

 

I personally resent the insinuation that being "just" a pothead is a bad thing. But if anyone fits the definition of just a pothead, it's this guy.

 

He'll only be in the condo for six weeks and he wants to also travel around the north a bit; preferably with a. new GF, on a motor bike, which he never rode before. I told him to get Cigna Insurance.

 

How much depravity can he dig himself into as a shy guy with a couple of minders? As a Red Pill advocate, he want to remain stoically aloof at the same time that he wallows in new girlfriend-dom.

[farmerjo]

Get one of the dolls that Aussie fella had and leave in your flat, might be better bang for buck till he gets back in the groove.

[stoner]

4 minutes ago, LaosLover said:

I personally resent the insinuation that being "just" a pothead is a bad thing.

what are you 12 ? 

 

your friend sounds like an a hole. he will be wallowing alright. a lighter wallet and more than likely a scooter accident. 

 

why o why didnt i take the blue pill. 

[LaosLover]

I'm a total pothead too. 

[BritManToo]

17 minutes ago, LaosLover said:

The condo is in the Nimman section of Chiang Mai.

Lots of attractive ladies to meet in Loi Kroh!

[Bluespunk]

Tell him to get a life...

[scorecard]

17 hours ago, Jimjim1 said:

My feeling is that you COULD be stacking up a very big future problem especially if he does something that involves the cops, sounds to me as though he is into something that is beyond the pale.

As an experienced ex private landlord I personally would not entertain it, but that is my choice.

you must make your own.

Seems like a problem in the making re sharing of: electric bills, food costs, cleaning, neighbors concerned about security....

 

[kingstonkid]

The only girls he us going to find that can travel and look after him are uni students if classes are out or working girls in bar or spa. No matter what or who he gets it will cost him for their time and clothes and meals and possibly a generous donation to mamasan favorite charity.

If he was in bkk I would say take him to nana and see if any of the girls in the street interest him.  He can always take it for a test run.

[Iron Tongue]

Incel pothead?

Your friend will either run out of money after 2-weeks IF he finds a temporary girlfriend; or

he will spend all 6-weeks never leaving the condo except to buy food, before returning and surfing porn the entire time.

[realfunster]

19 hours ago, LaosLover said:

He wants to go on dates that are not really dates. Not dismember women in the bathroom and then stick me with the cleaning bill. 

Coffee meet keyboard ????

[ignore it]

LaosLover
Before I (we) do a recap, set the bong aside, twist up a fatty and smoke it all of it.

Recap:
Your a global nomad. 
You have a condo.
You have a friend.
Your friend has a friend that you've never had contact with.
The friend of your friend (FofF) is seemingly hapless and has some woman issues. 
You know from your friend enough about his friend to describe him (FofF) as an 8 year celebate, budget minded (cheap), Red Pill theorist, but detached ( i.e. a believer that one can be awakened to some previously hidden supposed reality).
Your FofF has "Yellow Fever" tiny dress varient.
The FofF wants to crash at your empty pad.
The FofF wants to meet and have a two month holiday with a "good woman" who he can have occasional motorcycle adventures with while he (FofF) learns to drive a motorcycle with this woman on pillion.
You have proposed to the forum that he (FofF) go to ThaiFriendly.
You have posted on this forum asking for advice for him. (FofF presumed)
Does this covered it?

My advice:
LaosLover, this interesting dilemma. It's going to take a but of time to identify any real "Red Flag" issues.
For now, I suggest you join me in filling the bong bowl and lighting it up while I do a deep dive into this.
 

[Rumpelstilskin]

19 hours ago, LaosLover said:

The condo is in the Nimman section of Chiang Mai.

 

I personally resent the insinuation that being "just" a pothead is a bad thing. But if anyone fits the definition of just a pothead, it's this guy.

 

He'll only be in the condo for six weeks and he wants to also travel around the north a bit; preferably with a. new GF, on a motor bike, which he never rode before. I told him to get Cigna Insurance.

 

How much depravity can he dig himself into as a shy guy with a couple of minders? As a Red Pill advocate, he want to remain stoically aloof at the same time that he wallows in new girlfriend-dom.

"Learning" how to drive a motorcycle in Thailand?  Insurance is an absolute must but getting on a motorcycle without some training/learning and having a passenger along doesn't sound like a good combination.  If he has some basic instructions and insurance fine and if not then fugghedaboutit.  You're doing a nice thing by trying to help him...just make sure he is understanding that this isn't a 1st world country and there are no rules here.

[LaosLover]

3 hours ago, scorecard said:

Seems like a problem in the making re sharing of: electric bills, food costs, cleaning, neighbors concerned about security....

 

All of that is prepaid; laundry, even. My neighbors change daily.

 

My friend (the non-whore one) has had an intense year working in refugee services. To be able to R+R in this shady soi with a pool and street food nearby is a great thing. Not everyone is a jerk.

 

The Infinity Night Club is 5 minutes away. Might have a peek if I can stay up late enough,.

[Hummin]

Oh my Budda ????

[Freddy42OZ]

I had to look up Red Pill Theory.  What a load of old nonsense.  

It really makes me wonder what is wrong with these guys that has made them think this way. 
It's just victim mentality, "I can't get a girlfriend who will be like this" but it's not my fault, it must be because of this reason or that reason. 

They never take responsibility for their own shortcomings. 

How old is he?  Where is he from? On a scale of 1-10 how likely is he to turn heads?   

If he can't attract a GF in his home country what makes him think Asian girls are going to want to date him? Aside from him having some White Knight attitude and dating some uneducated, poor girl who is doing it just to improve her and her family's fortunes.

What does he offer (aside from soft sponsorship)?   

I'll enjoy reading the follow-ups when he's been fleeced.

[Salerno]

21 minutes ago, Freddy42OZ said:

I had to look up Red Pill Theory.  What a load of old nonsense.  

If you think that's bad look into the Black Pill!