On 4/13/2022 at 8:03 AM, 86Tiger said:

 

 

 

.......Whats the best way to avoid this?........

 

 

Never go to Thailand.

Yes, go to Hong Kong and Singapore where prostitution is legal.

First thought is what does it mean to "lose money" to a woman? Bad luck at a blackjack table?

I allow myself about 5 tnousand baht allowance each month and transfer the rest to my wife. She may just be a better money manager, and certainly can more conveniently deal with bills, etc., from a language perspective. Poor girl is a better wife than I am as a husband, I think. I say " girl", but she says "old lady" in her mid fifties.????

Anyhow, unless you invested in a ponzi scheme with a female con artist, you presumably received some value in return. You may have made a poor financial decision, but I can't see where money was "lost". Yes, a few ladies have cost me in the past, but it wasn't like I walked up to a complete stranger and said " Here's $10,000, miss, have a good time."

Find a woman with a job or find a girl in your league, a 20 year old girl isn't going to date a 50 year old man for nothing, they're going to date a 20 year old guy for nothing though. 

 

Keep fit and take care of yourself and maybe you'll be able to date someone 10 years younger.

13 hours ago, dj230 said:

they're going to date a 20 year old guy for nothing though. 

My woman never dated anyone for nothing, not even when she was 18.

I don't think she's different to other Thai women.

They all want something. Money, house, gifts.

 

 

A 60-70 y/o foreigner dating a lady half his age and unable to speak/read her language.....what could go wrong?  555.

13 hours ago, Kwaibill said:

First thought is what does it mean to "lose money" to a woman? Bad luck at a blackjack table?

I allow myself about 5 tnousand baht allowance each month and transfer the rest to my wife. She may just be a better money manager, and certainly can more conveniently deal with bills, etc., from a language perspective. Poor girl is a better wife than I am as a husband, I think. I say " girl", but she says "old lady" in her mid fifties.????

Anyhow, unless you invested in a ponzi scheme with a female con artist, you presumably received some value in return. You may have made a poor financial decision, but I can't see where money was "lost". Yes, a few ladies have cost me in the past, but it wasn't like I walked up to a complete stranger and said " Here's $10,000, miss, have a good time."

That's what I call a "poor financial decision".

Given you other half everything and just keeping 5000Baht for yourself.

Good luck.

10 minutes ago, RafPinto said:

That's what I call a "poor financial decision".
Given you other half everything and just keeping 5000Baht for yourself.
Good luck.

He ain't called 'Kwai' for nothing.

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

He ain't called 'Kwai' for nothing.

Bridge over the river kwai.

2 hours ago, Sparktrader said:

They all want something. Money, house, gifts.

 

 

i had a Pinup agogo girl 19yo move in for a while, no money, i guess she was hoping for something medium\long term

On 4/24/2022 at 9:50 AM, BritManToo said:

My woman never dated anyone for nothing, not even when she was 18.

I don't think she's different to other Thai women.

was she dating someone her age?

A nice song about this matter.

Peter TheTweeter is a real tearjerker about an elderly European who, like many, tried to find his happiness in Pattaya, Thailand. The story is based on things that regularly happen in Pattaya and which newspapers also report about. The music is from the song El Paso (1959) by Marty Robbins, also a tearjerker in which even two people were killed.

Enjoy!

 

 

14 minutes ago, donkaew said:

A nice song about this matter.

Peter TheTweeter is a real tearjerker about an elderly European who, like many, tried to find his happiness in Pattaya, Thailand. The story is based on things that regularly happen in Pattaya and which newspapers also report about. The music is from the song El Paso (1959) by Marty Robbins, also a tearjerker in which even two people were killed.

Enjoy!

 

 

No kidding, he looks exactly like a friend of mine who has been happily living with his Thai lady for years. I'll send him and a few friends a link, just for a laugh!

On 4/18/2022 at 7:50 PM, BritManToo said:

I've only encountered one couple like that.

 

I know a few couples, but each and everyone the guy brought all of the assets to the table.

How is any of this any different from western woman, men, failed marriages and relationships.?  If you have screwed up at home, you will screw up here, unless you have leant the lesson.  If you haven't learnt said lesson, and you need to have it explained to you again on a public forum, then good luck mate, for you will certainly need it. 

9 hours ago, Adumbration said:

I know a few couples, but each and everyone the guy brought all of the assets to the table.

I don't believe I've met any couple in any country where the guy didn't bring all the assets to the table. Sure the white women pretended to work/contribute for a while, but usually found a reason to stop, or just spent all the money they earned on themselves..

5 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I don't believe I've met any couple in any country where the guy didn't bring all the assets to the table. Sure the white women pretended to work/contribute for a while, but usually found a reason to stop, or just spent all the money they earned on themselves..

There are plenty of examples.  But you will not find them in western relationships.  Africa would stop dead in its tracks if it were not for the money management skills of its women.  Several parts of Indonesia are the same.

6 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I don't believe I've met any couple in any country where the guy didn't bring all the assets to the table. Sure the white women pretended to work/contribute for a while, but usually found a reason to stop, or just spent all the money they earned on themselves..

Wow...I've not ever been in such a relationship. Though I know of one(not being specific) who almost fits that category. In fact some women(specifically Germans) would get positively angry if I tried to pay.

Scandinavians also fair minded.

You know what they say about a fool and his money...

 

 

 

 

 

 

On 4/24/2022 at 10:04 AM, RafPinto said:

That's what I call a "poor financial decision".

Given you other half everything and just keeping 5000Baht for yourself.

Good luck.

I am not good with money and she is. Makes it a sound financial decision, IMO.

You are best off staying single here.

 

Even if you pay for a few "dates" there is still less downside (risk) and more upside (benefit) than settling down, buying a house for a trollup, and then supporting her monthly expenses.

 

I have a friend whos wife used to take his ATM card without him knowing and go on a shopping spree.  Even after that he bought a house for her.

 

I must admit I have fallen victim too, so no judgement.

 

That said, Western women are like this too.

 

And they all let themselves go and stop performing once they have enough out of you. But of course, the financial support must remain unchanged.

 

Thailand must be one of the best places on Earth to be single, why do we make the mistake of getting hooked up? 

12 minutes ago, 2009 said:

You are best off staying single here.

 

Even if you pay for a few "dates" there is still less downside (risk) and more upside (benefit) than settling down, buying a house for a trollup, and then supporting her monthly expenses.

 

I have a friend whos wife used to take his ATM card without him knowing and go on a shopping spree.  Even after that he bought a house for her.

 

I must admit I have fallen victim too, so no judgement.

 

That said, Western women are like this too.

 

And they all let themselves go and stop performing once they have enough out of you. But of course, the financial support must remain unchanged.

 

Thailand must be one of the best places on Earth to be single, why do we make the mistake of getting hooked up? 

She would never get my PIN

41 minutes ago, 2009 said:

You are best off staying single here.

 

Even if you pay for a few "dates" there is still less downside (risk) and more upside (benefit) than settling down, buying a house for a trollup, and then supporting her monthly expenses.

 

I have a friend whos wife used to take his ATM card without him knowing and go on a shopping spree.  Even after that he bought a house for her.

 

I must admit I have fallen victim too, so no judgement.

 

That said, Western women are like this too.

 

And they all let themselves go and stop performing once they have enough out of you. But of course, the financial support must remain unchanged.

 

Thailand must be one of the best places on Earth to be single, why do we make the mistake of getting hooked up? 

Yes no 1 or 2

On 4/29/2022 at 6:32 PM, BritManToo said:

I don't believe I've met any couple in any country where the guy didn't bring all the assets to the table. Sure the white women pretended to work/contribute for a while, but usually found a reason to stop, or just spent all the money they earned on themselves..

I went with a Chinese lady who bought me a condo and some cars. Does that count?

On 4/14/2022 at 12:12 PM, Mac Mickmanus said:

It will be rather difficult for you to get free sex . 

Even females who don't work as prostitutes will expect something in return , electric bill being paid or shoes for the kid or something like that .

   Not often sex is given away for free 

I know a Mamasan who comes over to my place once a week for a sleepover. Never asks for money. She says she doesn’t want a formal relationship, just fun. 
 

My take is she has a collection of Farang male friends and doesn’t want to be tied down to one.

 

i do transfer her a couple of thousand baht, since she has to drive a long ways to get to my place. Plus, I don’t want her to change her mind and proclaim that I’m her boyfriend.

 

3 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

I went with a Chinese lady who bought me a condo and some cars. Does that count?

She must have been a stunner if she needed to sponsor you.

I am in America now, and 2 of my regular ladies back in Pattaya have messaged me in the last 24 hours that they need to talk to me. 

 

I guess i should get to the point and ask how much money they need. 

On 5/19/2022 at 12:21 AM, Danderman123 said:

I know a Mamasan who comes over to my place once a week for a sleepover. Never asks for money. She says she doesn’t want a formal relationship, just fun. 
 

My take is she has a collection of Farang male friends and doesn’t want to be tied down to one.

 

i do transfer her a couple of thousand baht, since she has to drive a long ways to get to my place. Plus, I don’t want her to change her mind and proclaim that I’m her boyfriend.

 

The couple of thousand Baht that you give her is actually a payment for her services whether you deny it or not 

1 hour ago, Mac Mickmanus said:

The couple of thousand Baht that you give her is actually a payment for her services whether you deny it or not 

You are correct. 

 

1 hour ago, Danderman123 said:

I am in America now, and 2 of my regular ladies back in Pattaya have messaged me in the last 24 hours that they need to talk to me. 

 

I guess i should get to the point and ask how much money they need. 

Right on schedule, both ladies messaged me before going to bed. Looks like a hard sell is coming. 

4 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

Right on schedule, both ladies messaged me before going to bed. Looks like a hard sell is coming. 

Are you going to send them the money ?

How much would they want ?