Reasons not to cheat on your wife!

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, 473geo said:

Then agree in advance, not difficult unless the guy is scared of losing the girl, the choice is there, it's the deceit that kills the relationship not the act

A friend did that and he though his soon to be wife agreed.

But later she changed her mind. Like: Did you really though I would accept that? 555 

[RJRS1301]

57 minutes ago, NCC1701A said:

Hi.

They are the best. 

 

You ain't wrong.irrespcetive of gender, hide all sharp objects though

[OneMoreFarang]

6 minutes ago, madmen said:

What happens in Pattaya stays in Pattaya. Yet to meet a farang in a relationship or a married mate from oz who didn't cave in after 20 beers 

The problem is when his wife also worked some time ago in Pattaya and she has still access to the grapevine... 

[Zack61]

10 minutes ago, madmen said:

What happens in Pattaya stays in Pattaya. Yet to meet a farang in a relationship or a married mate from oz who didn't cave in after 20 beers 

Not sure I’d be up to it after 20 beers and if I did wouldn’t remember it. 

[ChipButty]

1 hour ago, bodga said:

How  about if the Thai woman has  played  about?

I've known a couple of them

[cyril sneer]

pornhub is working fine

[ChipButty]

Im not even going there, where I live they would grass me up, 

[NanLaew]

1 hour ago, NCC1701A said:

2 hours ago, 2long said:

I'm sure many still do.

Hi.

2 hours ago, 2long said:

Is she a nutjob? 

They are the best. 

 

Until you do her sister. Then it gets bloody awesome!

[Dexxter]

43 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

The problem is when his wife also worked some time ago in Pattaya and she has still access to the grapevine... 

Just keep the hat and sunglasses on while in the ST room. The girl will never know who you are. ????

[pattayadude]

2 hours ago, 2long said:

Many of us are fellas, living and married in Thailand. And I would say nearly all of those 'played the field' before settling down. I'm sure many still do. But I don't, although I'm tempted almost every day. My reasons for not doing so (in addition to the main one which goes without saying) are as follows...

 

- if the other girl is single, and pretty. Why is she single? Is she a nutjob? 

- if the other girl is not single, do you really want her husband or boyfriend coming round?

- if the other girl is just out for casual sex and fun for free? Why would she choose an old fart like me? Maybe she's a nutjob or she's riddled with diseases and has skeletons in her closet.

- if the other girl wants financial support for a relationship, when and how will this end, and what are her real motives?

- if the other girl wants money up front per time, then she's just a hooker and (until PornHub was blocked) there are plenty cheaper and more hassle-free options.

 

Maybe I'm just a boring old fart, or scared of screwing my life up for a quick jump.... but I don't play offside... although the temptation is always there in this fine land!

you forgot the most important one

-if YOUR  girl finds out you screwed a fresh 20 year old, will it hurt to fall off the 8th floor(assuming you live on a low rise)

[NanLaew]

54 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

The problem is when his wife also worked some time ago in Pattaya and she has still access to the grapevine... 

Oh come on. There's not all that many go-go bar cashiers

[BangkokReady]

2 hours ago, Skallywag said:

IMO human beings are not meant to be monogamous 

Perhaps, but, as all human beings are a product of nature, isn't murder, torture, rape, incest, paedophilia, etc., all natural too?

 

I understand the X is natural/unnatural, so we should/shouldn't do it argument, but sometimes it's a case of "it may be natural, but that doesn't make it right".

[uncleP]

I get enough earache from the menopauusal wife! I most definitely  do not wat more or even stereo nagging.  ????????????My life is good in my twilight  years and I intend to keep it that way. 

[OneMoreFarang]

36 minutes ago, uncleP said:

I get enough earache from the menopauusal wife! I most definitely  do not wat more or even stereo nagging.  ????????????My life is good in my twilight  years and I intend to keep it that way. 

The trick is to get a girl 1/2 the age of your wife. She won't be nagging, she only wants money. ???? 

[uncleP]

7 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

The trick is to get a girl 1/2 the age of your wife. She won't be nagging, she only wants money. ???? 

20+ years with the wife plus I got a bad back ????

[OneMoreFarang]

12 minutes ago, uncleP said:

20+ years with the wife plus I got a bad back ????

Your back needs a massage!

[Dexxter]

3 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

The trick is to get a girl 1/2 the age of your wife. She won't be nagging, she only wants money. ???? 

I always figured that once your nagging wife hits 50, it is time to trade her in for a couple of 25 year olds. Or better still why wait till 50? If she nags at 40 you can trade her for a couple of 20 year olds. ????

[JAS21]

15 minutes ago, Dexxter said:

I always figured that once your nagging wife hits 50, it is time to trade her in for a couple of 25 year olds. Or better still why wait till 50? If she nags at 40 you can trade her for a couple of 20 year olds. ????

A good example of bravado I think .....

 

If this topic continues to go downhill I'll move it to the pub tomorrow .....perhaps it should be there already ????

[mr mr]

40 minutes ago, JAS21 said:

A good example of bravado I think .....

 

If this topic continues to go downhill I'll move it to the pub tomorrow .....perhaps it should be there already ????

the topic is cheating on your wife. it went downhill the moment it was posted. 

[1FinickyOne]

17 hours ago, CorpusChristie said:

No mention of feeling guilty about cheating on your wife and how she may feel if she finds out

 

and also no mention of how the "fling" might feel - he does not want a 'hooker' - - so, if he has a lady just doing it for emotional reasons or wanting a relationship, then it is cruel to be creating hope for her to have a serious attachment.. 

 

he wants a hooker who is not a hooker... lots of luck. get a massage. 

[ChipButty]

15 hours ago, NanLaew said:

Oh come on. There's not all that many go-go bar cashiers

I thought they were all cashiers

[Katipo]

Just don't get married and enjoy life. So much to see and do here. I've got a bunch of like minded western friends here who love to travel, do sports, and go on adventures in general. That's the ideal Thailand life for me. Never understood those who gave up so much to gain so little.

[Pedrogaz]

How sad. I am a reformed serial cheater.....it almost led to my dismissal from work and it broke my marriage. I don't cheat on my Thai girlfriend if 15 years. I did in the beginning but I stopped about 10 years ago. I stopped because I love her so much and would not want her to go through the hurt of finding out I had cheated on her. Simples. Empathy, I guess, might come with age.

[Isaan sailor]

Another problem—smartphones.  Just one compromised picture, and you’ve got blackmail coming...

[Straight8]

Reason not to have a wife... then this thread would most likely not exist 

[EVENKEEL]

If you want kids then I guess a wife is OK, but other than that WHY-ffff.

[hotchilli]

19 hours ago, PatOngo said:

Most wives know only too well how to make duck food! ????

Yeah the poster forgot the "Bobbit ending" not happy.

[fordguy61mi]

When I met my wife she told me if I ever cheated on her she’d cut my d*ck off. She wasn’t smiling when she said it. I’m not calling her bluff.

[Seeall]

19 hours ago, bodga said:

How  about if the Thai woman has  played  about?

 

who cares.. move on..

[ThaiFelix]

The OPs reasons for not playing around are all very valid but I think those same reasons are what makes it so exciting........its the thrill!