May 8, 20223 yr 9 hours ago, Jingthing said: The vast majority of men in the world have had some kind of same sex experience some time in their lives. And just where do you get that from? Your own thoughts I'd guess.
May 8, 20223 yr 9 hours ago, Sparktrader said: 46% have according to a stat I saw. Not majority but almost half. 4% gay 46% tried both 50% straight Sorry, I don't believe that. I do believe that some study authors make up such statistics though because being contraversial sells. Thinking through all the people I know well enough to make an educated guess at - probably 30 people, 1 is openly gay and another is bi and goes with girls, guys and LB's. The other 28 would most likley punch your lights out if you suggested they'd tried same sex relations (not your lights in particular - just figuratively speaking).
May 8, 20223 yr 9 hours ago, CharlieH said: Some would say, the human species has two sexes, male and female, anything else is psychological and surgical. The fact remains, male& female. As for sex or pleasure, whatever floats the individuals boat. What happens between consenting adults is their business and I dont think anyone should sit in judgement as to what someones preference is. I agree but who's sitting in judgment Charlie?
May 8, 20223 yr 1 hour ago, Lacessit said: Not bragging just your keyboard gets away from you sometimes?
May 9, 20223 yr 2 hours ago, KhaoYai said: I agree but who's sitting in judgment Charlie? Quite a few on this topic. Why does anyone have to have a label ? We are all just human beings with different preferences. I dont agree with the various labels. You are a man or a woman whose preference is ..........why the label or in some cases special designation. Don’t miss the latest headlines from Thailand and around the world. Get the Asean Now Briefing newsletter, delivered daily. Sign up here.
May 9, 20223 yr 2 hours ago, KhaoYai said: Sorry, I don't believe that. I do believe that some study authors make up such statistics though because being contraversial sells. Thinking through all the people I know well enough to make an educated guess at - probably 30 people, 1 is openly gay and another is bi and goes with girls, guys and LB's. The other 28 would most likley punch your lights out if you suggested they'd tried same sex relations (not your lights in particular - just figuratively speaking). 30 people small sample
May 9, 20223 yr 2 hours ago, KhaoYai said: Sorry but that's just not correct. A male having sex with or being sexually attracted to another male is either gay or bi. Not all gay's are the same and just because, as you claim, gays have no sexual interest in LB's that doesn't mean that those who do are not gay or bi. There are no defined parameters. Take lesbians - depending on what country you live in, the usual combination is Butch & Fem - in Thailand Tom & Dee. But there are also Butch & Butch, Fem and Fem etc. etc. They are all either lesbian or bi. Or are we to construct yet more groups with which to identify them? If we are going to start that the pretty soon LBGTQ id going to become LGBTQ............XYZ. In my book, any male who has sex with another male is Gay or Bi - end of. How can you call guys that go with LB's 'straight' - they clearly are not. Maybe some of them are in self denial and wouldn't dream of doing the same in their home country - that doesn't make them straight. The fact that the man you're having sex with has breasts and wears make up, doesn't make them a woman. I think you are delusional. A lot of people have all kinds of sex. Its just sex not love.
May 9, 20223 yr Author 11 hours ago, Sparktrader said: Did she use a carrot on you or cucumber? No on her silly boy????
May 9, 20223 yr Author 10 hours ago, jak2002003 said: I think we are on crossed wires. I though you meant they did not look like real women. Many do...many look better than the average woman to me. Some real women don't have a womb and can't have babies if they had medical problems or operations. Does that make them not women anymore? So, are you saying, as a straight man, if you were horny, and a very sexy feminine and realistic stunning women looking ladyboy, who has had all the gender alignment surgeries, came on to you in private....you would not consider having some sexual encounter with her / him? No i would not have sex with a man,no matter what he looked like,sorry
May 9, 20223 yr 3 hours ago, KhaoYai said: Sorry but that's just not correct. A male having sex with or being sexually attracted to another male is either gay or bi. Not all gay's are the same and just because, as you claim, gays have no sexual interest in LB's that doesn't mean that those who do are not gay or bi. There are no defined parameters. Take lesbians - depending on what country you live in, the usual combination is Butch & Fem - in Thailand Tom & Dee. But there are also Butch & Butch, Fem and Fem etc. etc. They are all either lesbian or bi. Or are we to construct yet more groups with which to identify them? If we are going to start that the pretty soon LBGTQ id going to become LGBTQ............XYZ. In my book, any male who has sex with another male is Gay or Bi - end of. How can you call guys that go with LB's 'straight' - they clearly are not. Maybe some of them are in self denial and wouldn't dream of doing the same in their home country - that doesn't make them straight. The fact that the man you're having sex with has breasts and wears make up, doesn't make them a woman. Totally wrong. The vast majority of gay men have tried straight sex. That does NOT make them straight or bi. You're confusing sex acts with sexual orientation identity. In other words terminally literal.
May 9, 20223 yr 16 minutes ago, bert bloggs said: No i would not have sex with a man,no matter what he looked like,sorry That's you. You are not all straight men.
May 9, 20223 yr 3 minutes ago, Jingthing said: That's you. You are not all straight men. He sounds in denial asking about ladyboys. Why start the topic?
May 9, 20223 yr 6 minutes ago, Jingthing said: Totally wrong. The vast majority of gay men have tried straight sex. That does NOT make them straight or bi. You're confusing sex acts with sexual orientation identity. In other words terminally literal. That Indian Canadian comedian forget his name made a joke Gold star gay - never kissed a woman or a pussy Platinum star gay - as above but born cessarian Is this true? Or just a joke?
May 9, 20223 yr 13 minutes ago, Sparktrader said: That Indian Canadian comedian forget his name made a joke Gold star gay - never kissed a woman or a pussy Platinum star gay - as above but born cessarian Is this true? Or just a joke? Joke.
May 9, 20223 yr 3 hours ago, KhaoYai said: Sorry but that's just not correct. A male having sex with or being sexually attracted to another male is either gay or bi. Or simply pizzed.
May 9, 20223 yr 1 hour ago, CharlieH said: Quite a few on this topic. Why does anyone have to have a label ? We are all just human beings with different preferences. I dont agree with the various labels. You are a man or a woman whose preference is ..........why the label or in some cases special designation. Dunno, maybe contact LGBT and get them to explain the need
May 9, 20223 yr On 5/7/2022 at 4:24 PM, bert bloggs said: Yes it was a prostate examination that totaly convinced me that it was a one way street down there. Preposterous! What does a prostrate exam, a medical exam have to with sex or how does it relate to relationships? Do you think a women relates sexual relationships to the feeling she gets when having a medical vaginal exam?
May 9, 20223 yr 2 hours ago, Sparktrader said: The other 28 would most likley punch your lights out if you suggested they'd tried same sex relations They must be very insecure and/or have hidden tendencies... macho macho men... are they all the same nationality?
May 9, 20223 yr 1 hour ago, Jingthing said: Joke. ok.. A rabbit a priest and minister walk into a bar... the bartender asks the rabbit what he will have to drink - the rabbit says 'don't ask me, I am only here through auto-correct'
May 9, 20223 yr I have read the whole thread and formed a couple of thoughts: 1) Poster living a life of denial- Scubascuba- for someone who just cannot stand LB's he seems to have an unnerving view on every intricacy about them 2) Poster who is cleary still a virgin- Sparktrader Those are the only surety's i can gain from this thread thus far. Will keep everyone updated.
May 9, 20223 yr 2 hours ago, bert bloggs said: No i would not have sex with a man,no matter what he looked like,sorry So, you've been shipwrecked on a distant tropical island for 10 years and no hope of rescue... w/a very effeminate male... and nobody gave you a chance to have one book or piece of music with you.... and there is nobody there to shame you...
May 9, 20223 yr 15 hours ago, Mac Mickmanus said: They no not actually look like Woman . If they put a wig on (or grow their hair) and wear make up and high heels and short skirts, they may superficially look like woman . But if you remove the clothes , heels and make-up , they look the same as men . Most can could dress up to look like females I think you're missing out the fact that most Asians have what we consider to be very feminine features. The fact is that most young Asian men could pass for a woman, to Western eyes, if they put on a wig. Similarly a lot of Asian girls if you gave them a boys haircut would look like a boy. That's kind of the reason Western men would go with an Asian ladyboy but not a Western one. The "but they're men so you must be gay" is irrelevant really, if the person perceives them to be a woman. Many men view then as being a woman with a penis. It doesn't really matter what you think, it's about the perception of the individual.
May 9, 20223 yr 3 hours ago, CharlieH said: Why does anyone have to have a label ? helps putting on my shirt, not inside out and backwards
May 9, 20223 yr Doesn't really apply with ladyboys though, as they are considered to have the body of a woman. ????♂️
May 9, 20223 yr 4 minutes ago, BangkokReady said: Many men view then as being a woman with a penis. It doesn't really matter what you think, it's about the perception of the individual. I view them as potential psychos who may try and put pills in my drink and put a bottle over my head if I don't buy them a drink , or get a knife out if I'm disappointed that they got the same organs as me .
May 9, 20223 yr Popular Post 3 hours ago, CharlieH said: Why does anyone have to have a label? Quite a few seem to desperately need anyone who has done anything with a ladyboy to be gay. I'm not sure why it's so important to them. Generally, getting this excited about someone else's behaviour and needing to enforce their own views on them indicates something. Not much point in speculating as to what though.
May 9, 20223 yr 5 minutes ago, BangkokReady said: Quite a few seem to desperately need anyone who has done anything with a ladyboy to be gay. I'm not sure why it's so important to them. Generally, getting this excited about someone else's behaviour and needing to enforce their own views on them indicates something. Not much point in speculating as to what though. Just because you may have done something once or even occasionally, that doesn't make you that particular thing . Like if you played golf once , that doesnt make you a golfer . If you sometimes have a few beers on a Saturday night and spontaneously decided to have a quick game of golf with other people in the bar , that doesnt make you a golfer . Even if you watch golf on T.V , that still doesnt make you a golfer
May 9, 20223 yr On 5/7/2022 at 1:54 PM, bert bloggs said: Anyway just wondering. So you're "curious". Good for you. Was this a passing wonderment? Or something that you spend a lot of time thinking about? It seems like this documentary piqued your interest. Honestly these threads come up frequently, maybe search a bit to get a feel for the responses. IMO, if you really want answers then you should ask thai men, and thai women (Toms/Dees included) why they like ladyboys. Most thai ladyboys hang out with other thais. Or are you asking a different question? Why are people attracted to each other? Plenty of studies out there, with results which are applicable to your conundrum.
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